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One offs or longer?

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By *andy2123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

In the 20 or so years of swinging, we have met and played with lots of great horny people.

The one thing we have come to the conclusion of is, the most of our meets, weather in clubs, holidays, party's, or home meets. Have been one offs. To be honest we have been happy with that, and so it seems have our partners in crime lol.

We have stayed in touch with a few, and even met again.

What do you lot think?.

To us that's what swinging is about! Getting together with a few horny people, for a night or day of drinks good laughs, and a sexy time to finish off.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've met some people only once and others several times. It all depends on how we get along and if it's feasible to meet more than once

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By *andy2123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"We've met some people only once and others several times. It all depends on how we get along and if it's feasible to meet more than once"

I agree. X. Sandy

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By *ittleREDridingWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I meet a couple regularly, I’m glad that was never just a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm mainly looking for one offs. But open to some multiple meets / fuck buddies if we get on well socially and sexually. I'd also like 1 or 2 FWB or boyfriends long term.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not really looking for one offs, things generally get better when you meet more than once

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a regular fb x

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Mostly one offs but I hold out hope for a regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go through a few one offs until I find that one that I click with, then it's just me and her for the foreseeable until something happens to change the arrangement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather more then a one off. BDSM play takes time and you can't learn about each other in one play.

Sadly getting to a 2nd meet is very difficult on here because they have moved onto the next person without taking the time to know you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us, finding the correct balance has always been the difficulty. Probably more our fault than the people we have met.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I do prefer regular meets unless it's in certain situations like with couples or parties etc.

Ive had a few one off meets but knew after that's all it would be.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I like them both! You can have really horny , group plays in clubs or with one off meets and have more sensual, giggly with regular meets. I also tend to play more kinky with couples that I see regularly. I wouldn’t prefer to do certain plays during my club visits x

Guess everyone is different when it comes to fulfilling desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather more then a one off. BDSM play takes time and you can't learn about each other in one play.

Sadly getting to a 2nd meet is very difficult on here because they have moved onto the next person without taking the time to know you x"

I'll never understand that mentality... if I've had a good meet with someone, I'm doing all I can to have more with them

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Not one offs. They don't do that much for me. I'd rather have someone capable of getting inside my head and figure out what makes my eyes change colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally prefer regular meets build up more of a rapport, makes the whole experience better.

Had a few one offs but not as much fun for me personally

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We like getting to know people. We like being on the same wavelength as somebody and sharing something very intimate with them. It's about more than just the horny spur-of-the-moment sex for us. Even if that's all it was, it sounds pretty exhausting finding new people to shag all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular. The people I've met and played with become friends first. I'm not in to one offs. I want to build friendship's, get to know people and the sex is a bonus.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I used to meet for one offs if distance was an issue, a weekend away every now and again was all part of it for me, but to have someone close enough to be a regular meet is a grand thing, it can take years to find those sort of people though but so very worth it when you do

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