FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with the ex

By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Got a feeling could be on the cards. But emotionally shouldn’t. Who else has sex with an ex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still pondering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't think of anything worse. They are an ex for a reason

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

People say they are ex for a reason but each case is unique.

I have in the past but that’s all it’s been just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few times....with a few ex's too!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d prefer to become a monk. Lol.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I wouldn't rule it out completely. I am on friendly terms with my ex's, but I wouldn't want to give our confusing signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to answer a question..no, never go in the same river twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with the ex is good

Otherwise it’s just se

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Nope I’d never go back there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sex with a couple of my exes. Never planned any it just happened. I think that most people have had sex with an ex . Good thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my younger days I would have (and did)

Once with a gap of 22 years

Ex wife - just no, not ever.

Last partner - yes if asked but thats unlikely as it's one of the reasons our partnership waned.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I would rather cut off my arm than have sex with my ex husband

I actually feel quite ill thinking about it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'd rather stick a rusty screwdriver in my eye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather cut off my arm than have sex with my ex husband

I actually feel quite ill thinking about it

What, cutting your arm off?

Top tip, don't look while you're doing it

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Only you can be the judge of that. I know somebody on here who has sex with her ex because it suits them both. I on the other hand didn't want to have sex with my ex towards the end of the relationship even before we split up and I sure as hell wouldn't touch her now.

You know what sort of relationship you had and have. Be honest with yourself. Can it balls everything up? If so, avoid.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Got a feeling could be on the cards. But emotionally shouldn’t. Who else has sex with an ex?"

A couple of time and always regretted it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Have done. Don't do it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Weve all had ex sex. Ive had ex sex and it has been great. But we were pretty open, mature and conscious about it. In any other circumstances it's best left in the ex category!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sex with the ex is good

Otherwise it’s just se "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex with the ex is good

Otherwise it’s just se

Lol funny x

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Been there, lesson learnt

No ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been there, lesson learnt

No ta

What lessons learnt???

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By *ye ManMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

Have done and it was great. But, we basically split because we were too young at the time. If we met later, we’d be together now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never the same the couple of times I've endeavoured that way.

As Chet Baker sang, the thrill is gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine I have but as far as I know my wife never has.

Put down some ground rules and let her know it’s just for sex.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Personally no

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

No. Such a turn off!

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

from experience id say dont go there.your seperated for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a feeling could be on the cards. But emotionally shouldn’t. Who else has sex with an ex?"

God yes

I'm not known for my good decisions!

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london

Get me to a nunnery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we split for emotional reasons no.. If it was due to a mismatch in life plans etc then possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t do it, OP. It opens up a can of worms and ends in tears

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By *r and Mrs BlackCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I'd rather have it stitched up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in good terms with all my ex’s but that there are many - 3

I’ve had sex with them all after we broke up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely No

He was never that interested in sex think that is what led to me being so promiscuous, years of not being desired by your ex husband tends to grind you down a bit but I have a fwb who can't enough of me when we get the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, our relationship ended mutually but we have a very unique sexual bond, that we have to scratch every so often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *W_RedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I once re connected with an ex a good few years after we split. The sex was better than ever before. Not only did we already know what eachother liked but we had discovered new things in the interim so it was exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Divorce came though a few weeks ago..

Spoke to my ex about it that day.

And she offered me sex there and then..

We allways had a good sex life but just dont understand Woman at times..

It was her who wonted a divorce..

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

Ex partner YES.

Ex Wife NOT ON YOUR NELLY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me personally, both my exes tried it after we split but I prefer just drawing a line under it! Plus I could get equally as good or better sex from fwbs anyway so just not worth the hassle!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes but don’t tell the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont do it. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you never heard the phrase....

“Never have sex with the Ex” ?

But if you want to open a can of worms with a stick of dynamite, be prepared to stick you fingers in your ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way !

I'd rather shove broken shards of glass up my arse and drink bleach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather cut off my arm than have sex with my ex husband

I actually feel quite ill thinking about it

Ditto

Her x

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By *went OP Man
over a year ago

blackpool

"Have you never heard the phrase....

“Never have sex with the Ex” ?

But if you want to open a can of worms with a stick of dynamite, be prepared to stick you fingers in your ears.

Thanks for all the responses. Just wanted this one tickles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With ex boyfriend - I do.

With ex hubby - wash your mouth out.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Got a feeling could be on the cards. But emotionally shouldn’t. Who else has sex with an ex?"

Nope. I'm a grown-up, so I know some ideas are silly.

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,

"Got a feeling could be on the cards. But emotionally shouldn’t. Who else has sex with an ex?"
I did recently it was great she text me I arrived to her house and said 3 words let's do this and it was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the type to go backwards, it's all about the new experiences for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but no

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have in the past.

But it’s never as good, and tinged with sadness.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Usually one person wants more than the other so you're either being a dick or they're being a dick with no regard for feelings.

Either way that's one too many dicks.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I did it once when I was younger. It was a mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't think of anything worse. They are an ex for a reason "

Hear hear!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im having vivid dreams at the moment and my subconcious is trying to make me in my sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but it was sort of spontaneous, started off as a chat and a walk then , fun at the time but, I don't think it was good for the both of us if I'm honest

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