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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else made a silly mistake in a message and ended up getting blocked, and then regretted it ever since? Yep. That’s me right now!

Wish you could send apology messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it your neighbour?

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

Don't drink and fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else made a silly mistake in a message and ended up getting blocked, and then regretted it ever since? Yep. That’s me right now!

Wish you could send apology messages. "

Plenty more fish in the sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't take back a cock pic sadly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it your neighbour?"

Love that green arrow...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very witty! Nope, so at least that’s not dead in the water just yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it your neighbour?

Love that green arrow... "

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Blocks happen for a reason mate. Chalk it up to experience and carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked by a regular forumite, no idea why either?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"[Block removed by poster at 24/06/20 16:53:17]"

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Blocks happen for a reason mate. Chalk it up to experience and carry on. "

Its all good. Like i said - its everybodies choice.

I wish her well and dont mean any offense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't take a genius...

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"It doesn't take a genius... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take a genius... "

You called? Non genius here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been blocked by 2 women who frequent the forums, but seem to have a laugh and converse quite happily when in there, I really honestly don't think they know they've blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked by people and have no idea why I'd be blocked by them but also I've blocked people normally only block people that dont take no thank you as stop messaging me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take a genius... "

OMG - I thought that - Bad form!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take a genius...

You called? Non genius here "

Another numpty?

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"Was it your neighbour?"

Or a client? Or your partners parents?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was it your neighbour?

Or a client? Or your partners parents? "

Why do you feel the need to try and take the piss? Each post I have made has been genuine; I’m not trying to cause offence, I’m just asking for people’s views.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Was it your neighbour?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it your neighbour?

Or a client? Or your partners parents?

Why do you feel the need to try and take the piss? Each post I have made has been genuine; I’m not trying to cause offence, I’m just asking for people’s views."

Tbh you should just suck it up buttercup as some people use the forums to get around the block..

Just chalk it down to experience and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv been blocked by 2 women who frequent the forums, but seem to have a laugh and converse quite happily when in there, I really honestly don't think they know they've blocked me "

This, so often....

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

In this world o/p, with women, no second chances unfortunately. Move on...good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you feel you should be "unblocked"? People use blocks for a reason. Even if you could send an apology, maybe it exposed something that is a red flag to them.

Get over it, move on... you need to be able to do both to survive on here as a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you feel you should be "unblocked"? People use blocks for a reason. Even if you could send an apology, maybe it exposed something that is a red flag to them.

Get over it, move on... you need to be able to do both to survive on here as a single guy."
I totally agree with you but I can also see here where the op is coming from perhaps he miss worded something and wanted to say he didnt mean it like that but was to late or maybe he genuinely just wanted to say loom sorry I didnt mean to offend. It's a hard pill to swallow sometimes

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I am blocked by people who don't like some of my posts. Their right and privilege..

I am against no platforming in universities and on Question time..

Water off a ducks back to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason "

With respect, you're not a hot female battling through hundreds of messages to try to speak to who you want to....

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Trying to second guess a block is a waste of time better spent being awesome somewhere else.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

What did yiu say that got you blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason

With respect, you're not a hot female battling through hundreds of messages to try to speak to who you want to...."
no I get 100s off men and it's hard work to go though and find the ladies I wanna speak to nippy but I try to reply to most it takes ages

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

tit'ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason

With respect, you're not a hot female battling through hundreds of messages to try to speak to who you want to.... no I get 100s off men and it's hard work to go though and find the ladies I wanna speak to nippy but I try to reply to most it takes ages"

Really???

I had three ppl message me today, all female, I'm obv doing something wrong I guessed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason

With respect, you're not a hot female battling through hundreds of messages to try to speak to who you want to.... no I get 100s off men and it's hard work to go though and find the ladies I wanna speak to nippy but I try to reply to most it takes ages

Really???

I had three ppl message me today, all female, I'm obv doing something wrong I guessed..... "

Guess*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason

With respect, you're not a hot female battling through hundreds of messages to try to speak to who you want to.... no I get 100s off men and it's hard work to go though and find the ladies I wanna speak to nippy but I try to reply to most it takes ages

Really???

I had three ppl message me today, all female, I'm obv doing something wrong I guessed..... "
honestly I can get up to 100 guys message me in a day my own fault as I dont use filters and I'm always putting pictures up I get a select few women and couples that I chat to message me and the odd surprise from a random woman or couple but yes I get alot of messages. Mostly the one liner your hot can I suck you sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your comments all.

I asked whether the person would like to take the chat elsewhere, so that we could converse with other means... we had spoken a fair bit, and she had sent me some rather provocative (and sexy) pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to second guess a block is a waste of time better spent being awesome somewhere else. "

Totally! Especially on the forum....

Ppl will have their reasons and they are just that -theirs- no need to explain. Same as in the real world if someone doesn't want to hear from you and you persist then it becomes a nuisance/stalking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason

With respect, you're not a hot female battling through hundreds of messages to try to speak to who you want to.... no I get 100s off men and it's hard work to go though and find the ladies I wanna speak to nippy but I try to reply to most it takes ages

Really???

I had three ppl message me today, all female, I'm obv doing something wrong I guessed..... honestly I can get up to 100 guys message me in a day my own fault as I dont use filters and I'm always putting pictures up I get a select few women and couples that I chat to message me and the odd surprise from a random woman or couple but yes I get alot of messages. Mostly the one liner your hot can I suck you sort of thing "

I've never used message filters either, I quite like hearing from all sorts....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else made a silly mistake in a message and ended up getting blocked, and then regretted it ever since? Yep. That’s me right now!

Wish you could send apology messages. "

I'm glad you cannot. I also dislike people pointing out on the forum "oh you blocked me so cant message you insert sadface!" ..dude..I know! unless I asked them to message me and genuinely cannot rem_mber why I blocked them that wont change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you only get one chance to make a first impression

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I'd rather not block people and I always give people the time of day even if I'm not interested and I'd never block a user because of comments made in forums only if they directly upset me for some reason "

This is the only reason I block people.

If someone's behaviour on the forum is unappealing I block them. Because I can't always rem_mber what's happened. So if they are blocked then I know not to message them (or they can't contact me)

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Well some people have a good reason and don't need to justify blocking. Some are just snowflakes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ! Someone said something to me on the forum then blocked so I can't look on their shitty profile

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Thanks for your comments all.

I asked whether the person would like to take the chat elsewhere, so that we could converse with other means... we had spoken a fair bit, and she had sent me some rather provocative (and sexy) pictures. "

Unless she'd said somewhere prior that she wouldn't do that then that seems a little strong. But as others have said it's her choice. I always think if people take offence to something I see as normal then we weren't compatible anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your comments all.

I asked whether the person would like to take the chat elsewhere, so that we could converse with other means... we had spoken a fair bit, and she had sent me some rather provocative (and sexy) pictures. "

That'll get you a ban there fella, and rightly so....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've blocked guys I've chatted to before because of something they may have said in a message that raised red flags. Sometimes I will say why sometimes if I have already had a niggling feeling something is off I will just block.

And ye I have also blocked the odd person from forums if something has been said that is so wrong in my opinion that I really would never want to interact with that person.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Does blocking give anyone pleasure ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people that I find hideous to look at!

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I only block people that I find hideous to look at! "

WOW just WOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that I find hideous to look at! "

I wondered why you blocked me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that I find hideous to look at!

I wondered why you blocked me! "

No no....I blocked you because you wouldn't stop sending me gaping pussy and ass pictures! Constantly hounding me for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that I find hideous to look at!

I wondered why you blocked me!

No no....I blocked you because you wouldn't stop sending me gaping pussy and ass pictures! Constantly hounding me for sex.

"

I thought you liked the anal fisting photos? Jeez. Ungrateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that I find hideous to look at!

WOW just WOW"

Calm your tits....I'm kidding!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Anyone else made a silly mistake in a message and ended up getting blocked, and then regretted it ever since? Yep. That’s me right now!

Wish you could send apology messages. "

No

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Sorry Bants

Slow here tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry Bants

Slow here tonight "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I only block people that I find hideous to look at! "

I just checked. Phew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone blocks me... Must be my charming personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block people that I find hideous to look at!

I just checked. Phew. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unblock my cock....

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My block list has quite a few

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Anyone else made a silly mistake in a message and ended up getting blocked, and then regretted it ever since? Yep. That’s me right now!

Wish you could send apology messages. "

Trying to use the forum to get around a block is against the site rules, and with good reason.

Learn from this, and move on.

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