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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a secret signal that people use if they recognise a fellow Fabber when in town?

Or do you always just pretend to be strangers and ignore them?

Obviously no one wants a stalker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, jump up and down shouting it’s you, hey everyone it’s the swingers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might happen to see them in Morrisons and hide in the aisle because you look like death... Text them later. Someone here might know about that.

Haha depends on my relationship with them, usually if they recognise me it's because we've talked a lot and shared so I'd to talk to them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If we've met them we will discreetly acknowledge them although I did acknowledge someone at their workplace and had to apologise later in case they didn't want me to, it was all fine though. If we've never met them we behave as if they're strangers, mostly because they actually are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although if they're with someone chances are I'll just smile and leave it to them xx

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

I ask if they’ve seen my boing video and then recreate it if they have or haven’t

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

For me, discretion is paramount and I'd be mortified if someone openly came up and told me they recognised me from here, especially if I was with someone.

Perfectly fine to later message me and say 'think i saw you in X earlier, was it you?'though.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I usually just smile and move on it may make someone feel very ackward acknowledging it especially if they are in company. I know it would for me personally

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Is there a secret signal that people use if they recognise a fellow Fabber when in town?"

Touching tips is a classic secret handshake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Smile if I've met them, like any other friend.

But in general ignore.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You might happen to see them in Morrisons and hide in the aisle because you look like death... Text them later. Someone here might know about that.

Haha depends on my relationship with them, usually if they recognise me it's because we've talked a lot and shared so I'd to talk to them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might happen to see them in Morrisons and hide in the aisle because you look like death... Text them later. Someone here might know about that.

Haha depends on my relationship with them, usually if they recognise me it's because we've talked a lot and shared so I'd to talk to them.

"

Good old Morrisons thought you'd pick up on this hahahaha

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You might happen to see them in Morrisons and hide in the aisle because you look like death... Text them later. Someone here might know about that.

Haha depends on my relationship with them, usually if they recognise me it's because we've talked a lot and shared so I'd to talk to them.

Good old Morrisons thought you'd pick up on this hahahaha "

Need company on your shop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might happen to see them in Morrisons and hide in the aisle because you look like death... Text them later. Someone here might know about that.

Haha depends on my relationship with them, usually if they recognise me it's because we've talked a lot and shared so I'd to talk to them.

Good old Morrisons thought you'd pick up on this hahahaha

Need company on your shop? "

Only if you'll go shirtless xx

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We got recognised in a local pub twice in one evening, that was a bit surreal, but it was low key

Quite amusing actually

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't! Fab is for fab ffs.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet anyone local to me but the one or two I have met at socials normally just say hi, nothing more.

Had to block one guy local to me who I had chatted to and swapped pics with, had no interest in meeting him. But I'd get a message seen you in local shop, loved the dress you were wearing etc. Told him it was bloody creepy and blocked him

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Ninja acknowledgement and move one.

Never, OH, HEY, YOU'RE ON FAB SWINGERS AREN'T YOU?!!!!!!1

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Ninja acknowledgement and move one.

Never, OH, HEY, YOU'RE ON FAB SWINGERS AREN'T YOU?!!!!!!1"

On! Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha yeah a smile! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few people as my town seems to be full of swingers

I always pretend I havent seen them - I wouldn't like it if anyone approached me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen two ladies on a dating app, on their profiles these women are single, but one has a husband and the other a significant other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We got recognised in a local pub twice in one evening, that was a bit surreal, but it was low key

Quite amusing actually

Jo x "

As long as it wasn't weird but

I would never actually invade someone's privacy in that way. Seems a little bit shifty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen two ladies on a dating app, on their profiles these women are single, but one has a husband and the other a significant other "

I see a lot of 'local' single men... And I know their wives quite well. But that's none of my business

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a few people as my town seems to be full of swingers

I always pretend I havent seen them - I wouldn't like it if anyone approached me."

Absolutely agree. Was curious as to people's experiences is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore x I met my md in a hot tub at a club and we just said hi and ignore each other, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen two ladies on a dating app, on their profiles these women are single, but one has a husband and the other a significant other

I see a lot of 'local' single men... And I know their wives quite well. But that's none of my business "

I just find it mildly amusing. Especially when I watched one squirm

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You might happen to see them in Morrisons and hide in the aisle because you look like death... Text them later. Someone here might know about that.

Haha depends on my relationship with them, usually if they recognise me it's because we've talked a lot and shared so I'd to talk to them.

Good old Morrisons thought you'd pick up on this hahahaha

Need company on your shop?

Only if you'll go shirtless xx"

Obviously.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I roll one leg of my trousers up and wear a cloth handkerchief on my head.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I roll one leg of my trousers up and wear a cloth handkerchief on my head."

You missed the socks and sandals

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yeah, jump up and down shouting it’s you, hey everyone it’s the swingers..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a pineapple and or pampas grass are the signals right??

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Shirley it's a case of acknowledging anyone you know. Smile, nod and possibly some small talk.

No need for anyone to know how you know each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a pineapple and or pampas grass are the signals right?? "

Pineapple?!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

We received a message from a guy who recognised us at a coffee stop on one of our training rides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's an American thing.. Sticking a pineapple on your porch.. A bit like the tall grass in Scotland thing

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I've been recognised on dating app. But I didn't really appreciate the message pointing it out.

I also got a few messages on here to say they think they had spotted me in morisons/town .. a bit creepy really and unsure if they were making it up to get my attention.

I'd rather discretion but if it was someone I'm familiar with, I'd say hi naturally like I would anyone I recognised.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've been recognised on dating app. But I didn't really appreciate the message pointing it out.

I also got a few messages on here to say they think they had spotted me in morisons/town .. a bit creepy really and unsure if they were making it up to get my attention.

I'd rather discretion but if it was someone I'm familiar with, I'd say hi naturally like I would anyone I recognised. "

I used to get lots of messages telling me they knew me and they were going to tell everyone what I get up to.

They always had key details wrong.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Those I have met in person would be cool about it, as I would be. I've usually met people more than once. I'd either acknowledge them with a nod and a smile or just say hi.

Not if they are company though.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Shirley it's a case of acknowledging anyone you know. Smile, nod and possibly some small talk.

No need for anyone to know how you know each other!"

Unless your adult children are with you and ask

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is there a secret signal that people use if they recognise a fellow Fabber when in town?

Or do you always just pretend to be strangers and ignore them?

Obviously no one wants a stalker. "

I do a rain dance then a high five at them....then shout ‘hey up’ !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message once saying I've just walked past you working on a drive way with a picture of me laying bricks. It was from a woman I'd been chatting to but never met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bumped in to one or two. I think it depends really. I guess if its likely that you will bump into each other then talk about what youd do before it happens

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"We got recognised in a local pub twice in one evening, that was a bit surreal, but it was low key

Quite amusing actually

Jo x

As long as it wasn't weird but

I would never actually invade someone's privacy in that way. Seems a little bit shifty."

I should have said, we had been chatting to them beforehand, they were not ransoms, but we had not met.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I recognise someone from here in the local Tesco (other supermarkets are available, just not here) I tend to chase them round the supermarket waving a pack of appropriately named ice lollies at them......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I recognise someone from here in the local Tesco (other supermarkets are available, just not here) I tend to chase them round the supermarket waving a pack of appropriately named ice lollies at them...... "

Twisters? Mini milk? Peculiar fetish mind.?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I was having Sunday lunch in a pub with my FWB when a couple we’ve met for fun twice walked in with their whole family.

They introduced us as some friends and got on with their lunch. No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a secret signal that people use if they recognise a fellow Fabber when in town?

Or do you always just pretend to be strangers and ignore them?

Obviously no one wants a stalker. "

Never acknowledge and never approach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I recognise someone from here in the local Tesco (other supermarkets are available, just not here) I tend to chase them round the supermarket waving a pack of appropriately named ice lollies at them......

Twisters? Mini milk? Peculiar fetish mind.?"

I was thinking Fab lollies but now you've mentioned it I might give twisters a go next time

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

Whenever I see someone from Fab I run over to them with my dick out shouting "I'm gonna ruin ya!"

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre


"Whenever I see someone from Fab I run over to them with my dick out shouting "I'm gonna ruin ya!" "

How is life on the register?

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