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By *easar1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wembley

Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This works both ways.

I'd love an mmf but I wouldn't do a ffm because I'm a jealous sex fiend who wants all the cock and attention

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss."

Suggest you try it with your partner and see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ffm is most guys dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss."

My ex declined an MFF ..

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't demand an ffm. We both agree we would like one but we don't make demands. I have also made it clear that if my OH wants an mmf with me then I'm all for that if we find the right person. We talk about our fantasies and are very willing to enable them for each other, but we never put any pressure on the other. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss.

My ex declined an MFF .. "

That’s some will power

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By *S1407Couple
over a year ago

dartford


"This works both ways.

I'd love an mmf but I wouldn't do a ffm because I'm a jealous sex fiend who wants all the cock and attention "

Interesting. We prefer ffm because my wife prefers girls and between us we can spoil the lady either individually or together

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

This is contrary to what we have experienced. We started with MMFs and Mr says he still prefers these as he loves seeing me being pleasured. Any hotwife couple will agree with this I would imagine.

That said he is not averse to FFM and enjoyed the one we have had. We tend to like meeting with couples so all things become possible.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss."

Don't think this is the case at all. In my experience it certainly isn't. In my last long-term relationship we had far more MFMs than FFM, & that was a mutual decision, and many other couples I know are the same.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss."

Selfish twonks that’s what....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This works both ways.

I'd love an mmf but I wouldn't do a ffm because I'm a jealous sex fiend who wants all the cock and attention

Interesting. We prefer ffm because my wife prefers girls and between us we can spoil the lady either individually or together "

If only I was bi x

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By *xx90292Man
over a year ago

London

The closest I got was MFI

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By *S1407Couple
over a year ago

dartford


"This works both ways.

I'd love an mmf but I wouldn't do a ffm because I'm a jealous sex fiend who wants all the cock and attention

Interesting. We prefer ffm because my wife prefers girls and between us we can spoil the lady either individually or together

If only I was bi x"

We have played with a couple of straight ladies who have said they would like to try. But I’d guess they are more curious. In most cases they enjoyed the experience but some still prefer cock.

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By *unandfriendship4uMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What about bi mmf xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd prefer an MMF (particularly a bi MMF) over an MFF any day

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By *amagekinkMan
over a year ago

Reigate

MMF is something I’d probably prefer, Done MFF and to be fair it didn’t really blow my mind , I suppose I’m more into pleasing the lady in that type of situation

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I have done plenty of MMF and FFM and have to admit I prefer MMF. I live to watch the lady I am with being pleasured by other men.

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By *S1407Couple
over a year ago

dartford

Having reread this stream it’s shows that it totally depends on individuals preferences. You appear totally straight so you will get limited pleasure from an ffm. If the guys are Bi or the lady straight an mmf will be the better option. In my case I love watching my wife have pleasure and her preference are girls. Being straight it’s win win all around for us. So for us an ffm work and gives everyone pleasure if the othe girl is bi. The beauty of this lifestyle is that there are so many different people with so many different likes and dislikes so something for everyone. Select what works for you and enjoy.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss."

What if the woman of the couple absolutely demands FFM, and completely declines MMF?

You don’t seem to consider her as having any agency in the process...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be cock size insecurity, another guy might bring more to the table.....

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Chance would be a fine thing for either eventuality, to be honest....

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

They all don't

You are generalizing OP

Everyone's dynamic is different!

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss.

What if the woman of the couple absolutely demands FFM, and completely declines MMF?

You don’t seem to consider her as having any agency in the process..."

This is me. He’d be happy with MFM I’m in 2

minds. I love FFM. Although nobody demands anything.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Any threesome, no matter the dynamic, should only happen if everyone is comfortable with it.

No one should demand something from a partner and put them in an uncomfortable position to do something just because the other person desires it.

I’ve pulled out of threesomes with couples when I’ve talked to both parties separately and it becomes quite clear one of them is only doing it to please the other and doesn’t really want to do it.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it that guys in a relationship absolutely demand an FFM but also completely decline an MMF.

Is it Insecurity? Wanting to be dominant? Jelousy?

It's only fair if they respect their other half's desires no...

Discuss.

What if the woman of the couple absolutely demands FFM, and completely declines MMF?

You don’t seem to consider her as having any agency in the process...

This is me. He’d be happy with MFM I’m in 2

minds. I love FFM. Although nobody demands anything. "

Yes agreed...was using the OP’s wording in the hope he might understand the point.

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