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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.....you got any? If so, is it worth the agro.....?

No names or negativity plz, just tell me why you bother with bitter or why you don't, and I'd be so so grateful if you build some bridges in your lives....

Much love

Nip....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself.

African proverb... If there is no ennemy inside, the enemies outside can do us no harm.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Myself.

African proverb... If there is no ennemy inside, the enemies outside can do us no harm. "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My metabolism

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. People out of my life and irritants I need to deal with. (And 95% of everyone else)

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

There are plenty of people who don't like me. I really couldn't give a monkey's armpit. I'm not going to waste any time or energy on people whose opinions I don't value - I'll just continue to do my own thing with people I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My waistline, no matter how hard I fight it, it always fights back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 2 people I detest in this world. Both of these people are related to each other. If I didnt have a family of my own to think about, I would happily do time for these 2 people! I hope I get the opportunity to dance and piss on their graves one day and nothing anyone says will make me forgive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as i know i don't have any...

Other people may think differently though

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Just myself

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just myself "

Oh I hear that.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"There are plenty of people who don't like me. I really couldn't give a monkey's armpit. I'm not going to waste any time or energy on people whose opinions I don't value - I'll just continue to do my own thing with people I like "

Spot on - life's way to short

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Myself.

African proverb... If there is no ennemy inside, the enemies outside can do us no harm. "

Fuck me, you're cool! Wise though and true!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My metabolism "

Have you tried sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. People out of my life and irritants I need to deal with. (And 95% of everyone else)"

Them darn pesky ppl, I hate most of them and I want the planet to myself but it's not worth the energy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you. "

Memories are a bitch!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are plenty of people who don't like me. I really couldn't give a monkey's armpit. I'm not going to waste any time or energy on people whose opinions I don't value - I'll just continue to do my own thing with people I like "

Who and how? You're adorable! But great attitude!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No. People out of my life and irritants I need to deal with. (And 95% of everyone else)

Them darn pesky ppl, I hate most of them and I want the planet to myself but it's not worth the energy.... "

Sure enough. Just hold your head high, stand your ground, know your worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... If I do, I have no idea who... I don't care enough to find out, either

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you.

Memories are a bitch! "

Yep but acknowledge and move on, wear the scars with pride and sod them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My waistline, no matter how hard I fight it, it always fights back "

Be proud, it's the only way anyone else will....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are 2 people I detest in this world. Both of these people are related to each other. If I didnt have a family of my own to think about, I would happily do time for these 2 people! I hope I get the opportunity to dance and piss on their graves one day and nothing anyone says will make me forgive them. "

Ouch, I'm sorry about that buddy, time is your friend....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As far as i know i don't have any...

Other people may think differently though "

I doubt you care what other ppl think if other ppl that think that.....

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley


"Myself.

African proverb... If there is no ennemy inside, the enemies outside can do us no harm.

Fuck me, you're cool! Wise though and true! "

What if they have a gun or a very sharp knife? Or a baseball bat? Or an axe? Or a ......... ?

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

My ex is my only real enemy. People generally like me! Its only when I say no, I do not want to take you back you lying, cheating POS......that you make a real enemy and for life. Suits me sir.

MsD

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just myself "

I'd love to be enemies with you! We'd make up sex so well!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got anemone in my garden

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are plenty of people who don't like me. I really couldn't give a monkey's armpit. I'm not going to waste any time or energy on people whose opinions I don't value - I'll just continue to do my own thing with people I like

Spot on - life's way to short "

Until it's over and you've regrets. Trust me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 2 people I detest in this world. Both of these people are related to each other. If I didnt have a family of my own to think about, I would happily do time for these 2 people! I hope I get the opportunity to dance and piss on their graves one day and nothing anyone says will make me forgive them.

Ouch, I'm sorry about that buddy, time is your friend.... "

They are owe me 19 years of heartache and misery...the last year being the worst. Some folk dont deserve to live and these 2 are in that bracket

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To hunt down shadow warriors, you need to look at their habits, from within.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No... If I do, I have no idea who... I don't care enough to find out, either "

Super attitude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a waste of time and much more prefer to spend time and energy enjoying life.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"To hunt down shadow warriors, you need to look at their habits, from within."

Very true. Those we dislike can teach us about ourselves and help us grow.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I still dedpise the guy who bullied me at school for 10 years. If he was on fire I wouldn't piss on him. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have enemies because I’m not a superhero or villain! the word enemy always sounds so dramatic and makes me think if I have one, I should probably have a lair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you.

Memories are a bitch!

Yep but acknowledge and move on, wear the scars with pride and sod them "

Sometimes the scars disappear and you can move on, innit....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Myself.

African proverb... If there is no ennemy inside, the enemies outside can do us no harm.

Fuck me, you're cool! Wise though and true!

What if they have a gun or a very sharp knife? Or a baseball bat? Or an axe? Or a ......... ? "

Are you scared of those things? Could you talk them down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My ex is my only real enemy. People generally like me! Its only when I say no, I do not want to take you back you lying, cheating POS......that you make a real enemy and for life. Suits me sir.

MsD"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve got anemone in my garden "

Aren't they in rock pools?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might have enemies, but fuck it I just laugh at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got anemone in my garden

Aren't they in rock pools?"

It’s a rock garden

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are 2 people I detest in this world. Both of these people are related to each other. If I didnt have a family of my own to think about, I would happily do time for these 2 people! I hope I get the opportunity to dance and piss on their graves one day and nothing anyone says will make me forgive them.

Ouch, I'm sorry about that buddy, time is your friend....

They are owe me 19 years of heartache and misery...the last year being the worst. Some folk dont deserve to live and these 2 are in that bracket"

I'm always gonna disagree with that. I know it might be painful. We're all here for a reason and we don't all know everything about each other....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To hunt down shadow warriors, you need to look at their habits, from within."

That's scary shit! Wanna be friends?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"There are plenty of people who don't like me. I really couldn't give a monkey's armpit. I'm not going to waste any time or energy on people whose opinions I don't value - I'll just continue to do my own thing with people I like

Spot on - life's way to short

Until it's over and you've regrets. Trust me.... "

When it's over and I'm gone regrets won't even come into it trust me - and I don't really see how not caring what the naysayers think and focussing on those that matter can lead to regrets - I know I shan't have any by adopting that philosophy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are a waste of time and much more prefer to spend time and energy enjoying life."

Good plan!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you.

Memories are a bitch!

Yep but acknowledge and move on, wear the scars with pride and sod them

Sometimes the scars disappear and you can move on, innit.... "

Yeah they fade overtime and that's ok, healing is a sprint it's a marathon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t have enemies because I’m not a superhero or villain! the word enemy always sounds so dramatic and makes me think if I have one, I should probably have a lair "

I bet you have a cool lair in hants Jamie pants....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"To hunt down shadow warriors, you need to look at their habits, from within.

That's scary shit! Wanna be friends? "

If you understood what it means.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might have enemies, but fuck it I just laugh at them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 2 people I detest in this world. Both of these people are related to each other. If I didnt have a family of my own to think about, I would happily do time for these 2 people! I hope I get the opportunity to dance and piss on their graves one day and nothing anyone says will make me forgive them.

Ouch, I'm sorry about that buddy, time is your friend....

They are owe me 19 years of heartache and misery...the last year being the worst. Some folk dont deserve to live and these 2 are in that bracket

I'm always gonna disagree with that. I know it might be painful. We're all here for a reason and we don't all know everything about each other.... "

These 2 caused the death of my teenage son! They dont deserve to live IMO....especially when he did.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

She died last year and I was able to finally forgive, but I will never forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might have enemies, but fuck it I just laugh at them

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Life is too short man

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don’t have enemies because I’m not a superhero or villain! the word enemy always sounds so dramatic and makes me think if I have one, I should probably have a lair "

I need you to have a lair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My metabolism

Have you tried sex? "

Gotta find someone who wants to fuck me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t have enemies because I’m not a superhero or villain! the word enemy always sounds so dramatic and makes me think if I have one, I should probably have a lair

I need you to have a lair."

I need one. Now I’ve said it, it’s all I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Everyone loves and respects me

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I think I am a nice friendly positive person who doesn't bother with negative or unfriendly people and forgives quite easily as life is to short.

But I do have a real enemy, he hates me and I can't stand him either, I think he's a horrible man. He's a competitor in business and he actually hated it when I started a similar business to his and we had many arguments. This was around 20 years ago and once I had to threaten him with police as he had his hand around my throat.

Nowadays we just accept and ignore each other and never speak. It's probably been like that for ten years now.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I haven’t got one. Yet ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Fighting evil as if it is outside of us only serves to reinforce it. My only enemies are parts of my shadow I’m yet to integrate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boss. Really hate him and sometimes even dream of how our last meeting will pan out when I quit this job...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To hunt down shadow warriors, you need to look at their habits, from within."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are plenty of people who don't like me. I really couldn't give a monkey's armpit. I'm not going to waste any time or energy on people whose opinions I don't value - I'll just continue to do my own thing with people I like

Spot on - life's way to short

Until it's over and you've regrets. Trust me....

When it's over and I'm gone regrets won't even come into it trust me - and I don't really see how not caring what the naysayers think and focussing on those that matter can lead to regrets - I know I shan't have any by adopting that philosophy"

That's one way I guess and I wouldn't judge. I was thinking of it from the perspective of me being a part of a bigger picture, leaving something behind, leaving people behind too and wanting them to be at peace and focused and happy. I've lost my daughter's mother long ago and plenty of things that should have been said then weren't, so that was my "trust me". I'll ensure when I exit the world that I try to make my peace for the sake of those left behind, but that's easier if it's an ongoing process and not left to the last minute, innit...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To hunt down shadow warriors, you need to look at their habits, from within.

That's scary shit! Wanna be friends?

If you understood what it means."

Yeah, go on....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are 2 people I detest in this world. Both of these people are related to each other. If I didnt have a family of my own to think about, I would happily do time for these 2 people! I hope I get the opportunity to dance and piss on their graves one day and nothing anyone says will make me forgive them.

Ouch, I'm sorry about that buddy, time is your friend....

They are owe me 19 years of heartache and misery...the last year being the worst. Some folk dont deserve to live and these 2 are in that bracket

I'm always gonna disagree with that. I know it might be painful. We're all here for a reason and we don't all know everything about each other....

These 2 caused the death of my teenage son! They dont deserve to live IMO....especially when he did."

I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My metabolism

Have you tried sex?

Gotta find someone who wants to fuck me first "

Pick me, pick me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Everyone loves and respects me "

You might be surprised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven’t got one. Yet ... "

You're lovely though Babs, nobody could be your enemy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I am a nice friendly positive person who doesn't bother with negative or unfriendly people and forgives quite easily as life is to short.

But I do have a real enemy, he hates me and I can't stand him either, I think he's a horrible man. He's a competitor in business and he actually hated it when I started a similar business to his and we had many arguments. This was around 20 years ago and once I had to threaten him with police as he had his hand around my throat.

Nowadays we just accept and ignore each other and never speak. It's probably been like that for ten years now. "

So in a way you're slowly getting towards peace, even if that's just ignoring and forgetting, it's better than wasting energy on it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Fighting evil as if it is outside of us only serves to reinforce it. My only enemies are parts of my shadow I’m yet to integrate."

Wise!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My boss. Really hate him and sometimes even dream of how our last meeting will pan out when I quit this job... "

Whatcha gonna do to him? Spill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Fighting evil as if it is outside of us only serves to reinforce it. My only enemies are parts of my shadow I’m yet to integrate.

Wise! "

First reactions are a good thing to examine

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By *asian_fruitMan
over a year ago

Fuckingham Palace

Human society is amazing an enemy today is a friend tomorrow!

Don’t hold grudges. Get hit and move on in life. Life lesson people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Fighting evil as if it is outside of us only serves to reinforce it. My only enemies are parts of my shadow I’m yet to integrate.

Wise!

First reactions are a good thing to examine "

I did a great course last year in Germany on circle of influence and stuff, ppl worry about so much they can't change and then they can't focus in the stuff they can make better. Like someone steels your parking space at work, so why stop your car and get out and confront them and both get angry, just find another space and feel good that you've let them have that space, innit.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Human society is amazing an enemy today is a friend tomorrow!

Don’t hold grudges. Get hit and move on in life. Life lesson people"

Tru dat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Fighting evil as if it is outside of us only serves to reinforce it. My only enemies are parts of my shadow I’m yet to integrate.

Wise!

First reactions are a good thing to examine

I did a great course last year in Germany on circle of influence and stuff, ppl worry about so much they can't change and then they can't focus in the stuff they can make better. Like someone steels your parking space at work, so why stop your car and get out and confront them and both get angry, just find another space and feel good that you've let them have that space, innit..... "
Yeah I ike that model too - Stephen Covey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like the majority of the world right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. People either love me or forget me, normally the latter..

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier.

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By *ouple o peepsCouple
over a year ago

London

I have a life vendetta with Jonny Morris the former presenter of 70's tv show Animal Magic, one day victory will be mine!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

The only enemy to you is yourself and the time you spend disliking people, that are not no longer part of your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feels like the majority of the world right now

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Well I'm your friend...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. People either love me or forget me, normally the latter.."

That's nothing to stress about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier. "

Yeah I don't think I have a single enemy in my mind at least, just ppl I don't see eye to eye with. Maybe other ppl think of me as one, but I hope not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. People either love me or forget me, normally the latter..

That's nothing to stress about "

Must be why I'm not stressed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a life vendetta with Jonny Morris the former presenter of 70's tv show Animal Magic, one day victory will be mine!"

He was lovely! All those animal voices!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only enemy to you is yourself and the time you spend disliking people, that are not no longer part of your life "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not anymore "

Bumped them off or made amends...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier. "

The ones to whom I have a strong reaction, either negatively or positively, are the ones that help me learn most about myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier.

The ones to whom I have a strong reaction, either negatively or positively, are the ones that help me learn most about myself."

If you can learn from all your encounters then you're winning at life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier.

The ones to whom I have a strong reaction, either negatively or positively, are the ones that help me learn most about myself.

If you can learn from all your encounters then you're winning at life! "
I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier.

The ones to whom I have a strong reaction, either negatively or positively, are the ones that help me learn most about myself.

If you can learn from all your encounters then you're winning at life! I agree "

You're looking buff lately fella, have you been working out over lockdown...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier.

The ones to whom I have a strong reaction, either negatively or positively, are the ones that help me learn most about myself.

If you can learn from all your encounters then you're winning at life! I agree

You're looking buff lately fella, have you been working out over lockdown...?"

It’s an older picture. I’ve lost some weight but need to tone up again. But thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't got any enemies as such there are people I strongly dislike but I just don't have anything to do with them. Makes life easier. "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't have any enemies. There are those I'm not fond of for a myriad of reasons but I try to not give them too much of my energy, I'd much rather focus on the positive and those I love.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I haven’t got one. Yet ...

You're lovely though Babs, nobody could be your enemy.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any enemies but there are 3 people I am very bitter towards , one of them has now passed but I’m still cross about him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is far too short. Sunday reminded me of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not anymore

Bumped them off or made amends...?"
I only know they moved on.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

An ex business partner, lying cheating thieving good for nothing ex criminal that just couldn't change his ways. I care more for my own fecies than that "man".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have any enemies. There are those I'm not fond of for a myriad of reasons but I try to not give them too much of my energy, I'd much rather focus on the positive and those I love. "

Darn tootin....!

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs


"Myself.

African proverb... If there is no ennemy inside, the enemies outside can do us no harm.

Love this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have quite a few family members who hate me and love to say vile things about me.

I've given them several chances but there comes a point where you can't forgive and forget.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Me - my own worst enemy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Golly gosh no. My friends and family couldn't understand how I moved on from my mean ex with no bitterness or resentment. I was simply finally free. No need for hatred. Only looking forwards to being free to be me

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I have one right nasty one that built himself a untrue story around me & frequently tries to provoke a reaction by mainly costing me money replacing/repairing property and wasting my time.

Police are useless with stalkers.

He's not getting the satisfaction of a reaction that reinforces his absolute lies. He's not worth the jail time & a major coward hiding in shadows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself.

African proverb... If there is no ennemy inside, the enemies outside can do us no harm. "

Couldn't have put it better myself perfectly sums it up for me

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By *risky businessMan
over a year ago

APharaohWay

It's not about going around trying to stir up trouble. As long as you're honest and you articulate what you believe to be true, somebody somewhere will become your enemy whether you like it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feels like the majority of the world right now

Well I'm your friend... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. I have quite a few family members who hate me and love to say vile things about me.

I've given them several chances but there comes a point where you can't forgive and forget. "

I honestly struggle to see that. You're always so lovely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, can't be arsed with it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Golly gosh no. My friends and family couldn't understand how I moved on from my mean ex with no bitterness or resentment. I was simply finally free. No need for hatred. Only looking forwards to being free to be me "

You my lovely have one of the best attitudes to life that I've encountered on fab, you're always so energetic and never fail me when I ask for filth.... STOP stealing other ppl's pussies though, ok....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daylight, i definitely look better in the dark

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have one right nasty one that built himself a untrue story around me & frequently tries to provoke a reaction by mainly costing me money replacing/repairing property and wasting my time.

Police are useless with stalkers.

He's not getting the satisfaction of a reaction that reinforces his absolute lies. He's not worth the jail time & a major coward hiding in shadows. "

Oh my! Some folk will try to lie their way out if anything. Truth usually outs eventually, best just to let them knock themselves out......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not about going around trying to stir up trouble. As long as you're honest and you articulate what you believe to be true, somebody somewhere will become your enemy whether you like it or not."

Yeah, but hopefully just in their mind and not yours....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feels like the majority of the world right now

Well I'm your friend...

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, can't be arsed with it all."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Daylight, i definitely look better in the dark "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you. "

True. When you forgive it’s for you not them.

No time or energy whatsoever for enemies, don’t like everyone and not everyone likes me but that’s just normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My enemies they congregate and go on dates, they talk about me over food and wine .....the fucking snakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My enemies they congregate and go on dates, they talk about me over food and wine .....the fucking snakes "

That's very poetic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you.

True. When you forgive it’s for you not them.

No time or energy whatsoever for enemies, don’t like everyone and not everyone likes me but that’s just normal "

I'm not sure everything needs to be about oneself. Forgiving or even giving to someone who's been an arse to you is often a way to show them a new path. In a mean nasty world some folk just need some kindness to see their errors.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very wise comments Nip, all round ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very wise comments Nip, all round ?? "

You and I need a chat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you can bathe me in your infinite wisdom about forgiveness and zen life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not anymore...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you can bathe me in your infinite wisdom about forgiveness and zen life "

No, so we can chat, silly

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you.

True. When you forgive it’s for you not them.

No time or energy whatsoever for enemies, don’t like everyone and not everyone likes me but that’s just normal

I'm not sure everything needs to be about oneself. Forgiving or even giving to someone who's been an arse to you is often a way to show them a new path. In a mean nasty world some folk just need some kindness to see their errors..... "

When you forgive someone it’s to release yourself. If you think it’s going to change them you’ve misunderstood forgiveness, you can’t control other people’s thoughts or actions, you can inspire or be a good role model but the change in them is their choice not yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not anymore..."

Good....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

None at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's hard to let go of the hurt caused by others. But it's one of the strongest things you can do. If they are your enemy you are giving them power over you.

True. When you forgive it’s for you not them.

No time or energy whatsoever for enemies, don’t like everyone and not everyone likes me but that’s just normal

I'm not sure everything needs to be about oneself. Forgiving or even giving to someone who's been an arse to you is often a way to show them a new path. In a mean nasty world some folk just need some kindness to see their errors.....

When you forgive someone it’s to release yourself. If you think it’s going to change them you’ve misunderstood forgiveness, you can’t control other people’s thoughts or actions, you can inspire or be a good role model but the change in them is their choice not yours "

Respectfully I disagree. I've seen it with my own eyes and I do it for a living.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None at all"

Yay, Yasmeen arrived!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

The nature of my job means half the world would love to kill me but in day to day life not really, I dislike a lot of people but don't have any enemies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you do for a living?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"None at all

Yay, Yasmeen arrived! "

Hello Gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The nature of my job means half the world would love to kill me but in day to day life not really, I dislike a lot of people but don't have any enemies."

Do you torture fluffy kittens for a living or something....?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

S t e v e n xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"S t e v e n xx"

Are you saying I'm you enemy....?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"S t e v e n xx

Are you saying I'm you enemy....? "

Your*

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"S t e v e n xx

Are you saying I'm you enemy....? "

Silly comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"S t e v e n xx

Are you saying I'm you enemy....?

Silly comment "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York


"The nature of my job means half the world would love to kill me but in day to day life not really, I dislike a lot of people but don't have any enemies.

Do you torture fluffy kittens for a living or something....?"

No, I'm but I'm a squaddie therefore any number of terror groups and countries hostile to the UK would kill me just for wearing the uniform

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The nature of my job means half the world would love to kill me but in day to day life not really, I dislike a lot of people but don't have any enemies.

Do you torture fluffy kittens for a living or something....?

No, I'm but I'm a squaddie therefore any number of terror groups and countries hostile to the UK would kill me just for wearing the uniform "

Yeah, but they're not your enemies, you're theirs. You do a very valuable job and many of us are grateful for that....

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Enemy is quite a threatening word

There are so me people in this world I dislike, some of them a lot but I wouldn’t categorise them as enemies. Aren’t they usually people wielding guns/knives/weapons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I am aware of, and if I do I could not give a flying fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enemy is quite a threatening word

There are so me people in this world I dislike, some of them a lot but I wouldn’t categorise them as enemies. Aren’t they usually people wielding guns/knives/weapons? "

I'm asking about YOU my lovely... x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that I am aware of, and if I do I could not give a flying fuck "

I kinda hate you for being so gorgeous and not fucking me yet, js....

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By *ouple o peepsCouple
over a year ago

London


"I have a life vendetta with Jonny Morris the former presenter of 70's tv show Animal Magic, one day victory will be mine!

He was lovely! All those animal voices! "

Yes but he eats tangerines! Can't trust those mini orange eating b&^%$##@

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a life vendetta with Jonny Morris the former presenter of 70's tv show Animal Magic, one day victory will be mine!

He was lovely! All those animal voices!

Yes but he eats tangerines! Can't trust those mini orange eating b&^%$##@ "

Oranges are just oversized tangerines.....

What's not to trust?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Love eachother

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life is far too short. Sunday reminded me of that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

"

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread "

Like an egg

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread "

Get to bed!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Enemy is quite a threatening word

There are so me people in this world I dislike, some of them a lot but I wouldn’t categorise them as enemies. Aren’t they usually people wielding guns/knives/weapons?

I'm asking about YOU my lovely... x"

Ah apologies .... erm probably a few here but I’m not losing any sleep over it. Virtual enemies are exactly that

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

Get to bed!"

Only with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread "

I was earlier, that's what gave me the OM, made my vision all kaleidoscopic.....

I loved how you called me Jesus btw....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

Get to bed!

Only with you. "

Again? I would tbf, she's fit....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

Get to bed!

Only with you.

Again? I would tbf, she's fit...."

With me you dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enemy is quite a threatening word

There are so me people in this world I dislike, some of them a lot but I wouldn’t categorise them as enemies. Aren’t they usually people wielding guns/knives/weapons?

I'm asking about YOU my lovely... x

Ah apologies .... erm probably a few here but I’m not losing any sleep over it. Virtual enemies are exactly that "

I like that phrase! Virtual enemies....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to have a nemesis. That would be pretty cool just to say I have one

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"There are 2 people I detest in this world. Both of these people are related to each other. If I didnt have a family of my own to think about, I would happily do time for these 2 people! I hope I get the opportunity to dance and piss on their graves one day and nothing anyone says will make me forgive them.

Ouch, I'm sorry about that buddy, time is your friend....

They are owe me 19 years of heartache and misery...the last year being the worst. Some folk dont deserve to live and these 2 are in that bracket

I'm always gonna disagree with that. I know it might be painful. We're all here for a reason and we don't all know everything about each other....

These 2 caused the death of my teenage son! They dont deserve to live IMO....especially when he did."

Chin up Bants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

Get to bed!

Only with you.

Again? I would tbf, she's fit....

With me you dick"

Threesome....?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

Get to bed!

Only with you.

Again? I would tbf, she's fit....

With me you dick

Threesome....? "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d like to have a nemesis. That would be pretty cool just to say I have one "

Wanna be mine? We can snipe at each other on the forums....?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

Get to bed!

Only with you.

Again? I would tbf, she's fit....

With me you dick

Threesome....?

No"

Ok but will you wear that thing, you know, the sexy thing....?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Know your friends your enemies can sit and wallow

Jesus Nippy are you sat on the thread

Get to bed!

Only with you.

Again? I would tbf, she's fit....

With me you dick

Threesome....?

No

Ok but will you wear that thing, you know, the sexy thing....?"

Yeah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to have a nemesis. That would be pretty cool just to say I have one

Wanna be mine? We can snipe at each other on the forums....? "

You do that to me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d like to have a nemesis. That would be pretty cool just to say I have one

Wanna be mine? We can snipe at each other on the forums....?

You do that to me anyway! "

Last word wars?

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