FabSwingers.com forum: Unattractive Traits

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was reading this morning an old article about: "12 habits that can make you seem instantly less attractive, according to science". I am not sure if I am allowed to post a link, so if you are interested, just copy title into your search engine.

When it comes to fab meet ups/dating/whatever you chose to call it, what personality traits or behaviours you find off putting?

* * *

Dont crucify me, if I dont reply to all the comments on this occasion.

Let's just share some thoughts.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voting tory

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the lady you meet spends more time looking at her phone than talking to you. That's a frustrating one!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Voting tory"

I used to ask how they voted in a referendum;-) half jokingly of course..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Pushiness i cant stand pushiness

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

People who are obviously distracted or thinking about something/someone else.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When the lady you meet spends more time looking at her phone than talking to you. That's a frustrating one!"

Happened only once to me. Maybe because he was younger.. maybe it's a generation thing too?

It's awful though. I agree.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The inability to explore their opinions and ideals...otherwise known as willing to accept they're potentially wrong!

Oh and I'm sure there's many others, but being rude and dismissive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Arrogance. A big turn off.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pushiness i cant stand pushiness"

There is a fine line between showing your internet and determination and being pushy isnt it?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People who are obviously distracted or thinking about something/someone else."

Would you wish they postponed the date?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" The inability to explore their opinions and ideals...otherwise known as willing to accept they're potentially wrong!

Oh and I'm sure there's many others, but being rude and dismissive."

I can be stubborn hearted about my opinions. It's a hard work to challenge yourself.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman picking up her bare breasts and bouncing them up and down.

A man acting like his cock is the best thing I've ever seen or will see.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arrogance. A big turn off."

Usually they (themselves) call it confidence.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they speak badly about other people when you’re on a date. If someone starts moaning about an ex, I instantly lose interest and make an excuse to leave.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

Someone talking about all of their recent meets or upcoming meets in detail...

No Thankies

I like confidence but not arrogance

And get off your freaking phone!!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to control their alcohol, can’t stand meets that you end up looking after grown adults. No drama and fun times is all we want.

Another is a couple that bicker in front of you it’s so awkward and unattractive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Attention seeking

Arrogant

Crass/loud/overbearing

Racist

Misogynist

I could go on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For me the first impression is really important so the trait that will make me lose interest immediately is scruffiness

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.) Pushing politics on me at an early stage from any angle (left, right, up or down).... Politics to me is fluid and interchangeable and I never take sides. Tribal shit bores me silly and makes me think "is this person gonna be this unimaginative and uncreative at sex too...?"

2.) Also any focus on money and financials. It's none of your business, how rude....! Makes my cock all floppy....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Attention seeking

Arrogant

Crass/loud/overbearing

Racist

Misogynist

I could go on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as profiles go, bad spelling and grammer..on a meet, d*unkeness..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Clothes. People who wear them, I’m not a fan.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Distracted with their phone and those men who can’t listen or stop talking, usually about themselves, their work, achievements, cars, money, houses....so boring even their wives roll their eyes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they speak badly about other people when you’re on a date. If someone starts moaning about an ex, I instantly lose interest and make an excuse to leave. "

Had that happen. Really is an off put. Got asked if I'd like to see her video of sucking another chap off. Really? At a first meet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Voting tory"

Voting Lib Dem or Labour

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Vagueness is my bugbear on this .

When the are not giving off any clear signals either in conversation or body language. It is too easily interpreted as they are just tolerating your presence as there are no better alternatives available.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fekin hate those bar stewards that constantly swear

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An energy sapping personality. Too many hints to list here but basically any kind of negativity or narcissism.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone talking about all of their recent meets or upcoming meets in detail...

Show offs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clothes. People who wear them, I’m not a fan.

Haha.. that's not personality trait! More appearance!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"An energy sapping personality. "

This would be on my list.

Energy vampires I call them...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wherever I have been I've always try to be that that nice guy but not too nice that friendly guy but not too Friendly you treat me with respect you get respect back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the lady you meet spends more time looking at her phone than talking to you. That's a frustrating one!

Happened only once to me. Maybe because he was younger.. maybe it's a generation thing too?

It's awful though. I agree. "

This

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance. A big turn off."

Ooohh this one too, it’s a goodbye from us

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Whether they voted brexit or not

Calling a woman 'babe'

Hating on their mum

Being a grown adult and not ironing or eating vegetables

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being a grown adult and not ironing or eating vegetables "

This made me giggle !

A man behind ironing board looks actually sexy

especially with a steam iron heh. Hot!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An energy sapping personality.

This would be on my list.

Energy vampires I call them...

Very apt term. Shame they're not allergic to daylight like respectable vampires.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Not having a sense of humour

Being negative / pessimistic

Fakeness

Lack of self-confidence

Bad table manners / etiquette

Lack of manners

Not having some degree of chivalry

Not being able to hold a conversation

Looking at their phone

Being too loud or overbearing

Being puerile

I'll stop there because I'm beginning to sound like a bit of a diva

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not having a sense of humour

Being negative / pessimistic

Fakeness

Lack of self-confidence

Bad table manners / etiquette

Lack of manners

Not having some degree of chivalry

Not being able to hold a conversation

Looking at their phone

Being too loud or overbearing

Being puerile

I'll stop there because I'm beginning to sound like a bit of a diva

Haha that's a very comprehensive list!

Chivalry is very important to me too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is unattractive to start a thread and not replying to all the comments !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Inability to converse, I get bored too easily

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a social meet once when his phone rang, he looked at it then at me, and proceeded to take the call so I got up and left ...thats one of my pet hates

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Not having a sense of humour

Being negative / pessimistic

Fakeness

Lack of self-confidence

Bad table manners / etiquette

Lack of manners

Not having some degree of chivalry

Not being able to hold a conversation

Looking at their phone

Being too loud or overbearing

Being puerile

I'll stop there because I'm beginning to sound like a bit of a diva

Spot on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is unattractive to start a thread and not replying to all the comments ! "

I usually do but this one I dont think requires much commenting on. Its just a big ongoing rant which we all need.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will add to the list..

Bitter people.

;-)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"As far as profiles go, bad spelling and grammer..on a meet, d*unkeness.. "

Grammar

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad spelling, text speak, and the inability to hold an intelligent conversation. Turns me right off straight away

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will add to the list..

Bitter people.

;-) "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accents.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm not keen on Psychopaths or Daily Mail readers

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I will add to the list..

Bitter people.

;-)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Accents."

you mean accents except your own ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I don't like it when they are very self confident online and totally unconfident in real life and won't even look me in the eye and fiddle with stuff or tap feet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not keen on Psychopaths or Daily Mail readers

I like how you put two of them in one drawer

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

I think people that can't at least fake an interest in what you are saying, or that don't let you get a word in edgeways.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Accents."

Please elaborate?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like it when they are very self confident online and totally unconfident in real life and won't even look me in the eye and fiddle with stuff or tap feet "

Omg ppl who can't do eye contact! How are you supposed to flirt ffs....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad spelling, text speak, and the inability to hold an intelligent conversation. Turns me right off straight away "

Its about meeting people face to face not online..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Accents.

you mean accents except your own ? "

Yes. All other accents.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Accents.

Please elaborate?"

I can't understand people who have really strong accents. It's my fault not theirs. It kills the mood if I'm constantly asking "what did you say?"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Accents.

Please elaborate?

I can't understand people who have really strong accents. It's my fault not theirs. It kills the mood if I'm constantly asking "what did you say?"

I sympathise.. saying that I'm forever conscious about mine and my man always takes a Mickey of my pronunciation of certain words

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Accents.

Please elaborate?

I can't understand people who have really strong accents. It's my fault not theirs. It kills the mood if I'm constantly asking "what did you say?"

To be fair that happened to me once with a guy with a seriously strong Glaswegian accent. Gave up asking “sorry what?” By the end. I really tried listening but lordy lord could not make out what he said at all!

Total mood killer

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not keen on Psychopaths or Daily Mail readers

Eeeeew yes Daily Mail readers

Shudder!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Smokers

Bad smells

Strangely, not knowing if they're a real couple, or a fab hook up, or not. It confuses me,

When i get the feeling shes doing it just to please him.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grown adults with fake ADHD

False cheerfulness and over the top behaviour- just sit down and shut the fuck up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

When you pass a window or mirror and they talk to themselves in it instead if making eye contact with you. It's fine to check your hair or whatnot but if you're talking to me, fucking talk TO me.

When you're looking in the mirror mate, you're trying to convince yourself you're all that and more, not me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public."

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Attention seeking

Arrogant

Crass/loud/overbearing

Self deprecating

I’ll go with those and add one.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt "

Oooops! That’s you fucked ya c**t

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Arrogance

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public."

I love a woman with a potty mouth

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt

Oooops! That’s you fucked ya c**t

Not just a little bit fucked but fucking fucked

I love it when you call me a cunt

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public."

Whoops thats me fucked

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt

Oooops! That’s you fucked ya c**t

Not just a little bit fucked but fucking fucked

I love it when you call me a cunt

"
your a cunt

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt

Oooops! That’s you fucked ya c**t

Not just a little bit fucked but fucking fucked

I love it when you call me a cunt

Only because you know it’s sooooo not a word I use

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt

Oooops! That’s you fucked ya c**t

Not just a little bit fucked but fucking fucked

I love it when you call me a cunt

Only because you know it’s sooooo not a word I use

"
not even dirty time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt

Oooops! That’s you fucked ya c**t

You two..

That's a fecking letdown!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been out with a woman and she has said "fuck" as part of the conversation. There is a time and a place but not in public.

That's me fucked, it's my second favourite word after cunt "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Inability to converse, I get bored too easily "

Yawn) sorry you said?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Vagueness is my bugbear on this .

Could they be introverts or very shy?

It's a hard work either way.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"Vagueness is my bugbear on this .

Could they be introverts or very shy?

It's a hard work either way. "

Possibly but makes flirting bloody challenging especially as I'm not actually that good at it in the first place

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Vagueness is my bugbear on this .

Could they be introverts or very shy?

It's a hard work either way.

Possibly but makes flirting bloody challenging especially as I'm not actually that good at it in the first place

It's like the equivalent of one line messages here

I'm sure it's not the case. Its just a matter of the person waking up these skills in us by turning on attraction button.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"When the lady you meet spends more time looking at her phone than talking to you. That's a frustrating one!"
agree on this one

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Voting tory"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Clothes. People who wear them, I’m not a fan.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Being overly loud

Consistently talking about themselves

Works on dates aswell

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lack of originality

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Over confident people with chips on their shoulders.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

[Removed by poster at 24/06/20 06:37:44]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Over confident people with chips on their shoulders. "

Agreed, arrogance disguised as confidence. Uuurrggg. Oh and add to that the lack of good oral hygiene...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Over confident people with chips on their shoulders.

Agreed, arrogance disguised as confidence. Uuurrggg. Oh and add to that the lack of good oral hygiene... "

These type of people are me me me so boring!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"Voting tory"

This

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grumps

Liars

Arrogance

Bombarders

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she hasn't wiped her um right since her last trip for a poo nd I can smell shit, that's a deal breaker

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she hasn't wiped her um right since her last trip for a poo nd I can smell shit, that's a deal breaker

No way that’s disgusting!!! (Insert sick emoji)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she hasn't wiped her um right since her last trip for a poo nd I can smell shit, that's a deal breaker

No way that’s disgusting!!! (Insert sick emoji) "

Thankfully it's never happened but to be honest I might not smell it anyway over all the shit I talk

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

Someone who can’t make a decision themselves

Someone who can maintain a conversation

Personal hygiene, they have to wash wash day.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The try too hards

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One sided conversations where people talk at you, not too you.

Self appreciation

Narcissistic two faced people, lovely to your face, slag you off to others...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Over confident people with chips on their shoulders. "

That is a popular one !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grumps

Liars

Arrogance

Bombarders

Who are bombardes?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If she hasn't wiped her um right since her last trip for a poo nd I can smell shit, that's a deal breaker

This is appearance

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The try too hards"

The wont let goes too !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecretlyfilthyMan
over a year ago

A boat

Pet names & Euphemism’s.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who shit the bed and roll it out with their foot,like I didn't notice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she hasn't wiped her um right since her last trip for a poo nd I can smell shit, that's a deal breaker

What de farrrrrrrrrrrk?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"If she hasn't wiped her um right since her last trip for a poo nd I can smell shit, that's a deal breaker

You clearly ain’t meeting the right kind of women mate

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who shit the bed and roll it out with their foot,like I didn't notice

S'cusee me and my prolapsed Ahole, thought you were sleeping

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who shit the bed and roll it out with their foot,like I didn't notice

S'cusee me and my prolapsed Ahole, thought you were sleeping

Nothing escapes dash

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking and bad manners

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nosey people , some people just really try on this one .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nosey people , some people just really try on this one . "

When you feel like you are in a hot seat?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grumps

Liars

Arrogance

Bombarders

Who are bombardes?"

People who spam you, message constantly

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grumps

Liars

Arrogance

Bombarders

Who are bombardes?

People who spam you, message constantly"

Thanks for clarifying !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

More interest in themselves and the specific acts they must have, rather than mine - selfishness, in essence.

Insensitive pushiness to meet - an extension of their selfishness, sometimes coupled with an aggressive tone.

Inflexibility - often comes with selfishness.

Disconnected - not engaged or engaging.

Disrespectful

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More interest in themselves and the specific acts they must have, rather than mine - selfishness, in essence.

Insensitive pushiness to meet - an extension of their selfishness, sometimes coupled with an aggressive tone.

Inflexibility - often comes with selfishness.

Disconnected - not engaged or engaging.

Disrespectful "

Inflexible is an interesting call. I recall someone booking a hotel after having a vague convo about possibly meeting on a certain day. Announcing what time I should make there and how long at least we should spend together. Yeah well.. that didnt happen.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

100% being too pushy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread