FabSwingers.com forum: Bdsm abuse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As you may remember my post a few weeks back about abuse and violence?

She said she just wanted to be made like she had been used and abused which we both enjoyed, and she said was exactly what she was after and needed xxx but now wants to up the name calling and introduce whips an floggers etc x now again I’m interested in trying this and she wants to feel proper neglected xxx

Which I think I’m ok with xxx as after last time we had amazing cuddles and support time xx

What’s everyone’s thoughts on this ? As your info was very helpful before???

Also what’s the best way to make her squirt as she’s never done that before? Xx

Thanks all

By *LS80Woman
over a year ago

Chester le Street

Aftercare is very important in all aspects of kink As is negotiation and communication.

Impact play like most things needs a warm up.

For neglect as you call t, I believe it's likely what is classed as Humiliation.

Please research RACK and SSC in BDSM as a starting point.