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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you know all of boundaries?

Still discovering them?

Is there a special someone you would be willing to try and push them with or are they hard limits, not to be pushed?

Let's talk about it because I'm nosey

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By *utualpleasure42Man
over a year ago

enter location here

Still discovering. Plenty of space to go yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are things I know I don't want to do because they don't appeal to me

I can't be convinced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain things that dont appeal to me so would never try but I would like to explore other things with the right person and someone I trust/know fairly well.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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"Do you know all of boundaries?

Still discovering them?

Is there a special someone you would be willing to try and push them with or are they hard limits, not to be pushed?

Let's talk about it because I'm nosey "

Think those boundaries may now have a 2 week quarantine period.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Sparkles, I’m still in the “discovery” stage as far as soft limits go but I have hard limits I won’t budge on.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

No-one will push what I don't want to do.

They've tried before and failed

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I have different boundaries for different situations and partners. In general, the more I trust someone the more I loosen the reins. I think that it is very important to have that flexibility whilst ensuring that I feel secure and safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah there's loads i want to try, i came to fab late, so still learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, some things in the past I've been like 'hmmm no' and even things now they're a no... But for the right man "yes, daddy".

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Not been exploring long. But something's are a firm no, others require further testing

My boundaries are shifting as I try new things.

Trust. Yes for something this is vital. I won't let that side of me loose unless everything feels right. From the partner, time location and mood

Very fun to test them though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open minded and definitely still pushing the envelope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My limits used to far more restrictive. Through experience I am left with the ones that won't shift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have different boundaries for different situations and partners. In general, the more I trust someone the more I loosen the reins. I think that it is very important to have that flexibility whilst ensuring that I feel secure and safe. "

Sweet Jesus .... your profile photo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sparkles, I’m still in the “discovery” stage as far as soft limits go but I have hard limits I won’t budge on. "

Pretty much the same as me Lor, I'm still discovering my soft ones and definitely won't budge on my hard ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy pushing the boundaries but still have limits. It's also great to help someone try something new that they have wanted for some time. There are a couple of things that would have to be with the right person.

How about you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I know mine perfectly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No-one will push what I don't want to do.

They've tried before and failed "

And so they shouldn't, boundaries are there for a reason and should always be respected no matter what.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have different boundaries for different situations and partners. In general, the more I trust someone the more I loosen the reins. I think that it is very important to have that flexibility whilst ensuring that I feel secure and safe. "

Great way to discribe it, I'm very similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a few boundaries (hard limits)

Depending if they are a good Dom would I be tempted to explore them a little bit.

Some boundaries will always stay in place xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Yes.

Yes.

There's a certain person who's helped me discover new limits and I'm peachy keen to see what other limits we can discover together.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

You think you have them then it changes as you feel more comfortable with the situation or in your skin

Ever evolving!

Jo x

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I had a count up and was to actually surprised to have quite a few fixed boundaries.

I know what I want and have pushed on my flexible ones and I now have the next stage of my fab journey ready to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet men, but other than that there isn't a great deal I wouldn't do with the right woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I faced my boundaries during a major traumatic meltdown...I faced myself...now? I have no boundaries

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you know all of boundaries?

Still discovering them?

Is there a special someone you would be willing to try and push them with or are they hard limits, not to be pushed?

Let's talk about it because I'm nosey "

I know all of my boundaries and there is and never will be anyone special enough to push them!

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

Today’s boundaries are tomorrow’s aspirations. We never say never xx

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Our boundary list seems to change

.. something we dont do now might take our fancy in future. There are some we would never do but if you dont try you will never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very few boundaries for the right person.

Treat me with respect and gain my trust and I'm putty in your hands.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

our boundaries are pretty much hard won and are unlikely to be changed now but they're very broad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried a lot of different things..

Some I enjoyed and some I didn't...

I'm always looking to explore new possibilities with the right person but some things i wouldn't want to even consider

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I faced my boundaries during a major traumatic meltdown...I faced myself...now? I have no boundaries "

Not that a meltdown is good but getting to a point where you could to that is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I faced my boundaries during a major traumatic meltdown...I faced myself...now? I have no boundaries

Not that a meltdown is good but getting to a point where you could to that is amazing. "

Breakdown or breakthrough? Or both? What has emerged, the real me, is the preferred model

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I faced my boundaries during a major traumatic meltdown...I faced myself...now? I have no boundaries

Not that a meltdown is good but getting to a point where you could to that is amazing.

Breakdown or breakthrough? Or both? What has emerged, the real me, is the preferred model "

The breakthrough. Breakdowns aren't ever good but saying that as hard as they are at the time, they can be pretty cathartic.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm still exploring my sexuality and learning about myself. There are a few things that I would have said a definite no to but now I realise they are more fluid. I do have hard limits but the rest? I think I've got the right person to explore them with.

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I never find mine as I believe they are they first to be explored and then pushed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few obvious hard limits. However within those broad boundaries I have been willing to explore. I don’t think I’ll be getting anywhere near exploring the point my soft limits harden, as I’m not sure whether I’ll be meeting post-Covid. So maybe my hard limits are closer than I thought

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We are still discovering ours both with each other and with others

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ive got some definite boundaries, have explored close to others and adjusted them. There are likely boundaries that I would have but am not aware that they even exist at the moment. It's qualitative and quantitative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still exploring where mine are

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