FabSwingers.com forum: Would you judge someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Get dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

It’s an everyday occurrence around here

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Nope as I've done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time round here. Onesies and everything.

No biggie

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably, yes.

I know that there could be 1001 valid reasons why but if one of them doesn't apply just put a pair of jeans on and a jumper, you can leave your pyjamas on underneath if you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happens all the time round here. Onesies and everything.

No biggie "

I judge the onsie wearers does that make me a snob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen it often here.

If I think about it I do think it's a little lazy but aren't we all in some ways

I have no strong feelings about the peoppe who do it to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm not a fan of the pajama look, indoors or outdoors.

Or onesies.

Or nighties.

Dressing gowns just about.

I don't like slippers either.

I do like a nice smoking jacket tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that would happen here tbh

Its far too posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a fan of the pajama look, indoors or outdoors.

Or onesies.

Or nighties.

Dressing gowns just about.

I don't like slippers either.

I do like a nice smoking jacket tho

What about smoking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lol, get dressed

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Definitely. It really doesn't take much effort to get dressed.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

"Happens all the time round here. Onesies and everything.

No biggie

I judge the onsie wearers does that make me a snob?

We do the same. I don’t even own one but my sister loves them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not judge but I would raise my eyebrow and giggle a little unless they would look unwell or something along these lines.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've driven the kids to the ex's house in pj bottoms and a t-shirt but wouldn't go to the shops. So yeah probably think to myself why didn't you get dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d look twice but wouldn’t judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh you bastards I'm going to get dressed now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lot and I often do you think people are quite lazy especially when it's the middle of the afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly yes! I also judge people who stand and smoke on their doorstep wearing pyjamas and dressing gowns in the middle of the afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. No need for it.

Saw someone in pink fluffies once. She tried to talk to me too but I edged away, not wanting to be associated with someone that can’t be arsed to get dressed. Or wash her hair for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly yes! I also judge people who stand and smoke on their doorstep wearing pyjamas and dressing gowns in the middle of the afternoon."

Na what people were in their own home and garden is totally up them regardless of the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a meet and he was wearing his PJ bottoms, I wasn't impressed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a person with M.E. I often have days where I have to make decisions about which normal 'easy' daily activities I have to prioritise. But, nope, I'd go hungry rather than go to the shops in pyjamas.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I occasionaly see young women shopping with their hair in curlers..

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd judge them to be a legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had to pop to get something. I got out of the pj's and put a maxi dress on. Didn't bother with any undies though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just had to pop to get something. I got out of the pj's and put a maxi dress on. Didn't bother with any undies though."
Nice image

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

Not a good luck. Would sooner go to the corner shop in just a thong and my heels than jarmers and slippers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just had to pop to get something. I got out of the pj's and put a maxi dress on. Didn't bother with any undies though."

I'm about to do the same.. dress and knitwear

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

At least they're wearing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly yes! I also judge people who stand and smoke on their doorstep wearing pyjamas and dressing gowns in the middle of the afternoon.

Na what people were in their own home and garden is totally up them regardless of the time of day. "

Oh yeah, I'm still in my jim jams past lunchtime. Wouldn't dare let anyone see me outside in my Lion King nightie though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly yes! I also judge people who stand and smoke on their doorstep wearing pyjamas and dressing gowns in the middle of the afternoon.

Na what people were in their own home and garden is totally up them regardless of the time of day. "

If I'm not going out I stay in my pyjamas/loungewear all day

I can't be bothered picking out an outfit, ironing and then having to wash it if I have no plans.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes, sorry but I would. There is no reason to be out of your house in your nightwear in the middle of the day, I have a few comfy dresses I wear around my home, it’s not that hard to just slip summat on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!! It shows they don't care!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep deffo .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but not always in a bad way. They might just be popping out for morning supplies at the corner shop after a marathon night of sex before resuming a morning session. That's the only time I've done it and I wouldn't give a shit what ppl thought tbh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just had to pop to get something. I got out of the pj's and put a maxi dress on. Didn't bother with any undies though.Nice image

I doubt it

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We often see it where we live, we just accept it as normal for some people.

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By *ervyPoochxMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Going to the supermarket? No. Dropping your kids off at school on the other hand? C'mon eh, what sort of example are you setting there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!!! Pjs are the comfiest of clothes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At least they're wearing something

Exactly!

I didn't do it - I live in the Home Counties- maybe I should put my wellies on with my PJ's to feel accepted- they are Hunter after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, until I went to a small supermarket near me once in loungewear. I’ve done it many times since.

Some mornings I just can’t be arsed to get dressed if all I need to do is pick up a few things for breakfast.

Once I’d have cared too much about what others though of me; now I couldn’t care less.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd only judge them poorly if PJs weren't weather appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I’m helping them up I have no business looking down on anyone

I really don’t get uptight about what others wear, unless they’re wearing crocs and socks then I’ll judge them pretty harshly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

I'm jealous and I will do it one day, but you have to earn that level of satisfaction - not just because you found some mug to blow his beans into you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless I’m helping them up I have no business looking down on anyone

I really don’t get uptight about what others wear, unless they’re wearing crocs and socks then I’ll judge them pretty harshly

Crocs and socks you poet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless I’m helping them up I have no business looking down on anyone

I really don’t get uptight about what others wear, unless they’re wearing crocs and socks then I’ll judge them pretty harshly

Crocs and socks should be illegal!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless I’m helping them up I have no business looking down on anyone

I really don’t get uptight about what others wear, unless they’re wearing crocs and socks then I’ll judge them pretty harshly

What about if they were in the confines of their own backyard? I might have done that earlier when mowing the lawn although they're not exactly crocs, more Swedish cloggs with a wooden sole. Also, do trainer socks count?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

This is ostensibly the accepted and usual dress code for my local Asda judging by the number of folks I’ve seen there so adorned...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aint knowbody round here till you've been to asda in a onsie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once wore a pair of Pink Crocs to an organised social, gave them away at the end of the night and Macmillan got a few hundred quid.

Am I forgiven, or is it an unforiveable sin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all the time.

Thy usually tell me to fuck off and mind my own business, and wonder how the hell I managed to be wearing their pyjamas..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*unforgiveable ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I would think they looked like shite though. Could be many reasons why they have them on and not just lasyness; depression, dementia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You aint knowbody round here till you've been to asda in a onsie

Just so you know, we haven't!

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Yes..

Seriously, how hard is it to get dressed.?!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre

This is the internet, the whole point of it is that I can judge everyone about anything when I know nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It entirely depends on how far the shop is away from your home, if it’s round the corner no if you’ve had to drive to it or get a bus then yeah I’d judges bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd judge you as lazy and with no self respect.

Thankfully the supermarkets ban lazy women(its never men) round here from entering in jamas

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If any of my friends started going to the shop in their pyjamas I would be genuinely worried because its not normal "for them". I'd be concerned that they were depressed and would have a chat with them. I know that for lots of people pyjamas are viewed as casual clothes rather than sleep wear so nipping out to the shops in them is no big deal.

I did see a woman on a shop near here in pyjamas, dressing gown and slippers recently. I really can't see the point in slippers if you're going to wear them outside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Manchester there are a lot of lazy people they will just literally go to the shops in the pyjamas and think have you even had a wash this morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done this before but it was at Uni, in a onesie and I was ludicrously hungover. Would I judge? Maybe. I don’t know, depends on where they’ve come from, time of day etc.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I judge people who wear pyjamas full stop

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

Sorry to say it but yes

I see it as lazy but that’s just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it. Well it was a pizza place, in the evening, so not a shop, but still

think everyone liked my silky pink pyjamas

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

its getting more common. i often do it

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

I wish i could pyjamas and night dresses are my favourite clothes

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

Not if it's the local shop on the corner

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

It’s an everyday occurrence around here

Defenitly i need to move to where you live

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

As long as they wouldn't me for doing so in my dressing gown.

My twenty year old dressing gown. With the holes in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if it has holes in it but it would mostly depends on what you are buying

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Walking to the shops in their pyjamas?

Yep... and reached an age where I’m quite comfortable that I hold the view going shopping in pyjamas is just plain chavvy.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"is it an unforgiveable sin? "

Not unforgivable, we just won't let you forget it

Given how quickly fashion changes, and how slow I am to follow it, there's a good chance I wouldn't even realise they were pyjamas.

I'm not going to the shops in what I usually wear to bed though.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes.

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