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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently I was chatting with someone and she said that she would like to chat again, so great I thought and I just went to text her again only to find that I've been blocked And I have also noticed that I have been blocked by forums users who I haven't chatted with.

I just can't get my head around the reasoning why women are hitting the block button.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I wouldn’t worry about it... there are lots of reasons for it.

* some people change their mind

* some people use it as a filter

* some people are not who they say they are

* some people are just mean

Etc.

Move past it and don’t dwell... won’t change anything. Find someone new to chat to and repeat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t worry about it... there are lots of reasons for it.

* some people change their mind

* some people use it as a filter

* some people are not who they say they are

* some people are just mean

Etc.

Move past it and don’t dwell... won’t change anything. Find someone new to chat to and repeat.

"

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Because they can...no reason needed! Move on, there are others out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i noticed a woman blocked me on the forums today, never see her before so no idea why.

I block mainly because I hate getting abuse back once I've said no thankyou. I dont like doing it though x

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

I block

If someone is rude

If someone repeat messages 3,4,5,6 times with me not replying

If they are saying something i particular dislike

If they live too close

If i recognise them

Etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they can...no reason needed! Move on, there are others out there."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never use to be a blocker...

But now I find if a guy constantly keeps messaging me, after I've politely said "No thank you"... He's blocked.

And anyone that has asked me to meet for sex during lockdown... Blocked

Other than that I'm nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it’s not 28,000 odd Fabbers blocking you, I wouldn’t worry too much about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they can...no reason needed! Move on, there are others out there.

This "

Would be nice to know the reason though

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We are very lucky that the vast majority of our messages are polite with the odd bit of ‘trying their luck - cheekiness’. However, there are always the odd few that ruin it for everyone, as they either won’t take no for an answer and keep messaging or they’ll make a rude remark that isn’t warranted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as it’s not 28,000 odd Fabbers blocking you, I wouldn’t worry too much about it "

But only around 10 of them are females

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Because we can. I use the block button all the time. Saves those profiles im not interested in from keep popping up in searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny story. Last year I was looking for a female only social, just for friendship, and posted a thread about it. Another user, female, said there was a thread already in South East forum and I should jump on that, which I did.

Long story short I followed the thread, added my interest, tried to message the lady of the couple who was organising this event and found I was blocked.

Never spoke to this couple.

Never met this couple.

I added a comment on the thread about wanting to find out more about the event but couldn't as I was blocked, very tongue in cheek, very sarcastic (which doesn't come across via text I know) and said basically everyone enjoy the event and peace out.

The couple then replied to my comment saying I should still attend the event, giving others permission to tell me where it was etc, to which I told them, very politely of course, that I would rather 'sh*it on my hands and clap'

People are weird but that's our right as people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh it happens a lot on here, just shrug your shoulders and move on. It happened to me a few weeks ago, I got a wink from a female, so I messaged to say hi.. She blocked me.

Fab unfortunately has many 'less than fab' people on it. Thick skin is required.

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

lately the new profiles, they joined because of the virus and think we are whores.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if someone messages me privately from a post i made on a thread

Or if someone has messaged me more than once after telling them I'm not interested

Or if they are being a dick in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only used the block button once. Probably been blocked many more

Way it is. I try not to be offensive. Just don't have a filter fitted at birth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they can...no reason needed! Move on, there are others out there.

This

Would be nice to know the reason though "

I sometimes block for no reason at all

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No idea why she blocked you op

I block pests or those who ask to meet at the moment or some on my updates due the statuses they post.

I have been blocked on forum, maybe they didnt like the look of me or thought we wouldn't get on etc.

Try not to dwell on it, I'm sure we have all been blocked at one time or another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they can...no reason needed! Move on, there are others out there.

This

Would be nice to know the reason though

I sometimes block for no reason at all"

Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Love it!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Women, and everyone else, block for all sorts of reasons.

I only block if they are rude, persistent or say things I am uncomfortable with in their message.

Have very few problems, so a small block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted briefly to a guy on here and it was fine then a few days later he posted a series of frankly vile statuses that really put him in a new light for me... so I blocked him to save him the effort of potentially offending me in person. Not to say that the OP may have done such a thing but that's my example of why.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I had a nice message from a guy earlier so I replied ‘ Thank you’ he then asked if we could chat ‘ No thank you’ The last message said ‘ I want to wank over you’ ..... BLOCK!

Know when to stop! *palm face emoji *

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I had a nice message from a guy earlier so I replied ‘ Thank you’ he then asked if we could chat ‘ No thank you’ The last message said ‘ I want to wank over you’ ..... BLOCK!

Know when to stop! *palm face emoji * "

I’m still deeply hurt over that m’lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can is the only answer. And someme strange folk do occasionally do it in a vain and slightly backwards attempt to bully or for attention or to passively aggressively let you know they don't like you. Regardless of motive, IGNORE AND MOVE ON is indeed the only advice.... ...don't let the shit drag you down, be yourself and let others be themselves too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they can is the only answer. And someme strange folk do occasionally do it in a vain and slightly backwards attempt to bully or for attention or to passively aggressively let you know they don't like you. Regardless of motive, IGNORE AND MOVE ON is indeed the only advice.... ...don't let the shit drag you down, be yourself and let others be themselves too.... "

Some*

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I had a nice message from a guy earlier so I replied ‘ Thank you’ he then asked if we could chat ‘ No thank you’ The last message said ‘ I want to wank over you’ ..... BLOCK!

Know when to stop! *palm face emoji *

I’m still deeply hurt over that m’lady "

Lol I haven’t blocked you

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