FabSwingers.com forum: Guys what do you want?

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ohh keeping an eye on this one....

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

One to follow me thinks

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm very happy with what I have. No lack of sex or offer on hand. Fabulous people I call friends I share experiences with. Intriguing people i'm getting to know more with time. Exciting prospects and plans to experience as soon as the situation permits.

Yep. I'm happy and I want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

Oh, it's WANT not expect....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

Haha the only man who got what he wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know when i actually know myself.

For now it's just fun banter with friendly people.

Like to be entertained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

Haha the only man who got what he wanted

In between the disappointment and drama I actually did get what I want....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A million pounds and a mansion would be nice.. But I would settle for meeting up with someone who I can click with and call a friend for for nights out and sex.

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

This is a good thread. Ive recently come back after 2 years and to be honest i kind of missed it. For me it’s good to meet people from all sorts of different backgrounds. Its a place where people get what they are looking for, somewhere where you get to be a part of something couples wanted in their marriages relationships etc to get stronger. Obviously i dont miss the arrogancy and shocking messages ive heard you ladies get on here

But all in all its somewhere to make new friends and that are on the same wavelength as you..

G xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Definitely an interesting thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this....

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

Haha the only man who got what he wanted

In between the disappointment and drama I actually did get what I want....

Which was??

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By *ewsub4dommeMan
over a year ago

thirsk

Not really sure tbh

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

Haha the only man who got what he wanted

In between the disappointment and drama I actually did get what I want....

Nippy can you please answer the thread question.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I'm very happy with what I have. No lack of sex or offer on hand. Fabulous people I call friends I share experiences with. Intriguing people i'm getting to know more with time. Exciting prospects and plans to experience as soon as the situation permits.

Yep. I'm happy and I want more

Pretty much this , happy with the numbers of singles and couples we meet, occasional nsa hookups but mostly getting to know people first

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

I'm here for the forums and insight into human behaviour x

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I want to talk with people who share similar views and dick about on the forum.

Don't expect anything else here, I'm good with that.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Meet a nice woman who has a great soh is chatty, friendly with a cheeky smile.

Get to know them during lockdown and become fab friends

Social, chat and giggle when it's allowed.

Steamy fun sex if we click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came here to chat to new and interesting people, it's been a good experience so far. More chill and chatting than madcap hanky-panky

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

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By *ickyxxx69Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Contact and chat with the aim 9f meets and sex plus online play in the build up. Need to have a connection first then tease with play before meeting. The main aim on here is sex right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's meeting people with a similar mindset to me and sharing experiences. And to keep in touch with people I've met at the clubs etc! Sort of like a kinky Facebook I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely an interesting thread....

Not like you to be on the forums, loving the new pic BTW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It changes, originally it was an escape, a fantasy. It turned to an ego boost, then a way to meet like minded women for sex, then more.

More recently? I’m only here for the craic and the perv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking for the insight x

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Contact and chat with the aim 9f meets and sex plus online play in the build up. Need to have a connection first then tease with play before meeting. The main aim on here is sex right? "

I asked you guys what you want. Not for you to ask me what the site is about.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person. "

Please what is ONS?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

I’d like to be judged by people who don’t know me ... is that asking too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

Please what is ONS? "

One night stand?

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

Please what is ONS? "

One Night Stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the social side is just as great as the sexual side. Love chatting to and meeting new ladies and couples.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

Please what is ONS? "

One night stand I believe

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I wouldn’t mind finding a few fwb’s tbh.. but they are as rare as rocking horse poo

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

Chat and meet a lady...with an intention to sleep with them....while being under no obligation to be strictly loyal to them...

Not all women are here for sex..some dont even social meet...

And some dont even reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to be judged by people who don’t know me ... is that asking too much

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

Chat and meet a lady...with an intention to sleep with them....while being under no obligation to be strictly loyal to them...

Not all women are here for sex..some dont even social meet...

And some dont even reply"

This thread isn’t about complaining that women won’t meet or reply. I’m asking what guys want. This thread could go in a lot of guys favour if you don’t act entitled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

Please what is ONS? "

I'd much prefer a matching pair of night stands personally.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

Please what is ONS?

One night stand I believe "

ONS is a very 1980s term ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking for a local fwb. But to be honest, just on for the forums now

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

Please what is ONS?

I'd much prefer a matching pair of night stands personally. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chats meets and laughter with like minded people... And hopefully finding a someone who will let me pinch her booty.. Often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Mostly just perving and jumping on the forums until this all blows over. Then I will try my luck with a select few...

Not interested in quantity at all, in an ideal world it would be nice to couple up with someone.

Seems hard to find that on here but some have managed it, so there is hope

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

I’m here just to enjoy different levels of connections.

Some I’ll build rapport and a connection with, with a view to meet.

Others I’ll build connections for a laugh, to joke around with.

I won’t stress if the connections don’t lead to sex and I won’t stress if I leave with no friends.

It’s a place I can dip in and out of and still enjoy the real world.

I have no expectations of this site at all but it’ll be fun to just enjoy the ride

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Definitely an interesting thread....

Not like you to be on the forums, loving the new pic BTW

Where have you been? I've been all over the place recently....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the minute I'm leaving the odd comment on the forum and sending the odd message to local women with a view to meeting. After Covid I would like more of the same plus some knee trembling sex

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

Chat and meet a lady...with an intention to sleep with them....while being under no obligation to be strictly loyal to them...

Not all women are here for sex..some dont even social meet...

And some dont even reply

This thread isn’t about complaining that women won’t meet or reply. I’m asking what guys want. This thread could go in a lot of guys favour if you don’t act entitled. "

Where am I "entitled"

I didnt complain...I made an observation....some ladies dont meet...they are happy to chat online

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

"Right now - FWB, but i will take ONS if it's on offer.

That said, i have dated on a couple of occasions from people i've met on Hook up sites in the past, so it can often depend on how well i connect with the other person.

Please what is ONS?

One night stand I believe

ONS is a very 1980s term ! Lol "

Well i'm getting old!, i think the younger crowd call it Netflix and Chill these days.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

Chat and meet a lady...with an intention to sleep with them....while being under no obligation to be strictly loyal to them...

Not all women are here for sex..some dont even social meet...

And some dont even reply

This thread isn’t about complaining that women won’t meet or reply. I’m asking what guys want. This thread could go in a lot of guys favour if you don’t act entitled.

Where am I "entitled"

I didnt complain...I made an observation....some ladies dont meet...they are happy to chat online"

Again you’re straying from the thread topic. The topic is about what guys want from Fab.

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By *ea wangMan
over a year ago

scunthorpe

someone willing to meet regular who doesnt want to be in a relationship but happy to go out for drinks or couple up for couple meets

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

Chat and meet a lady...with an intention to sleep with them....while being under no obligation to be strictly loyal to them...

Not all women are here for sex..some dont even social meet...

And some dont even reply

This thread isn’t about complaining that women won’t meet or reply. I’m asking what guys want. This thread could go in a lot of guys favour if you don’t act entitled.

Where am I "entitled"

I didnt complain...I made an observation....some ladies dont meet...they are happy to chat online

Again you’re straying from the thread topic. The topic is about what guys want from Fab. "

Yes I am

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Really? We want to meet people and have sex with them! Men are simple. Now if you ladies can explain yourselves....

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Really? We want to meet people and have sex with them! Men are simple. Now if you ladies can explain yourselves...."

Again the thread is about what you guys want so us ladies know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally, FWB in the first instance, with the understanding that we let the relationship develop as it sees fit, wether it go no further than that or terms into something a bit more.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I thought it was a protest chant

Guys what do you want?

Sex

When do you want it ?

Now

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I thought it was a protest chant

Guys what do you want?

Sex

When do you want it ?

Now

Sounds about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixed and varied collection of people..chat is unbound by taboo or completely out of the box...occassionally we may meet the odd one...I just love it and cuddlemonkey enjoys discussion of some threads etc. Fab works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting .....

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Build a good friendship. I like to think I've done that here. Anything else is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reliable fuck buddy, someone who will come to clubs with me. Someone I enjoy talking to with a personality. But also the right level of sluttiness in bed

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Here to maybe make some friends which may lead to benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like pretty girls. I'm a man of simple tastes.

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By *he Original SpartanMan
over a year ago

Daventry

Quite a good thread...

Well from my side, I’m not looking for a life partner. I prefer to meet and socialize at clubs, as I feel that these are safe for all and if either party doesn’t click with the other, then fine no problem. Easyier for her to walkaway... and of course myself!

Enjoy the banter and chats with varied people, females, couples and males. Of course if it leads to play, then great but no issues if not.

I’d also like to meet a couple for private fun, but as there are quite a number of males on here, that will be quite difficult.

Quite simply, mutual fun with respect for all.

.......Shouldn’t be on this site should I??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a chat a laugh get to know people meet up coffee chat and sure if there a spark perhaps more and perhaps not if not sure can still enjoy a chat....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I want (what every man wants?)

Is a Woman or (many) Women to make me feel wanted, needed, and super sexy fine, in exchange for providing that woman with amazing multiple orgasms ...

... even if they role play a little!

Oh and lot's of practice along the way

practice at chatting up ( my patter sucks most days! )

practice at photos

practice at socials

practice at edging women

practice, practice, practice

... && then once I have been trained by FaB to Jedi Kama Sutra level ... I'm going to join a proper dating site like PoF ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different men will want different things.

We aren't just cock for the ladies amusement after all.

I'm looking to find women who are open about sexual desires to hopefully reduce wasted time dating more prudish people who are lovely but don't satisfy in certain ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess every man is going to have an individual answer, just the same as every lady, TV, couple etc?

For me,Fab was curiosity and once those unrealistic expectations of sex on tap with faceless naked profiles had become grounded, I realised I enjoyed encounters and engaging with all sorts of folk. Its no different to normal life aside from the fact theres less chance of awkwardness. It can become tedious though, so expect very little and enjoy the unexpected highs and surprises...they still happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection, banter, attention to detail, beautiful but not necessarily physically, beauty is more than just the outside.

A nice person but a filthy whore when the time calls.

Someone you can laugh with and have great sex would be the ultimate aim, and someone that's not 200 miles always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to get to know someone, make a connection with the aim of meeting when it's safe to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined because I enjoyed group sex, threesomes and more some sand wanted to experience more. I’ve had one threesome in 10 years but/discovered the forum. I’m only really here for that now, I doubt I’ll meet anyone else after the pandemic.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Someone I connect with.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In a nutshell, I expect nothing and am open to most things with the right person(s) and circumstance.

I enjoy getting to know people regardless of gender, if that then builds a connection and chemistry that leads to something more then wonderful, if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be anything more.

It really is that simple for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty just someone to talk to, nothing sexual just someone who I get on with who I can chat till stupid o’clock in the morning with about absolutely any old thing without any problems. Obviously if there is some fun then that’s an added bonus.

Plus I like writing stories so this is a good place to write them and get pretty instant feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I want (what every man wants?)

Is a Woman or (many) Women to make me feel wanted, needed, and super sexy fine, in exchange for providing that woman with amazing multiple orgasms ...

... even if they role play a little!

Oh and lot's of practice along the way

practice at chatting up ( my patter sucks most days! )

practice at photos

practice at socials

practice at edging women

practice, practice, practice

... && then once I have been trained by FaB to Jedi Kama Sutra level ... I'm going to join a proper dating site like PoF ...

I met a guy like this recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty just someone to talk to, nothing sexual just someone who I get on with who I can chat till stupid o’clock in the morning with about absolutely any old thing without any problems. Obviously if there is some fun then that’s an added bonus.

Plus I like writing stories so this is a good place to write them and get pretty instant feedback"

I want this too!

Bloody hard to find though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy like this recently

He's a very lucky guy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% on here want a fuck and chuck.

Despite all the woeful cliche ridden veries the guys dont give a toss about who they've just poked.

I just come on here to laugh at how "amazing" this is.

It makes me feel fortunate I'm not living a desperate narcissistic life that just about everyone on here does.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

You get out what you put in, I've got exactly what I want from here.

Make the effort on meets and you'll be rewarded with great friends and with the added bonus of sex too.

I'm happy to have non rushed meets, music and drinks in a relaxed atmosphere. More often than not I'll cook us something too, over nights make the perfect evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that lives local for regular fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

Basically get my cock sucked and suck off some cock as and when I feel the urge

Never had any problems in the 12 years or so I've been on here.

In between the need for oral sex I enjoy the forms too

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I'd like to connect with a nice woman who has an interest in more than just my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came here because I thought I might get some sex this was before I knew about the actual purpose of this website.

Now I realise sex isn't going to happen I just haven't bothered deleting my account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I’ve got more out of this place than I was originally expecting.

When I first came here I had some great times in Chat; cammed with people which I’d never thought I’d do. Then I moved to the Forums which I’ve found really engaging.

As for more personal interaction, then yes.....sex is the objective. Not that it should be as cold or emotionless as that probably sounds, but I’m married and I’m not looking for a deep emotional connection. A connection that brings fun, enjoyment, laughter and physical attraction in the moment, of course; more than that no, and not just because of my relationship status.

My ‘rules of play’ agreed with my wife are that I don’t do anything that’s like a date....so I won’t be going for drinks or a meal with someone one-on-one or any form of non-group social. If you can’t get to know me sufficiently here, possibly with a quick ‘check you’re real’ meet on the day, then it’s unlikely we’ll go further.

That said, getting the time for a meet is likely to take some notable planning around family commitments, so the last thing I would want is a meet to be a 15 minute ‘splash-and-dash’.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I like to read the forum, and occasionally jump in to a thread if have something to say. And it's handy to have an account to keep in touch with people I meet at the club (although with most of the ones I stay in contact with, that contact tends to migrate to more convenient places).

There are a few people who catch my attention and I wouldn't mind meeting, but until I get around to putting more than zero effort into my profile, I'm not going to make any approaches.

The club kept me happy until the world turned upside down, and until normality returns no one's going to be meeting anyway. So I'll just keep reading the forum, occasionally dropping in, and having a perve of a few profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

Haha the only man who got what he wanted

In between the disappointment and drama I actually did get what I want....

Which was??"

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, disappointment and drama....

Haha the only man who got what he wanted

In between the disappointment and drama I actually did get what I want....

Nippy can you please answer the thread question.

A ) nothing

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By *uniorendowedMan
over a year ago

London Derbyshire

Everything and nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, this is a great thread for a woman to read. It's showing to me there are some guys who are on here for more than just ONS (yes I'm from the 80s lol) and actually have a personality.

Thanks to those that have posted. From Me xxx

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I'm here to chat to like minded individuals and make connections, wether that be friendships or something further.

The pay off of making those connections can be (but not always is) sex. So yeah, thats a secondary objective.

Covid has made more active on the forums though, definitely.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The appeal of having no-strings sex with open-minded women got me on the site. I stayed on it because I met some lovely and interesting people.

Now with lockdown on the go it's definitely more of a distraction than anything else. Something to while away the flat-bound hours... and conquer the boredom of working from home. Been using the forum much more, and barely looked at finding people in my area. I guess that might change when things ease up, but maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly do you want from Fab?

I joined Fab to be amongst, chat with and hopefully meet people with similar interests to myself and not have to hide those interests.

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

No. My expectations (from experience of other sites) are the same as they are for any dating/pairing website. There are those I might click with, those I might not. There are those who are genuine and those who are not but we are all individuals who have our own tastes and needs.

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Ok. In all honesty I firstly have to find someone interesting and stimulating. For me it all starts in the mind. An interesting profile, list of interests or even a posed picture. I will check that I'm within the limits of who they are looking for and if I am then I send a message (usually a poor one that doesn't get read. I understand why I'm not complaining) and wait for a reply.

From there in a world that doesn't exist I would like a mixture of one off liaisons and more stable friendships that build over time.

I love last minute impulsive meets and they can be wonderful but there are some types of meet that need to be worked towards by both parties in order to build an understanding and a trust.

I like to exchange messages and ideas and I like to get to know people and understand them so yes I like to build a rapport. From there I never say never, I'm not looking for a relationship but who knows what might happen?

Hope this is honest enough and I'll get my coat lol.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"99.9% on here want a fuck and chuck.

Despite all the woeful cliche ridden veries the guys dont give a toss about who they've just poked.

I just come on here to laugh at how "amazing" this is.

It makes me feel fortunate I'm not living a desperate narcissistic life that just about everyone on here does."

You just publically looked down on 99.9% of the users here.

But not narcissistic.

S'a relief then, eh?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

[Removed by poster at 21/06/20 19:14:14]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely an interesting thread....

Not like you to be on the forums, loving the new pic BTW

Where have you been? I've been all over the place recently....

Aw babe I've been doing daddy day stress! I'll come see you as soon as the borders reopen! Call you later xx

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"99.9% on here want a fuck and chuck.

Despite all the woeful cliche ridden veries the guys dont give a toss about who they've just poked.

I just come on here to laugh at how "amazing" this is.

It makes me feel fortunate I'm not living a desperate narcissistic life that just about everyone on here does."

I don’t believe that for one moment , it’s kit my experience or that of the men I know here. Maybe you hang around with the wrong types !

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m looking to meet people who are good company first and foremost. The sex looks after itself if you like spending time with someone.

I’m still friends with a good few of my previous Fab meets. That’s because they were good company. They are doing their own thing in life now but we still meet up for food and a catchup from time to time.

I’ve got a dog walking buddy that lives round the corner and recently been meeting a lovely lady who I’ve shared long walks with.

Favs been very kind to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone funny, intelligent getting and sexy who likes to fuck as much as I do.

Easy, right?

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Fabbers

Guys in particular.

I’m musing again....

What exactly do you want from Fab?

Are your expectations that all women are on here for sex?

Do you want to connect with women first?

Build a rapport?

What?

Be honest?

Obviously with Covid we are not meeting.

I’m just intrigued.

Bhubaysi x

Looking for a partner in crime ,

Someone I can laugh and joke with aswell as rip eachother and have the greatest sex when we want then to watch eachother with other partners no strings best friends is the perfect scenario failing that someone who’ll use me as a booty call when she needs that spot hitting

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"What exactly do you want from Fab?"

In short: Sex.

In long: Sex, with attractive women, who aren't burdened with discredited ideas about monogamy and capital-R Relationships.

"Do you want to connect with women first? Build a rapport? What?"

These are typically necessary steps towards the end goal of having sex.

"Be honest?"

Always. Even when it's to my detriment.

"We aren't just cock for the ladies amusement after all."

I am. I know my place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea and cake that’s all

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Definitely an interesting thread....

Not like you to be on the forums, loving the new pic BTW

Where have you been? I've been all over the place recently....

Aw babe I've been doing daddy day stress! I'll come see you as soon as the borders reopen! Call you later xx"

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Tea and cake that’s all "

I've got those..... But I'll have coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No coffee only tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gratuitous nudity pics please OP

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre

At the moment I'm just chatting bollocks in the forum. Friendships are fine things, that'll do for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nudes, I want nudes in my box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nudes, I want nudes in my box

Where’s your box then? In your cellar?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

lurking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nudes, I want nudes in my box

Where’s your box then? In your cellar?

You know where to send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To show the world of fab that I know how to take pictures of shoes

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Someone funny, intelligent getting and sexy who likes to fuck as much as I do.

Easy, right?"

Totally. Dime a dozen on fab

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We aren't just cock for the ladies amusement after all.

I am. I know my place. "

I’ve honestly not met women who really want that , a few may give that impression, a bit of female bravado or a defence mechanism against emotionally needy men, but most want more than to be amused by a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want this too!

Bloody hard to find though

It’s why I don’t mind talking to people that are miles away from me or who I’m not what they are looking for as there is literally no chance of anything happening unless something amazing happens

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"We aren't just cock for the ladies amusement after all.

I am. I know my place.

I'm not sure I've met any who want *only* that. I have, however, met several who want only that *from me*, because they're getting the other stuff from people better able to provide it.

I have no illusions of, nor aspirations towards, being anyone's first and last and always. I am, however, inordinately well suited to being a reliable extracurricular activity. Sometimes I'm an amusement between partners; sometimes I'm a wife's weekend away from her husband; sometimes I'm helping to make someone's gangbang / DP fantasy a reality. From my point of view, it's what I'm *for*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We aren't just cock for the ladies amusement after all.

I am. I know my place.

I'm not sure I've met any who want *only* that. I have, however, met several who want only that *from me*, because they're getting the other stuff from people better able to provide it.

I find this rather sad so please tell me this is the way you want things to be...

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Been here long enough that I don't have any solid expectations, I just go with the flow.

I enjoy chatting on here with like-minded people.

I like having a laugh, having a perv.

Meets with people I connect with would be a nice bonus though!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I find this rather sad so please tell me this is the way you want things to be...

Oh no, don't be sad! Yes, this is how I want things to be. The closest thing I have to a complaint is that it doesn't happen often enough for my liking!

Women often tell me how disappointing they find it when they discover that someone they thought was their friend only wants them for sex. I have the exact opposite problem; I'm disappointed when someone I thought wanted me for sex only wants me as a friend.

It's a textbook case of the grass always being greener on the other side. We all want the things we don't have, and undervalue the things we do have.

See also: The women on here being sick of the endless deluge of unsolicited messages, the men on here desperately hoping they'll get even one, neither side able to really appreciate what the other is going through.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

What do I want?

Fun, interaction, cheeky flirting, naughty chats. All with the slim possibility of physical contact.

So, not much really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... the ladies equiv’ thread reminded me

The other thing I enjoy / want

... is being an exhibitionist and/or “getting my perv on” ... in a cool environment with like minded fabulous people ... it’s all about the Filth afterall ...

&& I wish more ladies were filthy and flirty first ... (even if they don’t want to meet ... ) ...

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

To kill time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, adventure, kink, exploration, a good laugh, intelligent discussion, undertanding, a lottery win, early retirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting reading!!

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Something to read until the library opens again

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"Something to read until the library opens again

Story sections further down the forum, well worth perusing

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Ideally, a female FB, a male FB and some MF and MM couples as regular meets.

But that's just being greedy. I would be most contented with a woman who was happy with NSA but could be intimate and honest with. I think, I just really crave the feeling of being wanted and appreciated.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Something to read until the library opens again

Story sections further down the forum, well worth perusing

I'm writing a new story about domme pegging if he wants a read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want this too!

Bloody hard to find though

Come chat with me then.. I make a good cuppa dontcha know x

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"Something to read until the library opens again

Story sections further down the forum, well worth perusing

Did I forget to mention the girl with the fire in her eyes adventure in her soul that perfect dream made flesh who wants to spend as much time with me as I do with her....

You may say I'm a dreamer....

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