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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to know the rules of dogging. I've never once been and always wanted to visit a dogging site. I know there will be some clever dicks in this forum posting what they think to be funny replies. Ignored obviously.

Please can someone tell me what are the do's and don'ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people have to be discreet when going dogging

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think the most important rule is stand far enough away to be respectful, don’t go waving your cock around or trying to be handsy as that will just put people’s backs up and they will either turn on you or leave. I used to go with a fwb partner and we had a regular group who would allow us to do our thing and if any new guys overstepped the mark they were soon told off.

Please be aware that most couples are there mainly to exhibit themselves and if they want you to join in they will choose you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate that but how do I know if I'm able to approach them. Do I flash my lights or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree signal or safe word in case 1 of you wants to stop

If watching do not touch unless your invited

If your happy for people to watch flash your inThere headlight if you want watchers to come closer or join in wind down your window

Dont leave your headlights on when you arrive at the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Appreciate that but how do I know if I'm able to approach them. Do I flash my lights or something "

You can flash but don’t leave them on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

God it sounds complex. I only wanna watch close up and dunno what is say to the senior dogger

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"God it sounds complex. I only wanna watch close up and dunno what is say to the senior dogger"

Nothing.

You wait until you are spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God it sounds complex. I only wanna watch close up and dunno what is say to the senior dogger

Nothing.

You wait until you are spoken to."

Senior dogger?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"God it sounds complex. I only wanna watch close up and dunno what is say to the senior dogger

Nothing.

You wait until you are spoken to.

Senior dogger? "

Absolutely not!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!"
. So you shouldn’t get out of the car and walk towards the car park or wood area where some doggers maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!"

This man talks the truth ,just don’t be rude to the senior dogger or you will be black listed among the dogging elite, they will have your car reg written down the moment you drive in anywhere , and if you get lucky enough to get close to a couple playing don’t cum on there car that’s a really bad no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!. So you shouldn’t get out of the car and walk towards the car park or wood area where some doggers maybe."

No , not until you have been invited to by the senior dogger ,they don’t know who you are , when you have been confirmed into the dogging elite you will get to know the hand shake you use to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, I stopped at a dogging site by accident once.

There's one near me in a forest in a place called Penyford.

One of my friends used to live in that forest. One time, I was driving and he phoned me to ask where I was. I pulled over in a lay-by to answer the phone.

After a minute on the phone, I noticed that there were 'weirdos' wandering around in the dark. One of them come out of nowhere and approached my door.

I freaked out and sped off! When I got there, I said to him, what on earth is going on in this forest?!?

He said that there were doggers and that he's phoned the police lots and lots of times. He said it goes on in the day too. He said that a few weeks before, that he was leaving his property and drove down the lane with his kids and saw some guy taking it up the arse on broad daylight. He said that it's difficult to explain when his young children ask about it.

Eughh, I don't know. Lol"

That would be part of the initiation into the dogging elite , seeing how good you can take it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No ta

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Initiation

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!. So you shouldn’t get out of the car and walk towards the car park or wood area where some doggers maybe.

No , not until you have been invited to by the senior dogger ,they don’t know who you are , when you have been confirmed into the dogging elite you will get to know the hand shake you use to join in "
. Thanks for the advice Skybluearmy If I saw a guy walking towards my car I may have been tempted to just drive off as I would have thought they may have bad intentions with regards to cause me harm.So I should wait to confirm he is the senior dogger and hope to be invited to see what goes on.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Don't be the dick that drives round the car park with full beam on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!. So you shouldn’t get out of the car and walk towards the car park or wood area where some doggers maybe.

No , not until you have been invited to by the senior dogger ,they don’t know who you are , when you have been confirmed into the dogging elite you will get to know the hand shake you use to join in . Thanks for the advice Skybluearmy If I saw a guy walking towards my car I may have been tempted to just drive off as I would have thought they may have bad intentions with regards to cause me harm.So I should wait to confirm he is the senior dogger and hope to be invited to see what goes on."

If he is the senior dogger he will be more than likely wearing an animal mask , pigs are the favourite for most senior doggers , you could buy one from amazon or eBay , this will show the senior dogger you know about the scene and are ok to follow the rules and get Introduced to the initiation (see above ) I would practice with lube and a dildo , it will hurt the first time

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By *rucker1111Man
over a year ago

crewe

Senior dogger lolled a grip

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Scope out the place first and don't go expecting to get action. Learn by observation though don't scare others away, who could assume that you are plain clothing or a journalist.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!. So you shouldn’t get out of the car and walk towards the car park or wood area where some doggers maybe.

No , not until you have been invited to by the senior dogger ,they don’t know who you are , when you have been confirmed into the dogging elite you will get to know the hand shake you use to join in . Thanks for the advice Skybluearmy If I saw a guy walking towards my car I may have been tempted to just drive off as I would have thought they may have bad intentions with regards to cause me harm.So I should wait to confirm he is the senior dogger and hope to be invited to see what goes on.

If he is the senior dogger he will be more than likely wearing an animal mask , pigs are the favourite for most senior doggers , you could buy one from amazon or eBay , this will show the senior dogger you know about the scene and are ok to follow the rules and get Introduced to the initiation (see above ) I would practice with lube and a dildo , it will hurt the first time "
. So I need a animal mask and the majority of senior doggers wear a pig face mask.As for the initiation been straight guy I am guessing there is a different form of initiation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!. So you shouldn’t get out of the car and walk towards the car park or wood area where some doggers maybe.

No , not until you have been invited to by the senior dogger ,they don’t know who you are , when you have been confirmed into the dogging elite you will get to know the hand shake you use to join in . Thanks for the advice Skybluearmy If I saw a guy walking towards my car I may have been tempted to just drive off as I would have thought they may have bad intentions with regards to cause me harm.So I should wait to confirm he is the senior dogger and hope to be invited to see what goes on.

If he is the senior dogger he will be more than likely wearing an animal mask , pigs are the favourite for most senior doggers , you could buy one from amazon or eBay , this will show the senior dogger you know about the scene and are ok to follow the rules and get Introduced to the initiation (see above ) I would practice with lube and a dildo , it will hurt the first time . So I need a animal mask and the majority of senior doggers wear a pig face mask.As for the initiation been straight guy I am guessing there is a different form of initiation "

Are you straight or fab straight? They will soon find out

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By *slite1Man
over a year ago

ludgershall

Been dogging for 10 years or more, been to all the top sites in the south never once seen a senior dogger. Always been lucky and been able to join in or watch a full show. All I can say is be cautious don't rush to join in wait till invited by who ever is playing. As you start going more regular you will pick up the eticate

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Pull in to a car park with your side lights only (slowly, don't run over any doggers!) and turn them off when you park.

If you just want to watch, keep your lights off, if you want to play then turn your interior light on. If you want to receive (male or female) then blink your interior light once every 30 seconds until someone approaches.

DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR UNLESS ASKED TO by a senior dogger. You will know by looking because they wear dark brown raincoats. Very distinctive, you'll know if you see one. Wind down your window and they will ask what you are interested in. Do not respond directly (they will know you're an amateur and leave again) - refer to it with euphemisms like "A-levels" or "group owo". They will then leave.

It's then a waiting game - if you are matched with another dogger (or doggers) then you will see them blink their brake lights - that's the sign to approach. No small talk! Engage in what you said you would, then leave again.

Final word - don't get blacklisted. Senior doggers share a list of number plates - if you get on one then they will not approach, and the dogging spot will appear deserted. Over time you will come to believe the whole scene is dead, and senior doggers will perpetuate this myth to keep the scene elite. You may already be on one of these lists (e.g. by accidentally pulling into a dogging spot while looking for a place to wee on a long journey, full beams on and radio blaring) and there's practically no way of getting off them. Sorry!

Happy dogging!. So you shouldn’t get out of the car and walk towards the car park or wood area where some doggers maybe.

No , not until you have been invited to by the senior dogger ,they don’t know who you are , when you have been confirmed into the dogging elite you will get to know the hand shake you use to join in . Thanks for the advice Skybluearmy If I saw a guy walking towards my car I may have been tempted to just drive off as I would have thought they may have bad intentions with regards to cause me harm.So I should wait to confirm he is the senior dogger and hope to be invited to see what goes on.

If he is the senior dogger he will be more than likely wearing an animal mask , pigs are the favourite for most senior doggers , you could buy one from amazon or eBay , this will show the senior dogger you know about the scene and are ok to follow the rules and get Introduced to the initiation (see above ) I would practice with lube and a dildo , it will hurt the first time . So I need a animal mask and the majority of senior doggers wear a pig face mask.As for the initiation been straight guy I am guessing there is a different form of initiation

Are you straight or fab straight? They will soon find out "
. I am straight but going but the amount of messages and winks I have received from bi , gay and tv / ts I get the feeling that if I turn up to a dogging site and it’s full of guys that are bi , gay or tv / ts I may find myself in a situation beyond my control.I think it’s best that perhaps I avoid dogging and stick to what I know clubs and spa where at least I can control the situation or inform management if I feel I am been harassed.

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By *tockton GentMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"If he is the senior dogger he will be more than likely wearing an animal mask , pigs are the favourite for most senior doggers , you could buy one from amazon or eBay , this will show the senior dogger you know about the scene and are ok to follow the rules and get Introduced to the initiation (see above ) I would practice with lube and a dildo , it will hurt the first time "

This is hilarious. But obviously its a serious business in the West Midlands

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm happy to watch and maybe slip a finger or two in but no sex.

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