FabSwingers.com forum: Who looks at you?

By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I know men outweigh women on this site by a factor of ten, but I seem to get an inordinate amount of men looking at my profile. If you are a straight man and you look at other guys profiles. May I ask why? I am just curious as of today I have purposefully looked at one mans profile, and that was of a direct result of reading his thread “Shit Profile”. I am just curious to know why blokes look at blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it in revenge for them looking at mine.

Could be to compare, text and picture ideas.

Or to see their verifications and friends lists to see which females are active locally.

I'm sure each guy has their own reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be surprised to find that not all straight men on here are straight

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I never check who looks at me, I did when I first joined on here, but as it only show the most recent 100 and I had lots more views I didn't see the point tbh

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'm guessing they all have different reasons.

They think they know you, have worked with you, looking at which girl you met if you have veris, compare profiles for ideas if your succesful, gaydar has gone off, want to f.ck or be f.cked by you, they're fab straight, the sun doing an article on swinging etc etc it could be 101 different reasons.

If you don't like it use your filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look .... I like to see if someone is stalking me

Of course - only if they’re not in stealth mode

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By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I never check who looks at me, I did when I first joined on here, but as it only show the most recent 100 and I had lots more views I didn't see the point tbh"
well at best I get two or three a day so it’s not a hardship to check who is looking. I don’t mind but I was just curious because it never occurred to me to look at men. I like women so I look at women lol.

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By *entish_HeathenMan
over a year ago

Chatham

There's a few guys that vist my profile at least once a week, they've never left a message though.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I (Mr) look to see if there’s such a thing as a guy with a good profile who can’t get a meeting. Not found one yet.

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By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I (Mr) look to see if there’s such a thing as a guy with a good profile who can’t get a meeting. Not found one yet. "
How would you define good? I mean there are obviously red flags that will stop 90% of ladies going any further (the ubiquitous cock profile shot being one). But isn’t good a subjective thing? This is a genuine question not a facile remark.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"I (Mr) look to see if there’s such a thing as a guy with a good profile who can’t get a meeting. Not found one yet. How would you define good? I mean there are obviously red flags that will stop 90% of ladies going any further (the ubiquitous cock profile shot being one). But isn’t good a subjective thing? This is a genuine question not a facile remark."

I forget the names, but there’s a few good ones, the guy in Gateshead comes to mind. Good might be subjective, can’t be all things to all people etc., but “effort” is measurable.

“Effort” to go outside and use the timer on their phone for pics, then apply a filter or two.

“Effort” to describe themselves in terms other than “open minded”

“Effort” to describe their ideal meet etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think people are just nosey and wanna see the competition or get tips of how to improve their profiles. Or even chat to the women that the guy already sagged knowing that women more likely not to be fake and willing to meet? Just a guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't show up as they are blocked. Get plenty of fabs off them.

Mostly women, odd couple and tv/ts.

Only time I look at dudes is on profile advice threads and looking through ladies veris to see what sort of guys she likes

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Just looked. My last 40 views been men and couples. A few women and tv/ts view me occasionally

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Men don't show up as they are blocked. Get plenty of fabs off them.

Mostly women, odd couple and tv/ts.

Only time I look at dudes is on profile advice threads and looking through ladies veris to see what sort of guys she likes

Oh I do that too. If the guy has verifications I find off putting, I won't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% blokes viewing mine. Maybe 2% women.

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

"95% blokes viewing mine. Maybe 2% women. "

Yeah, same.

In the last 24 hours 52 people have looked at my profile.

4 couples

2 females

46 men

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m chatting to a guy and interested in meeting him I would look at his veris and the the veris he had given and to look at the the women he had met

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By *ngels_DemonsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We get the very rare female looking at our profile. On a side note we had over 600 views yesterday and only 2 messages and 15 fabs, so why do people view and not say or do anything? Also most of those were watching our cam and no verifications but some people get verified without even showing themselves that much.......hmmm the strange world of fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show people the fact I view their profile... I've had 699 people look at me today and they're primarily men xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many views so I'm curious to see who has looked at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a guess, I'd say because you're not looking for guys.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I got over 200 views for the first time yesterday off the back of a boing video I uploaded. A good 90% were men or T/V, 5% couples and 5% women.

As women ninja perve for the most part, i'll let the assumption that loads looked in stealth take hold to make me feel better

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By *ungislanderMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

I look If they look at me or send a message. And it’s scary of how meany say they’re straight but with what that say in messages there not. I just politely say I’m straight and no thank you. I know you can block them but I will take it as a compliment haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes look at the veris of those woman and couples I am interested in, to see what (type) they like ...

... and also to get tips for improving my own profile.

I usually go into stealth mode to do this though - so as not to give wrong idea ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly men and couples. 29 have looked so far today, 23 being single men and most of which wouldn't get through my filters anyway. I think the other six were one TV, two women and four couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mainly men and couples. 29 have looked so far today, 23 being single men and most of which wouldn't get through my filters anyway. I think the other six were one TV, two women and four couples."

Three couples

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

"Sometimes look at the veris of those woman and couples I am interested in, to see what (type) they like ...

... and also to get tips for improving my own profile.

I usually go into stealth mode to do this though - so as not to give wrong idea ...

Mad to me that even viewing a males profile might give the wrong idea.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Men

Other Tgirls

Couples

Women (1/2 a week)

I view in stealth and if you’re straight I’m not interested, so don’t worry guys I’m not interested, unless you show your interest first.

These threads always make me smile, you’re on a site in which one of the main selling points is it’s for casual meets for sex. Then shocked to find out some guys will literally stick their dicks in anything warm.

Stop being naive and clutching your pearls, when gosh wow Men look at you

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I got over 200 views for the first time yesterday off the back of a boing video I uploaded. A good 90% were men or T/V, 5% couples and 5% women.

As women ninja perve for the most part, i'll let the assumption that loads looked in stealth take hold to make me feel better

I can't be bothered to go stealth mode... Sadly I didn't watch your video.. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a cheat code that allows me to see everyone that views my profile.

Nearly all forum dwellers use stealth and think nobody knows just how much they look at certain profiles.

The sheer volume of views from the regular forum girls and one ‘straight’ guy has really shocked me.

So much so I hid all my pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes look at the veris of those woman and couples I am interested in, to see what (type) they like ...

... and also to get tips for improving my own profile.

I usually go into stealth mode to do this though - so as not to give wrong idea ...

Mad to me that even viewing a males profile might give the wrong idea.

Before discovering stealth mode - I got blocked a couple of times ... !!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I got over 200 views for the first time yesterday off the back of a boing video I uploaded. A good 90% were men or T/V, 5% couples and 5% women.

As women ninja perve for the most part, i'll let the assumption that loads looked in stealth take hold to make me feel better

I can't be bothered to go stealth mode... Sadly I didn't watch your video.. Sorry

Made men's page 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found a cheat code that allows me to see everyone that views my profile.

Nearly all forum dwellers use stealth and think nobody knows just how much they look at certain profiles.

The sheer volume of views from the regular forum girls and one ‘straight’ guy has really shocked me.

So much so I hid all my pictures

Fuck

Caught red handed

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

If someone has a good profile pic I look to see what the other pics are like.

I enjoy taking pics and so I appreciate the effort some guys go to.

It’s never for ideas as I don’t like to recreate a pic that’s been done..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my views are usually guys, i don't let it bother me. Sometimes look back at them to compare profiles if they appear popular.

I drop in and out of stealth mode depending who I'm viewing. Sometimes you want people to know you've been peeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few guys viewing. It doesn't bother me.

I don't look often but I do enjoy photography so I look at creative and well taken pictures sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found a cheat code that allows me to see everyone that views my profile.

Nearly all forum dwellers use stealth and think nobody knows just how much they look at certain profiles.

The sheer volume of views from the regular forum girls and one ‘straight’ guy has really shocked me.

So much so I hid all my pictures

A cheat code?

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

where is stealth mode?

I can't find it anywhere.

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By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"We get the very rare female looking at our profile. On a side note we had over 600 views yesterday and only 2 messages and 15 fabs, so why do people view and not say or do anything? Also most of those were watching our cam and no verifications but some people get verified without even showing themselves that much.......hmmm the strange world of fab x "
I will look at profiles all the time sometimes I like the pics, sometimes because the tag line catches my attention. I think hard before sending a message though as I realise a lot of people believe messages are just spam and they are deleted without even being read. It is a bit of a minefield as even when you match a persons written specs, you are stil just cast off.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"We get the very rare female looking at our profile. On a side note we had over 600 views yesterday and only 2 messages and 15 fabs, so why do people view and not say or do anything? Also most of those were watching our cam and no verifications but some people get verified without even showing themselves that much.......hmmm the strange world of fab x I will look at profiles all the time sometimes I like the pics, sometimes because the tag line catches my attention. I think hard before sending a message though as I realise a lot of people believe messages are just spam and they are deleted without even being read. It is a bit of a minefield as even when you match a persons written specs, you are stil just cast off."

Yes just because someone sounds good on paper, if they don't find your photos attractive, it's game over. It's happened alot of time with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"where is stealth mode?

I can't find it anywhere."

Only life time platinum members have this feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes and TV’s look at me mainly but also get ladies who look at me who are outside my age range which can be frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women and couples mainly, some tv and men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everybody

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Women and couples mainly, some tv and men"

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Women and I presume the Fem half of couples. And most likely loads of others as they don’t show up due to my filters.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My views are mostly men and couples

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I used to get the same guy message me every few months offereng to give me a blow job even though my profile says i'm straight and i never replied to any of his messages.

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By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"We get the very rare female looking at our profile. On a side note we had over 600 views yesterday and only 2 messages and 15 fabs, so why do people view and not say or do anything? Also most of those were watching our cam and no verifications but some people get verified without even showing themselves that much.......hmmm the strange world of fab x I will look at profiles all the time sometimes I like the pics, sometimes because the tag line catches my attention. I think hard before sending a message though as I realise a lot of people believe messages are just spam and they are deleted without even being read. It is a bit of a minefield as even when you match a persons written specs, you are stil just cast off.

Yes just because someone sounds good on paper, if they don't find your photos attractive, it's game over. It's happened alot of time with me "
There are many hurdles to get through before you actually get to the first meeting. I know my face will not launch a thousand ships (unless they use my head like the bottle of champagne lol), and I cannot knock anybody for thinking thanks but no thanks as I have looked as lasses and thought “not for me”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look. What’s the point? Fab is like a sweetie shop, you look at everything but only choose a few favourites in the end. If they’re interested and fit my filters, they’ll message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so glad when I found stealth mode as I can now go look at a profile and not get a message within 45 seconds of doing so!!! (Ok 45 seconds may be a bit of an exageration but you get my meaning)

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By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"My views are mostly men and couples "
I look at your profile regularly lol. I tend to be more of a visual person so if I see a nice shape or form I like to see more. The ones that really confuse me are those that rotate their profile pic.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

There's no harm in looking, if you want to touch come in and ask ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally couldn't care who's looking at me....

Although my neighbour is quite weird.... I can see the net curtains twitching!!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Mostly couples and few odd singletons here and there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally couldn't care who's looking at me....

Although my neighbour is quite weird.... I can see the net curtains twitching!!

Your neighbor apparantly has good taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly couples and few odd singletons here and there

Not normal singletons then?

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By *nnocentlycorruptMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"My views are mostly men and couples "

You must be in stealth mode

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By *nnocentlycorruptMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I get a nice mix viewing but noone has winked or messaged...Early days though!!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Absolutely no one today!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0"

Ninjas my friend. Ninjas

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

They may be looking at your veri’s to see who you have met and could get some solid leads from this shortcut.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Maybe they are just nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get shit loads of straight forumites looking at mine, always have..... Either they're insecure, gossip hungry, or just occasionally they're nice blokes looking to make friends or share advice - I added a few fellas recently to my friends list, it's nice to have some male company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninjas my friend. Ninjas

Not anymore

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Just change your message filters and you won’t see if men looked at your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never check who looks at me, I did when I first joined on here, but as it only show the most recent 100 and I had lots more views I didn't see the point tbh"

This ^^

Though I did when someone was stalking me to block potential suspects with account number whatever.

now I just dont care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never check who looks at me, I did when I first joined on here, but as it only show the most recent 100 and I had lots more views I didn't see the point tbh

This ^^

Though I did when someone was stalking me to block potential suspects with account number whatever.

now I just dont care. "
I am always checking you out

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Click on blokes pages when searching through a woman's veris to see what kind of man they like. It's a good indicator as to whether you're likely to be a match or not

As for who views me, it's mostly men and couples. Very few single women unless they're being ninjas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To wank over my shoes #obvs

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By *hat Bloke OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I don’t mind chatting to men at all. I had a chat earlier on with a fella, just like a quick natter in the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably the polis

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I have no idea .. as not a site supporter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know men outweigh women on this site by a factor of ten, but I seem to get an inordinate amount of men looking at my profile. If you are a straight man and you look at other guys profiles. May I ask why? I am just curious as of today I have purposefully looked at one mans profile, and that was of a direct result of reading his thread “Shit Profile”. I am just curious to know why blokes look at blokes."
I do get loads of views from men and I means loads in the range of 100 plus a day how ever it's good to remember alot of women use stealth mode so you wonr see when they look. I like to think that means I get perved at by loads of women

probs not but it's good to insert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently many men with big cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how many ' straight' men have contacted us for a threesome and said they only put straight in their profile so as not to put the women off for being bi..we would never have beleived it that some many guys tell porkies on here..

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