FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking of leaving this site

By *ce-2u OP Man
over a year ago

winsford,Chester & wirral

So fed up with single guys not reading the whole profile.

Get so many guy's that open the message with things like "Love those tits would love to suck them" or "i have a 10" cock meet me" lol do they walk around the street with it out hoping someone will like them.

do they really think that is the way to get to meet us????????????

Do they do that in a Bar/Club guys please jog-on and stop giving the genuine nice guys a bad name x xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's enough to make you want to leave? You certainly have a low tolerance threshold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just deleting and block them like everyone else does. You'll soon find a gem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the whole idea was no strings fun? you can always block people

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Course they don't but then I guess they aren't looking to hook up with a couple in the local boozer

It does make me laugh when people moan about messages with a sexual content on here. Yes yes its a swingers site, yes yes there is a lifestyle element to it all but at the end of the day the majority if us want to fuck each others brains out right??

If single men bother you that much block them from messaging you. If you want them to message you but don't like them oggling your wifes Tits, don't use a pic of them as your avater, use a more arty shot.

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By *ce-2u OP Man
over a year ago

winsford,Chester & wirral

No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!!

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

can appreciate your annoyance on the matter, but have to agree with most other posters.

no, they may not walk around with it out, but i can assure you, a lot of men will use the 'i have a huge cock' as an opening gambit in a pub/club and see where they get with it.

our biggest moan is a lack of respect and decency, but then, thats what the block and delete buttons sort out, so dont worry about it. life is to short.

btw, nice tits, i would love to suck them lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Sorry, but if things are stressing you out that much about the site.....leave.

I wouldn't stay myself if it worried me that much.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Course they don't but then I guess they aren't looking to hook up with a couple in the local boozer

Could you please stop with the bleeding obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Course they don't but then I guess they aren't looking to hook up with a couple in the local boozer

Yes I do.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Well i'm thinking of leaving cos i'm tired of tasteless avatars of women sucking cock or hanging out their tits and fannies like lactating stun gunned sows and then wondering why people don't respect their dashing panache and put in applications for fucks on watermarked vellum .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!! "

Personally I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. If it gets too much take a break, I did, without the need to announce my departure.

I don't understand why people do that.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!!

Personally I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. If it gets too much take a break, I did, without the need to announce my departure.

I don't understand why people do that. "

I KNEW there was a reason I keep staring at you ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about faceless silhouette avatars ??

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Well i'm thinking of leaving cos i'm tired of tasteless avatars of women sucking cock or hanging out their tits and fannies like lactating stun gunned sows and then wondering why people don't respect their dashing panache and put in applications for fucks on watermarked vellum ."

Haahaahaahaa...oh Granny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!! "

I think the point people were making is, why get so wound up about it? People have different _iews about what the site is and how they want to use it. If they're abusive, report/block/delete as you see fit but otherwise, just accept they're not your sort of person (better to find out now, before you've spent any time on them) and move on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"what about faceless silhouette avatars ??"

What about them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!!

Personally I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. If it gets too much take a break, I did, without the need to announce my departure.

I don't understand why people do that. "

To get a response of "no don't go". When I decide to go, i shall go without telling anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. If it gets too much take a break, I did, without the need to announce my departure.

I don't understand why people do that. "

Ah, the leaving flounce. One of the more dramatic perhaps? Always an interesting read..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what about faceless silhouette avatars ??

What about them ?"

well with respect, at least the 'others' have an avatar to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what about faceless silhouette avatars ??

What about them ?

well with respect, at least the 'others' have an avatar to look at

But then, Granny isn't starting threads complaining about how people respond to her (lack of) avatar...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!!

Personally I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. If it gets too much take a break, I did, without the need to announce my departure.

I don't understand why people do that.

To get a response of "no don't go". When I decide to go, i shall go without telling anyone. "

Errrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what about faceless silhouette avatars ??

What about them ?

well with respect, at least the 'others' have an avatar to look at

But then, Granny isn't starting threads complaining about how people respond to her (lack of) avatar...

Agreed, but she had an opinion, just like myself and the other posters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what about faceless silhouette avatars ??

What about them ?

well with respect, at least the 'others' have an avatar to look at

But then, Granny isn't starting threads complaining about how people respond to her (lack of) avatar...

Agreed, but she had an opinion, just like myself and the other posters "

And at no point did I say that was a bad thing, just exercised my right to comment on your, and others', opinions

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"what about faceless silhouette avatars ??

What about them ?

well with respect, at least the 'others' have an avatar to look at

Well. With respect I have seen some highly attractive avatars belonging to some hideous munters.

I cam. He saw. We Concurred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But there's no point in getting upset over how others choose to message. You have no control over it. If vulgar messages are going to stop your enjoyment of this site then maybe it isn't right for you and close your profile and just attend clubs.

I don't even open and read a full message if I feel its not the kind of person I want to meet. I can see the first line and if that contains something I don't like then ill just delete. That takes a second of my time.

It isn't about what you find acceptable, you have no control over the way someone else acts. So therefore just apply a nonchalant attitude, ignore and delete

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!! "

I get treated great by guys on here, had had my share of dickheads mainly after I've told them I'm not interested but on the whole the guys have been nice, complimented my pics and had a nice chat before we get to the wanna fuck stage.

Maybe there is just a nicer class of men near me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make one wonder if a certain style of avatar tends to solicit certain types of responses.

We never get any 'wanna fuck' messages and the messages we do get from people we've never spoken to on the forums are well written and courteous.

I'm sure if we had an avatar of Siren with a fat juicy cock in her mouth we'd get the more 'will she suck on my monster' messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not block all single guys and then search for the polite ones as and when you need them? just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you want to leave the site because of that?

Just ignore them or block them,

We wouldn't let it get to us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does make one wonder if a certain style of avatar tends to solicit certain types of responses.

We never get any 'wanna fuck' messages and the messages we do get from people we've never spoken to on the forums are well written and courteous.

I'm sure if we had an avatar of Siren with a fat juicy cock in her mouth we'd get the more 'will she suck on my monster' messages.

Yeah i noticed the various types of messages id recieve depended on my avatar and public pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No just put up with it for enough years now. Just want guys to treat other's better on here.

If your happy with that, then thats your opinion and welcome to it?

We like people to have a good laugh with us not just "fuck me i am a big COCK" excuse the pun lol!!!!!!!!!!

Personally I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. If it gets too much take a break, I did, without the need to announce my departure.

I don't understand why people do that.

To get a response of "no don

't go". When I decide to go, i shall go without telling anyone.

Errrrrrrr

Well maybe some. But that would be pillow talk for us.

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By *ce-2u OP Man
over a year ago

winsford,Chester & wirral

ok guys take on board all your coments thanks, think some are good and some not so lol!!!!!

That is why we posted it now wish we could take the post off think we have had enough advice.

Thanks again x x x

thanks for the the complement re:- fat juicy cock lol!!!!!!!! its 10" you want to fuck LOL!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry just had to put that in)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does make one wonder if a certain style of avatar tends to solicit certain types of responses.

We never get any 'wanna fuck' messages and the messages we do get from people we've never spoken to on the forums are well written and courteous.

I'm sure if we had an avatar of Siren with a fat juicy cock in her mouth we'd get the more 'will she suck on my monster' messages.

I agree with this because I don't seem to get the amount of vulgar messages that others hint they get on the forums.

There are no action shots of me because I have never posed for any and never would, it doesn't appeal to me. The times I do get the odd idiotic message tends to be if I'm on late at night and then I'm assuming guys will just randomly message whoever is online with the same message.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"ok guys take on board all your coments thanks, think some are good and some not so lol!!!!!

That is why we posted it now wish we could take the post off think we have had enough advice.

Thanks again x x x

thanks for the the complement re:- fat juicy cock lol!!!!!!!! its 10" you want to fuck LOL!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry just had to put that in) "

You're good people x

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By *ce-2u OP Man
over a year ago

winsford,Chester & wirral

Thanks Granny, just had a pm from a couple that getting the same as us yet no Pic on there profile.

Take care Granny x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't really get many of those "wanna fuck" sort of messages,I get some that just make me laugh out loud at the absuridty of them but overall I get really nice ones

People don't read profiles all the time on here and I doubt they ever will so to get into such a state and feel that you want to leave because of it is a shame as it will never change

Use the message filters properly,they will help cut down on unwanted messages from people outside of your criteria or block guys from messaging you so that you can then browse and find one thats that you are interetsted in,then you can message them!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

in a way I agree with a lot of what has been said...

if you don't want the focus of be on her boobs.... don't have an avatar of just her boobs!!!

its like when couples complain about all the focus being on the female... and then having a million and one pictures of the woman and none of the bloke...

you can, up to a point, create your own persona.... I bet if you had a face pic for example the emphasis wouldn't be on the boobs....

if it is annoying you and frustrating you to the point of leaving... you can do two things.... leave... or change? why would you want to stay in a place you are not having fun if you don't have to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like in most things in life you have to take the good with the bad and on fab theres more good then bad ... if you have ever been on other site like me you will see its the same on all swingers sites men doing this for some its just there way thay mail... just sort your filters out if you dont wish men mailing you ... and if really fed-up hide your profile and you mail people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will always be the same, never change just have to roll with punches and go with it.

Use the filters and tools at hand to sort the wheat from the chaf and you'll find the metered from the cheaters

Good luck, have fun!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block them then you do the selecting and send the first mail.

might make it better

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Just set your profile so single blokes cant even see you..

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

bye then

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

That has made me chuckle; I always wondered why I was not getting the rude messages other women seem to get lol - was beginning to feel deprived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 hours and still here then hey ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you should take it as a compliment, and say thanks.

I get messages like that, if i like their pics and profile, then it might not put me off.

I also get more interesting messages too though, so it doesnt realy matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good riddance, sick of so many cpls whingeing on this site. try being a single man for a day and feel the hate

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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Quite possibly the most hilarious reposte I have ever seen on here,but beware the backlash of abuse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite possibly the most hilarious reposte I have ever seen on here,but beware the backlash of abuse..."

It has had me chuckling away to myself for most of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good riddance, sick of so many cpls whingeing on this site. try being a single man for a day and feel the hate"

No, i meet lots of nice single guys on here.

You havnt done so bad yourself either, going by all your naughty pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does make one wonder if a certain style of avatar tends to solicit certain types of responses.

We never get any 'wanna fuck' messages and the messages we do get from people we've never spoken to on the forums are well written and courteous.

I'm sure if we had an avatar of Siren with a fat juicy cock in her mouth we'd get the more 'will she suck on my monster' messages.

Fully agree

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By *exy_couple_now_mancCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

I'm allergic to cheese

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