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Fairly newb..advice pllz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fairly newbie here with clearly no idea of what to do or how to go about this site.i was told about it and what it was all about etc basically a place where peopel get to meet amd possibly go further more etc(obviously once lockdown rules lift)

Im not looking for a relationship but wouldnt mind the odd NSA or meets when and as

Im not going to lie like but im 75% of the time horny as hell but i cant seem to get to chat or start a chatcto actually progress..really frustrated

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Fairly newbie here with clearly no idea of what to do or how to go about this site.i was told about it and what it was all about etc basically a place where peopel get to meet amd possibly go further more etc(obviously once lockdown rules lift)

Im not looking for a relationship but wouldnt mind the odd NSA or meets when and as

Im not going to lie like but im 75% of the time horny as hell but i cant seem to get to chat or start a chatcto actually progress..really frustrated "

Are you finding messages are deleted unread or simply not replied to? Going off the eye sore of above and the useful green arrow my mind boggles as to to what you send in messages!

Most look at the profile before opening messages as a hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swinging site and everybody has their own personal preference and the way you come across in messages or in forum posts will not be to everyone’s tastes but I’m sure if your personality continues to shine through (green arrow) then your hunt for cunt will win through.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"This is a swinging site and everybody has their own personal preference and the way you come across in messages or in forum posts will not be to everyone’s tastes but I’m sure if your personality continues to shine through (green arrow) then your hunt for cunt will win through.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T"

Hunt for cunt, I literally just snotted laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swinging site and everybody has their own personal preference and the way you come across in messages or in forum posts will not be to everyone’s tastes but I’m sure if your personality continues to shine through (green arrow) then your hunt for cunt will win through.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T

Hunt for cunt, I literally just snotted laughing "

I’m applying to Hallmark as I’ve got loads like that!!!!!

Cockdown lockdown!!!

Ok I’ve got one more like that I lied.!!

T

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"This is a swinging site and everybody has their own personal preference and the way you come across in messages or in forum posts will not be to everyone’s tastes but I’m sure if your personality continues to shine through (green arrow) then your hunt for cunt will win through.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T

Hunt for cunt, I literally just snotted laughing

I’m applying to Hallmark as I’ve got loads like that!!!!!

Cockdown lockdown!!!

Ok I’ve got one more like that I lied.!!

T"

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock


"This is a swinging site and everybody has their own personal preference and the way you come across in messages or in forum posts will not be to everyone’s tastes but I’m sure if your personality continues to shine through (green arrow) then your hunt for cunt will win through.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T

Hunt for cunt, I literally just snotted laughing "

Another classic from the Silver Tongued Cavalier...

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By *lirty and funMan
over a year ago

Redditch

One thing you need... Patience! And lots of it.

Don't ever get pushy or frustrated and some one will eventually get chatty with you.

I less you are a dick of course. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is not going to make you stand out, it reads like its been written by a teenager (pound this, bang that)

Get some decent pictures, rewrite your profile and as others say have some patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do shudder reading ...

Be yourself

Be kind

Be respectful

Don’t use the C word, unless you know they’re ok with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and take the advice with a pinch of salt

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

[Removed by poster at 21/06/20 08:35:37]

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Need more patience than a Tibetan Monk

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Deleted my comment after looking at his green arrow... got a feeling this isn't the site for him.

I'm out!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Grannie's Advice Response 1.

1. Try to stop talking about your erections as if you are a terrified teenage boy/ Beavis and Butthead fashion.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Whole profile needs re doing from the ground up. Text is minimal and crude and pictures focus on your piece to the detriment of anything else. There's nothing there to distinguish it from hundreds of others around. You'd be lucky to get more than a passing glance Op.

Do a forum search as there are plenty of threads with useful advice for you. Fab can be very fun and fulfilling for a guy, but it requires effort and not a laissez-faire attitude.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

The green arrow tells all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whole profile needs re doing from the ground up. Text is minimal and crude and pictures focus on your piece to the detriment of anything else. There's nothing there to distinguish it from hundreds of others around. You'd be lucky to get more than a passing glance Op.

Do a forum search as there are plenty of threads with useful advice for you. Fab can be very fun and fulfilling for a guy, but it requires effort and not a laissez-faire attitude."

Oh you had me at ‘laissez-faire’

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Whole profile needs re doing from the ground up. Text is minimal and crude and pictures focus on your piece to the detriment of anything else. There's nothing there to distinguish it from hundreds of others around. You'd be lucky to get more than a passing glance Op.

Do a forum search as there are plenty of threads with useful advice for you. Fab can be very fun and fulfilling for a guy, but it requires effort and not a laissez-faire attitude.

Oh you had me at ‘laissez-faire’ "

Yeah ? He had me at 'Whole'

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

That thing about patience of a Tibetan Monk? Having done the green arrow.... you have work to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you're definitely looking at this site as a cheap shag-and-go!

Its dirty chat you're after at the mo. You just need to express it a bit better. Rather than 'here's my cock, suck it'

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Whole profile needs re doing from the ground up. Text is minimal and crude and pictures focus on your piece to the detriment of anything else. There's nothing there to distinguish it from hundreds of others around. You'd be lucky to get more than a passing glance Op.

Do a forum search as there are plenty of threads with useful advice for you. Fab can be very fun and fulfilling for a guy, but it requires effort and not a laissez-faire attitude.

Oh you had me at ‘laissez-faire’ "

C'est vrai? Aimez vouz français?

Never mind. Looked at green arrow. I should do this before replying on threads like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whole profile needs re doing from the ground up. Text is minimal and crude and pictures focus on your piece to the detriment of anything else. There's nothing there to distinguish it from hundreds of others around. You'd be lucky to get more than a passing glance Op.

Do a forum search as there are plenty of threads with useful advice for you. Fab can be very fun and fulfilling for a guy, but it requires effort and not a laissez-faire attitude.

Oh you had me at ‘laissez-faire’

Yeah ? He had me at 'Whole' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whole profile needs re doing from the ground up. Text is minimal and crude and pictures focus on your piece to the detriment of anything else. There's nothing there to distinguish it from hundreds of others around. You'd be lucky to get more than a passing glance Op.

Do a forum search as there are plenty of threads with useful advice for you. Fab can be very fun and fulfilling for a guy, but it requires effort and not a laissez-faire attitude.

Oh you had me at ‘laissez-faire’

C'est vrai? Aimez vouz français?

Never mind. Looked at green arrow. I should do this before replying on threads like this "

Oui oui Monsieur

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Awww I'm almost tempted to pat him on the back for 4 months of the consistency in posts

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Have to say newbie, you may have to change your attitude about the site or you will be left with only your stallion to stroke.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Your profile needs improving. At the moment there is nothing there that would make somebody you are a person they might want to meet. When you have virtually no text, but what is there includes "I will gladly pound your missus" then you will be at the bottom of a pile of tens of thousands of single men to choose from.

A gallery laden with pictures of your knob will put off a lot of people too.

You really need to show that you have more to offer.

What do you say when you message somebody for the first time? You may think it's appealing but it may well not be. Post an example here and we'll give you feedback on it, not that anybody ever does when I suggest this.

If you don't stand out and appear interesting and respectful then you will continue to swim in a sea of single men who also don't appeal to anybody. Supply and demand is not in your favour. It takes a lot more than photographing you knob and saying "I want to shag your missus" to get anywhere. You're not a charity. People aren't going to offer you sex just because you want it.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Green arrow is always enlightening.

If your messages are along the same lines as your profile & forum posts OP then I'm not surprised you aren't getting many replies.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow is always enlightening.

If your messages are along the same lines as your profile & forum posts OP then I'm not surprised you aren't getting many replies.

K "

Maybe I'm being dense ... What is this green arrow and how does it englighten?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Green arrow is always enlightening.

If your messages are along the same lines as your profile & forum posts OP then I'm not surprised you aren't getting many replies.

K

Maybe I'm being dense ... What is this green arrow and how does it englighten? "

It’s shows where they have posted .. the one next to their name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow is always enlightening.

If your messages are along the same lines as your profile & forum posts OP then I'm not surprised you aren't getting many replies.

K

Maybe I'm being dense ... What is this green arrow and how does it englighten?

It’s shows where they have posted .. the one next to their name "

Mindblown! Thank you x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Join the queue of half million single or married men on here. You need to stand out and be respectful good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swinging site and everybody has their own personal preference and the way you come across in messages or in forum posts will not be to everyone’s tastes but I’m sure if your personality continues to shine through (green arrow) then your hunt for cunt will win through.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T

Hunt for cunt, I literally just snotted laughing

Another classic from the Silver Tongued Cavalier..."

To be fair mr horny I’m more of a roundhead !!!!

T

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock


"This is a swinging site and everybody has their own personal preference and the way you come across in messages or in forum posts will not be to everyone’s tastes but I’m sure if your personality continues to shine through (green arrow) then your hunt for cunt will win through.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T

Hunt for cunt, I literally just snotted laughing

Another classic from the Silver Tongued Cavalier...

To be fair mr horny I’m more of a roundhead !!!!

T"

Sorry- I wasn't paying attention- I thought it was the OP's comment!

It was definitely his style...

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By *alefunMan
over a year ago

sale

Can I be an idiot and ask what people mean by the green arrow???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I be an idiot and ask what people mean by the green arrow???"

When you click on the green arrow next to someones name.. It shows all threads they have either posted to or made themselves

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By *alefunMan
over a year ago

sale

I see....thank you

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