FabSwingers.com forum: Things in the background that put you off

By *xfordshireCoupleMF OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

For those of us that like nosing at other people’s public photos..

What do see too often that puts you off? Or just makes you think ‘why’ or ‘not again?’

Keep it light hearted!

Happy to kick off with ‘Cocks over a toilet’. Why? I mean there are many places in a house to take a cock shot, so why over the toilet bowl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics with lots of clutter and mess in the background

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Pictures taken in a child's bedroom with toys on the floor always seems a bit weird.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Messy bedrooms.

Take a photo of where you will stand, then clear just that area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of mess! Or a man advertising himself on a single profile as a single male in a bedroom which is blatantly shared with a female.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

Toilets

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By *uxomBoobs195Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

A guy has messaged me today, 6 out of 7 of his public photos where him with his tongue out (not a sexy look on a man in my opinion), no top on (quite enjoyable) but stood in a very messy bedroom/bathroom.

The last photo was the same but he chose not to stick his tongue out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to kick off with ‘Cocks over a toilet’. Why? I mean there are many places in a house to take a cock shot, so why over the toilet bowl?"

With this 100 n fiddy percent & or star trek memorabilia cause its dirty

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

Women playing or fingering their pussy with dirty fingernails

#heave&leave

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Messy bedrooms

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"A guy has messaged me today, 6 out of 7 of his public photos where him with his tongue out (not a sexy look on a man in my opinion), no top on (quite enjoyable) but stood in a very messy bedroom/bathroom.

The last photo was the same but he chose not to stick his tongue out.

Tongue sticking out is a definite no from me, how old are they??

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By *xfordshireCoupleMF OP Couple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Most of what’s mentioned also irks/amuses us too.

Lily’s pet hate is when the TV is turned on in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not in the background that bothers me sometimes

I have a list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women playing or fingering their pussy with dirty fingernails

#heave&leave"

Dirty fingernails is also a huge turn off

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

Radiators . . .

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Anyone else just go through their photos checking for all of the above or just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics with lots of clutter and mess in the background "

Snap

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

A dirty looking house that looks like something off one of those eviction programs where the landlord goes in after the tenant gets booted and there's just shit everywhere.

Also any wall stencils of the "Live, Laugh, Love" variety.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Empty beer and cider cans

A door frame that curved just made us think something wasn’t quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green leather look couches and shit wallpaper. I can forgive gaping anal bbw shots, but not the wallpaper.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I hate it when I'm looking at somebody's photo and I spot Danny Dyer in the background, burrowing for truffles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toilets,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messy bedrooms

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By *ecretlyfilthyMan
over a year ago

A boat

"For those of us that like nosing at other people’s public photos..

What do see too often that puts you off? Or just makes you think ‘why’ or ‘not again?’

Keep it light hearted!

Happy to kick off with ‘Cocks over a toilet’. Why? I mean there are many places in a house to take a cock shot, so why over the toilet bowl?"

This indeed. “Oh thats nice, you took a cock shot while defecating”.

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By *ecretlyfilthyMan
over a year ago

A boat

For me, the state of the house and its cleanliness is everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all of the above

messy houses / dirty nails probably at the top of the list.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" any wall stencils of the "Live, Laugh, Love" variety."

I have one above my four poster bed. I didn't realise it was so offputting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally just went through and checked my nails in all my pics!!

I found someones pic a while back where there was a dairylea dunker and a teaspoon on the back of the toilet...

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Toilets, especially unflushed

Mess and clutter

Dirty sheets

Beautiful bedrooms with flowers and make up in the background of a single man's pic

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By *ottielayWoman
over a year ago

by the bay

Live and let live

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Dirty houses dirty nails

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Mess. I took shots yesterday for the challenge and ended up scratching a few really good ones when i noticed the bin hadnt been emptied and i couldnt figure out how to hide it

Only filled with make up wipes but still...damn shame as was bloody hot if I do say so myself. And another one had an asda bag peeking in the shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has already been said, toilet & general clutter. Several years ago I had a meet with a couple who's pictures showed a lot of clutter,when I got there it was even worse. Didn't stop me having some fun with them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not tidy and organised it can't be cleaned.

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

I watched a video of someone dancing on a pole and her house looked like she had been robbed after an earthquake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I watched a video of someone dancing on a pole and her house looked like she had been robbed after an earthquake. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Television on especially when the pic was taken during antiques roadshow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not in the background that bothers me sometimes

I have a list

Let's have the list then please. Can double check my own pics against it then

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

Urinals- yuck

And I find it off putting when they are holding an erect cock and in the background the tv is on with something really mundane like the news or question time or the snooker on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

"Television on especially when the pic was taken during antiques roadshow"

Bit of Fiona Bruce in the background wouldn't put me off

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Crap wallpaper

(I bloody hate wallpaper anyway)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When there's kids toys in the background.

Also, not a nitpick but when someone's taken a photo during a meet and they're banging away in the kitchen. Why the kitchen?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toilets

Dirty mirrors if they are using it for a picture

Hairdryers/shoes/clothes on floor

Unmade beds if not being used at the time of the picture.

Dirty cluttered kitchen counters/side boards

Yes I have issues.

When taking a picture why do people think it is nice to stick their 2 fingers up/give the bird? Downright rude!!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Can be everything and anything

so I prefer a blank canvas background

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Take away containers, anything lavatorial and the occasional DVD or CD we find objectionable

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

When it says non smoker and theres a full ashtray and a lit cigarette on the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlaced shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dirty Mirror!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mess, grime, toilets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White socks with brown bottoms. That's the bottom of the socks, not a rusty rivet!

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

1. Leaving socks on.

2. Leaving toilet seat up, if that's your only decent mirror... Shut the lid.

3. Travelodge bedding. There are so many pictures on Fab taken in Travelodge, I'd hoped we'd get discounts for group bookings!

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Fellas in either hotel bathrooms or bathrooms, but with all womens toiletries in the background

Especially wen they say they are single

Or wen u see the fellas bedding with all pretty flowers on

Obv the wife or gf choice

Not the SINGLE MAN choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate is just that - a dog watching his/her owner in the lounge in various states of undress - it’s just not right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The towels not level in the bathroom and Un-polished shoes, knickers pulled to one side(keep them level) more cum on one arse cheek than the other

what are they thinking!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"For those of us that like nosing at other people’s public photos..

What do see too often that puts you off? Or just makes you think ‘why’ or ‘not again?’

Keep it light hearted!

Happy to kick off with ‘Cocks over a toilet’. Why? I mean there are many places in a house to take a cock shot, so why over the toilet bowl?"

Generally, not for me with my crap solitary photo to comment... But... The ones with a pussy in the background and I mean the furry four legged type and their food bowl..

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By *illowzWoman
over a year ago

Exeter

"Anyone else just go through their photos checking for all of the above or just me?

I just checked mine

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