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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was recently chatting to someone on here and I have seen that after exchanging messages and pics and looking to plan a future meet, she is actually the hot wife of a guy I know on Facebook. She was not on this site very long and I’m in a quandary as to whether I should perhaps drop her a message via Facebook (we aren’t actually fb friends) or is this playing with fire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

No

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

If she has left this site and you are not in contact via other means, I would leave well alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude no, stay away from being a Facebook stalker !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t go there!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No. If someone did that to me I'd think they were being really creepy if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me and it made me want to leave Fab, delete Facebook and move!

Massive invasion of privacy.

Please don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she wanted to keep in contact with you, she would have given you contact details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had people contact me on Facebook, it creeps me the fuck out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough! Thanks for the advice

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I was recently chatting to someone on here and I have seen that after exchanging messages and pics and looking to plan a future meet, she is actually the hot wife of a guy I know on Facebook. She was not on this site very long and I’m in a quandary as to whether I should perhaps drop her a message via Facebook (we aren’t actually fb friends) or is this playing with fire? "

Its playing with fire

Imagine if he spots the message or she shows him it? You will be in deep shit... also no evidence to show you chatted or she was on fab

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

No. That would be majorly creepy. Already is that you had to ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ley it be

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd be highly suspicious that it was even her rather than someone using her pictures given that the profile wasn't here long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw someone on here I know and they have blocked single males so I couldn't say hi I'm here you're here if we bump into each other at a club don't freak out, i.could message them on Facebook but it would be too creepy so will just have to look forward to the awkward meeting in the club!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. That would be majorly creepy. Already is that you had to ask. "

To clarify I did not go with the intention of stalking and seeking her out on Facebook... I just happened to recognise her. I’m not a creepy guy to clarify and now regretting asking the question....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm not on Facebook never have been

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"No. That would be majorly creepy. Already is that you had to ask.

To clarify I did not go with the intention of stalking and seeking her out on Facebook... I just happened to recognise her. I’m not a creepy guy to clarify and now regretting asking the question...."

Your not creepy you asked a question that's all x

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooo. Only ever talk to people on fb you have spoke too and asked to chat via fb.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"This has happened to me and it made me want to leave Fab, delete Facebook and move!

Massive invasion of privacy.

Please don't."

And youve got your face on view here...?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Move on you silly man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. That would be majorly creepy. Already is that you had to ask.

To clarify I did not go with the intention of stalking and seeking her out on Facebook... I just happened to recognise her. I’m not a creepy guy to clarify and now regretting asking the question....

Your not creepy you asked a question that's all x"

... but just in case you are unsure "no"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus no

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nope. Nopety nope nope nope.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

... Will do it anyway

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wish I could post GIFs. Anyone seen the nopetopus? That.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has happened to me and it made me want to leave Fab, delete Facebook and move!

Massive invasion of privacy.

Please don't.

And youve got your face on view here...? "

Yes because I don't care who knows I'm on here, I care about my Facebook content being safe and seperate from my life here.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"I was recently chatting to someone on here and I have seen that after exchanging messages and pics and looking to plan a future meet, she is actually the hot wife of a guy I know on Facebook. She was not on this site very long and I’m in a quandary as to whether I should perhaps drop her a message via Facebook (we aren’t actually fb friends) or is this playing with fire? "

Fire....everything will be on fire....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be highly suspicious that it was even her rather than someone using her pictures given that the profile wasn't here long. "

This.

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By *ouple0884Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I'd like to think my fab and Facebook are separate, it would freak me out if someone off here contacted me on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she left and didn't give you any contact details for not contact her on Facebook. Major creep vibes.

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