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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you feel horny whilst using fab?

For me and I'm guessing many others the answer is no. Infact nothing makes me feel less horny than logging on to here.

It is rarely sexy or exciting. It's messages or pics that make your cringe, forum posts that make you angry and throw in some ocassional abuse because you dare to be fussy!

However I log in because sometimes there are some good people you connect with and the forums aren't a bad boredom filler.

I wonder if it's different for others, I don't belive it's a purely woman thing. I'm positive some men must feel like that too.

Does fab make you horny?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Absolutely. I think i'd leave or cease logging on the moment that stopped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does. I wouldnt be here if not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never horny when I come here or when I leave lol...

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Did something happen to an earlier incarnation of this thread?

Because I replied to that, basically agreeing with you, OP.

It can bring you down even when you're up, and if you're down make you feel a damn sight worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! Actually if I am horny and I log into fab, that feeling goes away very quickly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I see it as a way to facilitate what I want. It doesn't make me horny for similar reasons to you, OP. But I know that if I slog through it there are opportunities that I can't get without the work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not! Actually if I am horny and I log into fab, that feeling goes away very quickly."

Haha yep!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Did something happen to an earlier incarnation of this thread?

Because I replied to that, basically agreeing with you, OP.

It can bring you down even when you're up, and if you're down make you feel a damn sight worse "

If the site can be a depressing or uncomfortable experience, why bother then?

Is it the chats or the perving that keeps one around? Genuinely curious to know. Personally if I don't find something fun, I don't engage with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not! Actually if I am horny and I log into fab, that feeling goes away very quickly.

Haha yep!"

It's useful at times

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Absolutely not! Actually if I am horny and I log into fab, that feeling goes away very quickly.

Haha yep!

It's useful at times "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it does, depends on whom I am chatting with. Some get can me all hot and bothered

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Did something happen to an earlier incarnation of this thread?

Because I replied to that, basically agreeing with you, OP.

It can bring you down even when you're up, and if you're down make you feel a damn sight worse

If the site can be a depressing or uncomfortable experience, why bother then?

Is it the chats or the perving that keeps one around? Genuinely curious to know. Personally if I don't find something fun, I don't engage with it."

To be fair, anything in life can have the same effect - bring you down suddenly even if you were up before.

Lockdown is probably exacerbating the problem. And also the reason for keep coming back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The connections I’ve made and the people I talk to from here make me horny, the site not so much.

I enjoy the forum (most of the time), and I like posting my pics, that’s why I come here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with OP 100%.

It has its uses but it doesn’t make me horny.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I see it as a way to facilitate what I want. It doesn't make me horny for similar reasons to you, OP. But I know that if I slog through it there are opportunities that I can't get without the work."

A hundred percent this.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

No, it doesn't make me horny in the slightest.

I've met some people on here who do. But not when I'm actually on here.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Fab doesn't make me horny at all, building a connection with a man or a couple from here does, I'm only on here to play and have fun in the forums and arrange and go to fab socials

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sometimes I'll come across a picture or profile that definitely raises the temperature... but most of the time it doesn't make me horny. It's just a fleshier Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's our interpretation and expectations of Fab that kills mojo.

A lot of us use the site as a gap filler...you only have to read some people's posts to realise they've had complex pasts and aren't simply here to indulge in sex.

If I log in and something deflated me, it's probably how I handled it, not the site.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It's just a fleshier Facebook. "

This is an extremely astute observation. I think a lot of the... let's call them "issues"... that occur on this site arise because people come in thinking that they've finally located the mythical Website Where You Can Get Sex.

It's not. It's a social network.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just a fleshier Facebook.

This is an extremely astute observation. I think a lot of the... let's call them "issues"... that occur on this site arise because people come in thinking that they've finally located the mythical Website Where You Can Get Sex.

It's not. It's a social network. "

Absolutely!!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Should we rename the site Fleshbook?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should we rename the site Fleshbook? "
that would kill my mojo!!...like.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

It all depends on my frame of mind as to how horny it makes me. If I'm only a little I can be easily distracted into the forums and general chitchat and flirting.

But if I'm really horny then I prefer to perve and chat by inbox. If i can get the object of my attention to respond then even better

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've had some very horny moments from people I've been chatting to on here. No the majority of people and photos don't do anything for me but occasionally I do find someone who sets off that spark. The forum is just entertainment for me mostly and sometimes I meet lovely people or get the chance to perve at people I wouldn't have otherwise noticed x

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham


"The connections I’ve made and the people I talk to from here make me horny, the site not so much.

I enjoy the forum (most of the time), and I like posting my pics, that’s why I come here "

Pretty much this. Most of the time I log on to chat to a few people. If I’m already feeling horny, I’m likely to upload a pic or take a conversation to the next level, be a bit more brazen in a thread or look at some pics.

I sometimes feel a bit icky when I open my filters and get grim messages, or when some people I would NOT get on with look at my profile...but all of that is within my control.

The only other time is when I feel the need for a deeper connection and get a wake up call about how superficial this all is for the most part.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A few selected videos still get me going. But over lockdown especially I've felt more frustrated when I’m on fab.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Horny to me is the conversations I have off Fab from people I've met on Fab. Sometimes the pictures they upload add to this.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you mean have I logged on and got an instant hard on looking at pics and profiles then not in the slightest, in fact the vast majority of the time horniness doesn't even come into it...

....however interacting with someone on my wavelength and who I have a level of connection with may have an effect on occasion but the site itself and it's contents alone don't make me horny in themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no. Dependant on who we’re talking to / perving at. If it gets annoying taking a break helps...just say something to annoy the snowflake mods and they’ll impose it, works for me

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Yes and no. Dependant on who we’re talking to / perving at. If it gets annoying taking a break helps...just say something to annoy the snowflake mods and they’ll impose it, works for me "

If you've not had a 24 hour timeout then you're not doing it right

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Do you feel horny whilst using fab?

For me and I'm guessing many others the answer is no. Infact nothing makes me feel less horny than logging on to here.

It is rarely sexy or exciting. It's messages or pics that make your cringe, forum posts that make you angry and throw in some ocassional abuse because you dare to be fussy!

"

Exactly!

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Fab is boring cause the chase aint there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should we rename the site Fleshbook? "

Butchers used to be called Flesh Markets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does that to me too especially when I look at erect Jim's profile and realise I have no chance next to his magnificent of erect m_mber.

I then just wank my sorrow in front of a porn movie without porn in it.

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