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Do you do second chances?

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

So first time you meet someone on fab for sex... if it’s a bad performance do you give him or her a second meet? Or is it a case of you only get one chance with me.. no room for poor performance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write them a report with advisories....

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

We would have normally sexted for quite a while and a social before sex so that generally doesn't happen, but we would be close enough friends to talk through any issues if they did occur

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"We would have normally sexted for quite a while and a social before sex so that generally doesn't happen, but we would be close enough friends to talk through any issues if they did occur "

I was just asking when you do have sex the first time... even if you had all the build up but the first time it was a poor performance?

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

We have had disappointments a number of times during meets with guys cumming so quickly hehe but everyone deserves a second chance xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends a lot on the circumstances. If he came too quickly, for example, but wasn't a jerk about it and still made me orgasm, then yes I would give him a second chance.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Deps on the circumstances some I have and it was amazing the second time then others no second chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a wee bit unrealistic to expect the earth to move the first time you have sex with someone new

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I think it's a wee bit unrealistic to expect the earth to move the first time you have sex with someone new "
Totally agree I think everyone deserves a second chance ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I like to think I can tell pretty early on in even chatting to someone if we’re compatible in bed, although I have been wrong once or twice. But still no. Even if we get on great in all other areas, life’s to short for shit sex.

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I suppose you can’t expect a second chance if you cum within a few seconds and then pull up your pants and run out the door... that’s why it’s always good to have a snuggle after and build round or you could always satisfy her other ways i.e tongue

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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It would very much depend on the person and the reasons why I didn't enjoy the sex...sometimes you just know that you're not compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done one and at the time after a mad night it's like bullshit going through the motions and then like 3 weeks later we've met up and had the best afternoon of raunchy dirty sex and you drive away from it all thinking yep I didn't expect that

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A bad performance isn’t just down to the man or woman.

For me it’s an incompatibility issue, which happens. You can get on via message, at the social but just sometimes it just doesn’t click in the bedroom, no natural rhythm, chemistry isn’t quite right.

If it’s a matter of someone coming to quickly or similar. I’m still bemused why this is seen as the ending. For me it’s the beginning of round two

Every situation is different and there is no right or wrong answer to second chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth!

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Has happened on more then one occasion - no second chance. If crap I have no desire for round 2!

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I suppose it’s the environment you have sex in too... sometimes it’s just uncomfortable.. and something your not used to.. I.e

Car sex ( tight and uncomfortable space)

Sex while there is 3 dogs running around everywhere

Sex when someone is unexpectedly watching and pops out of the closet lol

Or you just build things up so much that you are a volcano ready to erupt

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Honest answer?

If I had a bad meal in a resteraunt I wouldn't go back.

Similarly if I found I wasn't sexually compatable with someone on FAB I wouldn't rush back for a second meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had disappointments a number of times during meets with guys cumming so quickly hehe but everyone deserves a second chance xx "

Wow I’m not surprised very sexy young lady you are

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Usually yes, anyone can make a poor choice or a mistake at some point. Although, if they keep making those mistakes, they are either not learning from them or not bothered with the repercussions. So then my patience would be spent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no.

Px

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Like others said it would depend on how it all went

If they were all about themselves then no 2nd chance

If it was nerves and we had got on and had a laugh then maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth! "

Is there no sense of humour of the forum any more!

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Beggars can't be choosers sometimes!

If I fancied them but sex wasn't as expected I'd still be keen. If the attraction isn't that great and the sex wasn't, I think the feeling gets projected anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not giving someone a second chance because they sprung their load a bit early seems harsh.

And lady that came too quick I'd definitely give her another go.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

It really does depend on what’s happened....... if we both think it wasn’t that great anyway, then not a chance. But if for example given before (shot a load too soon) this isn’t a deal breaker, it’s what’s happened over the whole evening that counts.

Mrs J x

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Nah

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Not for me.

Sometimes people just don't hit it off in the bedroom and it's nobody's fault. It just is what it is.

It's different when you're dating and you have a vested interest in an exclusive relationship.

Not the same ball park when people are hopping from one bed to the other.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Depends on how much chemistry there is, if there's good chemistry but sex is crap the first time then I might give it a second chance. If it isn't any better the second time then I'm done. I'm not looking for a relationship so if the sex isn't good then what's the point in wasting our time?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I tend not to meet again if the sex was not enjoyable.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"It would very much depend on the person and the reasons why I didn't enjoy the sex...sometimes you just know that you're not compatible "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"So first time you meet someone on fab for sex... if it’s a bad performance do you give him or her a second meet? Or is it a case of you only get one chance with me.. no room for poor performance? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much we get on really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If I like them and think it was first time workings out then yes. If it was just laziness or they're actually shit at sex then no.

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