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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Who's had this message?

I've had it twice;

One of them was one of my ex's old friends/acquaintances. It resulted in a very fun time and the best blowjob of my life!

The second one, she was a friend of a friend's psycho ex. She sent me a load of messages and then tried to get me to go round there. When I said "sorry you're not my type", she let rip with the abuse, sent me shit on Fizzogbook, threatened to "tell my wife all" (which would be impossible!) and she threatened to post my fab dick pics on Facebook - which I welcomed as it might have gotten me some extra attention.

She said; "I'm sure your mum would love to see your dick!". I replied with "Yes, you're probably right! Let me know when you've done it! Goodbye!".

What about you? Have you had anything like this?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Not yet, but I live in hope. If only for the entertainment value

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some right Muppets about, I've had ex's try it and even one of my ex's jealous ex's set up a fake female catfish profile to try to fuck with me.... Ignore and move on in your own direction. Anyone trying to tell tales on you would have to admit they've been here themselves.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one guy so insistent he knew me. He asked if I still lived in a certain street, I'd never lived there. Asked if I was still drinking in a certain pub, I'd never been in. Even used a full name for who ever he thought I was.

I reckon I had enough info to track the woman down

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I had a guy last week, insistent we had met previously and we were friends on Facebook. I never add swingers to my Facebook, so knew it wasn't true.

He couldn't tell me my name, or my current Facebook picture, or where I was from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pretty much every day.

very frustrating.

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it often too. And some men are seriously creepy with it.

Emma is that you?!

5 mins later - Emma you naughty girl can't believe you do this!

20 mins later - mmm can't stop looking at you Emma

And I tell them I'm not who they think I am but they don't believe it. It's just worrying to think what they could do.

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By *illyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Alot of then are fishing for info. They say a street you say..no I live on x street. Same with the pubs. No I during the x pub.

Just twats trying to find out stuff so they can find you .

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By *heeky-gingerWoman
over a year ago

Not meeting


"I get it often too. And some men are seriously creepy with it.

Emma is that you?!

5 mins later - Emma you naughty girl can't believe you do this!

20 mins later - mmm can't stop looking at you Emma

And I tell them I'm not who they think I am but they don't believe it. It's just worrying to think what they could do. "

Yeah, I get that too where they’re guessing the wrong name. It happens often enough that I’m assuming it must be kind of a role play thing for them and it’s a turn on, because I don’t think I can look like that many other women!

I had one today saying I looked like their daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of these messages that women get is just a tactic to get you to respond, even if it’s just to say ‘sorry, not me!’

I had someone adamantly and repeatedly telling me I’d gone to school with him and sucked off all his friends bar him...I went to an all girls school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot of then are fishing for info. They say a street you say..no I live on x street. Same with the pubs. No I during the x pub.

Just twats trying to find out stuff so they can find you ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here but i have in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 2 people say they know me..and they didn't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of guys saying they have met me before, they havn't.

A few years ago a guy kept messaging me via another swinging site,saying he knew who i was, he gave me a name, it wasn't my name. He said he knew where i worked, that i was the manager of a care home in Nottinghamshire, not true. He did this over several days, he then said he had phoned the care home and spoke to my deputy !! I had reported him to admin at the begining of the messages but nothing had been done about it however i reported him again and he was banned.

He has since turned up on this site and contacted me via my couples profile. I blocked him. Nutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet, as soon as we spot anyone we recognise they get a block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see someone on here who I thought I knew

This is what I say hello you look bit formiler or there must be look alike did you work in this bar at this times if she say no sorry I say sorry thought it was you you look like woman who worked in that bar

After that I say good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very creepy when guys send messages saying they know me. If i saw a profile of someone who looked familiar i would just block them and leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and its scared me. Twice its happened.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Lol, there are some fu**ing nutters around.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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One guy went to the bother of tracking me down on social media to tell me that he knows who i am and that he knows that im on here. I still cant work out what he was hoping to get from doing it, apart from freaking me the fuck out. Now i wont even go anywhere that i know he will be, he makes my skin crawl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mark em unread, delete and block em. Creepy for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Get it all the time. I think it's just a ploy to get a reaction and strike a conversation.

Thats why I have in my profile "if you know me in the outside world, hi fellow swinger"

If anyone says they recognise me now I just send a thumbs up.

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By *unandfriendship4uMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I had an email. Saying they been watching my online masturbating behaviour and they would be sending to my top ten fb contacts if i didnt send a bit coin. So i took a pic of my self bend over .dick pulled back and named it bull dog lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get lots of guys saying they have met me before, they havn't.

A few years ago a guy kept messaging me via another swinging site,saying he knew who i was, he gave me a name, it wasn't my name. He said he knew where i worked, that i was the manager of a care home in Nottinghamshire, not true. He did this over several days, he then said he had phoned the care home and spoke to my deputy !! I had reported him to admin at the begining of the messages but nothing had been done about it however i reported him again and he was banned.

He has since turned up on this site and contacted me via my couples profile. I blocked him. Nutter "

Contact the police too. They are good at sorting this kind of thing. X

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I've had 2 people say they know me..and they didn't lol"

I've had one from our town , they did know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get lots of guys saying they have met me before, they havn't.

A few years ago a guy kept messaging me via another swinging site,saying he knew who i was, he gave me a name, it wasn't my name. He said he knew where i worked, that i was the manager of a care home in Nottinghamshire, not true. He did this over several days, he then said he had phoned the care home and spoke to my deputy !! I had reported him to admin at the begining of the messages but nothing had been done about it however i reported him again and he was banned.

He has since turned up on this site and contacted me via my couples profile. I blocked him. Nutter

Contact the police too. They are good at sorting this kind of thing. X"

Yes x

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Yup, all the time.

"I saw you in Sainsbury's just now, wearing a button down dress"

"I've just seen you filling up your white mini" -don't have one btw

"I cut your grass last summer"

"You're (insert name here) aren't you? I know (insert random associated person)"

No one has been right yet. I just wonder for the women they assume are me, and what they do next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, plenty of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had an email. Saying they been watching my online masturbating behaviour and they would be sending to my top ten fb contacts if i didnt send a bit coin. So i took a pic of my self bend over .dick pulled back and named it bull dog lol"

Ahhh yes had this one too, they also sent me an old login including my password. I sent all my friends the email stating that if they didn’t want to watch me wanking to porn that they should send the guy his bitcoin

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Someone started chatting to me, I sent a face pic in my reply and recieved a message along the lines of:

"Oh, it's you! Too awkward!" then got blocked.

Still no idea who it was

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I think a lot of these messages that women get is just a tactic to get you to respond, even if it’s just to say ‘sorry, not me!’ "

The guys who have told me they know me invariably can't give me any info about me that isn't in my profile. After it happened a couple of times i just started ignoring it.

One guy did threaten to send my nudes to my dad. I don't have nudes and my dad died a few years ago. Go'ed then sunshine, do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had an email. Saying they been watching my online masturbating behaviour and they would be sending to my top ten fb contacts if i didnt send a bit coin. So i took a pic of my self bend over .dick pulled back and named it bull dog lol

Ahhh yes had this one too, they also sent me an old login including my password. I sent all my friends the email stating that if they didn’t want to watch me wanking to porn that they should send the guy his bitcoin "

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