FabSwingers.com forum: Sex appeal

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Be honest.

Do you think you have natural sex appeal, or do you have to work at it?

Shit idea for a discussion, but I've worn myself out working on it and now I'm bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as the clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday I became invisible

Before then I think I had a little something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I have natural sex appeal.

I am a confident woman and have often drawn attention without effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who meet me say I am sexy but I wouldn't say so myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i honestly don't think i have sex appeal at all.

its something i have to try and fein, like the makeup the hair the outfit.. Otherwise you'd not fancy me.

But that's okay.. I like dressing up.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not a shit discussion!

Yes I believe I do, I'm far more confident with my sexuality than i was a few years ago.

I love teasing men

Jo x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

For some I have and for others I haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest.

Do you think you have natural sex appeal, or do you have to work at it?

Shit idea for a discussion, but I've worn myself out working on it and now I'm bored

I’m stiff as a bored

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Judging from what people tell me i'd say yes

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"i honestly don't think i have sex appeal at all.

its something i have to try and fein, like the makeup the hair the outfit.. Otherwise you'd not fancy me.

But that's okay.. I like dressing up.

Px"

I'm sorry but that's crap. I've seen your photos and you have it in spades, and it's not because you are wearing lingerie in them. Luke

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By *xkissmexxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If I am lounging in my house not at all

If I am out of my house I think I have confidence and that gives me natural sex appeal I think

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

No, I don't think I have at all. That said, some short-sighted women have told me over the years that I'm good looking

I think they're wrong, but there's no accounting for taste

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Natural as I've been told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think so

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By *INTONIC300Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow/Manchester/Edinburgh

Hey I completely agree, I'm more confident now than ever before

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Sex appeal is like the clap- you’ve either got it or you haven’t.

I’ve got it - so has everyone I’ve met on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some say I have, I can't see it myself, and think they are just wanting in my knickers. It's all part of the game.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Some say I have, I can't see it myself, and think they are just wanting in my knickers. It's all part of the game. "

Can’t blame them for that.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I'm very confident, I like my body, I like to chat too, but I wouldn't say I have any sex appeal.

I used to be a real charmer and I was very assertive and suggestive with women, and I guess that was hot. I knew what to do, what to say, etc.

Now though, I'm generally lazy and passive with them. Years of messing around, dealing with the resultant drama, etc. I'm too old now and I just can't be doing with the hassle anymore.

So, sex appeal... I guess I have very little if any. Although sometimes, it comes back if I'm in the mood.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

If what I'm told is true, then yes - I suppose it depends on who you ask though, it's a subjective thing

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"i honestly don't think i have sex appeal at all.

its something i have to try and fein, like the makeup the hair the outfit.. Otherwise you'd not fancy me.

But that's okay.. I like dressing up.

Px"

For some reason, I've blocked you (you probably deleted a message), but I'd say you do have sex appeal.

Your main photo comes across as being passionate and it's tasteful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically, probably not. I’m no sex kitten, and I wouldn’t say I oozed female sexuality. I’m pretty average in that respect.

However, I do get asked out quite a lot away from fab so maybe something about my personality sparks an interest in people. I’m quite friendly so maybe people just feel comfortable around me to ask. I like to think people are comfortable around me anyway. I could be way off in thinking that though

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

I don’t think I do, when I’m at home with messy hair in my joggers or pjs I definitely don’t but if I make an effort then I can fake it... maybe

I’m more confident than I use to be though so like making an effort to tease my man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends who you ask, to some I appeal, to others I don’t. I’m confident sexually, more so since I met Inked and he encouraged me to embrace my sexual nature and my sexuality. I’m very much a sensual woman and become more confident the older I’ve got x Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I’m wearing my crocs, white socks, cargo shorts, poncho and propeller hat combo. Other than that I’m just a regular guy trying to bumble his way through. Hope this helps in your research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don’t think I do. I can be quite goofy and awkward, nothing attractive about that ha.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Physically no not at all. It's all about camouflage

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A lady said to me the other day “have you thought of being a male escort”. Maybe she thinks I have lol.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

From what I've been told yes. I suppose it is all subjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently im a natural beauty and look to sweet and innocent so I've been told many times so I guess I don't ooze sex appeal...

But I think I do have it, I'm very confident with men, love flirting and teasing them, even when I'm looking dog rough I'm still confident enough to chat them up... But I guess others see different in me to what I see.. X

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All depends who is viewing you as to whether you are sexy to them. Being confident in your own body helps portray it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none what so ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been told I have but it’s not something you notice yourself or at least I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as the clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday I became invisible

Before then I think I had a little something

I'll happily ride your pumpkin if you're worried about the cinderella effect kicking in

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

"As soon as the clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday I became invisible

Before then I think I had a little something

You still got it sweetie x

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

no sex appeal but I find sex very appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have moments but I forget most of the time

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

I think I have some when I’m really happy and in my element...usually the times I’m least thinking about being ‘sexy’...that’s the time I get told I’m flirting or used to get asked out.

It’s the side of myself that my ex struggled with, and (newly divorced) I have to tone down when I’m around attached men because I don’t want to get accused of flirting

If I actually try to be sexy, it’s a car crash lol!!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Been told often i have sex appeal but not sure why. Think it is to do with the way you peesent and hold yourelf.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

In certain situations yes and have been told I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately i dont have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as the clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday I became invisible

Before then I think I had a little something

I was invisible up until then lol

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m given to understand I do yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest.

Do you think you have natural sex appeal, or do you have to work at it?

Shit idea for a discussion, but I've worn myself out working on it and now I'm bored

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Honest oppinion ! I think I have very little sex appeal. On the other hand, Sandra has enough for both of us !

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley

I do Ok. I tend to be described as sexy more often than, say, beautiful - but unlike beauty I think sexiness is more a state of mind and an aura.

That’s how I see it anyway.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

For me it’s about the confidence someone has in themselves

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

People say I have according to verification but I don't think I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest.

Do you think you have natural sex appeal, or do you have to work at it?

Shit idea for a discussion, but I've worn myself out working on it and now I'm bored

. Yes, I believe I have natural sex appeal.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve been told I have it, for me it’s more an attitude than a look

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By *iggydog78Man
over a year ago

London

"For me it’s about the confidence someone has in themselves "

Just typing the same.. And! this site for me knocks can knock a males confidence, Im definitely more of a face to face person this place levels that which after some time I apdated to and Im trying to use to improve that side of me SO I see a win win

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes I've been told I have sex appeal. I think it's because I like such an activity and it seems to radiate from me. That's the reason for it I like to think anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to work at it now I'm an oldy but I do stand in front of the mirror every morning and sing "I'm Sexy and I know it" with a wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle Yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex appear.... please give generously! I’ve none so if you have any to spare...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I think so? No.

Do others? Some do, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I can do at times with the right person, I’ve been told I do but can’t see it myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had many problems with attracting females, may have an issue on here tho with so many guys haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have always been drawn to me. Still are in the real world, just not the right ones...

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Mines not natural as it takes a hell of a lot of make up

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Doubtful. 99.99% of the time I look tired, wrung out and that I’ve gone ten rounds with a hedge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told I have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told I have and I turn enough heads in the real world to believe that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex appeal what's that when it's at home no one ever gives me a second look and I have had to use my personality the whole of my life which dosnt bode well on here as its more for looks than personality on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm kinda awkward bumbling idiot in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I have sex appeal in the slightest but believe I have charm and whit to compensate lol

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I don't think I do, but I do surprisingly well in real life so I must have some.

The catch is that I don't notice that I do well at the time. I always find out later, oh yeah, remember that woman, she liked you etc. Why didn't you tell me at the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I probably did have it back in the day.

Now I either don’t notice or I can’t be arsed so not sure that that says about me....

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Sometimes I feel it, sometimes I don't. People tell me I'm naturally sexy and flirty. I think I'm probably more sensual.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm not sexy. I can feel sexy, sometimes I sound sexy but I'm not the sexy sort, I'm more cutesy.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Ooo an appeal?

Where do I donate??

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Dont know about sex appeal but I'm told I'm a natural flirt and some have said its sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines not natural as it takes a hell of a lot of make up

Pish!!! Make up is just the external, the sex appeal comes from you!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sexy. I can feel sexy, sometimes I sound sexy but I'm not the sexy sort, I'm more cutesy. "

Cute is sexy!! xx

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