FabSwingers.com forum: clubs

By *uge G Rection OP Man
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

so I've decided that when they reopen I will visit a club, but as I will be a newbie to them could anyone let me know of the etiquette of them?

Obviously I will be going with an open mind and treat people with respect and not assume that I will end up having sex there, but do women just ask men out right if they want to go play?

By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

You’ll find people will gather in social areas like the bar or smoking area. It will be pretty much like going to the pub, except people will be wearing less

Be friendly and sociable, get chatting to people, not just women but couples and other guys to. Whatever you do, don’t join the ranks of the wanking zombies following people around tugging under your towel! Another good place to get chatting is the jacuzzi.

They probably won’t openly ask you to have sex with them, but after chatting and getting to know you someone may suggest you go and find a room.

One last thing, a few drinks is ok but don’t get pissed

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not quite like that OP although it can happen - but think of it as no different than going to a regular bar to meet people and you won't go far wrong - you make eye contact or smile, you get chatting, you're respectful and polite and instead of perhaps swapping phone numbers at the end of the night you decide to move to the play areas to get to know each other more intimately.

That's a very much "in a nutshell" summary of course and all clubs have their own guidelines and etiquette that they post on their websites so always worth a read before you go - most will also offer a guided tour on a first visit during which you can ask about etiquette etc.

You're right to go with low expectations though and just treat it as a social night out and if anything comes of it then see it as a bonus - also don't expect it to be wall to wall sex the moment you walk through the door - most clubs have a social area no different to a regular pub or bar and people tend to move to the play areas after spending some time socialising there