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"Maybe..or have children at home" Plenty of single dads out there who have children living with them too | |||
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"Maybe..or have children at home Plenty of single dads out there who have children living with them too" Agreed | |||
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"women are more cautious perhaps " My point is there is a big assumption that if a guy can not accommodate he must be married... I also read this on another thread.. the guy asked what’s wrong with my profile and a women replied that you have cannot accommodate so assuming your married | |||
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"Oh yeah. I'm married with twelve kids me." And still counting | |||
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"If the users explains in their profile why they cannot accommodate then nobody has to assume anything." Some just don't read the profile. | |||
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"Am a single father aswell my kids come first. Its there home and if people can't respect that then there not worth my time" | |||
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"Oh yeah. I'm married with twelve kids me. And still counting " Aye, pushing out 13&14 (twins) as we speak. | |||
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"Am a single father aswell my kids come first. Its there home and if people can't respect that then there not worth my time" This. | |||
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"Oh yeah. I'm married with twelve kids me. And still counting Aye, pushing out 13&14 (twins) as we speak." Hope it’s triplets | |||
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"If the users explains in their profile why they cannot accommodate then nobody has to assume anything. Some just don't read the profile." Then there's no help then | |||
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"I have an extremely nosey neighbour " Have an orgy and leave the blinds open. | |||
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"I have an extremely nosey neighbour " His face must make a great seat for you then! | |||
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"or they dont want strangers too know where they live" But it okay for them to know where the man lives? | |||
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"or they dont want strangers too know where they live But it okay for them to know where the man lives? " There are hotels or clubs for meets as well. | |||
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"I have an extremely nosey neighbour His face must make a great seat for you then!" Thanks for your input | |||
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"or they dont want strangers too know where they live But it okay for them to know where the man lives? " The op is assuming as much as a woman would... Never assume ... | |||
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"or they dont want strangers too know where they live But it okay for them to know where the man lives? There are hotels or clubs for meets as well." Isn't that equal got women too? | |||
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"or they dont want strangers too know where they live But it okay for them to know where the man lives? There are hotels or clubs for meets as well. Isn't that equal got women too? " I didn't get you there.. If neither of party wants to know where the other lives, they can meet elsewhere. | |||
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"I don’t assume I just ask them out right, the ones I found to be married playing away are ones with pics taken in the bathroom, don’t get me wrong not all bathroom pics mean that they are hiding, it’s just something I’ve noticed, " Or I found mentioning you are likely to mark them if you get carried away. I don't always but it's usually a good way to tell those who are playing when they possibly shouldn't be | |||
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"I don’t assume I just ask them out right, the ones I found to be married playing away are ones with pics taken in the bathroom, don’t get me wrong not all bathroom pics mean that they are hiding, it’s just something I’ve noticed, Or I found mentioning you are likely to mark them if you get carried away. I don't always but it's usually a good way to tell those who are playing when they possibly shouldn't be " I use this last one a lot too. You will have marks left on you... | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? " Some are, some aren’t. Alas for the genuinely single guys who can’t/won’t accommodate for whatever reason, there is a huge amount of cheating “single” men on fab and also many other networking and dating sites. It only takes a short time for ladies to get a little jaded with them and that’s why so many assume that any guy who can’t accommodate is attached. | |||
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"I don’t assume I just ask them out right, the ones I found to be married playing away are ones with pics taken in the bathroom, don’t get me wrong not all bathroom pics mean that they are hiding, it’s just something I’ve noticed, Or I found mentioning you are likely to mark them if you get carried away. I don't always but it's usually a good way to tell those who are playing when they possibly shouldn't be I use this last one a lot too. You will have marks left on you... " Yes sometimes the outright question isn't enough. But then sometimes the marks are not either. But at least I have fun in the process that way | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? Some are, some aren’t. Alas for the genuinely single guys who can’t/won’t accommodate for whatever reason, there is a huge amount of cheating “single” men on fab and also many other networking and dating sites. It only takes a short time for ladies to get a little jaded with them and that’s why so many assume that any guy who can’t accommodate is attached." Massive amount. And once bitten twice shy. So can't blame the females for being doubtful considering the crap we have to deal with | |||
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"or they dont want strangers too know where they live But it okay for them to know where the man lives? There are hotels or clubs for meets as well. My point is if the excuse is good for one it's for any other! Isn't that equal got women too? I didn't get you there.. If neither of party wants to know where the other lives, they can meet elsewhere." | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? Some are, some aren’t. Alas for the genuinely single guys who can’t/won’t accommodate for whatever reason, there is a huge amount of cheating “single” men on fab and also many other networking and dating sites. It only takes a short time for ladies to get a little jaded with them and that’s why so many assume that any guy who can’t accommodate is attached. Massive amount. And once bitten twice shy. So can't blame the females for being doubtful considering the crap we have to deal with" Men deal with crap on here too lol not just women. | |||
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"women are more cautious perhaps My point is there is a big assumption that if a guy can not accommodate he must be married... I also read this on another thread.. the guy asked what’s wrong with my profile and a women replied that you have cannot accommodate so assuming your married " I think it’s more likely that he is married. We will sometimes accom as a couple , but never as individuals, that wouldn’t happen at home - she would expect him to sort it out , and I would expect to have to sort it out. | |||
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"I simply choose not to. That would change if I was in a relationship with another.... Assumptions. They are the mother of all fuck ups! " Yes indeed. | |||
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"It’s a ridiculous assumption. Some people choose to keep fab and real life totally separate. I know plenty men who have joint custody of their children and wouldn’t accommodate but aren’t married. I would never have anyone in my house. This is my children’s home. Nobody from here has ever known where I live, not even the village I live in. " | |||
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"I have an extremely nosey neighbour " Neighbours was always better than home and away... | |||
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"I had two terrifying experiences in my own home. Had to buy a new bed and redecorate. Hotels or nowt for me now. " | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? " Nope. I'm not available weekends but doesn't mean I'm married. I'm definitely single | |||
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"I had two terrifying experiences in my own home. Had to buy a new bed and redecorate. Hotels or nowt for me now. " So sorry to hear that. Yes safety comes first for us ladies | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? " I don’t have this direct assumption for men who cannot accommodate. Everyone have their own personal reasons and can be vary. Married & hiding their marriage ones clearly detectable in many different ways and most of them says can accommodate anyway. | |||
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"or they dont want strangers too know where they live" Seems fair enough. | |||
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"If the users explains in their profile why they cannot accommodate then nobody has to assume anything." With all due respect, they shouldn't have to explain why they can't accommodate. | |||
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"Am a single father aswell my kids come first. Its there home and if people can't respect that then there not worth my time" Exactly this! There are more single fathers around now as Courts do not automatically grant residency to the mother. The times they are a changing! Only recently had to point this out to someone. | |||
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"If the users explains in their profile why they cannot accommodate then nobody has to assume anything.With all due respect, they shouldn't have to explain why they can't accommodate." | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? " Yeah I get that a lot....... I just live in a very small village where everyone curtain twitchers. I’d rather not have my business known by all and sundry. | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? " That’s because in my experience usually a man who can’t accommodate is married. I can’t accommodate but I’m sure as heck not explaining why to anyone on Fab but be assured I’m not married. | |||
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"It’s a ridiculous assumption. Some people choose to keep fab and real life totally separate. I know plenty men who have joint custody of their children and wouldn’t accommodate but aren’t married. I would never have anyone in my house. This is my children’s home. Nobody from here has ever known where I live, not even the village I live in. " Same, I find out where they live then just say I'm from some town/ city miles away from them. | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? " It's irrelevant. Women can do no wrong whereas men are the pits of the earth. | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? " I explain why I can't accommodate as I house share lol | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? It's irrelevant. Women can do no wrong whereas men are the pits of the earth. " There are lots of married women on this site. | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? It's irrelevant. Women can do no wrong whereas men are the pits of the earth. There are lots of married women on this site. " Yes and they don't get anywhere near as much hatred as married men do. | |||
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"I see a lot of women on here assume if a guy can not accommodate then he must be married... but most women on fab put on their profile that they cannot accommodate... are they married too? It's irrelevant. Women can do no wrong whereas men are the pits of the earth. There are lots of married women on this site. Yes and they don't get anywhere near as much hatred as married men do. " I personally don’t agree with either gender that cheats on their spouses! | |||
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"On this note, are we allowed to accommodate again now? I’m confused! Surely we can based on the new rules?" No you can't.. if you're single or a single parent, you can bubble up with ONE other household | |||
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