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"I'm looking less for sympathy and more for strategies to deal with things. I'm flat on my arse with post viral fatigue. (Yes, that virus) I'm six weeks in, about a month past the risk period they know of. I'm fucking sick of being helpless. Have phone, have books, am introverted anyway, just am so goddamn sick of my bed and injuring myself taking the damn bin out. I have no idea my long term prognosis. Chest pain all the time sucks. And I had a couple of hours feeling normal yesterday - that was almost worse, because I remember what I'm missing. Getting my strength back is going to be a bitch. I'll do it, I know I will. Anyone got any words of wisdom?" No wise words here, but boobie hugs..xx | |||
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"As above, I can't offer anything more than good wishes and general platitides It does sound harsh, though, this virus. Because I've been lucky (so far) and haven't witnessed it close up I probably haven't fully appreciated how devastating this thing can be, and just assumed it's like a bad cold.... Wishing you the very best and a speedy recovery, as the forum ain't the same without you x " I think that's really important, and I'd yell it from the rooftop but my lungs would object Mild is anything not requiring hospital treatment. I have a *mild* case. This crap is not a minor illness. | |||
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"Remind yourself this isn't a new you, aim to do a bit more each day physically, no matter how small and take joy from that progress " Oh, I am. Just the fatigue and strength comes and goes in unpredictable waves. I'm doing breathing exercises, mostly. That's as much exercise as I can tolerate. | |||
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"Get out into your garden if you have one and start planting some seeds. Go out and care for them every day. Watch them grow. Have a tidy up or reorganise something. Learn a new skill. " Skills I'm working on. I'm too weak for the rest. | |||
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"This crap is not a minor illness." Amen. Folk really need to appreciate this. It can be incredibly debilitating. | |||
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"Oh love, I'm so sorry to hear this! I just want to remind you that you come across as an incredibly resourceful and wise woman..your posts reflect the work and self help you do for yourself. You have it all within you to get through this .. and .. this bit of helplessness and hopelessness is part of the process. Give in to it for a while and let your bottom lip proper stick out. Give yourself a huge hug. Are you getting practical support? If you have friends nearby, call out for help those tasks like putting out the bins, shopping etc. Sending well wishes xxx " Thank you. I know I'll get through. Just. Ugh. You know? A friend got my pills the other day because they wouldn't deliver. Tesco have been good on socially distanced groceries. Bin, I'm doing myself because I have to. I'll get through and it improves every day. | |||
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"Got family going through the same and whilst they are trying to stay positive at times it just gets to them.. Long term health implications, job security etc.. Yes obviously being positive is great but recognise that when the bad periods hit they are all part of the recovery, perhaps especially more so given the shielding and lack of close contact with friends and family etc.. Just a thought, how about looking for a social media covid support group on fb or setting one up as an option for if you want to chat with others who are also in recovery..? Very best wishes.. " I'm on the long termers Facebook page, although fortunately I'm at the short end of that. I can't even imagine some of the stuff some of them are going through | |||
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"If you haven't done so already, get some protein powder. It was great for healing and regenerating after I had an op. " That's what I "eat" when I don't have the energy to put some beans in the microwave | |||
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"Got family going through the same and whilst they are trying to stay positive at times it just gets to them.. Long term health implications, job security etc.. Yes obviously being positive is great but recognise that when the bad periods hit they are all part of the recovery, perhaps especially more so given the shielding and lack of close contact with friends and family etc.. Just a thought, how about looking for a social media covid support group on fb or setting one up as an option for if you want to chat with others who are also in recovery..? Very best wishes.. I'm on the long termers Facebook page, although fortunately I'm at the short end of that. I can't even imagine some of the stuff some of them are going through " It's a very weird one it seems, got one elderly relative with fairly serious respiratory issues and they are doing OK then another with none and they can't shake it even though initially they had it mild.. | |||
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"It's a very weird one it seems, got one elderly relative with fairly serious respiratory issues and they are doing OK then another with none and they can't shake it even though initially they had it mild.. " It's very weird. Lots of different presentations initially and it can go all over the place. My viral stage was the severity of mild-moderate proper flu, but this fatigue and lingering chest weakness is just something else. | |||
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"I'm looking less for sympathy and more for strategies to deal with things. I'm flat on my arse with post viral fatigue. (Yes, that virus) I'm six weeks in, about a month past the risk period they know of. I'm fucking sick of being helpless. Have phone, have books, am introverted anyway, just am so goddamn sick of my bed and injuring myself taking the damn bin out. I have no idea my long term prognosis. Chest pain all the time sucks. And I had a couple of hours feeling normal yesterday - that was almost worse, because I remember what I'm missing. Getting my strength back is going to be a bitch. I'll do it, I know I will. Anyone got any words of wisdom?" I've heard that post virus fatigue can be unreal. I'm no doctor but try and do what you can to prevent muscle wastage. Just keep some movement in your life, don't get pyjama paralysis. I hope you overcome it soon. | |||
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"It's a very weird one it seems, got one elderly relative with fairly serious respiratory issues and they are doing OK then another with none and they can't shake it even though initially they had it mild.. It's very weird. Lots of different presentations initially and it can go all over the place. My viral stage was the severity of mild-moderate proper flu, but this fatigue and lingering chest weakness is just something else." We both had chest infections in jan which was for Lynn a first in her life, it took about five weeks before we didn't feel shattered even to the point of sleeping after walking the dogs during the day.. Whatever that was, and it took a young teenager just before the Christmas it was very unpleasant.. Stay strong.. | |||
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"If you haven't done so already, get some protein powder. It was great for healing and regenerating after I had an op. That's what I "eat" when I don't have the energy to put some beans in the microwave " Sounds like you also need some proper scran then! | |||
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"If you haven't done so already, get some protein powder. It was great for healing and regenerating after I had an op. That's what I "eat" when I don't have the energy to put some beans in the microwave Sounds like you also need some proper scran then! " I cook when I have the energy. When that fails, cereal or beans. When that fails, protein powder. For awhile I didn't want to eat, it hurt, and my fallback was people ringing me up and yelling at me | |||
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"a silly thought. But have you got any high energy food in house that you could eat more as an extra energy boost to your system?" Oh the energy thing isn't connected to food or sleep. It just kind of comes and goes. | |||
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"Oh bless you. Don't put massive amounts of pressure on yourself. Do what you can. Speak to your ladies if you can summon up the strength, they will spur you on, they must miss you. Here if you need to chat ever Jo x " Being away from my volunteering hurts | |||
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"Oh bless you. Don't put massive amounts of pressure on yourself. Do what you can. Speak to your ladies if you can summon up the strength, they will spur you on, they must miss you. Here if you need to chat ever Jo x Being away from my volunteering hurts " Can you do online/ remote volunteering? That might give you a boost, to be helping people. | |||
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"Oh bless you. Don't put massive amounts of pressure on yourself. Do what you can. Speak to your ladies if you can summon up the strength, they will spur you on, they must miss you. Here if you need to chat ever Jo x Being away from my volunteering hurts Can you do online/ remote volunteering? That might give you a boost, to be helping people. " I had been since lockdown, but they've temporarily taken me off the rota as my energy is too unreliable. I'm getting regular messages of support but I want to be back to it. And can't yet. | |||
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"Oh bless you. Don't put massive amounts of pressure on yourself. Do what you can. Speak to your ladies if you can summon up the strength, they will spur you on, they must miss you. Here if you need to chat ever Jo x Being away from my volunteering hurts Can you do online/ remote volunteering? That might give you a boost, to be helping people. I had been since lockdown, but they've temporarily taken me off the rota as my energy is too unreliable. I'm getting regular messages of support but I want to be back to it. And can't yet." You were out of action (op, illness, not sure sorry) before, how did you get through it? What advice would you give someone else in this situation? You often give positive, motivational advice. I think you are stronger than you give yourself credit for. I mean that, not being sarcy. | |||
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"Oh bless you. Don't put massive amounts of pressure on yourself. Do what you can. Speak to your ladies if you can summon up the strength, they will spur you on, they must miss you. Here if you need to chat ever Jo x Being away from my volunteering hurts Can you do online/ remote volunteering? That might give you a boost, to be helping people. I had been since lockdown, but they've temporarily taken me off the rota as my energy is too unreliable. I'm getting regular messages of support but I want to be back to it. And can't yet. You were out of action (op, illness, not sure sorry) before, how did you get through it? What advice would you give someone else in this situation? You often give positive, motivational advice. I think you are stronger than you give yourself credit for. I mean that, not being sarcy." Thank you I'll get through. Just hitting a bump in the road. And yes, I've done stuff like this before. In the middle of it it can be a bit hard to see your way out. Taking it hour by hour. (Since I last posted I had a nap. Naps help) | |||
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"Hi Swing. I was just reading an article about post-viral fatigue, a hangover from coronavirus which is affecting many survivors. I had no idea you had it; how unlucky. Many years ago and after many tests, I was diagnosed with toxoplasmosis. Getting out of bed was a huge effort every day, my body ached and I wondered if I would ever get back to normal, back to my county netball and all the sports I loved. And I did, but not pushing myself too hard, good nutrition and baby steps each day. All I can say is that I have observed what a strong woman you are and one day you will be fully recovered. Try your best to stay positive. Are you getting any help at all? xx" Thank you x I have a support network and offers of help. My fwb picked up my prescriptions at the weekend. I had a pain disorder in my 20s which I recovered from with baby steps, like you talk about. I had a great specialist physio. I have that in mind as my way out of this. I definitely know this is a known phenomenon. It's so unlike any illness I've ever had, really disorienting in how random it is. Makes it harder to manage psychologically. They say mental health blips are part of the syndrome. If nothing else, the fact it's so unpredictably debilitating is depressing. | |||
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"Hi Swing. I was just reading an article about post-viral fatigue, a hangover from coronavirus which is affecting many survivors. I had no idea you had it; how unlucky. Many years ago and after many tests, I was diagnosed with toxoplasmosis. Getting out of bed was a huge effort every day, my body ached and I wondered if I would ever get back to normal, back to my county netball and all the sports I loved. And I did, but not pushing myself too hard, good nutrition and baby steps each day. All I can say is that I have observed what a strong woman you are and one day you will be fully recovered. Try your best to stay positive. Are you getting any help at all? xx Thank you x I have a support network and offers of help. My fwb picked up my prescriptions at the weekend. I had a pain disorder in my 20s which I recovered from with baby steps, like you talk about. I had a great specialist physio. I have that in mind as my way out of this. I definitely know this is a known phenomenon. It's so unlike any illness I've ever had, really disorienting in how random it is. Makes it harder to manage psychologically. They say mental health blips are part of the syndrome. If nothing else, the fact it's so unpredictably debilitating is depressing." I'm glad you have some help and can only imagine how bloody awful this must be for you. May be also contact your GP and push for some urgent rehab help or tertiary help and advice? x | |||
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"I'm getting worse. I'm scared " With the fatigue, or covid symptoms still. We got you...xxx You will recover xx | |||
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"It's a very weird one it seems, got one elderly relative with fairly serious respiratory issues and they are doing OK then another with none and they can't shake it even though initially they had it mild.. It's very weird. Lots of different presentations initially and it can go all over the place. My viral stage was the severity of mild-moderate proper flu, but this fatigue and lingering chest weakness is just something else." I know this is over a week old but just to say that I had this virus end of March and I still struggle to get through the day without a nap or a lay down as a bare minimum. I single parent also which has been an added strain. My GP had been amazing throughout and I know i’m very lucky there. It’s played havoc with my T2 diabetes and there’s been days where I’ve just had the strength to chew anything.. I make protein shakes on those days. It will take a while but you will slowly start to feel like you’re getting some part of your life back. The mental health side needs supporting too, chat chat and more chat sweet x You got this x | |||
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"I'm getting worse. I'm scared " To add on.. after the initial virus hit, I had 2 more bouts of ‘flu’ like symptoms. Have basically been ill for the whole lockdown, only now am I starting to feel myself! Ring 111 or if you have a COVID hub near you ring them too x | |||
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"Chest pain and intermittent loss of vision" Seriously as I said Get yourself to a medic Just because cov sars2 is the flavour of the month does not mean that's what you have You have isolated exceptionally well you may need treatment for something urgent that is not a contagious virus Humans have other illnesses and organ problems which are not spread You have had a negative test and shielded as if the virus would kill you I'm very concerned you have something else that requires immediate treatment Xxxx | |||
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"I'm getting worse. I'm scared To add on.. after the initial virus hit, I had 2 more bouts of ‘flu’ like symptoms. Have basically been ill for the whole lockdown, only now am I starting to feel myself! Ring 111 or if you have a COVID hub near you ring them too x " I'm going to the hospital. Thank you | |||
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"Chest pain and intermittent loss of vision Seriously as I said Get yourself to a medic Just because cov sars2 is the flavour of the month does not mean that's what you have You have isolated exceptionally well you may need treatment for something urgent that is not a contagious virus Humans have other illnesses and organ problems which are not spread You have had a negative test and shielded as if the virus would kill you I'm very concerned you have something else that requires immediate treatment Xxxx " Clinical diagnosis still, though x | |||
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