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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what's your go-to for picking yourself back up, and shaking it off?

regardless of what / who / why / how it is that you've come to feel a bit blue.. is there anything in particular that helps you quickly snap out of it, and get back to your usual FABulous selves?

usually for me, music helps.

but right now, it's isn't.

i know there are a few of these threads around and about, however i could use the cheering up, so have another

i hope everyone is okay.

Px

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Music is my go to as well. Or a phone call to a friend. Hope your mood picks up soon. I'll send positive vibes your way x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Music, makeup, comedy, reading, exercise, talking to a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's your go-to for picking yourself back up, and shaking it off?

regardless of what / who / why / how it is that you've come to feel a bit blue.. is there anything in particular that helps you quickly snap out of it, and get back to your usual FABulous selves?

usually for me, music helps.

but right now, it's isn't.

i know there are a few of these threads around and about, however i could use the cheering up, so have another

i hope everyone is okay.

Px "
if your down prinny I'm always here for a chin wag xxx

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I like to write. Not specifically about what gets me down, just, anything really. A process of anything. I think the action helps me, by pen or by keyboard or by phone.

Also this cheered me right up, thanks OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercise, music and driving do the business for me but recalling a time that I laughed out loud at something is also a big help for a quick fix. Hope your alright

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Music is my go to as well. Or a phone call to a friend. Hope your mood picks up soon. I'll send positive vibes your way x"

what sort of music usually works for you? (i know it's subjective and down to preference.. i'm just curious).

Normally kisstory pulls me round.

Thanks RR, i appreciate it.

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skittles. I know it's not the most healthy, but tasting the rainbow always cheers me up

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Big clean up, dishes, dusting and hoovering. I may still feel a bit shitty still, but at least my place is clean.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I like to write. Not specifically about what gets me down, just, anything really. A process of anything. I think the action helps me, by pen or by keyboard or by phone.

Also this cheered me right up, thanks OP "

Writing is wonderful catharsis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dragging myself off out for a walk or drive.

Hot bath, tunes, candles.

Baking something lovely.

Making plans/writing things down.

Some days I just don't want to leave the house or chat to anyone so a bit of self care is vital. Fresh jarmies, cuddles with my cat and some some easy viewing telly makes me feel a little better x

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Music..usually helps but being housebound limits how effective this is. I prefer long walks alone. Sadly not really an option.

Gym..again not an option currently. Would really love to vent on a punch bag or pound some miles on a treadmill

The sea. Can't get there till public transport is a lot less risky.

So instead I've opted for a girlie night in the garden with besties. Just waiting for us all to be free on a dry night and hopefully that will be at least a little effective on my current mood

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Music is my go to as well. Or a phone call to a friend. Hope your mood picks up soon. I'll send positive vibes your way x

what sort of music usually works for you? (i know it's subjective and down to preference.. i'm just curious).

Normally kisstory pulls me round.

Thanks RR, i appreciate it.

Px"

Really cheesy pop or motown. Anything I can sing along with, very loudly and very badly x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Music is my go to as well. Or a phone call to a friend. Hope your mood picks up soon. I'll send positive vibes your way x

what sort of music usually works for you? (i know it's subjective and down to preference.. i'm just curious).

Normally kisstory pulls me round.

Thanks RR, i appreciate it.

Px

Really cheesy pop or motown. Anything I can sing along with, very loudly and very badly x"

Memories of certain menaces make me laugh

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Music is my go to as well. Or a phone call to a friend. Hope your mood picks up soon. I'll send positive vibes your way x

what sort of music usually works for you? (i know it's subjective and down to preference.. i'm just curious).

Normally kisstory pulls me round.

Thanks RR, i appreciate it.

Px

Really cheesy pop or motown. Anything I can sing along with, very loudly and very badly x

Memories of certain menaces make me laugh "

My next thing that cheers me up. My friends. You loves me really x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Music is my go to as well. Or a phone call to a friend. Hope your mood picks up soon. I'll send positive vibes your way x

what sort of music usually works for you? (i know it's subjective and down to preference.. i'm just curious).

Normally kisstory pulls me round.

Thanks RR, i appreciate it.

Px

Really cheesy pop or motown. Anything I can sing along with, very loudly and very badly x

Memories of certain menaces make me laugh

My next thing that cheers me up. My friends. You loves me really x "

I do but I'm glad it wasn't me you were chasing

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Music ... Always Music

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I like to look forward to holidays. I might go online and see where we might go next! That’s not working right now either!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a Gratitude List really helps. Either written down or mentally noted.

I find these work great for me after a particularly challenging day. I'll reflect on 10 things that I'm truly grateful for

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"what's your go-to for picking yourself back up, and shaking it off?

regardless of what / who / why / how it is that you've come to feel a bit blue.. is there anything in particular that helps you quickly snap out of it, and get back to your usual FABulous selves?

usually for me, music helps.

but right now, it's isn't.

i know there are a few of these threads around and about, however i could use the cheering up, so have another

i hope everyone is okay.

Px "

When I'm feeling like that I just log on here look at your pictures usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsurprisingly it’s a run for me, an hour or two can make the world of difference

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Ah my Sally, I hope you’re feeling back to yourself soon.

Music for me or chatting to friends always helps

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I get my headphones on and listen to rocky music and then I go for a run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes listening to music though I think I often pick a mood emphasiser rather than changer, often yoga, being outside, talking with a friend can be such a balm. Singing with my friends. Reading.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Normally I would cuddle my mates so I cuddle my dog and watch a film

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks guys, i appriciate it.

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leg shaking orgasms seem to help me.

Second to that, I try to set myself manageable goals, even boring ones, like cleaning the oven or pairing up the odd socks. It makes me feel better knowing I’ve achieved somethin productive, however small it is.

Hope you’re feeling better soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been so down and lonely in all my life. I slip further into depression. Is it unreasonable to want someone to hold you close.Just for awhile...

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

Ive had a few days not feeling the greatest over the weekend, but i just got up a little bit earlier than usual, went for a longer jog looked at myself in the mirror and gave myself a little motivational 'you got this' seems to have done a world of difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write her name in the sand, the waves wash it away...…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go and sit on a bench in my garden ..or for a walk around the park and feed the swans

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It varies :

I listen to or play some music.

Get lost in a hobby for a bit.

Go for a walk or do some other exercise.

Play with pets.

Log on here.

I tend to find it ruins my focus until I sort it so it can take me a while to find the right distraction whilst my mood sorts itself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the beach. Sometimes when I'm there I'll write or read or just watch the waves.

Sometimes I'll have a good cry to try and get rid of all my feelings

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I go to the beach. Sometimes when I'm there I'll write or read or just watch the waves."

I miss the sea so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been so down and lonely in all my life. I slip further into depression. Is it unreasonable to want someone to hold you close.Just for awhile..."

It's not unreasonable at all. But I think if someone held me tight right now,i'd cry. Sending you a virtual hug to let you know that someone cares x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you Jan sensual needs . I cant message you privately. But I looked at your profile. You look lovely . xxxxxxx

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I forgot : watching videos in the bath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuffing my face with food- well at least it’s not alcohol I say and talking to some gorgeous ladies on here. Love you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

somehow, it seems so much easier for a lady. I can only speak for myself. Men find it difficult to talk . hence being lonely...…….I withdraw into my loneliness.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Chatting to certain friends or going out to the hills/mountains.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just booked a 3 day break to Prague for January. That has cheered me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lucky you Bluebell. I hope you have a great time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being behind a locked door with a bath full of warm water and essential oils, relaxing music up loud so I can cry undetected.

Or if I can't get into the bathroom and nice walk in the woods on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercise, horse riding, baking, gardening, listening to band interviews!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Depending on the depth of mood, it can be anything from taking a step back, switching off, a joke / interaction with a mate, going for a quiet walk (rare) or drawing. Lately the only thing that works is sleep, switch off and let the day slip by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep and cry inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercise, tea, Disney movies and sex usually work for me.

And painting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally sone music or i watch some stand up comedy like robin Williams that alwas puts a smile back on my face

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

Saw the headline and decided to watch Life of Brian

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Just booked a 3 day break to Prague for January. That has cheered me up."

Thanks.Looking forward to it already.x

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

It depends, a walk in the park or like now a few minutes enjoying the sunshine in the garden helps.

But music is good to brighten me up as well. I have strange taste here: Mo-town, classic 60/70s soul and rock and strangely Baroque trumpet and organ concertos.

If I am really feeling blue, I get myself a small drink, put on the headphones and listen to the blues of BB King or Eric Clapton. And then the blue mood becomes a blues mood and I am feeling more relaxed and less alone

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sniff some suncream

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Latin music

Comedy films

Comedy tv shows

Or just having a good cry! Sometimes pouring it out is like a pressure valve relieving the pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cycling, Walking, walking with music. YouTube videos, cooking yummy things, and Wiiiine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's your go-to for picking yourself back up, and shaking it off?

regardless of what / who / why / how it is that you've come to feel a bit blue.. is there anything in particular that helps you quickly snap out of it, and get back to your usual FABulous selves?

usually for me, music helps.

but right now, it's isn't.

i know there are a few of these threads around and about, however i could use the cheering up, so have another

i hope everyone is okay.

Px "

Music works for me but I also have some "word porn" saved on my phone. I go back and read through them to give me a little kick up the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and not forgetting the gym and getting out on my motorbike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes music. Yesterday I had a Skunk Anasie day!

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