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"Most of the time it’s a facade or people just bragging " Just f@#k me already | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? " Soft, slow and sensual is all very well if you're in a relationship but if you're squeezing someone in between taking the bins out and getting down the pub to watch the match then it's wham, bam thankyou ma'am I'm afraid | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? Soft, slow and sensual is all very well if you're in a relationship but if you're squeezing someone in between taking the bins out and getting down the pub to watch the match then it's wham, bam thankyou ma'am I'm afraid " Yes I don't do quick sessions for that reason | |||
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"I sometimes write beautiful descriptions of prolonged sensuality, the thrill of taking one's time to explore a person physically and the delicious sensory reactions that come with a deeper, more prolonged intimacy. But my phone always autocorrects it to FAF. " I'll fix them for you if you send me them | |||
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"Would it be men want fuck hard and women want slow and sensual " I don't even think it's just men. I just find a lot of it mechanical and boring and actually lacking in any way to properly satisfy me. | |||
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"Most of the time it’s a facade or people just bragging Just f@#k me already " It has to be slow and sensual | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? I like soft slow and sensual but I’m also keen to show lust and give it thrust I think it depends on the chemistry of the moment a combination of the two is ideal but to be sure I like soft slow and sensual " | |||
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"Well, that's a very interesting point. Personally, I like a mixture of both, slow and sensual, building up, and some fooling around and foreplay. Find this helps build energy and tension, then lead up to, as you say, fuck like bunnies " Of course there is a time for both but it seems like only one is focused on | |||
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"I can’t do wham bam. Sex has to be with feeling. I don’t mean that in a soppy way but sensual sex has so much more passion than fucking hard and fast " Agreed.. I like imagination, creativity and everything to be done with feeling. Not as in love but like they actually mean it. Otherwise what is the point? | |||
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"Would it be men want fuck hard and women want slow and sensual I don't even think it's just men. I just find a lot of it mechanical and boring and actually lacking in any way to properly satisfy me. " Mechanical - good description | |||
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"I can’t do wham bam. Sex has to be with feeling. I don’t mean that in a soppy way but sensual sex has so much more passion than fucking hard and fast " A temporary, intense emotional investment ... | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? " Soft, sensual, easy, slow, intimate, erotic. Its the only way. | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? " Really like slow and sensual sometimes. I get this , I often do one thing but the other person gets too excited and turns it into something else. I don’t think it’s about emotion but just control or lust taking over | |||
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"I like both - it depends on the mood and the chemistry with the person I'm with " Yes... 50/50 | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? " Possibly also that you can fuck like a bunny without too much thought. The good thing about this world is there is something for everyone, though it always surprises me the number of status updates and meet mes for women demanding to be ruined and pounded. To each their own. | |||
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"Would it be men want fuck hard and women want slow and sensual I don't even think it's just men. I just find a lot of it mechanical and boring and actually lacking in any way to properly satisfy me. " Totally agree with this. It's not a contest or a race lol... I think lots of people who think that way believe it's 'manly'... There are of course times when the situation is right for that. If I had to choose though, sensual all the way. Massages, caresses, longer sessions kissing... | |||
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"Most of the time it’s a facade or people just bragging " Yeah, I think a lot of men think women want it hard and fast all the time, possibly because a lot of porn perpetuates that myth. Personally I love slowing it right down and spending some time teasing with sensual strokes and lingering kisses, and have had meets from here where that was the basis for the meet | |||
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"Would it be men want fuck hard and women want slow and sensual " That’s definitely not my experience. Thinking about it more I reckon it’s to do with experience and lust. Lovers are generally sensual, intimate or lustful but not often more than one type. I can do the lustful and sometimes the odd quickie is good, but it’s my least favourite. When I was younger and less experienced it was definitely my favourite ! | |||
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"I can’t do wham bam. Sex has to be with feeling. I don’t mean that in a soppy way but sensual sex has so much more passion than fucking hard and fast A temporary, intense emotional investment ..." Exactly...I develop a connection with someone first then when I meet its just a continuation from there...two minds connecting and an intense sensual experience | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? It’s very rare you would get sensual from a Fab man....I said rare. " | |||
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"Most of the time it’s a facade or people just bragging Yeah, I think a lot of men think women want it hard and fast all the time, possibly because a lot of porn perpetuates that myth. Personally I love slowing it right down and spending some time teasing with sensual strokes and lingering kisses, and have had meets from here where that was the basis for the meet" Exactly that and a bit of tease/denial ... like getting to point they literally can’t bear it anymore and start manoeuvring into position to try and take control and speed up , then a firm hand on the throat or hair pulled... be a good girl , I’m in control still lol | |||
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"Well, that's a very interesting point. Personally, I like a mixture of both, slow and sensual, building up, and some fooling around and foreplay. Find this helps build energy and tension, then lead up to, as you say, fuck like bunnies Of course there is a time for both but it seems like only one is focused on " It depends on a few things namely mood if she says fuck me hard or harder I’ll happily adjust | |||
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"There’s definitely a time and a place for both for me " A time, a place and a mood and this is exactly what I was about to say. Sometimes alternating the 2 is also needed. | |||
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"There’s definitely a time and a place for both for me A time, a place and a mood and this is exactly what I was about to say. Sometimes alternating the 2 is also needed. " Oh yes. Absolutely | |||
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"I just find it extremely boring. I don't do it with my husband, so any guy looking to "make love" isn't for me. But each to their own. " It baffles me that anyone can view eye contact, intense chemistry and passionate pleasing as boring but each to their own | |||
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"Being sensual and passionate when having sex brings a whole different energy. All sex is different... Sensual sex for me is where you are more intimate, more kissing involved.. you feel more in to each other... The straight sex and foreplay is more of routine kind of sex... mutual oral.. then just switching positions which in the end the goal in mind is just to cum.. just isn’t good for a women if that guy shoots his load too quick lol but being sensual she would feel more satisfied as there is much more of a build up but each to their own. " I agree with this in part but I also think it's more about taking the time to understand their responses and being in tune with them. It's not necessarily about love or feelings and it's sad that people see those things in a boring or negative way. I'd bet money on the fact that many crave intimacy, touch and closeness from another person and they use sex as a way to get it | |||
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"Being sensual and passionate when having sex brings a whole different energy. All sex is different... Sensual sex for me is where you are more intimate, more kissing involved.. you feel more in to each other... The straight sex and foreplay is more of routine kind of sex... mutual oral.. then just switching positions which in the end the goal in mind is just to cum.. just isn’t good for a women if that guy shoots his load too quick lol but being sensual she would feel more satisfied as there is much more of a build up but each to their own. I agree with this in part but I also think it's more about taking the time to understand their responses and being in tune with them. It's not necessarily about love or feelings and it's sad that people see those things in a boring or negative way. I'd bet money on the fact that many crave intimacy, touch and closeness from another person and they use sex as a way to get it " thats why we use massage to enhance the meets and slow things down ....x | |||
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"I like both but we can plan a slow and sensual playtime but when he walks in the door and the urge sweeps over you then hard and fast against the wall just has to be done, slow and sensual will wait for round 2" Hell yes. For me hard and fast scratches an itch. It's like one of those monstrous sundaes that's probably got like a million calories. It's amazing, my taste buds explode, all the orgasms, etc. That doesn't mean I don't like a hearty home cooked meal. Different benefits. (And I certainly don't just talk about hard and fast) | |||
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"I'm contemplating.. Sometimes I look at this site and think this concept of passion and sensuality is quite alien to some. Everyone seems to want to fuck hard and fast. The art of gentle touch and sensual seduction seems to be frowned upon or even seen as a bit boring. Why is that? Is it because you can fuck like a bunny with less risk of emotion? " I disagree. I've seen many people state preferences for this type of activity, though to be fair, they tend to be women. Slow, soft and sensual has its place, as does the opposite. Often times mood can dictate where things lead. I enjoy both, and most sessions will combine the two. The change of tempo and interplay makes for a far better experience. Whichever one people do, I fell it should be passionate driven and lust laden; otherwise what's the point? | |||
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"Most of the time it’s a facade or people just bragging Yeah, I think a lot of men think women want it hard and fast all the time, possibly because a lot of porn perpetuates that myth. Personally I love slowing it right down and spending some time teasing with sensual strokes and lingering kisses, and have had meets from here where that was the basis for the meet Exactly that and a bit of tease/denial ... like getting to point they literally can’t bear it anymore and start manoeuvring into position to try and take control and speed up , then a firm hand on the throat or hair pulled... be a good girl , I’m in control still lol " You've hit the nail on the head here. I love to tease because I want my partner to not be able to stand it, and NEED more. The thrill is in getting her to break first and demand a good fucking | |||
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"I sometimes write beautiful descriptions of prolonged sensuality, the thrill of taking one's time to explore a person physically and the delicious sensory reactions that come with a deeper, more prolonged intimacy. But my phone always autocorrects it to FAF. " | |||
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"I just find it extremely boring. I don't do it with my husband, so any guy looking to "make love" isn't for me. But each to their own. It baffles me that anyone can view eye contact, intense chemistry and passionate pleasing as boring but each to their own " I once had a woman say 'make love to me' I literally laughed so hard I wanted to vomit! I told her there and then it wasn't going to happen and never saw her again. So im definitely with Mrs Cherry and prefer a good hard fuck. | |||
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