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"I was 11 when I realised. And I go on actual dates with ladies. I don’t get it being a ‘swinging thing’. Seems bizarre to me xx" I personally don't get it either. But I have seen people say that it's just their sex life so they don't feel the need to tell other people about. Which I get but that's not me. | |||
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"I dated women a good few years before I dated men - what was surprising to me was that I was even attracted to men. Nowadays I'm quite cockcentric but with the right woman I'd be open to dating or sex. It's not so much about the gender for me, more the feelings they ignite inside." Do women who give you good book recommendations ignite feelings too? | |||
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"I dated women a good few years before I dated men - what was surprising to me was that I was even attracted to men. Nowadays I'm quite cockcentric but with the right woman I'd be open to dating or sex. It's not so much about the gender for me, more the feelings they ignite inside. Do women who give you good book recommendations ignite feelings too?" 100%. Being on the same page as me is a literary delight. | |||
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"And I'm not open about it in as far as I'd tell a random person but my family met my girlfriend (she even stayed with us for a couple of weeks) and now I have a fiance who is a man so... I think they know. Maybe." To be honest, I never came out. I just got a girlfriend one day and that was that. | |||
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"I dated women a good few years before I dated men - what was surprising to me was that I was even attracted to men. Nowadays I'm quite cockcentric but with the right woman I'd be open to dating or sex. It's not so much about the gender for me, more the feelings they ignite inside. Do women who give you good book recommendations ignite feelings too? 100%. Being on the same page as me is a literary delight." I see what you did there | |||
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"And I'm not open about it in as far as I'd tell a random person but my family met my girlfriend (she even stayed with us for a couple of weeks) and now I have a fiance who is a man so... I think they know. Maybe." This for me too. | |||
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"Early 20s. Got a blowjob from a guy while I was kissing his wife and until that, I was convinced I was 100% straight. " But that’s just someone putting their mouth round your cock. I don’t think it makes you bisexual. Personally I think if you look at a man and fancy him, then you’d be bisexual. That’s just my opinion though. | |||
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"Early 20s. Got a blowjob from a guy while I was kissing his wife and until that, I was convinced I was 100% straight. But that’s just someone putting their mouth round your cock. I don’t think it makes you bisexual. Personally I think if you look at a man and fancy him, then you’d be bisexual. That’s just my opinion though." Thanks for your opinion. I didn’t say it made me bisexual. I had a sexual experience with another man and enjoyed it and as a result of that, decided to explore further. I’ve never “fancied” another man but I’ve enjoyed a lot of sexual encounters with them. I’m classing that as bisexual regardless of other people’s opinions. | |||
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"I was well into my 30s before I realised I was bisexual. Not entirely sure why. I have always found other women attractive, but for whatever reason never put 2 and 2 together. Strangely, I actually got chatted up by women more in vanilla situations, when I thought I was straight. Maybe they knew something I didn't. " We actually started swinging initially, so that I could explore my bisexuality. | |||
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"My daughter is 15 in a few weeks. Chatting in the kitchen the other night and she told me she is bi. She said she didn't think but she knows. She says that she is very much attracted to girls as she is boys but says she wouldn't want to be in a long term relationship with a girl as she would a boy. She took offence when I asked if she maybe she was more curious. She knows that I want is her to " live her life" the way she wants and is happy. She has only told me and her friend so far. Turns out her friend (16 ) is also bi. My biggest concern tho is that says she dosnt want to be bi and wishes she didnt like girls. I honestly think I accepted it more than she does herself at the moment. " Your daughter is lucky to have such an understanding mum. Many don't x | |||
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"My daughter is 15 in a few weeks. Chatting in the kitchen the other night and she told me she is bi. She said she didn't think but she knows. She says that she is very much attracted to girls as she is boys but says she wouldn't want to be in a long term relationship with a girl as she would a boy. She took offence when I asked if she maybe she was more curious. She knows that I want is her to " live her life" the way she wants and is happy. She has only told me and her friend so far. Turns out her friend (16 ) is also bi. My biggest concern tho is that says she dosnt want to be bi and wishes she didnt like girls. I honestly think I accepted it more than she does herself at the moment. Your daughter is lucky to have such an understanding mum. Many don't x" Kind of you to say. X | |||
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"Early 20s. Got a blowjob from a guy while I was kissing his wife and until that, I was convinced I was 100% straight. But that’s just someone putting their mouth round your cock. I don’t think it makes you bisexual. Personally I think if you look at a man and fancy him, then you’d be bisexual. That’s just my opinion though." I can't imagine myself wanting a relationship with a man the way I have with a woman. My closest friends have been women, not men. But I certainly get turned on looking at some men, usually when they are naked or half-naked. | |||
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"Early 20s. Got a blowjob from a guy while I was kissing his wife and until that, I was convinced I was 100% straight. But that’s just someone putting their mouth round your cock. I don’t think it makes you bisexual. Personally I think if you look at a man and fancy him, then you’d be bisexual. That’s just my opinion though. Thanks for your opinion. I didn’t say it made me bisexual. I had a sexual experience with another man and enjoyed it and as a result of that, decided to explore further. I’ve never “fancied” another man but I’ve enjoyed a lot of sexual encounters with them. I’m classing that as bisexual regardless of other people’s opinions. " Cool | |||
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"I was 14 when i realised.. Ive been dipping in and out of it ever since " Exactly | |||
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"I had a major meltdown 3 year ago..flashbacks to a life of abuse in and outside of the home. Result after a few near terminations was that I found myself...I didnt realise there was a real me...didn t realise why I d been angry and raging at the world. So I took myself off into a woodland and lived there homeless for over two years and determined to self analyse and face myself and the horror that was my childhood....thats when a new me emerged..a calm me, its very summarised but thats when I found I didnt care what gender a person was...if I liked or loved them thats what mattered. Hope this makes sense. Still have stuff to face but I am able to keep it fairly calm and let it process without reacting to it...but the mental side is another story..but yeah thats when I found I was bisexual...sorry if this dampens some peoples mood. " It makes perfect sense.Stopping and taking a hard look at yourself is a very brave step to take that most on the reflection/learn/change path fall at, and to share part of that is even harder. It hasn't dampened my mood, it has been lifted to know that we now live in an environment where this stuff is no longer hidden and can be openly discussed. Thank you for sharing...L xx | |||
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"I had a major meltdown 3 year ago..flashbacks to a life of abuse in and outside of the home. Result after a few near terminations was that I found myself...I didnt realise there was a real me...didn t realise why I d been angry and raging at the world. So I took myself off into a woodland and lived there homeless for over two years and determined to self analyse and face myself and the horror that was my childhood....thats when a new me emerged..a calm me, its very summarised but thats when I found I didnt care what gender a person was...if I liked or loved them thats what mattered. Hope this makes sense. Still have stuff to face but I am able to keep it fairly calm and let it process without reacting to it...but the mental side is another story..but yeah thats when I found I was bisexual...sorry if this dampens some peoples mood. It makes perfect sense.Stopping and taking a hard look at yourself is a very brave step to take that most on the reflection/learn/change path fall at, and to share part of that is even harder. It hasn't dampened my mood, it has been lifted to know that we now live in an environment where this stuff is no longer hidden and can be openly discussed. Thank you for sharing...L xx" Been through the hard times... roll on the good times | |||
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"I had a major meltdown 3 year ago..flashbacks to a life of abuse in and outside of the home. Result after a few near terminations was that I found myself...I didnt realise there was a real me...didn t realise why I d been angry and raging at the world. So I took myself off into a woodland and lived there homeless for over two years and determined to self analyse and face myself and the horror that was my childhood....thats when a new me emerged..a calm me, its very summarised but thats when I found I didnt care what gender a person was...if I liked or loved them thats what mattered. Hope this makes sense. Still have stuff to face but I am able to keep it fairly calm and let it process without reacting to it...but the mental side is another story..but yeah thats when I found I was bisexual...sorry if this dampens some peoples mood. It makes perfect sense.Stopping and taking a hard look at yourself is a very brave step to take that most on the reflection/learn/change path fall at, and to share part of that is even harder. It hasn't dampened my mood, it has been lifted to know that we now live in an environment where this stuff is no longer hidden and can be openly discussed. Thank you for sharing...L xx Been through the hard times... roll on the good times " After the storm comes the sun...honest | |||
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"I had a major meltdown 3 year ago..flashbacks to a life of abuse in and outside of the home. Result after a few near terminations was that I found myself...I didnt realise there was a real me...didn t realise why I d been angry and raging at the world. So I took myself off into a woodland and lived there homeless for over two years and determined to self analyse and face myself and the horror that was my childhood....thats when a new me emerged..a calm me, its very summarised but thats when I found I didnt care what gender a person was...if I liked or loved them thats what mattered. Hope this makes sense. Still have stuff to face but I am able to keep it fairly calm and let it process without reacting to it...but the mental side is another story..but yeah thats when I found I was bisexual...sorry if this dampens some peoples mood. It makes perfect sense.Stopping and taking a hard look at yourself is a very brave step to take that most on the reflection/learn/change path fall at, and to share part of that is even harder. It hasn't dampened my mood, it has been lifted to know that we now live in an environment where this stuff is no longer hidden and can be openly discussed. Thank you for sharing...L xx" I learned the hard way that boxing it up is a road to self destruction..it needs to be out to cleanse. | |||
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"When did you know? Were you quite young when you found out (like me) or has it come about later in life or through swinging? Are you open about it and interested in same sex relationships (like me!) or is it just sex and a swinging thing? Yes I'm nosy. " In my teens I use to kiss the girl from across the road from there I just knew I liked both, and yes I'd be open to a same sex relationship xx | |||
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""...and you know it clap your hands!" Is that not what you were expecting too when you opened the thread?? " Absolutely what i was expecting to read. Haha, made me chuckle x | |||
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"When did you know? Were you quite young when you found out (like me) or has it come about later in life or through swinging? Are you open about it and interested in same sex relationships (like me!) or is it just sex and a swinging thing? Yes I'm nosy. " Very much just a sex thing. Started very early though. Very. | |||
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