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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't think people would notice our absence on a personal level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From this site ??? No, I wouldn't be missed at all although I'd miss some people, I'm moving to Scotland at the end of August, will anyone even notice lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I don't think people would notice our absence on a personal level.

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I actually think I might! I like your writing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back "

Thanks goodness for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From this site ??? No, I wouldn't be missed at all although I'd miss some people, I'm moving to Scotland at the end of August, will anyone even notice lol"

Scotland. Lucky lucky you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No I don't think people would notice our absence on a personal level.

I actually think I might! I like your writing. "

Ah, do you. Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would be missed maybe for half a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only gone missing a few times due to a forum ban. Enjoyed the little break when its happened but always get a warm welcome back again and have even received messages when they notice I haven't been active. It's nice to know I'm missed by some! I'm well aware that most couldn't give a monkey's flunky though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be missed as no one really knows me and I'm not in the clique

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do they measure out their lives in coffee spoons? /nerd

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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No one would care. Those that might miss my ways are hiding anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i dont think so, and thats ok

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wouldn’t be noticed

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Those that like me, possibly? I'm not sure. I know when I've taken a hiatus before I've come back to lovely messages checking in on me so maybe. I'm not really a frequent poster any more.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back "

You have such an adorable face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X "

No. Why should they?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X "

I'm not sure anyone would particularly notice if we left, I don't think that we stick out from the crowd.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids would miss me and my pets . It's only them I'd miss too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah.. im forgettable

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X "

I don’t think they would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back

You have such an adorable face. "

Ohhhh! You make me so happy! I’m grinning at my phone!

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

...

I don't think I'd be missed from the forums, I don't really post that much.

People I'm chatting with might miss me though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I had a few weeks away earlier in the year, and I did have a few WhatsApp messages from people on here checking that I was okay...but apart from that I don't think anyone noticed that I hadn't been around

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I could slip away quietly and very few would notice

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Anabelle21...Anabelle21 who!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went AWOL fairly recently, had a couple of messages when I came back. The ones that would actually notice or care have others ways of contacting me, the rest? Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be missed from the forums, I don't really post that much.

People I'm chatting with might miss me though xx"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I notice when some aren't around. I get used to seeing them and miss their contribution even if we've not spoken personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would anyone notice if I went AWOL?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Would it be noticed - by a few I’d guess

Would I be missed - by even less I’d say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a person who dips in and out again on forums and as I'm always leading hectic life, also fairly new on here I don't think I'll be "missed", but I'd like to think it would be for my light and upbeat comments or posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope don’t feel we would be missed at all which is fine and indeed dandy.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone notice if I went AWOL? "

I genuinely think I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone notice if I went AWOL?

I genuinely think I would "

Haha really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone notice if I went AWOL?

I genuinely think I would

Haha really? "

Yeah of course. Who would everyone phone when they want phonesex?

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve come and gone and I’m sure nobody noticed when I was gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone notice if I went AWOL?

I genuinely think I would

Haha really?

Yeah of course. Who would everyone phone when they want phonesex?"

Oh yeah, you're right I don't think I can leave now!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back "

I missed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it wouldn’t be noticed "

*ahem*

I think you would!! Who would message me everymorning?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Nope. I've wandered off for a few weeks at a time in the last few months, just hidden my profile when things got tense and stopped being fun. The only person who noticed has other ways of contacting me so it wasn't a big deal.

I quite like being on the sidelines though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be missed as no one really knows me and I'm not in the clique "

I would miss you as you are on my Hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it wouldn’t be noticed

*ahem*

I think you would!! Who would message me everymorning? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt anyone would notice my absence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not because it would mean I was spending far too much time on here.

I don’t enjoy posting anymore but I do notice people who haven’t been around for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I’ve come and gone and I’m sure nobody noticed when I was gone. "

Yeah we did

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I doubt if I'd be missed but I've not been very active on here recently anyway.

It's funny how if I put a picture up I'm bombarded with messages but a few days later it's totally dead.Shows how fleeting and fickle it all is

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I might be missed for the weekend PHWOAAR thread and my sarcasm but that’s all

Anyone who’s likely to miss me would private message me anyway. I think when people go unlos it’s difficult to remember everyone’s user name!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

One day i will go and plan to come back younger . Doubt i will be missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I’ve come and gone and I’m sure nobody noticed when I was gone. "

I certainly did PB

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow. This turned out quite saddening actually. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X

No. Why should they?"

It's not a question of should to me.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Wow. This turned out quite saddening actually. Sorry. "

Isn't it the nature of the beast? It's like work some people come and go, you have a few old stalwarts and the ones in-between. It's neither a good or a bad thing, it just is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be missed from the forums, I don't really post that much.

People I'm chatting with might miss me though xx"

You would be missed from the forum 100%.

Can’t talk for the people chatting to you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't think people would notice our absence on a personal level.

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I would miss you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a few people would notice if I vanished as I've been here 5 years and never taken much of a break. I doubt I'd be missed though as I'm a bit of a loner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some would, but mostly the ones in would have contact with outside the site, WhatsApp, kik etc.

Unfortunately you think some are friends but just aren't, this is transient so best not getting too attached!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nobody would notice if I left, I’m not prolific on the forum and I don’t meet. Most days I just peer in the window at you all from behind a bush the Fab garden

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow. This turned out quite saddening actually. Sorry.

Isn't it the nature of the beast? It's like work some people come and go, you have a few old stalwarts and the ones in-between. It's neither a good or a bad thing, it just is "

Thanks Frida. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much. "

I noticed.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My friends would miss perving me but they chat to me off here so it would be ok, I'm pretty sure the virus threads would cheer if I went unlos though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely wouldn't be missed, but there again, aren't we all just fleeting on here one way or an other?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anabelle21...Anabelle21 who!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most would be glad to see the back of me, doubtful my disappearance would be noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm quite easily forgotten.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much. "

Doc..I notice if you are not around x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Anabelle21...Anabelle21 who!

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I'm over here

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Most would be glad to see the back of me, doubtful my disappearance would be noticed "

Nonsense. I love reading your often daft posts, they bring a smile to my face.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Unlikely and I'm fine with that.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Anabelle21...Anabelle21 who!"

Your derrière avatar would be missed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

I noticed. "

Not the 8 month one. I think you noticed a much shorter departure.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Unlikely and I'm fine with that."

Oh you certainly would be missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve come and gone and I’m sure nobody noticed when I was gone. "

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most would be glad to see the back of me, doubtful my disappearance would be noticed

Nonsense. I love reading your often daft posts, they bring a smile to my face. "

Aww Meli, I am so glad to know you

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I think a few people would notice if I vanished as I've been here 5 years and never taken much of a break. I doubt I'd be missed though as I'm a bit of a loner. "

Your part of the furniture Dana - no Dana no fab!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Anabelle21...Anabelle21 who!

Your derrière avatar would be missed! "

Thanks DC. It does have a personality all of its own

I'd notice of you weren't around much and did do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I'm quite easily forgotten."

Who are you

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

No-one notices me when I post on here, so I certainly wouldn't be noticed or indeed missed if I were to go UNLOS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

Doc..I notice if you are not around x"

If I tell you I’m going for good it wouldn’t count as noticing

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back

This "

Cheeky you have a great presence and I'd miss seeing you around x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I went off here I think ive a few people who would notice but thsts because I chat to them daily. Noone else would as I dont exactly stand out on here. Id notice if most of my friends vanish and message them if possible x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

Doc..I notice if you are not around x

If I tell you I’m going for good it wouldn’t count as noticing "

No, but it would count as a sad day to me. A person who makes great posts and is just a great guy x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We have left once. A couple of friends noticed and messaged to check we were ok.

My early morning wake up call was missed.

We took a break a few weeks ago and again a couple of friends messaged. I don't think we would be missed only by friends we have connected with.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

I noticed.

Not the 8 month one. I think you noticed a much shorter departure."

So it wasnt just me..feeling kind of guilty now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m irrelevant.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’m irrelevant."

that's bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they probably wouldn't but in saying that when I've come back I have had a few welcome back messages

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t think so. I’m just a figure of your imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m irrelevant.

that's bollocks "

See I would miss those witty quick comments of yours for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a few people would notice if I vanished as I've been here 5 years and never taken much of a break. I doubt I'd be missed though as I'm a bit of a loner.

Your part of the furniture Dana - no Dana no fab! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they probably wouldn't but in saying that when I've come back I have had a few welcome back messages "

Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have left once. A couple of friends noticed and messaged to check we were ok.

My early morning wake up call was missed.

We took a break a few weeks ago and again a couple of friends messaged. I don't think we would be missed only by friends we have connected with.

Jo.Xx "

I’d notice if you left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No-one notices me when I post on here, so I certainly wouldn't be noticed or indeed missed if I were to go UNLOS.

"

That T-shirt is fucking ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X "

Unlos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

I noticed.

Not the 8 month one. I think you noticed a much shorter departure.

So it wasnt just me..feeling kind of guilty now!"

My 8 month absence was a long time ago. I’d tell my friends if I was leaving so that wouldn’t count as not noticing.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Definitely not from the forum, but yes, I’d definitely be missed by many Fab users...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’m irrelevant.

that's bollocks

See I would miss those witty quick comments of yours for sure. "

That was nice..thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

I noticed.

Not the 8 month one. I think you noticed a much shorter departure.

So it wasnt just me..feeling kind of guilty now!

My 8 month absence was a long time ago. I’d tell my friends if I was leaving so that wouldn’t count as not noticing.

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Ah I hope this isnt on the cards..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I'm quite easily forgotten.

Who are you "

Err Hmmmmm I really can't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely wouldn't be missed, but there again, aren't we all just fleeting on here one way or an other? "

I missed you doc.

When I went unlos with the Lacey and Sam profile I missed lots of you, that’s the only reason I came back.

I’ve always been the guy that says it’s just words on a screen.

I missed the words.

I’ve realised lately that the frank openness about talking to people on here is something that’s very important to my headspace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect them to. However I have gone unlos several times and ppl do seem to. I always get messages asking where I've gone and ppl trying to lure me back with snippets from the forums or telling me it's boring without me - oh yeah I'll come back then if it's boring...!!!

I'll come when I'm ready thanks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X

Unlos? "

Yes? What's UNLOS?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X "

Not sure if my presence would be noticed as I don’t really post much and just float around.

I’d be hoping that they miss just the positivity I hope I bring to the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely don’t think anyone would notice if we weren’t around but that’s cool

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X

Unlos?

Yes? What's UNLOS?"

UserNoLongerOnSite

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By *ngel_vs_devil33Woman
over a year ago

i’ll let you know

Not been on here long enough for anyone to notice or to be missed, even if I had been here a long time I’d still doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely don’t think anyone would notice if we weren’t around but that’s cool "

We have noticed when you haven't posted for a while. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

I noticed.

Not the 8 month one. I think you noticed a much shorter departure.

So it wasnt just me..feeling kind of guilty now!

My 8 month absence was a long time ago. I’d tell my friends if I was leaving so that wouldn’t count as not noticing.

Ah I hope this isnt on the cards.. "

Not unless I become disillusioned with the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure.

I think as I post a lot they might but I wouldn't impact anyone in any way.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"We have left once. A couple of friends noticed and messaged to check we were ok.

My early morning wake up call was missed.

We took a break a few weeks ago and again a couple of friends messaged. I don't think we would be missed only by friends we have connected with.

Jo.Xx

I’d notice if you left "

You did.

Jo.Xx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I doubt anyone would miss me but the ones who might have other ways to keep in touch with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went unlos tomorrow.. do you think anyone would notice? What would you hope people miss you for?

If I dont manage to reply to all, apologies. X

Unlos?

Yes? What's UNLOS?

UserNoLongerOnSite "

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i dont think so, and thats ok"

Yes definitely as your name always pops up on who do you miss threads.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I'm not sure.

I think as I post a lot they might but I wouldn't impact anyone in any way. "

I notice when you take a step back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure.

I think as I post a lot they might but I wouldn't impact anyone in any way. "

Wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure.

I think as I post a lot they might but I wouldn't impact anyone in any way.

I notice when you take a step back."

Iv done that a bit recently.

I don't get messages like others have said but people often ask after me on Ash's threads so that's nice.

I notice when your not around too. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure.

I think as I post a lot they might but I wouldn't impact anyone in any way.

Wrong!"

We definitely noticed when you went AWOL. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nah.. im forgettable "

I dont think so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah.. im forgettable

I dont think so? "

The question mark showed that you are not sure of that

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We notice when people we’ve met - mainly at socials - go quiet or unlos. It’s great when they come back fhough.

Not sure our absence would be noticed now due to not being as active as we were 4/5 years ago

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely don’t think anyone would notice if we weren’t around but that’s cool

We have noticed when you haven't posted for a while. X"

Awwww thank you lovely! You would definitely be missed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would like to believe that there is at least one person amongst Lounge users who would miss every one of us. It doesnt have to be someone you expect.. but in the ocean of comments we all get a chance to stand out in more or less obvious ways. The ones that matter to me, arent the ones that will touch others or make them reflect, laugh, hope. I truly hope that we all touched someone in a virtual way without knowing it or being acknowledged at the time for more than one reason..and we wouldnt know any different until we would disappear.. when it would no longer matter so much. I caught myself on that today when popeye left. Sometimes we dont realise someone has made a positive mark on our fab journey, no matter how small, until they are gone. Just like in the outside world... so let's rush to appreciate people around us. That's my conclusion for tonight. Thanks for everyone's contributions.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Tuberose, I meant to say this earlier. We may not speak privately but I'd notice if you were absent....so don't be going anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nah.. im forgettable

I dont think so?

The question mark showed that you are not sure of that "

I didnt want to invalidate her feelings I guess? F&B I miss you being away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go unlos a lot. I don’t think anyone notices because I always come back "

I'd notice and miss you!

And your new display picture is so gorgeous!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tuberose, I meant to say this earlier. We may not speak privately but I'd notice if you were absent....so don't be going anywhere "

Oh gosh I didnt mean to make it about me ..

Thank you though. X

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Tuberose, I meant to say this earlier. We may not speak privately but I'd notice if you were absent....so don't be going anywhere

Oh gosh I didnt mean to make it about me ..

Thank you though. X"

You didn't make it so. I wanted to say so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’ve left before I actually posted one of those leaving threads. But to be fair I didn’t stretch it out and left pretty much immediately after posting!

I had a few messages privately on Kik etc saying goodbye but I think within a day or so everyone’s moved on - it’s the cycle of life on here and most people are quickly forgotten.

And then inevitably most end up coming back anyway!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"When I’ve left before I actually posted one of those leaving threads. But to be fair I didn’t stretch it out and left pretty much immediately after posting!

I had a few messages privately on Kik etc saying goodbye but I think within a day or so everyone’s moved on - it’s the cycle of life on here and most people are quickly forgotten.

And then inevitably most end up coming back anyway! "

It is a cycle but I still remember fondly some that have left.

They were all characters and different in their way. All added something good to the place.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Anabelle21...Anabelle21 who!

Your derrière avatar would be missed!

Thanks DC. It does have a personality all of its own

I'd notice of you weren't around much and did do x"

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I doubt anyone would miss me but the ones who might have other ways to keep in touch with me "

Yes we would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think goodbye post is nice. Lets people say how they feel.. gives some closure. Flounce not so much. I left but I knew I would be back. Didnt make a fuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it would even be noticed. I'm cool with that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt it would even be noticed. I'm cool with that though. "

Of course you would. Your pictures are fantastic. You joined in on PoF photo challenges.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There are definitely a few people I would think of if they disappeared. There are the occasional ones I have pined for.

I think a small number of people would notice if we left and fewer would be bothered by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at the moment as so many people are taking a break from the forums and some with profile unavailable people can get lost in the new fab we find ourselves in.

Do we not care? Of course not we just all have our own stuff and demons to deal with.

When people start seeing the kids back to school, head back to the office I think the forums will go back to how they were in January. Then people will notice if you go silent or unlos.

From my perspective we all have our place here but I respect peoples need for quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think anyone would notice if I went.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

We won’t be missed. Even with a shotgun.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No one would miss me for sure because I’m an awkward biatch lol.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I dont think anyone would notice if I went."

I would. You post sporadically but I think I'd notice most posters if they stopped for a bit. Especially the "older" members.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be"

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo.

I went offline for six months from June until December last year. Saying that, I stayed in touch with those who might have missed me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind going unlos I doubt many would notice if I vanished completely

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten? "

Because at the end of the day it's an internet site full of random strangers and apart from a very small group of people I have no more meaning to those strangers than they do to me - so I would not expect or hope to be remembered in any great respect by anyone other than that very small group of people with whom I've formed some sort of connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten?

Because at the end of the day it's an internet site full of random strangers and apart from a very small group of people I have no more meaning to those strangers than they do to me - so I would not expect or hope to be remembered in any great respect by anyone other than that very small group of people with whom I've formed some sort of connection."

Very good point. I think there's five people who I've formed any sort of proper lasting connection with on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten?

Because at the end of the day it's an internet site full of random strangers and apart from a very small group of people I have no more meaning to those strangers than they do to me - so I would not expect or hope to be remembered in any great respect by anyone other than that very small group of people with whom I've formed some sort of connection."

Randomness of us here is a bit questionable to me.. everything is for a reason no? I feel you are undermining the butterfly effect of your words, GM

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No one has even noticed I’ve left a comment lol.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten?

Because at the end of the day it's an internet site full of random strangers and apart from a very small group of people I have no more meaning to those strangers than they do to me - so I would not expect or hope to be remembered in any great respect by anyone other than that very small group of people with whom I've formed some sort of connection.

Randomness of us here is a bit questionable to me.. everything is for a reason no? I feel you are undermining the butterfly effect of your words, GM "

Not at all - I don't say anything that isn't said by others, my words carry no more meaning or significance than those of others and in fact some would argue they carry less - I'd be forgotten within days by the vast majority and that's exactly how it should be - to pretend or hope otherwise would be both vain and arrogant

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Deep sniff.............

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

smells of bullshit in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten?

Because at the end of the day it's an internet site full of random strangers and apart from a very small group of people I have no more meaning to those strangers than they do to me - so I would not expect or hope to be remembered in any great respect by anyone other than that very small group of people with whom I've formed some sort of connection.

Randomness of us here is a bit questionable to me.. everything is for a reason no? I feel you are undermining the butterfly effect of your words, GM

Not at all - I don't say anything that isn't said by others, my words carry no more meaning or significance than those of others and in fact some would argue they carry less - I'd be forgotten within days by the vast majority and that's exactly how it should be - to pretend or hope otherwise would be both vain and arrogant "

I think deep down most of us have yearning to be remembered. I dont feel arrogant for it. Even if we know it's not possible to recall all people who crossed our paths.. its comforting to think we mattered to someone? Our words or gestures.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

I think deep down most of us have yearning to be remembered. I dont feel arrogant for it. Even if we know it's not possible to recall all people who crossed our paths.. its comforting to think we mattered to someone? Our words or gestures. "

By those that matter perhaps, by those who were merely passers by not so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one has even noticed I’ve left a comment lol. "

Will teach me to post only when I am able to reply to every single comment. Sorry you weren't noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"smells of bullshit in here"

I’ll open up the windows

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

Ive been gone all day and nobody noticed!

That said, I dont really stand out and I'm certainly not in the cool gang of people on here

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"No one has even noticed I’ve left a comment lol.

Will teach me to post only when I am able to reply to every single comment. Sorry you weren't noticed. "

No worries but it’s proved the point of the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never mind going unlos I doubt many would notice if I vanished completely"

Are you ok? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten?

Because at the end of the day it's an internet site full of random strangers and apart from a very small group of people I have no more meaning to those strangers than they do to me - so I would not expect or hope to be remembered in any great respect by anyone other than that very small group of people with whom I've formed some sort of connection.

Randomness of us here is a bit questionable to me.. everything is for a reason no? I feel you are undermining the butterfly effect of your words, GM

Not at all - I don't say anything that isn't said by others, my words carry no more meaning or significance than those of others and in fact some would argue they carry less - I'd be forgotten within days by the vast majority and that's exactly how it should be - to pretend or hope otherwise would be both vain and arrogant

I think deep down most of us have yearning to be remembered. I dont feel arrogant for it. Even if we know it's not possible to recall all people who crossed our paths.. its comforting to think we mattered to someone? Our words or gestures. "

It's often not the words that are remembered, more the way others made you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one has even noticed I’ve left a comment lol.

Will teach me to post only when I am able to reply to every single comment. Sorry you weren't noticed.

No worries but it’s proved the point of the thread "

But didn’t the fact that you then got a reply (and now another, with this one!) disprove the point of the thread?? Hmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last I disappeared for a long time with a hidden profile not one person noticed. I was gone for 8 months. So I doubt it very much.

I noticed.

Not the 8 month one. I think you noticed a much shorter departure.

So it wasnt just me..feeling kind of guilty now!

My 8 month absence was a long time ago. I’d tell my friends if I was leaving so that wouldn’t count as not noticing.

"

I did notice the longer one but I think it was before we had chatted much.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve come and gone and I’m sure nobody noticed when I was gone.

Yeah we did "

Ocht shush you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been gone all day and nobody noticed!

That said, I dont really stand out and I'm certainly not in the cool gang of people on here"

I was gone 20 minutes and everyone was bereft

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"No one has even noticed I’ve left a comment lol.

Will teach me to post only when I am able to reply to every single comment. Sorry you weren't noticed.

No worries but it’s proved the point of the thread

But didn’t the fact that you then got a reply (and now another, with this one!) disprove the point of the thread?? Hmmmm. "

Mr DanBerks a woman such as moi should have been noticed after my first comment....my comment wasn’t noticed so I proved the point of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one has even noticed I’ve left a comment lol.

Will teach me to post only when I am able to reply to every single comment. Sorry you weren't noticed.

No worries but it’s proved the point of the thread

But didn’t the fact that you then got a reply (and now another, with this one!) disprove the point of the thread?? Hmmmm.

Mr DanBerks a woman such as moi should have been noticed after my first comment....my comment wasn’t noticed so I proved the point of the thread. "

There wasnt a point as such. Just couple of questions. I didn't intend to make anyone feel unwanted on here. Apologies.

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

https://youtu.be/T3ZgSUmuy74 joni mitchell " down to you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that know me and who I talk to regularly would probably notice but those are the kind of people I'd probably stay in touch with anyway.

Others may notice but like yesterdays chip paper I suspect I'd soon be forgotten - which is exactly as I would hope it would be

I need to follow up on this one. Why would you hope you would be forgotten?

Because at the end of the day it's an internet site full of random strangers and apart from a very small group of people I have no more meaning to those strangers than they do to me - so I would not expect or hope to be remembered in any great respect by anyone other than that very small group of people with whom I've formed some sort of connection."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to believe that there is at least one person amongst Lounge users who would miss every one of us. It doesnt have to be someone you expect.. but in the ocean of comments we all get a chance to stand out in more or less obvious ways. The ones that matter to me, arent the ones that will touch others or make them reflect, laugh, hope. I truly hope that we all touched someone in a virtual way without knowing it or being acknowledged at the time for more than one reason..and we wouldnt know any different until we would disappear.. when it would no longer matter so much. I caught myself on that today when popeye left. Sometimes we dont realise someone has made a positive mark on our fab journey, no matter how small, until they are gone. Just like in the outside world... so let's rush to appreciate people around us. That's my conclusion for tonight. Thanks for everyone's contributions. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It's often not the words that are remembered, more the way others made you feel."

Thanks for reminding me of that, Hine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt IV made a mark on anyone's fab journey

Maybe a very slight smear but certainly nothing lasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I went UNLOS last year and was away for 10 months I didn’t see any signs of being missed and I often viewed the forums to have a read.

I’d like to be remembered on here for my threads about cooking and my love of all things bum hole.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"No one has even noticed I’ve left a comment lol.

Will teach me to post only when I am able to reply to every single comment. Sorry you weren't noticed.

No worries but it’s proved the point of the thread

But didn’t the fact that you then got a reply (and now another, with this one!) disprove the point of the thread?? Hmmmm.

Mr DanBerks a woman such as moi should have been noticed after my first comment....my comment wasn’t noticed so I proved the point of the thread. "

Lots of comments go unreplied to - Tuberose wasn't doing it with malice and it's not an example of every other person got a reply bar you. I think you would be noticed if you went UNLOS but I also can't think of a poster (bar Ash, Jim and Privateparts) who are inclusive and reply to all. We've all been there, post a comment and nothing back. I think this thread was actually quite an interesting one; it's interesting seeing what people want to be remembered by and if they think they are invisible/easily forgotten or not. We all make the fora what it is, whether that's through flirting, daftness or thought provoking posts. Anyway, nice thread Tube, I enjoyed it a lot.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thank you Rose. A very thoughtful and genuine thread.

Jo.Xx

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