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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After being on here for many years, it’s time to call it a day and settle down.
I appreciate the friendships I’ve made along the years and all the people that I’ve gotten to know and meet. I know there’s a few I wanted to get my hands on but I guess you’ve had a lucky escape (bloody age range lol).
There’s a lot of new faces on the forums and many that I know and many that I don’t know. I’m not trying to act as though I’m some sort of a celebrity or a forum guru but I’ve always been a ‘friend’ to many on here and they’ve always shared a lot of stuff with me (the good, the bad and the ugly).
A recurring theme throughout the years has been females letting guys walk all over them on here. The amount of people I’ve spoken to who have had their feelings hurt or have had some sort of drama with someone they’re speaking to/meeting on here is unreal.
All I want to say is, know your worth. Don’t let someone you haven’t met/gotten to know dictate how you should feel, behave or respond and have them make you doubt yourself and your own self worth.
We may say Fab is not part of our real life or it’s something separate to our day to day living - but, we’re all investing some time and some part of us on here. And it will affect us one way or another.
One thing to note, (and I mean no offence to anyone) is that there is a lot of people on here who suffer with poor mental health, lack confidence and have a constant need for self praise. Whether I’m right in saying this or not (I don’t know) but I think on Fab we’re a little community of horny friends. We need to support each other when it comes to all this and if there is someone suffering with all this, we need to give them a helping hand. Because, let’s face it, it’s not all about sex on here.
For those who find themselves in this position, as harsh as this will sound, you’ll have to grow a thick skin for the site - not everyone will like you, want to meet you, agree with you, find you attractive etc but that’s just how it is. If all this starts affecting you, you need to take a bit of time out, step back and evaluate your situation and do what is best for you and your own wellbeing. At the end of the day, we can all give you advice and suggestions til the cows come home - but, if you’re not dealing with it yourself, it’s not going be easy.
I’ve been on here for many years and I’ve seen this a lot. I’ve always tried to help as much as I can and be as supportive as possible but, it’s time for a new chapter in my book now.
It’s been fun and I’m glad to have met everyone on here.
Stay safe and play safe - if you have an erection and don’t want an infection, you better use protection on your genital section.
 
Pops (Sy) |
Take care of yourself
