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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does veganism/omnivorism affect your relationship?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Oh Jesus, we aint tearing the statue of Bernard Matthews down in norfolk are we

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

It doesn't, they eat what they want, I eat what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She only likes one type of sausage meat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t really make a difference. We would just go to places that would cater for both of us and when we were at home we would eat different things. We both had our own views, I don’t think two people have to agree on everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an extremely great friend who is vegan.. And I'm. A full on carnivorous animal... Doesn't effect our relationship at all... He isn't offended that I eat meat.. I don't mind that when I cook for him, that I have to supply his dietary requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will also be having a lot of phone sex, as it is a meat free option!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not a vegan but I'm vegetarian. Most of my relationships have been with omnivores. It was only ever an issue with one who basically didn't eat vegetables so we had hardly any food we could both eat. With most I've just made veggie and meat versions of the same meal. Some exs have been happy just eating my veggie food and eating meat in meals we didn't share.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?"

Don't know about you but I wash my dishes after dinner and kissing is fine. I'm not militant about it I just don't eat meat that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?"

We were really weird and washed our dishes.

As for kissing, I’m not sure the first think I would do after eating my dinner would be kiss someone. I eat a lot of garlic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn’t really make a difference. We would just go to places that would cater for both of us and when we were at home we would eat different things. We both had our own views, I don’t think two people have to agree on everything. "

Agree. Suppose, if we went to Mc Donald's, you could pull the lettuce out and give it to her. There are a lot of work arounds!

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

We don't find it an issue either. Sometimes we'll have different versions of the same meal. Sometimes he'll eat vegan food. Neither of us try and force our views on the other.

C (her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Suppose, if we went to Mc Donald's, you could pull the lettuce out and give it to her. There are a lot of work arounds!"

As long as I get the gherkin as well, I’m not too bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a vegan but I'm vegetarian. Most of my relationships have been with omnivores. It was only ever an issue with one who basically didn't eat vegetables so we had hardly any food we could both eat. With most I've just made veggie and meat versions of the same meal. Some exs have been happy just eating my veggie food and eating meat in meals we didn't share. "

Would you like a slice of my Lebanese cucumber?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you tried the impossible meat then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Suppose, if we went to Mc Donald's, you could pull the lettuce out and give it to her. There are a lot of work arounds!

As long as I get the gherkin as well, I’m not too bothered "

Oh no! Can I keep the jalapenos?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?

Don't know about you but I wash my dishes after dinner and kissing is fine. I'm not militant about it I just don't eat meat that's all. "

I'd probably keep one pan seperate though for cooking fatty meats like bacon. And you should keep chopping boards seperate to avoid food poisoning anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Suppose, if we went to Mc Donald's, you could pull the lettuce out and give it to her. There are a lot of work arounds!

As long as I get the gherkin as well, I’m not too bothered

Oh no! Can I keep the jalapenos?"

Afraid not. They’re my favourite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?

Don't know about you but I wash my dishes after dinner and kissing is fine. I'm not militant about it I just don't eat meat that's all. "

I just rinse them and hope for the best

I'm asking because I know some vegans wouldn't eat in restaurants that serve meat even if they had veggie options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Suppose, if we went to Mc Donald's, you could pull the lettuce out and give it to her. There are a lot of work arounds!

As long as I get the gherkin as well, I’m not too bothered

Oh no! Can I keep the jalapenos?

Afraid not. They’re my favourite!"

Damn! We have a problem then!

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?

Don't know about you but I wash my dishes after dinner and kissing is fine. I'm not militant about it I just don't eat meat that's all.

I'd probably keep one pan seperate though for cooking fatty meats like bacon. And you should keep chopping boards seperate to avoid food poisoning anyway. "

Well yeah that's basic food hygiene with chopping boards etc

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Have you tried the impossible meat then?"

Nope. I'm happy to try any veggie alternatives though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't find it an issue either. Sometimes we'll have different versions of the same meal. Sometimes he'll eat vegan food. Neither of us try and force our views on the other.

C (her)"

I see. I would probably switch to vegan if it was the same price, same nutrients, same consistency and taste.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?

Don't know about you but I wash my dishes after dinner and kissing is fine. I'm not militant about it I just don't eat meat that's all.

I just rinse them and hope for the best

I'm asking because I know some vegans wouldn't eat in restaurants that serve meat even if they had veggie options.

Yeah I know vegans who won't dare someone unless they are strongly vegan. Different strength of believe and how far you take it. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about using same dishes or kissing after a meal?

Don't know about you but I wash my dishes after dinner and kissing is fine. I'm not militant about it I just don't eat meat that's all.

I'd probably keep one pan seperate though for cooking fatty meats like bacon. And you should keep chopping boards seperate to avoid food poisoning anyway.

Well yeah that's basic food hygiene with chopping boards etc "

Really? I wasn't aware, I sometimes chop the onion on the same board as chicken (after washing of course)

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I don't find it an issue at all, in my home I hve a meat eater a vegan, and a vegetarian.

it's not too difficult, most restaurants have vegan and vegetarian options, so if I'm eating out with someone who has a different dietary choice it doesn't seem to be an issue.

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

"We don't find it an issue either. Sometimes we'll have different versions of the same meal. Sometimes he'll eat vegan food. Neither of us try and force our views on the other.

C (her)

I see. I would probably switch to vegan if it was the same price, same nutrients, same consistency and taste."

I think there are certain meats he enjoys too much to switch entirely. But our sausage sandwiches are ALWAYS the Richmond vegan ones now, as they taste the same and are higher protein, and he always makes vegan cakes now too. He's very careful not to cross contaminate and understands that I'd rather not prepare his meat (I will, wearing gloves) if I have to.

A bit of give and take. But he's definitely got more open to vegan food as we've gone on.

C (her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to date a vegan girl. She used to eat all the flowers I bring her. She doesn't moan when we had sex as it was hard for to admit that it was a piece of meat that was pleasuring her. She used to keep her eyes closed as she didn't want to see me getting pleasure from a piece of meat!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to date a vegan girl. She used to eat all the flowers I bring her. She doesn't moan when we had sex as it was hard for to admit that it was a piece of meat that was pleasuring her. She used to keep her eyes closed as she didn't want to see me getting pleasure from a piece of meat!

You know when people say they scrap the bottom of the barrel?

Your barrel now has no bottom

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We don't find it an issue either. Sometimes we'll have different versions of the same meal. Sometimes he'll eat vegan food. Neither of us try and force our views on the other.

C (her)

I see. I would probably switch to vegan if it was the same price, same nutrients, same consistency and taste.

A bit of give and take. But he's definitely got more open to vegan food as we've gone on.

C (her)"

Oh ill have to try them. Have you tried the beyond burgers, 20g of protein, no soy or gluten. They are incredible. I had to check I wasn't eating the wrong thing, or quorn chicken nuggets taste exactly the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only issue I had, was sometimes things like pesto and yoghurts would fall through the net and wouldn’t get checked unless I was the one shopping.

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

Yes, love the beyond burger! Super convincing.

Not sure I've tried the Quorn nuggets, I'll try and find some. I've avoided Quorn for ages as so much of it still has egg in, but Omni's often don't know that so have tried to serve it to me. I found it easier to just say I didn't like Quorn products!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know when people say they scrap the bottom of the barrel?

Your barrel now has no bottom

With my luck, I could jump in a barrel full of titties and come out sucking my thumb!

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

Yes, I didn't even know that pesto wasn't vegetarian until I looked into it!

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Yes, love the beyond burger! Super convincing.

Aww yeah not sure if there vegetarian not vegan. If anyone knows of good vegetarian/veggie mince for spag bols let me know and all the ones I've tasted are grim

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

"Yes, love the beyond burger! Super convincing.

Aww yeah not sure if there vegetarian not vegan. If anyone knows of good vegetarian/veggie mince for spag bols let me know and all the ones I've tasted are grim

Tesco soya mince? Or a good old fashioned pack of bean feast. I tend to just do minced mushrooms and lentils these days though.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Yes, love the beyond burger! Super convincing.

Aww yeah not sure if there vegetarian not vegan. If anyone knows of good vegetarian/veggie mince for spag bols let me know and all the ones I've tasted are grim

Tesco soya mince? Or a good old fashioned pack of bean feast. I tend to just do minced mushrooms and lentils these days though."

Awesome. Will try thanks

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We don't find it an issue either. Sometimes we'll have different versions of the same meal. Sometimes he'll eat vegan food. Neither of us try and force our views on the other.

C (her)

I see. I would probably switch to vegan if it was the same price, same nutrients, same consistency and taste.

A bit of give and take. But he's definitely got more open to vegan food as we've gone on.

C (her)

Quorn southern fried bites are incredible too.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes, love the beyond burger! Super convincing.

Ahh they have a specific vegan range now.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

I didnt realise I was an "Omni"

There are the subtle vegans and the 'knock-the-burger-from-your-hand' types. Now it has been given the legal status of a belief system its taken the pleasure out of discussing it.

Not sure if there are many Ethical Vegans on Fab. Shouting "Meat is murder" doesnt go down well in a Club. Can condoms be ethical?

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We don't find it an issue either. Sometimes we'll have different versions of the same meal. Sometimes he'll eat vegan food. Neither of us try and force our views on the other.

C (her)

I see. I would probably switch to vegan if it was the same price, same nutrients, same consistency and taste.

A bit of give and take. But he's definitely got more open to vegan food as we've gone on.

C (her)

Quorn southern fried bites are incredible too. "

These are also really good

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We don't find it an issue either. Sometimes we'll have different versions of the same meal. Sometimes he'll eat vegan food. Neither of us try and force our views on the other.

C (her)

I see. I would probably switch to vegan if it was the same price, same nutrients, same consistency and taste.

A bit of give and take. But he's definitely got more open to vegan food as we've gone on.

C (her)

Quorn southern fried bites are incredible too.

These are also really good

I like them in wraps with lettuce and garlic mayyonaise *drools*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didnt realise I was an "Omni"

There are the subtle vegans and the 'knock-the-burger-from-your-hand' types. Now it has been given the legal status of a belief system its taken the pleasure out of discussing it.

Not sure if there are many Ethical Vegans on Fab. Shouting "Meat is murder" doesnt go down well in a Club. Can condoms be ethical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All vegans go to bed early!

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"I didnt realise I was an "Omni"

There are the subtle vegans and the 'knock-the-burger-from-your-hand' types. Now it has been given the legal status of a belief system its taken the pleasure out of discussing it.

Not sure if there are many Ethical Vegans on Fab. Shouting "Meat is murder" doesnt go down well in a Club. Can condoms be ethical?

Not sure what bit eh is... guess...

- You would discuss differently with a part time "veggie" vs an ethical vegan. One has a belief system the other a virtue signalling accessory when it suits them.

- Condoms and coatings they use spermicides etc have been tested on animals.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I didnt realise I was an "Omni"

There are the subtle vegans and the 'knock-the-burger-from-your-hand' types. Now it has been given the legal status of a belief system its taken the pleasure out of discussing it.

Not sure if there are many Ethical Vegans on Fab. Shouting "Meat is murder" doesnt go down well in a Club. Can condoms be ethical?

Not sure what bit eh is... guess...

- You would discuss differently with a part time "veggie" vs an ethical vegan. One has a belief system the other a virtue signalling accessory when it suits them.

- Condoms and coatings they use spermicides etc have been tested on animals.

You can get vegan condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m yet to find mince that doesn’t make me want to gag. Beyond burger is amazing. Linda McCarthy’s rosemary and red onion sausages are vegan and absolutely yummy... I tend to use those to make something resembling a spag bol sauce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm veggie rather than vegan, and I often date meat eaters. Didn't bother me at all, each to their own. Just means of we cook together we need to cook separate dishes, which is no biggie in the grand scheme of things!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"How does veganism/omnivorism affect your relationship?

It doesn’t as long as everyone respects personal choices of others. I don’t tend to have dinner together with my meets but it’s inevitable in certain circumstances and I’m fine with that

Kissing is fine as long as they don’t keep a piece of meat in their mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does veganism/omnivorism affect your relationship?

It doesn't, my husband and I are both vegan

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I would embrace the veg lifestyle at home as long as she didn't mind me sneaking out for the odd full English or Sunday roast. I wouldn't cool it in the house though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went on a food date with a vegan once, there wasn’t a 2nd one

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

Hasn't made a difference. I wondered if it would, and was prepared to negotiate things but didint turn out for there to be the need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer to date a fellow vegan (or at least vegetarian), if only because it would make life a lot easier in terms of meals, restaurants, etc. But I wouldn't rule out dating a meat-eater as long as they respected my choices. I'm not the type to try to force people into going vegan anyway.

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