FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have morals

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have values I live by. It defines me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do no harm, but don't get shit upon.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Morals, manners and principles..... in or out of fab. Although I may occasionally let fly when something gets my goat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I brought myself up to have morals and standards which I think have stood me well over these last 50yrs

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Absoloutely.

Old fashioned morals, such as always being polite, honesty, paying all debts, respect, and treating others how you would like to be treated yourself. We could go on and on.

Shame morals and values are disappearing.

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Yes I believe I have morals. Although wanting to enjoy a bit of sexy fun may seem immoral to some. I believe there is a deeper right and wrong. Being right with other people and looking after those less fortunate than myself is where I base mine, not in ancient and irrelevant religious texts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah absolutely always have morals and kindness, think they are important

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes I have Fab morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course in every walk of life. I expect to be treated the same way that I treat others. I have never set out to never follow my moral compass.

I also believe that manners are the one thing that cost you nothing.

Integrity is also very important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have Fab morals

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes I have Fab morals

What are they pray tell?

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes, we would never treat anyone how we would not wish to be treated.

Depends on their approach and everything obviously.

Jo x

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By *ve 63Woman
over a year ago

Newbridge

Yes definitely. Couldnt sleep with someone I wasnt attracted to or if they had bad teeth

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Manners and respect .. old fashioned, but they’ve got me this far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Of course in every walk of life. I expect to be treated the same way that I treat others. I have never set out to never follow my moral compass.

I also believe that manners are the one thing that cost you nothing.

Integrity is also very important to me."

Surprising how many let go of their integrity here ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a code I live by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. I treat everyone with respect and kindness until you do something to make it impossible for myself to like you and I'll cut you off. It cost nothing to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absoloutely.

Old fashioned morals, such as always being polite, honesty, paying all debts, respect, and treating others how you would like to be treated yourself. We could go on and on.

Shame morals and values are disappearing."
I agree with you 100%

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I have a code I live by

Which is?

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Be excellent to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cat falls into a pool and a rooster laughs. What's the moral of the story?

A wet pussy makes the cock feel good!

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"A cat falls into a pool and a rooster laughs. What's the moral of the story?

A wet pussy makes the cock feel good!"

Now that’s a word one doesn’t hear much on Fab.....’rooster’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. None at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cunt, just ask around?

Seriously though, I like to think I'm respectful, open minded and open to change and new ideas of what others believe morals are. I try my best to treat others how I'd like to be treated and I try to stay sane in the face of crazy. Omg the crazy lately on fab.... Peace and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. None at all

Do you know the moral of the story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morals are what boring people use as an excuse for being boring!...

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I have a set of self imposed rules I live by. Don't think being on fab or not would change them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know but I don't like to swear lol funny considering I'm on here and people talk about sex and the F word a lot.

I have swore but there's something about it I don't like in a public forum.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

My moral is that your never to important to be kind to people .

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

One of mine is RESPECT a lot of people don’t understand how to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of mine is RESPECT a lot of people don’t understand how to. "

Respect is a two way street. If you're on foot you are pretty much fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "

Thanks for clarifying Fab is a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course in every walk of life. I expect to be treated the same way that I treat others. I have never set out to never follow my moral compass.

I also believe that manners are the one thing that cost you nothing.

Integrity is also very important to me.

Surprising how many let go of their integrity here .... "

You know it DC

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

Thanks for clarifying Fab is a swingers site"

It’s a swingers site....anything else you need clarification on just ask....!

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Not many...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I do no matter the situation on the bedroom and no matter how taboo or kinky still morals come 1st.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Definitely. I prefer people who are silently moral but stop at nothing to prevent wrongdoing, as I do.

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By *ickyxxx69Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If people are happy to do things and agree on it no need to worry about morals. Besides the more morally wrong the better? Amd more fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners maketh man.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Manners maketh man."

Exactly this. You are so right....

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I do. I don't think being on a swingers site has anything to do with morals really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do. I don't think being on a swingers site has anything to do with morals really. "

Indeed.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I was brought up to treat people with respect.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

If someone started a question "Even though you are on Fab" I would be looking for the copy of the Dail Mail under the armpit. They like making ridiculous assumptions.

One joy of people in the lifestyle is that they do not generally believe consensual sexual freedom is an issue of morality.

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Of an ally cat and and fail to live up to them lol

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "

Morals yes and values. Its hard however to list them all or to know what exactly you are speaking of.

So can you share and elaborate a little more as to the conversation you had with your friend and that way I can know how better to address your thread.

Or simply share what youre morals are to see if mine differ from yours or not?xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,

I live by my morals, they may be fucked up and not in line with others, but they are mine, and guide how I lead my life.

Bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat others as you would like to be treated, respect a persons privacy, just like gambling when the fun stops stop.

I heard that medical professionals agree that a person(s) addiction to sex is just as bad as alcholoism.

Values are value life, smile for tomorrow may be a better day.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

Morals yes and values. Its hard however to list them all or to know what exactly you are speaking of.

So can you share and elaborate a little more as to the conversation you had with your friend and that way I can know how better to address your thread.

Or simply share what youre morals are to see if mine differ from yours or not?xx"

I don’t wish to share with the thread more of my conversation with my friend and I have indicated in the thread some of my morals. I’m asking if people have them or what they are. It’s not a difficult question.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I have morals in swinging lifestyle, yes! Respect people’s day to day lives, don’t push anyone emotionally or sexually, have courage to say no when needed and don’t ever waste people’s time without a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes.

Just because it a swingers site doesn't mean they should disappear, if anything there needs to be complete honesty and open communication, I find it only works that way for me.

Any lies and disrespect are such a turn off

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Most definitely. My brain and morals kick in a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, very important to me- as us integrity.

In current times I'm finding myself more annoyed at those who seemingly don't.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Just one - don’t be a c**t

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Absolutely yes.

Just because it a swingers site doesn't mean they should disappear, if anything there needs to be complete honesty and open communication, I find it only works that way for me.

Any lies and disrespect are such a turn off "

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really understand how being on fab would mean that you have less morals than most other people lol.

Yes, I do, and many of them that are revealed in appropriate situations

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I live by my own moral code. Its not much different to the religious ones but I am not a churchgoer. I do like biblical quotes though. Live and let live etc but also an eye for an eye

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.

Yep, that stood out for me as well, My understanding of morals is your own idea of what is right and wrong. One persons moral code may not align with another persons code, and all that indicates is that they are different, not better or worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think I do. I treat others like I like to be treated Is that a moral code? I guess If I were to believe in certain morals I’d be a hypocrite for being in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "

Why should my morals be affected because I'm on Fab?

What a strange take on a question ..

Your morals shouldn't be affected by your lifestyle as its what you live by imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m immoral.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

Why should my morals be affected because I'm on Fab?

What a strange take on a question ..

Your morals shouldn't be affected by your lifestyle as its what you live by imo"

About sums it up really - don't see what Fab has to do with anything?

To take the definition of morals: "standards of behaviour; principles of right and wrong."

Both of those things apply regardless of my membership here or the crochet circle - they're an intrinsic part of you the person and don't get switched on and off to suit (or at least they shouldn't)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting. In everyday life I have morals, manners and am a good person.

Sexually, I'd be classed as the other woman and have the occasional penchant for the taken. I enjoy things for the taboo and limits pushed.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'd like to think that I have pretty good morals,

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "

What I do consensually in my sex life has nothing to do with morals - it's open, honest and nobody is getting hurt. I don't think the two things are related.

Mrs TMN x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "

Pretty much "Don't be a cunt". x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

Why should my morals be affected because I'm on Fab?

What a strange take on a question ..

Your morals shouldn't be affected by your lifestyle as its what you live by imo

About sums it up really - don't see what Fab has to do with anything?

To take the definition of morals: "standards of behaviour; principles of right and wrong."

Both of those things apply regardless of my membership here or the crochet circle - they're an intrinsic part of you the person and don't get switched on and off to suit (or at least they shouldn't)"

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

in fab world... no.

Outside of it.. yea loads

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Yes. Always.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Absoloutely.

Old fashioned morals, such as always being polite, honesty, paying all debts, respect, and treating others how you would like to be treated yourself. We could go on and on.

Shame morals and values are disappearing."

We are exactly the same and totally agree with you

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.

I don’t think that’s what the OP is trying to say...yes, most of us know that our morals are still a part of us whether we’re members of a bingo group or fabswingers, but—let’s not be dishonest between us—some of us DO think that because it’s swinging and it involves sex and “fantasy” even basic decency to a fellow human being flies out of the window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant

lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I can’t lie, I’m quite shocked by your wording and the question in general. Particularly the “because you are on fab” as though it suddenly turns everyone into some kind of a villain.

The operative word there being "some" - my morals don't change just because it's a swinging site or that sex and fantasy are involved and nor do those of anyone else that has said similar it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting. In everyday life I have morals, manners and am a good person.

Sexually, I'd be classed as the other woman and have the occasional penchant for the taken. I enjoy things for the taboo and limits pushed. "

But your moral stance should be the same regardless of whether you are a member of a swingers site not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I don't fuck ppl who fuck ppl who fuck ppl who drive fiat Punto or ford fiesta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting. In everyday life I have morals, manners and am a good person.

Sexually, I'd be classed as the other woman and have the occasional penchant for the taken. I enjoy things for the taboo and limits pushed.

But your moral stance should be the same regardless of whether you are a member of a swingers site not"

I behaved this way before fab and shall do so after Fab also I imagine

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Try not to be an utter #### normally works.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

What I do consensually in my sex life has nothing to do with morals - it's open, honest and nobody is getting hurt. I don't think the two things are related.

Mrs TMN x"

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I’m honest about them though

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By *xtra4funMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Morals - a lesson that can be derived from a story of experience

- standards of behaviour; principles of right and wrong

The more experiences I’ve had in life the more I have learned about myself and the world around me. I try my hardest in every situation to be the best me I can pushing to the edge but never beyond. Respectful of everyone around me and the differences that makes stronger together.

I would be lost without my moral compass but that doesn’t mean I won’t have fun testing to make sure it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and on here so a cording to a few I have less than no morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have morals and I am happy that I do. I tend to keep them to myself however as we are all different and I respect that. If my morals stop me from doing something I would rather that than break my morals and feel bad as I did when I was much younger, much less wise and much more influenced by my labido.

V x

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

Morals yes and values. Its hard however to list them all or to know what exactly you are speaking of.

So can you share and elaborate a little more as to the conversation you had with your friend and that way I can know how better to address your thread.

Or simply share what youre morals are to see if mine differ from yours or not?xx

Then yes is the answer and same as yours.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I’m slightly unsure from the thread what anyone is classing a moral... but aside from trying to be respectful to everyone I have some rules I follow

- No play with anyone cheating

- No private meets with anyone that any of my friends are meeting privately

I’m sure there are more, but it’s late

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

ramsey

Yes! On and off here!

Hard to come across now days, decent people with morals!

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"I’m slightly unsure from the thread what anyone is classing a moral... but aside from trying to be respectful to everyone I have some rules I follow

- No play with anyone cheating

- No private meets with anyone that any of my friends are meeting privately

I’m sure there are more, but it’s late

In fact I’ll amend that last one

- No play with anyone my friends meet privately unless they’re there and playing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabsteroos,

Musing after a conversation with a friend today.

Even though you are on Fab, a swingers site do you have morals and if so what are they?

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "

I’m curious as to why you think there’s a correlation between the two. Why wouldn’t people on fab have their own moral code?

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I just try to be respectful and honest, same as real life i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have morals.I am a faithful and loving wife.

Problem is every so often the horns come out.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Nope, I'm lower than a rattlesnakes belly.

Honestly though, of course I've got morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The morality of being on here does lead to many hours of thought and reflection. I usually justify it by telling myself that life is too short. It’s my secret and I take care to not let it affect my private life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I have lower or less morals than others that aren't using Fab to swing, maybe mine are a little looser lol outside of Fab, I think I'm a good judge right and wrong and I try to walk the right path at all times and stay away the wrong one.

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