FabSwingers.com forum: Do some people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do some people on here flirt with others and tell them they fancy them even if they realy dont???

It still amazes me some of the messaged I get from some people I mean surly it cant be real

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I fancy thee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm no. I’ll have a banterous flirt with anyone really, but an actual flirt/telling folk I fancy them? Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banter is banter.

Would I lead someone on - no!

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

People will do all manner of things online

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm no. I’ll have a banterous flirt with anyone really, but an actual flirt/telling folk I fancy them? Nah"
I only ask because I have had some messages from some and I'm like realy you fancy me. It might be alot down to self confidence but honestly I sometimes find it hard to believe

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

There's bantery flirts which I'm guilty as hell of doing and often I do fancy them too, if I really fancy them I often let them know but can get shy about it as well.

If i don't fancy that person at all its usually pretty clear lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"There's bantery flirts which I'm guilty as hell of doing and often I do fancy them too, if I really fancy them I often let them know but can get shy about it as well.

If i don't fancy that person at all its usually pretty clear lol"

This....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not keen on flanter

It causes confusion

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No. I will pass compliments freely, but I only flirt with friends and people I want to have a sexual meet with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point flirting and making out I'm attracted if I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take someone leading me on as opposed to the current situation of being ignored

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We're both guilty of flirting with everyone.

But I'm pretty sure the people who we are interested in meeting know that we are. And its not just flirty banter. We would have had private conversations.

But to lead someone on. Purposely is rather cruel.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're both guilty of flirting with everyone.

But I'm pretty sure the people who we are interested in meeting know that we are. And its not just flirty banter. We would have had private conversations.

But to lead someone on. Purposely is rather cruel.

Jo.Xx

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not sure anyone is leading me on but I'm like realy??? A bit surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, everyone I speak to on here!

(* except you, reading this, with you it’s genuine

)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, everyone I speak to on here!

(* except you, reading this, with you it’s genuine

)"
yer Luvs ya lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I do like a bit of cheeky flirty banter, if I was really flirting I would send a message to make it clear I was interested, in general I just think people are doing it to be amusing so I rarely take it seriously

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"We're both guilty of flirting with everyone.

But I'm pretty sure the people who we are interested in meeting know that we are. And its not just flirty banter. We would have had private conversations.

But to lead someone on. Purposely is rather cruel.

Jo.Xx

Whaaaaat?! You don't flirt with everyone, surely not.

Yes OP, some people do lead others on. You learn who is genuine and who is not (not that I've had people lead me on as such but it happens).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all the time. It’s how I assert dominance. Once I’ve worn them down I take their souls.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, all the time. It’s how I assert dominance. Once I’ve worn them down I take their souls. "
oh you evil soul you Jamie I knew you was leading down a slippery slope lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Yes, all the time. It’s how I assert dominance. Once I’ve worn them down I take their souls. "

You couldn't take my soul if you tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, all the time. It’s how I assert dominance. Once I’ve worn them down I take their souls.

You couldn't take my soul if you tried

I tried, I couldn’t find it!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Yes, all the time. It’s how I assert dominance. Once I’ve worn them down I take their souls.

You couldn't take my soul if you tried

I tried, I couldn’t find it!

I win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt...but so far....rarely actually fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I flirt...but so far....rarely actually fancy

Why do you flirt with people you don't fancy?

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why would I tell someone I fancied them if I didn’t actually fancy them?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

On the forum I enjoy flirty banter and will have a flirty joke with most. It usually means nothing more than just that.

A bit of flirting is good for the soul.

But to deliberate lead someone on is not cool.

I myself don't take anyone all that seriously from a bit of banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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why so sad x

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We have flirty banter with people but never lead them on if there not for us x

We see that as playing with people's feelings and that's just wrong

Ray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I love a good flirt but would never let someone think I would sleep with them if I wasn’t sexually attracted to them..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love a good flirt but would never let someone think I would sleep with them if I wasn’t sexually attracted to them.."
I think it was alot to do with my self confidence when people say they actually fancy me I find it hard to believe so hearing that most people dont just lead people on I'm feeling good about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would take anything anyone says on here with a pinch of salt until you are absolutely positive you can trust them.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ll be honest I never fancy anyone from the off ... I find I fancy their personality.... I’m naturally flirty and forward and if I feel similar vibes from others that’s that makes me fancy them. There are some people I’m naturally more drawn to than others but I guess everyone probably feels like that. In short I flirt with a lot of people as that’s how I see the true them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt with passion. Its innocent, it doesnt include promises. Often accompanied by a wink or a grin in case someone takes it too seriously

if I want more I will indulge in private messaging. Sometimes you need to test flirting chemistry in public before moving one step forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the forum. Absolutely they do. You really don't think they fancy everyone? They do it because it gains them popularity. Proper funny to watch too. Long may it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're both guilty of flirting with everyone.

But I'm pretty sure the people who we are interested in meeting know that we are. And its not just flirty banter. We would have had private conversations.

But to lead someone on. Purposely is rather cruel.

Jo.Xx

You are fantastic at it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's bantery flirts which I'm guilty as hell of doing and often I do fancy them too, if I really fancy them I often let them know but can get shy about it as well.

If i don't fancy that person at all its usually pretty clear lol"

This. Especially last paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting is a form of human communication that is very visual and fun to engage in between people whether they are genuinely attracted with each other or not. This is the key to flirting, it is a way to communicate, tease and generally engage another person, but it does not have to indicate physical or emotional interest!

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