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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

What’s the most amount of unread messages people have received when they have logged on. I think 2 is the maximum for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

4!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"What’s the most amount of unread messages people have received when they have logged on. I think 2 is the maximum for me. "

Nobody msg me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ I’ve had times when I’ve had over two thousand unread. Currently just 372 but I’m sloppy with admin and they build up also when you get number 1 on hot pics your inbox goes mental, haven’t uploaded any new pictures for ages so not so many messages of late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bulk deleted earlier. 569. I need to be more organised!

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

327 this morning. xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Sometimes 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 600 when I was new.

I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"327 this morning. xx"

Can i have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 600 when I was new.

I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related."

Me too. Well I’ve been lazy lately but that’s what I’m doing from now on

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"1"

You’ve got 2 now I’ve sent you the dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 600 when I was new.

I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related.

Me too. Well I’ve been lazy lately but that’s what I’m doing from now on "

I get like that sometimes but I found i was sometimes missing some from friends. X

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By *artender_onthelooseMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about 5, but it was all blokes

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"327 this morning. xx

Can i have one "

You can have as many as you like sweetheart. x

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

Not sure I’m going to send another message again after reading most women just bulk delete...well you’ve lost out on my well thought out copy and paste message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 600 when I was new.

I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related.

Me too. Well I’ve been lazy lately but that’s what I’m doing from now on

I get like that sometimes but I found i was sometimes missing some from friends. X"

Yeah. That’s why I put that as my status earlier! I’m going to check them every day now! Because I’m not really looking I never check them! x

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Wow.... Reading this thread alot of people get loads. The most we have logged on and had waiting is probably 2 maybe we are doing something wrong but as nice as it would be to have loads we like to try to answer every message we receive so I imagine it could get tedious answering after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

401

398 were dixk pics and ridiculous requests.

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Zero, I probably get 1 msg a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I open them all..

Eventually..

But obvs i don't resond to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 I think... Thought it was christmas

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney


"What’s the most amount of unread messages people have received when they have logged on. I think 2 is the maximum for me.

Nobody msg me "

You've said that you don't want single guys lol, don't expect the big flood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine peaked at four, but that's because there were a couple I'd been putting off dealing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the most amount of unread messages people have received when they have logged on. I think 2 is the maximum for me. "

I'm not certain of the exact number but I'm pretty sure I one woke up to 1 (one) ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One, I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many really, probably 50 at most. My filters are set pretty tight which helps. I don't tend to pay attention to any messages they aren't from friends or through the forum anyway so they just get deleted unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1"

Reply to my damn message, will ya?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I open them all..

Eventually..

But obvs i don't resond to all"

I am still waiting for mine!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

About 5 for me cause I didn't read them for a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment I have 1. But that’s because it’s a long message and I can’t answer it right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deal with any messages when they come through as I believe it polite to do so.

Some I might message back to say that I am too busy right at that moment to send a considered response.

My inbox never gets out of hand.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"327 this morning. xx

Can i have one You can have as many as you like sweetheart. x"

Thank you sweetie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment I have 1. But that’s because it’s a long message and I can’t answer it right now "

It took me a day and half to type that message. Lol.

On a serious note I can envisage your Type C and Type D personality communicating with each other before putting the content down on paper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment I have 1. But that’s because it’s a long message and I can’t answer it right now

It took me a day and half to type that message. Lol.

On a serious note I can envisage your Type C and Type D personality communicating with each other before putting the content down on paper! "

That’s exactly what is happening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment I have 1. But that’s because it’s a long message and I can’t answer it right now

It took me a day and half to type that message. Lol.

On a serious note I can envisage your Type C and Type D personality communicating with each other before putting the content down on paper!

That’s exactly what is happening! "

I know you well by now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get all excited to see a little yellow box. It's usually one if I get a message at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bulk deleted earlier. 569. I need to be more organised! "

That's harsh. Do you have any idea how long it took me to write all those?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Wow.... Reading this thread alot of people get loads. The most we have logged on and had waiting is probably 2 maybe we are doing something wrong but as nice as it would be to have loads we like to try to answer every message we receive so I imagine it could get tedious answering after a while "

We Have about 2 at the most as well so it's not just you guys. We think a high majority of couples will be the same. Thank god we don't get many as we wouldn't have the time to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's almost always zero, unless I've recently taken part in some sort of pic swap/mail a forumite thread, in which case I might have anything up to three messages waiting to be read. I know - impressive, right?

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

currently 1683.

but to be fair, most of that is the usual copy and paste / fuck now / meet now / are they real / hey.. Messages

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"currently 1683.

but to be fair, most of that is the usual copy and paste / fuck now / meet now / are they real / hey.. Messages

Px "

Yes thats about the same as mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most in one day was over 2000.

A lot less when I have filters on.

I only ever reply to those I'm interested in. Impossible otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had way over a thousand a few times and it just becomes overwhelming. So I adjusted my filters and can manage them much better now.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

some one would need to send me one first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if I load a new picture or when I posted a meet before lockdown.

But my filters are very tight and my profile is strict so thankfully I don't get hundreds anymore.

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By *somemoresomeCouple
over a year ago

south east


"The most in one day was over 2000.

A lot less when I have filters on.

I only ever reply to those I'm interested in. Impossible otherwise.

"

Gosh! We can see why xxx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden)

I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden)

I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no? "

That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous.

Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5....

But then as man on here that must be some sort of record.

I did answer them all and got nothing back.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden)

I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no?

That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous.

Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete. "

When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden)

I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no?

That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous.

Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete.

When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance "

I know why I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5 - I always make the effort to reply. Even if it’s a ‘thanks but no thanks’

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden)

I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no?

That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous.

Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete.

When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance

I know why I like you "

High 5!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden)

I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no?

That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous.

Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete.

When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance

I know why I like you

High 5! "

Ladies. I very much agree, it is only polite to reply to several hi...

Meet now...

How's fab treating you...

messages a day.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden)

I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no?

That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous.

Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete.

When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance

I know why I like you

High 5!

Ladies. I very much agree, it is only polite to reply to several hi...

Meet now...

How's fab treating you...

messages a day.

"

Filters darling, filters

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

It's usually around the 750 mark. I try to to reply to most though. Unless it's just a downright rude oneliner

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Strict filters and profile normally gives me 3 unread from new people, I don't count the ones from my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

982. . Can’t keep up to be honest and that’s with filters. As much as I’d love to reply to all, even just to say no and to wish them success in their search - I physically haven’t got the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"982. . Can’t keep up to be honest and that’s with filters. As much as I’d love to reply to all, even just to say no and to wish them success in their search - I physically haven’t got the time "

Do you need a secretary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had around 8 unread when I've logged on but mainly from forum threads

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

131 I auto delete every couple of days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 which was a good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 600 when I was new.

I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related."

When mine reach around the 450 mark, the older ones disappear so I thought that's as many as anyone could have unread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 was the most but they were ongoing conversations. Usually I get no more than 1 unsolicited message every couple of months.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"4 was the most but they were ongoing conversations. Usually I get no more than 1 unsolicited message every couple of months."

Sounds nearer the truth but please this thread is about giving attention seekers their time to shine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually when I get over 200 I bulk delete. I only read certain ones

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

I reached the dizzy heights of 7 once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got 7 at the moment, will get a coffee and have a read of them. The guy that put Hi babe in the title will be last to be read though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion "

I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people.

In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind.

I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion

I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people.

In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind.

I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else "

Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think I got to double figures once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 1648, some have been there for weeks. I have a quick scroll through when I log on and if one stands out or I see one from someone I'm chatting with I'll reply to it, but the rest I leave for when I have the energy to sort through them.

I feel better now I've had my time to shine and brag about my inbox.

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

It's been in four figures a few times before and I end up sifting through them at odd times of the night/day to get them down.

I reply to those who've clearly read my profile, or gone to some effort with their message, whether I'm interested or not. Manners and all that.

I do actively manage it through the day, use filters and haven't been so active with posting of late, so my inbox has been much more manageable (apart from Monday's madness when I must have had 500 in the space of a few hours)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three - One of those was a reminder to renew my supporter pass though, so not sure if that counts?

Felt like a kid at Christmas...

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Had 2 this morning.

Most has been about 5 I think. Can I count the one from admin saying my Silver Membership needed renewing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion

I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people.

In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind.

I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else

Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really "

So deleting unread isn't rude?

Just wondering, do you reply to every piece of junk mail that comes through your letterbox?

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth


"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion

I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people.

In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind.

I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else

Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really

So deleting unread isn't rude?

Just wondering, do you reply to every piece of junk mail that comes through your letterbox?

"

Exactly this. I'm not going to waste energy on a "Hey" message, when clearly they can't be bothered either.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion

I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people.

In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind.

I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else

Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really

So deleting unread isn't rude?

Just wondering, do you reply to every piece of junk mail that comes through your letterbox?

"

Not every have i previously stated but i dont let them build up so i can boost my ego and say i bulk deleted 500 messages thats just silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not every have i previously stated but i dont let them build up so i can boost my ego and say i bulk deleted 500 messages thats just silly"

Do you really think that we keep messages in our inbox to boost our ego?

"Hey"

"Wanna fuck"

"Sit on my cock babe"

"You remind me of a Terry's chocolate orange. I want to bang you on the table."

Oh yeah these messages really make me feel good and like I'm a queen!!

I just find it easier to leave it my hotmail account is the same, I don't delete all my mail in that account either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have currently 866 unread messages as I get lazy checking some messages , I’ve had more than 1000 at some points

Sorry !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes shit loads and that's where we lose control of it, so unfortunately a mass delete will happen from time to time it's nothing personal and apologies to those who put the effort in,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not every have i previously stated but i dont let them build up so i can boost my ego and say i bulk deleted 500 messages thats just silly

Do you really think that we keep messages in our inbox to boost our ego?

"Hey"

"Wanna fuck"

"Sit on my cock babe"

"You remind me of a Terry's chocolate orange. I want to bang you on the table."

Oh yeah these messages really make me feel good and like I'm a queen!!

I just find it easier to leave it my hotmail account is the same, I don't delete all my mail in that account either. "

I’m exactly the same I let my messages get into the thousands, not because it’s an ego boost but cause I’m lazy af

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

232 I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I’m exactly the same I let my messages get into the thousands, not because it’s an ego boost but cause I’m lazy af "

It's like that meme that's always floating about;

There are two types of people in this world.

*picture of 5000 notifications*

*picture of someone who is organised with 0 notifications*

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

4

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

When I got to over 1000 I realised this was rediculous and just turned all the message filters on. Right now I have 2 .

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth


"When I got to over 1000 I realised this was rediculous and just turned all the message filters on. Right now I have 2 . "

I'm weary from Monday's explosion. I need to recheck my filter settings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 was the most I do not normally get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion

I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people.

In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind.

I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else

Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really

So deleting unread isn't rude?

Just wondering, do you reply to every piece of junk mail that comes through your letterbox?

"

This is exactly my attitude too

Plus it clearly states on Fab FAQ'S that no reply means a no thank you. I'm not sure why anyone would feel that they're entitled to someone else's time just because they messaged them

The majority of messages I get are from faceless guys asking "wanna fuck?". I've no interest in chatting to faceless strangers.

I've tried the polite reply approach in the past but that then opens up to further messages.

A fair few people saying it's rude or arrogant not to reply. I think it's rude to message someone without taking the time to read someone's profile or be respectful of how they run their profile.

My profile. My rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion

I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people.

In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind.

I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else

Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really

So deleting unread isn't rude?

Just wondering, do you reply to every piece of junk mail that comes through your letterbox?

This is exactly my attitude too

Plus it clearly states on Fab FAQ'S that no reply means a no thank you. I'm not sure why anyone would feel that they're entitled to someone else's time just because they messaged them

The majority of messages I get are from faceless guys asking "wanna fuck?". I've no interest in chatting to faceless strangers.

I've tried the polite reply approach in the past but that then opens up to further messages.

A fair few people saying it's rude or arrogant not to reply. I think it's rude to message someone without taking the time to read someone's profile or be respectful of how they run their profile.

My profile. My rules "

^ this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I put the hotdog picture on and the lovely Nora opened a thread about it I woke up to 645 views and 72 unread messages, that was a bit of a shock, back to normal now thank god.

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By *iketohave23Man
over a year ago

swindon

No one messages yet

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? "

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man?

I have"

I am still waiting for mine!

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? "

If I like the guy I'll approach first.

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

I had 3 waiting for me today, but that was only because of my forum post about worst day of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I signed in once and had 6! That was a nice surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many really, probably 50 at most. My filters are set pretty tight which helps. I don't tend to pay attention to any messages they aren't from friends or through the forum anyway so they just get deleted unread"

What about winks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? "

I have. Although I never got hump if they didn't reply

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The most I've ever had is four but that's where I've been at work and couldn't answer them or convos from the previous day

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By *nya888Woman
over a year ago

London

Maybe about 100.. quite good at reading through my messages. Although many rude ones won't get a reply..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 if I am lucky lol

I wonder what the male to female ratio is on here, it must be 1 women to every 100 blokes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man?

I have. Although I never got hump if they didn't reply "

I know what you mean. If a guy sleeps with a lot of women, he is called a stud. If a woman sleeps with a lot of men, it is always not with me!

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Have had 400 plus but generally around 50 to 60

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

I don’t expect a reply. I don’t think I am entitled to a reply. I do take time to read profiles and be polite and have never sent a “wanna fuck?” message. So I always hope for an indication of a no.

I understand the protocol behind the FAQ of unanswered means no...but is it so hard to just delete it? That’s so much more of a no than a message that’s still there. You never know if a read message means the reader hasn’t had time at that point to reply. And if they can put it back to unread, then they can also delete.

By saying that no one needs to be polite in the same breath as the messages I get aren’t polite, is just double standards and it’s become a self fulfilling prophecy these days.

I’m not losing sleep over it because, hey, it’s only fab...and there are far more important things in the world. But, just my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t expect a reply. I don’t think I am entitled to a reply. I do take time to read profiles and be polite and have never sent a “wanna fuck?” message. So I always hope for an indication of a no.

I understand the protocol behind the FAQ of unanswered means no...but is it so hard to just delete it? That’s so much more of a no than a message that’s still there. You never know if a read message means the reader hasn’t had time at that point to reply. And if they can put it back to unread, then they can also delete.

By saying that no one needs to be polite in the same breath as the messages I get aren’t polite, is just double standards and it’s become a self fulfilling prophecy these days.

I’m not losing sleep over it because, hey, it’s only fab...and there are far more important things in the world. But, just my thoughts. "

That's a cool attitude to have

I'm always polite when I reply to messages and even more so in person. As stated on my profile though, no reply means a polite no thank you. Some people really seem to struggle with that though.

I'm not great at communicating online. Find it far easier to just meet up/attend clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 or 6

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By *iggle 321Man
over a year ago

N

I noticed a pattern here! Tits equals hits.....

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Usually 1.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

The most I had was over 400

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most I had was over 400 "

399 was me!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I noticed a pattern here! Tits equals hits..... "

No I got 400 for posting my cum video men like hearing a woman enjoy herself with her pussy

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The most I had was over 400

399 was me!"

I swear you never messaged me before... Plus your message would just count as 1 unread, regardless how many messages you sent me in 5 minutes

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By *iggle 321Man
over a year ago

N


"I noticed a pattern here! Tits equals hits.....

No I got 400 for posting my cum video men like hearing a woman enjoy herself with her pussy "

Ofcoure we do, that's why I finger a watermelon when I'm polishing the brass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most I had was over 400

399 was me!

I swear you never messaged me before... Plus your message would just count as 1 unread, regardless how many messages you sent me in 5 minutes "

Would you like me to message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? "

I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man?

I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status."

I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man?

I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status.

I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men "

. Looked tonight and zero. Same yesterday and the day before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man?

I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status.

I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men . Looked tonight and zero. Same yesterday and the day before. "

I'll fix that !

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By *went OP   Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man?

I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status.

I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men . Looked tonight and zero. Same yesterday and the day before.

I'll fix that ! "

Brilliant thanks

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