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"What’s the most amount of unread messages people have received when they have logged on. I think 2 is the maximum for me. " Nobody msg me | |||
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"327 this morning. ![]() Can i have one ![]() ![]() | |||
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"About 600 when I was new. I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related." Me too. Well I’ve been lazy lately but that’s what I’m doing from now on ![]() | |||
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"1" You’ve got 2 now I’ve sent you the dick pic ![]() | |||
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"About 600 when I was new. I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related. Me too. Well I’ve been lazy lately but that’s what I’m doing from now on ![]() I get like that sometimes but I found i was sometimes missing some from friends. X | |||
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"327 this morning. ![]() ![]() ![]() You can have as many as you like sweetheart. ![]() | |||
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"About 600 when I was new. I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related. Me too. Well I’ve been lazy lately but that’s what I’m doing from now on ![]() Yeah. That’s why I put that as my status earlier! I’m going to check them every day now! Because I’m not really looking I never check them! x | |||
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"What’s the most amount of unread messages people have received when they have logged on. I think 2 is the maximum for me. Nobody msg me " You've said that you don't want single guys lol, don't expect the big flood! | |||
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"What’s the most amount of unread messages people have received when they have logged on. I think 2 is the maximum for me. " I'm not certain of the exact number but I'm pretty sure I one woke up to 1 (one) ... ![]() | |||
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"I open them all.. Eventually.. But obvs i don't resond to all" I am still waiting for mine! ![]() | |||
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"327 this morning. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you sweetie xxx ![]() | |||
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"At the moment I have 1. But that’s because it’s a long message and I can’t answer it right now ![]() It took me a day and half to type that message. Lol. On a serious note I can envisage your Type C and Type D personality communicating with each other before putting the content down on paper! ![]() | |||
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"At the moment I have 1. But that’s because it’s a long message and I can’t answer it right now ![]() ![]() That’s exactly what is happening! ![]() | |||
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"At the moment I have 1. But that’s because it’s a long message and I can’t answer it right now ![]() ![]() ![]() I know you well by now! ![]() | |||
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"I bulk deleted earlier. 569. I need to be more organised! " That's harsh. Do you have any idea how long it took me to write all those? | |||
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"Wow.... Reading this thread alot of people get loads. The most we have logged on and had waiting is probably 2 ![]() ![]() ![]() We Have about 2 at the most as well so it's not just you guys. We think a high majority of couples will be the same. Thank god we don't get many as we wouldn't have the time to reply. | |||
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"currently 1683. but to be fair, most of that is the usual copy and paste / fuck now / meet now / are they real / hey.. Messages ![]() Yes thats about the same as mine. ![]() | |||
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"The most in one day was over 2000. A lot less when I have filters on. I only ever reply to those I'm interested in. Impossible otherwise. " Gosh! We can see why xxx | |||
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"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden) I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no? " That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous. Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete. | |||
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"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden) I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no? That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous. Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete. " When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance | |||
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"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden) I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no? That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous. Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete. When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance " I know why I like you ![]() | |||
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"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden) I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no? That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous. Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete. When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance I know why I like you ![]() High 5! | |||
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"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden) I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no? That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous. Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete. When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance I know why I like you ![]() Ladies. I very much agree, it is only polite to reply to several hi... Meet now... How's fab treating you... messages a day. ![]() | |||
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"I usually receive Quite a few most days (except when My profile is hidden) I reply to friends and forum post messages. It costs nothing to be polite and reply.... to have an inbox of hundreds of messages and not reply to them is a tad ungracious. If people take the time to message you could at least afford them the courtesy of a reply....no? That is because you have manners. I think even a thanks but no thanks is courteous. Although I must confess whilst poorly mine did say don't message me as I will delete. When you’re poorly you don’t feel like replying to messages, that’s different - an inbox full and ignore them is just sheer arrogance I know why I like you ![]() ![]() Filters darling, filters ![]() | |||
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"About 600 when I was new. I pretty much delete every message receive now other than from friends or forum related." When mine reach around the 450 mark, the older ones disappear so I thought that's as many as anyone could have unread? | |||
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"4 was the most but they were ongoing conversations. Usually I get no more than 1 unsolicited message every couple of months." Sounds nearer the truth but please this thread is about giving attention seekers their time to shine ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion " I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people. In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind. I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else | |||
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"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people. In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind. I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else " Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really ![]() | |||
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"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people. In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind. I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really ![]() So deleting unread isn't rude? Just wondering, do you reply to every piece of junk mail that comes through your letterbox? | |||
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"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people. In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind. I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really ![]() Exactly this. I'm not going to waste energy on a "Hey" message, when clearly they can't be bothered either. | |||
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"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people. In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind. I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really ![]() Not every have i previously stated but i dont let them build up so i can boost my ego and say i bulk deleted 500 messages thats just silly | |||
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" Not every have i previously stated but i dont let them build up so i can boost my ego and say i bulk deleted 500 messages thats just silly" Do you really think that we keep messages in our inbox to boost our ego? "Hey" "Wanna fuck" "Sit on my cock babe" "You remind me of a Terry's chocolate orange. I want to bang you on the table." Oh yeah these messages really make me feel good and like I'm a queen!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Not every have i previously stated but i dont let them build up so i can boost my ego and say i bulk deleted 500 messages thats just silly Do you really think that we keep messages in our inbox to boost our ego? "Hey" "Wanna fuck" "Sit on my cock babe" "You remind me of a Terry's chocolate orange. I want to bang you on the table." Oh yeah these messages really make me feel good and like I'm a queen!! ![]() ![]() ![]() I’m exactly the same ![]() ![]() | |||
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" I’m exactly the same ![]() ![]() It's like that meme that's always floating about; There are two types of people in this world. *picture of 5000 notifications* *picture of someone who is organised with 0 notifications* ![]() | |||
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"When I got to over 1000 I realised this was rediculous and just turned all the message filters on. Right now I have 2 ![]() I'm weary from Monday's explosion. I need to recheck my filter settings ![]() | |||
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"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people. In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind. I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really ![]() This is exactly my attitude too ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just dont get why woman who log on daily if not hourly and infact spend most of their time in the forums would accumalate so many un read mesaages ?? Sorry i may wake up to 10- 15 but take time to read them and reply in most casses but then again i dont think anybody is beneath me . Bulk deleteing is just poor manners in my opinion I don't see it like that at all. I make it clear in my profile I'm unlikely to engage with people. In the past I have replied to be courteous but inevitably it lead to more messages and at times abuse because they couldn't change my mind. I don't want fab to be a chore. I'm here for me. No one else Were all here for ourselves but if someone says good morning is it not just good manners to say good morning back ? And why not delete them as you get them if thats the case ? Why let them accumalate ? . Guese we each have our own ways of using fab no right no wrong i jusy dont see the point of leaving unnread mesaages . Read or delete simple really ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ^ this. | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? " I have | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? I have" I am still waiting for mine! ![]() | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? " If I like the guy I'll approach first. ![]() | |||
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"Not many really, probably 50 at most. My filters are set pretty tight which helps. I don't tend to pay attention to any messages they aren't from friends or through the forum anyway so they just get deleted unread" What about winks... ![]() | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? " I have. Although I never got hump if they didn't reply ![]() | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? I have. Although I never got hump if they didn't reply ![]() I know what you mean. If a guy sleeps with a lot of women, he is called a stud. If a woman sleeps with a lot of men, it is always not with me! ![]() | |||
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"I don’t expect a reply. I don’t think I am entitled to a reply. I do take time to read profiles and be polite and have never sent a “wanna fuck?” message. So I always hope for an indication of a no. I understand the protocol behind the FAQ of unanswered means no...but is it so hard to just delete it? That’s so much more of a no than a message that’s still there. You never know if a read message means the reader hasn’t had time at that point to reply. And if they can put it back to unread, then they can also delete. By saying that no one needs to be polite in the same breath as the messages I get aren’t polite, is just double standards and it’s become a self fulfilling prophecy these days. I’m not losing sleep over it because, hey, it’s only fab...and there are far more important things in the world. But, just my thoughts. " That's a cool attitude to have ![]() | |||
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"I noticed a pattern here! Tits equals hits..... ![]() ![]() ![]() No I got 400 for posting my cum video men like hearing a woman enjoy herself with her pussy ![]() | |||
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"The most I had was over 400 ![]() I swear you never messaged me before... Plus your message would just count as 1 unread, regardless how many messages you sent me in 5 minutes | |||
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"I noticed a pattern here! Tits equals hits..... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ofcoure we do, that's why I finger a watermelon when I'm polishing the brass ![]() | |||
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"The most I had was over 400 ![]() Would you like me to message you? ![]() | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? " I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status. | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status." I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men ![]() | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status. I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men ![]() . Looked tonight and zero. Same yesterday and the day before. | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status. I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men ![]() I'll fix that ! | |||
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"Does a women ever send a send the first message to a man? I have done occasionally, but it's usually to comment on a forum post or his status. I messaged men first and been ignored. Maybe I shouldn't message gay men ![]() Brilliant thanks | |||
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