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By *imher2o18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bolton

my partner wants to dp with me

but the times we have tried anal its been unconfutable

I have tried using a few toys to get use to it but not working

anyone any advice or tips on what I can do to get use to it

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Theres a numbing lube I've heard about off friends. They say it helps with anal. My advice would be lube, take your time, lube again, start small and more lube x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube lube lube and prep. I've only tried anal once, but I lubed up lots, popped a butt plug in, kept in there all through normal sex, took it out and lubed myself up again until I could fit three fingers in myself. Absolutely no pain whatsoever.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I find by taking your mind of it helps to I think sometimes when we no we are going to have anal we tense up to, which makes it harder have a toy on the clit when they trying anal ur mind will be elsewere and maybe try anal before dp

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Until you can do anal do not attempt dp at all.

The pain will be worse.

Try different positions.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Do not, I repeat do not, use the numbing lube you could end up getting injured and not be aware.

For me anal is something I enjoy most when already relaxed and very turned on.

Take it slowly and use lots and lots of lube.

Don't attempt DP until/unless anal is enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my partner wants to dp with me

but the times we have tried anal its been unconfutable

I have tried using a few toys to get use to it but not working

anyone any advice or tips on what I can do to get use to it

"

What do YOU want? If you don't enjoy it don't do it.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Have different sizes of butt plug, a smaller dildo, before even attempting the full monty!

Let your ass become accustomed to the feeling and like someone else said... a toy on your clit!

Alternatively... how about DVP? Different sense of fullness

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