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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn’t sleep much last night after too much wine and have woken up feeling broken and ancient

What things about a woman make us look older?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrinkles and grey hair lol...

Just embrace it love and be glad you have your health

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wrinkles and grey hair lol...

Just embrace it love and be glad you have your health "

I'm always grateful for my health - and NEVER let my hair go grey lol

Since I put on weight I’m less wrinkly - theres no wrinkles on a balloon

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Sucking on a Wethers Original

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sucking on a Wethers Original "

eeeeewwwww they're disgusting have you ever tried one

But its the only thing I'm in danger of sucking at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha unfortunately my face lets me down with wrinkles despite gaining over lockdown.. but yep.. get what you're saying

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By *rattylilfucktoyWoman
over a year ago

London

Only thing that makes you look older, is worrying over societal pressure about age and perceived milestones.

There is beauty in gaining experience and making mistakes. There is definitely beauty in age, stretch marks and liver spots.

Omg I miss hugs from busty late 40/50 mums! Just rest my head on their chest for life!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only thing that makes you look older, is worrying over societal pressure about age and perceived milestones.

There is beauty in gaining experience and making mistakes. There is definitely beauty in age, stretch marks and liver spots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

"

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!"

Very much so ...youth is wasted on the young ..I had great fun, but was quite shy ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!

Very much so ...youth is wasted on the young ..I had great fun, but was quite shy .."

Me too - I didn't like myself much and missed out on so much because I was self conscious.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!

Very much so ...youth is wasted on the young ..I had great fun, but was quite shy ..

Me too - I didn't like myself much and missed out on so much because I was self conscious.

"

I was just a bit of a bumbler when it came to chatting up girls,

Also spent far to much time drinking with my mates in old boys boozers ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is more ones demeanour..for man and woman..if we feel old then that is what we project..our shoulders slump, our walk can be lazy, without that vitality and confidence..youth is as much, if not more, about how we feel.I know some very sexy people who many would consider old.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!

Very much so ...youth is wasted on the young ..I had great fun, but was quite shy ..

Me too - I didn't like myself much and missed out on so much because I was self conscious.

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Why go back and tell those 20somethings what to do and what is coming. That’s who you were back then...they’d have felt pressured or shamed. And even a big reassuring hug wouldn’t have sunk in. The journey with confidence IS the ageing process...it’s just that society values the appearance of youth over the depth of confidence. Who you are now is BECAUSE of who you were then. And if you’re happier and more confident now, then you’re doing life right

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Clothes, hair, posture. Hands, neck, decolletage.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!

Very much so ...youth is wasted on the young ..I had great fun, but was quite shy ..

Me too - I didn't like myself much and missed out on so much because I was self conscious.

Why go back and tell those 20somethings what to do and what is coming. That’s who you were back then...they’d have felt pressured or shamed. And even a big reassuring hug wouldn’t have sunk in. The journey with confidence IS the ageing process...it’s just that society values the appearance of youth over the depth of confidence. Who you are now is BECAUSE of who you were then. And if you’re happier and more confident now, then you’re doing life right "

I agree. I don't regret how I was at 20 or how I am now. It's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t sleep much last night after too much wine and have woken up feeling broken and ancient

What things about a woman make us look older?

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I like older something sexy about older

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t sleep much last night after too much wine and have woken up feeling broken and ancient

What things about a woman make us look older?

"

Oh God, you and I both! I really need a swift hangover cure- I’ve got a date with a pile of laundry soon . Hope you recover soon! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrinkles and grey hair lol...

Just embrace it love and be glad you have your health "

I read an article this week about a hairdresser who dyes women's hair grey. He matches the tones of their grey roots and does the whole hair. It looks amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!

Very much so ...youth is wasted on the young ..I had great fun, but was quite shy ..

Me too - I didn't like myself much and missed out on so much because I was self conscious.

Why go back and tell those 20somethings what to do and what is coming. That’s who you were back then...they’d have felt pressured or shamed. And even a big reassuring hug wouldn’t have sunk in. The journey with confidence IS the ageing process...it’s just that society values the appearance of youth over the depth of confidence. Who you are now is BECAUSE of who you were then. And if you’re happier and more confident now, then you’re doing life right "

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By *ortherner26Man
over a year ago

North East

Yes i wish i could take my 37 years experience and confidence back to my 20-24 year old self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it."

It's always difficult to keep positive..but trust me..you've definitely still got it !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it."

just when you're getting used to it you'll hit 60

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

just when you're getting used to it you'll hit 60 "

I aint never get used to it

You made me smile. It was that or cry

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

It's always difficult to keep positive..but trust me..you've definitely still got it !!"

nice one...I certainly have my moments

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

just when you're getting used to it you'll hit 60

I aint never get used to it

You made me smile. It was that or cry

"

. Don't cry, I'll start thinking about how I'm 64 this year and start wailing and howling

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

just when you're getting used to it you'll hit 60

I aint never get used to it

You made me smile. It was that or cry

. Don't cry, I'll start thinking about how I'm 64 this year and start wailing and howling "

You look like you're owning it And that is the only way to do it.

But, if you need a shoulder, I'm here with a box of tissues

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

just when you're getting used to it you'll hit 60

I aint never get used to it

You made me smile. It was that or cry

. Don't cry, I'll start thinking about how I'm 64 this year and start wailing and howling

You look like you're owning it And that is the only way to do it.

But, if you need a shoulder, I'm here with a box of tissues "

. It's a funny old thing aging. For the most part I genuinely don't care but I'd be lying if I said I don't sometimes wish I had my younger body. When I out a bikini on for instance, I can see that I look OK but I can also see that my body is mature. We've been told for so long that the evidence of living long and gaining experience is not attractive that it can be difficult to be positive about it. Add to that the fact that "old" is used as an insult very often so is "menopausal" and its no wonder that even the most confident of us sometimes wish there was a magic tablet to make us look younger.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

My health makes me feel ancient at times. My age not at all x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

just when you're getting used to it you'll hit 60

I aint never get used to it

You made me smile. It was that or cry

. Don't cry, I'll start thinking about how I'm 64 this year and start wailing and howling

You look like you're owning it And that is the only way to do it.

But, if you need a shoulder, I'm here with a box of tissues

. It's a funny old thing aging. For the most part I genuinely don't care but I'd be lying if I said I don't sometimes wish I had my younger body. When I out a bikini on for instance, I can see that I look OK but I can also see that my body is mature. We've been told for so long that the evidence of living long and gaining experience is not attractive that it can be difficult to be positive about it. Add to that the fact that "old" is used as an insult very often so is "menopausal" and its no wonder that even the most confident of us sometimes wish there was a magic tablet to make us look younger. "

The alternative to aging doesn't appeal to me.

I am a pretty confident woman. I too will own it and grow old 'disgracefully' and with a big smile....still I'd take that pill

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's easy to say don't sweat your age.

Mid 30's 40's own it. Hit 50 and I really don't like it.

just when you're getting used to it you'll hit 60

I aint never get used to it

You made me smile. It was that or cry

. Don't cry, I'll start thinking about how I'm 64 this year and start wailing and howling

You look like you're owning it And that is the only way to do it.

But, if you need a shoulder, I'm here with a box of tissues

. It's a funny old thing aging. For the most part I genuinely don't care but I'd be lying if I said I don't sometimes wish I had my younger body. When I out a bikini on for instance, I can see that I look OK but I can also see that my body is mature. We've been told for so long that the evidence of living long and gaining experience is not attractive that it can be difficult to be positive about it. Add to that the fact that "old" is used as an insult very often so is "menopausal" and its no wonder that even the most confident of us sometimes wish there was a magic tablet to make us look younger.

The alternative to aging doesn't appeal to me.

I am a pretty confident woman. I too will own it and grow old 'disgracefully' and with a big smile....still I'd take that pill "

Yeah, if it has no side effects, only has to be taken once and costs no more than a fiver, so would I

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By *inxy300Woman
over a year ago

nottinghamshire


"There's a lot of nice things about a mature lady so I think it can be a positive thing getting older...

Confidence, conversation, tend to make more effort to dress well etc

It's cruel that confidence comes with age.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with my 20 year old self don't you!"

I get entirely where your coming from hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrinkles and grey hair lol...

Just embrace it love and be glad you have your health "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t sleep much last night after too much wine and have woken up feeling broken and ancient

What things about a woman make us look older?

"

Wine.

Try drinking wkd blue tonight and you’ll look and feel like a teenager again

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Sucking on a Wethers Original "

Safer than sucking a Fishermans Friend

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