FabSwingers.com forum: Can women look please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

I'm not looking for guys but it seems like they find me somehow. The only fabs I got were from guys haha. I guess that I feel flattered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not looking for guys but it seems like they find me somehow. The only fabs I got were from guys haha. I guess that I feel flattered.

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dont get me wrong I'm flattered anyone looks and if anyone fans but I do have to wonder is it only men that like the look of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say all the ladies turn off stealth mode just once. You have a promise not to badger you with follow ups. But at least we'd feel a little less invisible...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I say all the ladies turn off stealth mode just once. You have a promise not to badger you with follow ups. But at least we'd feel a little less invisible...

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to many guys would break that rule I dont blame the ladies for using stealth mode but I do feel like only men look at me and fab me lol

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

You know you can use filters..... right?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I just looked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know you can use filters..... right?"

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex"

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just looked x"
thank you lovely ladie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution."
not once actually complained it's a compliment when anyone looks what inwas saying is that it seems to be only men looking so need need to filter that

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution. not once actually complained it's a compliment when anyone looks what inwas saying is that it seems to be only men looking so need need to filter that "

Your emoji expressions say other wise

Anyway I'm out

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Playa de Ingles Chippenham

I looked (Mrs) love your humour.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution."

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

Oi!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I looked (Mrs) love your humour.

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why thank you very much xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

Oi!

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hello sexy

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it."

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling... little bit of muscle and I'm an all you can eat man buffet. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom"

So if I fab your pics it won't show up? They can still view your profile and public pictures ect.

Genuinely curious as it might help some of the more frustrated users on here

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom

So if I fab your pics it won't show up? They can still view your profile and public pictures ect.

Genuinely curious as it might help some of the more frustrated users on here

Fabs will show regardless

View count and who viewed wont

They can view me and fab me up to them.

But dont want to miss the ladies who look in non stealth

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom

So if I fab your pics it won't show up? They can still view your profile and public pictures ect.

Genuinely curious as it might help some of the more frustrated users on here

Ohh and profile is not blocked just doesnt show up in the stats aka bloated figures.

I'm a realist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom

So if I fab your pics it won't show up? They can still view your profile and public pictures ect.

Genuinely curious as it might help some of the more frustrated users on here

Ohh and profile is not blocked just doesnt show up in the stats aka bloated figures.

I'm a realist

That's fair enough. At least the people who view this thread should be able to do the same if they have any issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to put very strict filtering cos of the guys. Pretty sure have a dew F peoples as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

Solidarity Brothers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots more views since doing this thread but mostly from guys lol I'm thinking 100s of women look they just all in stealth at least that's what I'm telling myself lol

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom

So if I fab your pics it won't show up? They can still view your profile and public pictures ect.

Genuinely curious as it might help some of the more frustrated users on here

Ohh and profile is not blocked just doesnt show up in the stats aka bloated figures.

I'm a realist

That's fair enough. At least the people who view this thread should be able to do the same if they have any issues

2m air high 5

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom"

I'm a single guy, and I can see your profile. I've also fabbed a picture, purely as an experiment.

Whether you can see that I've done so doesn't affect my use of the site.

I don't think it's in the site's interest to stop people seeing other profiles, as it will be obvious how high the odds are.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it.

You can

I do

Choose not interested in single guys

Job done

Boom

I'm a single guy, and I can see your profile. I've also fabbed a picture, purely as an experiment.

Whether you can see that I've done so doesn't affect my use of the site.

I don't think it's in the site's interest to stop people seeing other profiles, as it will be obvious how high the odds are.

Doesnt stop you seeing me.

I can see your fab.

Nothing else.

I don't hide

Just don't see the stats unless you choose to interact and fab

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

You mean there’s a stealth mode !!!!!!

Otherwise, same, only guys look at me and I cannot work out why ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always in stealth mode. Tried taking it off before and I’d get guys messaging then saying I see you’ve looked at my profile. It’s like yeah and, if I was interested I’d follow it up with a message. Just easier to view in stealth mode!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yup, I've looked, in stealth mode as I don't want people messaging me because they assume I'm interested because I have looked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m always in stealth mode. Tried taking it off before and I’d get guys messaging then saying I see you’ve looked at my profile. It’s like yeah and, if I was interested I’d follow it up with a message. Just easier to view in stealth mode! "
annie I'm now going to imag8tgat your looking at my profile many times in each day just to perve lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I say all the ladies turn off stealth mode just once. You have a promise not to badger you with follow ups. But at least we'd feel a little less invisible...

I've done this and the resulting messages made me switch it straight back on lol, same with filters, it's not worth the unwanted dross that hits my inbox. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

annie I'm now going to imag8tgat your looking at my profile many times in each day just to perve lol

Yeah, keep imagining that

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By *ngel_vs_devil33Woman
over a year ago

i’ll let you know

Just looked xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't look at you. If that helps

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

You can see who views you from stealth mode if you upgrade to platinum.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Just looked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just looked "
u did

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

annie I'm now going to imag8tgat your looking at my profile many times in each day just to perve lol

Yeah, keep imagining that

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it keeps me going annie lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just looked xx "
thank you xxx

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

I think you’ll find that many men would be over the moon with that many views, even if just to know that their profile is out there being seen by others and as for getting Fabs, you sound like you’re quids in. I bet there’ll be loads of men gunning for you, wondering what you’ve got to be getting all the attention that they want...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

I have 8 views today

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

Given that people only ever look at me because I have been a cantankerous curmudgeon

I'm glad women look at me in stealth mode as otherwise it would just depress me to know how many gorgeous women thought I was a complete ****

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you’ll find that many men would be over the moon with that many views, even if just to know that their profile is out there being seen by others and as for getting Fabs, you sound like you’re quids in. I bet there’ll be loads of men gunning for you, wondering what you’ve got to be getting all the attention that they want...

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I'm just me lol I regularly get over 100 views a day and upwards of 40 fabs over all my pictures. I dont do anything to get them other than being me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

I have 8 views today "
68 views now lol

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"I say all the ladies turn off stealth mode just once. You have a promise not to badger you with follow ups. But at least we'd feel a little less invisible...

I don't turn off mine, I like them knowing that I fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it mean so much to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it mean so much to you?"
nope but it gets people talking

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I very rarely use stealth mode. I prefer it to be known if I'm looking at someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I very rarely use stealth mode. I prefer it to be known if I'm looking at someone "
u never look anymore

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

That's a lot of fabs WD

At least you have changed you status

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's a lot of fabs WD

At least you have changed you status

Jo x

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I did say that was a challenge lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"You know you can use filters..... right?

He's nit talking about being offered meets or messages lol. Being fabbed by a guy is never a bad thing. It could literally mean they just like you as a person not for sex

You filter more than just messages. He talked about views.

Hes complaining about them.

I'm offering a solution.

Are you?

You can stop individual profiles looking, with the block button.

You can stop everyone looking by hiding your profile.

I am not aware that you can set a filter so only certain types of profile can see it."

You are right, you cant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did anyone look? Cba reading the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did anyone look? Cba reading the thread "
u looked lol

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

The fact that at least guys check my profile, it means that I'm not invisible, which tends to feel like sometimes ngl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

I've just had a nosey..

Nice indeed..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

I've just had a nosey..

Nice indeed..

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well thank you very kindly xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

I've just had a nosey..

Nice indeed..

well thank you very kindly xxx

You're very welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

We all have same problem but you seem to have done well with the fabs

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

just putting myself out there too.. i get multiple guys looking at my page, but just the odd woman... she was probably lost and came by my page by mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

May its something to do with the status you had on yesterday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get messages from people saying thanks for looking at us and saying you must be interested you looked at our profile. Stealth mode needs to be activated when searching!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t remove stealth mode as things start to go crazy. It’s easier to look anonymously then wink or message if I’m interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

May its something to do with the status you had on yesterday?"
hahaha you liked that one did you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you get messages from people saying thanks for looking at us and saying you must be interested you looked at our profile. Stealth mode needs to be activated when searching!!"
that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get why people are bothered about how many looked at their profile and how many fabs their pictures get.

It means nothing, especially when you know that lots look in stealth mode.

It just seems to be some big pointless popularity contest on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t get why people are bothered about how many looked at their profile and how many fabs their pictures get.

It means nothing, especially when you know that lots look in stealth mode.

It just seems to be some big pointless popularity contest on here.

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it's great to know your being looked at lol

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

What am I looking at?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What am I looking at? "
what ever you want

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"What am I looking at? what ever you want

You're such an attention seeker... I fabbed your spade, what more do you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my profile looked at 47 times this morning and I've had 67 fabs across my pictures but it's all guys

I know you ladies mostly look in stealth mode but I'm starting to wonder if it's only guys that actually look at me now

Maybe the guys that fab your pics are looking for a builder.....

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