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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Men and women.

Simple question.

Are you interested in joining an established couple purely for mutual sexual gratification?

It would also be good to read why the scenario interests you and which aspects particularly appeal to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single, I was open to the idea. If it had actually happened I don't think it would last very long if there wasn't some friendship element to it as well though.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

With a couple I feel like a substitute rather than being part of the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes.

Greedily, I like the idea of being indulged and attended to and played with by both of them like a new and fascinating toy! I also want to invoke those little orgasm giving tremors of fire that one can feel when watching your partner touch, and enjoy touching, someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. As part of a couple I enjoy swapping but when single group fun has never appealed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn’t join a couple to smoosh booties. I would just feel like a toy rather than a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. If I have threesomes I prefer them with two single friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the couple. I rarely find women attractive sexually although it does happen occasionally, and I have to find them both attractive x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It depends on the couple. Generally, no, I stopped because I had a couple of instances where I felt like I was a bit of a sex toy to them, brought in for their sexual pleasure with not too much thought put into mine (I often got that vibe just from conversation so I wouldn't even entertain a meet)

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

No, meeting couples for one offs makes me feel like their toy, something to play with and discard.

In guys that behaviour is seen as a terrible way to treat a single woman on here and they’re blasted for it and yet couples think that’s acceptable to pop on my inbox constantly, all these ‘unicorn hunters’ it’s frustrating because when I say no to them, I’m seen as the picky one, go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t like sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined Fab it was a no but recently I have thought it would be something I could possibly be interested in experiencing if the right couple came along. I would have to be really attracted to both

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not purely for sexual gratification no. I've only played with couples I was already close to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like a threesome

Like the idea of sex for fun but we would need to get along too. No good if I didn’t fancy them both a bit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As others have said, not as a sex toy. With friendship/ friendliness involved, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was single, I was open to the idea. If it had actually happened I don't think it would last very long if there wasn't some friendship element to it as well though."

This.

And would depend on the sexuality of the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single I met with about 7 or 8 couples.

5 where regular people that I would meet up with and became friends.

I do understand what people say about feeling like a spare part or simply a Toy, I Only ever felt like that once so didn't return.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"When I was single, I was open to the idea. If it had actually happened I don't think it would last very long if there wasn't some friendship element to it as well though.

This.

And would depend on the sexuality of the woman "

Oh god yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into women so no. Also the idea of being someone’s glorified sex toy for the night doesn’t appeal to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was single, I was open to the idea. If it had actually happened I don't think it would last very long if there wasn't some friendship element to it as well though.

This.

And would depend on the sexuality of the woman

Oh god yes"

This too.

I often get messages from couples saying my wife wants to try being with another woman, can you teach her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id get involved without a doubt. As long as everyone knew the boundaries, why not. I like the idea of helping couples have a great sex life tbh.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Interesting reading the replies from a couples perspective. We rarely approach singles though and let them come to us if they are interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. If I have threesomes I prefer them with two single friends."

I feel the same way - a couple is often a weird dynamic.

I'm all for 3somes 4somes and moresomes but not as a plaything for an already established couple.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It's not my main reason for being here, but I'm at least halfway open to the idea now

As others have said, some kind if friendship / relationship would be preferable, and I'd need to find the woman attractive.

Not in the slightest interested in playing / being played with by the other guy, but can cope with being around other guy(s)

If it's two women, though, then I'll know full well I've died and gone to heaven

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, absolutely. I have already done this.

As someone who actively *enjoys* being treated like a sex toy, I am very happy to help established couples fulfil their gangbang, DP and MMF fantasies.

It's fun, and I like making ladies happy.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Back in my single, sluttier days - yes it was something I did and really enjoyed, I like men and women and combining the two is perfect. I love seeing the dynamic between a couple - that loving bond is incredibly sexy and intimate and only once I was made to feel like a toy; I felt more like we were all indulging in a carnal buffet of pleasure and everyone was enjoying it in that moment, for what it was and nothing else.

Now I want a bit more of a connection, a friendship and with a couple it *can* bring all sorts of complications. When it works it works brilliantly but when it doesn't it's not the best feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slutty Meli *fans self*

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Sorry about offering a couples perspective but it might be interestesting.

We don't have any desire to have a sex toy-person. We chat to people we like and have a spark with. We have never set out to find somebody to have sex with, only people we get on with and see where it leads. We are totally open to that happening with people we get on with but it's not an objective.

If something sexual does happen, we want the other party to feel totally involved and to know their pleasure is a big priority for us. Gratifying another person is one of the great pleasures of sex in our view and extending that pleasure to somebody outside our relationship is a beautiful thing.

We wouldn't get any pleasure from treating somebody as if they are there "for us".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of couples that viewed me after this was impressive yet not a single message haha! Chickens! I dont bite x

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By *ewsub4dommeMan
over a year ago

thirsk

im definitely up for new experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet couples.

Only met best mates - straight men.

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By *rattylilfucktoyWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd love to play with a couple who are equals in the dynamic (I dont want the guy just chatting to me or being a lesbain show).

I want to see their personalities and hear from them both.

I want to see them both be outgoing or 'active'.

That's a couple dynamic I'd like.

On my couples profile, I offer to meet (social) alone and chat to single females. I'm happy to support/accompany them as it's a bit overwhelming swinging as a single female and not every woman wants a guy to accompany them (well I dont).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As others have said, not as a sex toy. With friendship/ friendliness involved, yes. "

We enjoy the company of a single female who has become a friend over time.

We often discuss whether she feels like a toy and are so happy that she has never felt this way by us.

She and I are both bisexual and so we enjoy each other as much as I enjoy including her in sex with Mr and myself.

She has never been thought of as a toy or object, she has her own wants, needs and fantasies which we help her to fulfill as much as she helps us with our own.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yes

It's a dynamic I'm comfortable in and I love to meet with a couple who are really in sync with each other for everyone's gratification. It's my favourite thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, particularly if the man is bi. MMF is my favourite sexual grouping I’ve experienced so far. I hope one day I’ll get to have another one.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

If it were a couple of straight men then i would consider this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it were a couple of straight men then i would consider this. "

Anyone want to team up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love meeting with couples. It makes me feel good when I'm invited in to a loving relationship as a new and exciting sexual toy to play with. I also prefer it if I build a friendship though and we have lots of play in groups or as a three. I've been very lucky.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have had a couple really memorable, fun, satisfying mff meets.

As long as there is a one for all and all for one attitude it worked for me.

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By *koto1Man
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

Absolutely, I love playing with couples. I would prefer to form a relationship but it's just like playing at a club but less crowded.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes.

Having been the couple for many years now I personally find the thought of being the extra very appealing with the right couple that might treat me the way we have treated women we’ve invited into our relationship.

Although being a straight man playing with an established mf couple would be a completely different dynamic to that I’ve experienced so much with my wife and our girlfriends.

Just to make it clear this is in no way a fishing thread.

I just wondered how many others around the forum were interested In this kind of scenario.

Thanks for your thoughts everyone.

It’s nice to read all the responses.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"If it were a couple of straight men then i would consider this. "

Me too...I have a couple of guys in mind when the times right

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"If it were a couple of straight men then i would consider this.

Anyone want to team up? "

Sure, I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a couple really memorable, fun, satisfying mff meets.

As long as there is a one for all and all for one attitude it worked for me. "

Real simple really unless you NEED some deep emotional feedback.

I've done a few MF...........M he's sat over there.

One MF.M........she was the jelly in the sandwich.

One MF....M he came in her mouth.

The dots denote the distance between males.

PS still waiting for my first MF......... he's nowhere to be seen...well I have come close to this, he was in the next street and we were behind a factory.

My book will be entitled:

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I have had a couple really memorable, fun, satisfying mff meets.

As long as there is a one for all and all for one attitude it worked for me.

Real simple really unless you NEED some deep emotional feedback.

I've done a few MF...........M he's sat over there.

One MF.M........she was the jelly in the sandwich.

One MF....M he came in her mouth.

The dots denote the distance between males.

PS still waiting for my first MF......... he's nowhere to be seen...well I have come close to this, he was in the next street and we were behind a factory.

My book will be entitled:

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner..."

I don't do deep emotional feedback from meets only verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a couple really memorable, fun, satisfying mff meets.

As long as there is a one for all and all for one attitude it worked for me.

Real simple really unless you NEED some deep emotional feedback.

I've done a few MF...........M he's sat over there.

One MF.M........she was the jelly in the sandwich.

One MF....M he came in her mouth.

The dots denote the distance between males.

PS still waiting for my first MF......... he's nowhere to be seen...well I have come close to this, he was in the next street and we were behind a factory.

My book will be entitled:

Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner...

I don't do deep emotional feedback from meets only verifications

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Whoopee!

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

"If it were a couple of straight men then i would consider this. "

Agree with this. But they have to get along too.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Will they provide tea and biscuits?

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Not even digestives? Well count me out.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Sorry about offering a couples perspective but it might be interestesting.

We wouldn't get any pleasure from treating somebody as if they are there "for us". "

I'm sure I could not have put that better.

Jo x

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Yes.

Although being a straight man playing with an established mf couple would be a completely different dynamic to that I’ve experienced so much with my wife and our girlfriends.

Just to make it clear this is in no way a fishing thread.

I just wondered how many others around the forum were interested In this kind of scenario.

Thanks for your thoughts everyone.

It’s nice to read all the responses.

This is our exact scenario, many couples are looking for bi females it seems.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know to be honest, I dont think I have any bisexual tendencies as such but could quite fancy teaming up with a wife and using the husband as our toy. In a mutually happy with that kind of way.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I've joined a couple of couples never felt like a sex toy tho I do it again with the right couple

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I wouldn’t discount it if it was the right couple and right circumstances. I’m straight though so it would be more about M than F for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with a few lovely couples but much rather just play with single men on their on x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes.

Although being a straight man playing with an established mf couple would be a completely different dynamic to that I’ve experienced so much with my wife and our girlfriends.

Just to make it clear this is in no way a fishing thread.

I just wondered how many others around the forum were interested In this kind of scenario.

Thanks for your thoughts everyone.

It’s nice to read all the responses.

This is our exact scenario, many couples are looking for bi females it seems.

Jo x

Although this wasn’t the purpose of the thread that is good information to know

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