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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry to say that if you do say it...I fear that it will never be the same again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me."

Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.

Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?"

I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sorry to say that if you do say it...I fear that it will never be the same again"

That is why I am afraid of saying anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really sound like you are dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the pros for you in this situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.

Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?

I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "

Nah.. that’s not good if that’s not what you want. You sure you want to keep him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.

Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?

I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "

Sounds like he's using you for his own gratification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "

Sweetie, I hate to be that person but that’s really REALLY not ok! He’s offloading hard with no concern for your comfort or even consciousness!! I’d be seriously concerned by that behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.

Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?

I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "

This is wrong on soooo many levels! There doesn’t seem to be any consent or any even attempt to try and get consent! I would have words, and if he leaves well good riddance to bad news!

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he fucks me 6/7 nights .Sometimes he wakes me up at night just so he could fuck and first thing in the morning he wants to fuck he is 23 and I am in my 30s not as active as he is.How I do I tell him I need a break without sounding like he doesn’t satisfy me.

Is he satisfying you? Or just unloading? I think it’s time to talk if you want this to continue. Maybe go with the idea that you want to try out some teasing and build up games?

I feel like he is just unloading cos sometimes he doesn’t even wake me up he just slides it in without lube or anything? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds fucking great tbf

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"He sounds fucking great tbf "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't you have lockdown over there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He sounds fucking great tbf

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"He sounds fucking great tbf

"

Yeah right

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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Is this just about sex or do you do other things together?

What do you want the relationship to develop into - if of course you are looking for a greater depth

It certainly sounds as though he is taking some degree of advantage at the moment and at 23 he may not really know what he wants in a few years time

A great longer term relationship is more difficult to find and nurture than exciting but maybe short term sex

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"He sounds fucking great tbf "

I thought the same

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