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By *zorean OP   Man
over a year ago

Witney

Do you think that they play a part when meeting someone?

In my opinion, there needs to be a connection with the other person for sex to taste better, however, having said that, I'm not ditching just casual sex encounters.

What's your opinion on the subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I gotta like ‘em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by emotions? I get emotional about which pants I'm wearing....

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Yea I got to like em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some sort of connection is pretty vital for us, be it friendship, a romantic spark or just a strong physical attraction that causes an emotional surge. We’re definitely more interested in making connections than having one-off physical pleasure with people we don’t know or like.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Do you think that they play a part when meeting someone?

In my opinion, there needs to be a connection with the other person for sex to taste better, however, having said that, I'm not ditching just casual sex encounters.

What's your opinion on the subject? "

Some sort of feeling/lustful connection has to be there for me. I don’t do causal sexual encounters

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By *zorean OP   Man
over a year ago

Witney

When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall..."

One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection is everything, if you can work out what makes someone tick and learn about them, then you can really enjoy things together

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall...

One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....

"

Damn, that's me out then

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

There has to be something that sparks your interest.

As long as they are average people and can chat a little, no problem, let's see where the night goes.

Boring, arrogant, full of themselves people, no thanks.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Ye there as to be an attraction, unless beer is involved (on both sides) then it’s out the window

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall...

One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....

Damn, that's me out then "

I'm sure he'll make an exception for you. I certainly would

But yes, émotions do come into play. I can't go with anyone I don't find attractive on at least some level

And there seem to be a surprising number of men here who think / feel the same way, considering we're stereotypically seen as cold, calculating bastards who'll fuck anything. Pulse optional

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By *zorean OP   Man
over a year ago

Witney


"Ye there as to be an attraction, unless beer is involved (on both sides) then it’s out the window "

Good ol' alcohol doing the trick since ever hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I say emotions, I'm talking about connections, feelings, sparks, chemistry, whatever you want to call it, and not only on a physical level, just overall...

One doesn't come without the other for me in terms of sex. I can appreciate a good looking woman but I don't want fuck her if she's a complete dickhead....

Damn, that's me out then "

Shush, you're lovely and beautiful to boot and you know it!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

121 definitely. Groups.. it vastly depends on the head space I am in at the time... although I still have a group of people that would be a no. As even when I'm on one I still have standards x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually play at clubs, so if I see someone sexy whilst there, the only emotion I feel is lust

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"There has to be something that sparks your interest.

As long as they are average people and can chat a little, no problem, let's see where the night goes.

Boring, arrogant, full of themselves people, no thanks.

"

Also, I'm not looking for a new partner so the usual criteria doesn't apply.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have to like someone if I am having sex with them especially one on one. No chemistry and attraction and its not going to happen

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By *zorean OP   Man
over a year ago

Witney


"I usually play at clubs, so if I see someone sexy whilst there, the only emotion I feel is lust "

Guess that's one of the things I'm missing, definitely need to try groups and clubs haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only robots and psychopaths lack emotions...

For everyone else they're part of being human.

Without emotions what's the point.....

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Some sort of connection is pretty vital for us, be it friendship, a romantic spark or just a strong physical attraction that causes an emotional surge. We’re definitely more interested in making connections than having one-off physical pleasure with people we don’t know or like. "

We feel the same. We've met people for socials and I've felt nothing so it's not gone any further. We've also met people who I probably wouldn't fancy on first look but we've just got on really well and just clicked x

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I think the sex is better when you get to know someone.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Emotions are everywhere.. you just leave the important ones at home when meeting for sex

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am not really an emotional person. I know what i like and know what i dislike and usually can tell within 10mins of meeting someone if they are for me.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I don't think I do anything without some sort of emotion. For me to meet someone I have to have the lust factor and they absolutely have to make me feel like I can be my big old daft self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not really an emotional person. I know what i like and know what i dislike and usually can tell within 10mins of meeting someone if they are for me."

I'll remember this next time im in glasgow! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you Gent's little brother OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emoticons? Hate em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is better when there’s a connection

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By *zorean OP   Man
over a year ago

Witney


"Are you Gent's little brother OP? "

Nahh, we're not related, but I do respect him, he was here way before me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have to like them but apart from that I'm not interested in romance, jealousy, love etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you Gent's little brother OP?

Nahh, we're not related, but I do respect him, he was here way before me "

Lol cool, I respect everyone

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By *zorean OP   Man
over a year ago

Witney


"I have to like them but apart from that I'm not interested in romance, jealousy, love etc etc. "

Yeah definitely, romance is one thing but caring and liking is a whole different thing I'd say.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have to like them but apart from that I'm not interested in romance, jealousy, love etc etc.

Yeah definitely, romance is one thing but caring and liking is a whole different thing I'd say."

Caring to me implies a whole level of commitment I don't want to make or for anyone to expect from me in a nsa encounter . I care on a general level for my fellow human beings but I'm not looking to make commitments beyond that unless we become friends

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people in swinging will put on a faux caring face in order to either appear like a nice person or to hook the people looking for something more meaningful. Present company excepted of course

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I usually play at clubs, so if I see someone sexy whilst there, the only emotion I feel is lust "

Pretty much this.

There's more than one sort of connection. Sure, while it's nice to get on with someone, I'm also quite happy operating in the manner that Ivy describes. I'm one of the least emotional people I know.

I think more men would be happier with their Fab experience if they were more accepting of their inherent disposablility. Hah.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have to be on the same wavelength and find them attractive I personally wouldn’t class that as a emotion tho...

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Some people in swinging will put on a faux caring face in order to either appear like a nice person or to hook the people looking for something more meaningful. Present company excepted of course "

Totally agree

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