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How to grow a profile?

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Is there a particularly good way to get chatting to more people? Have tried both generic messages and personalised messages but got no response, was wondering if there is anything that would make a profile more appealing? Maybe it’s the lack of verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta water it a lot.. especially in this heat.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Having a short and very bland profile will do nobody any favours!

If you can't be interesting then I don't see the point in trying to attract attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fertilizers?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Your pictures are really old and your profile tells me nothing.

You put in effort to reap reward.

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

That could be where I’m going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horseshit laddie. Plenty of horseshit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for women. Bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pictures are really old and your profile tells me nothing.

You put in effort to reap reward. "

I like your bum. If I was a bum man, I would have loved to give that bum a good bumming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for women. Bi-curious.

"

Change of scenery, huh? I don't blame you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for women. Bi-curious.

Change of scenery, huh? I don't blame you!"

I'm getting ready for my stay in prison.

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By *lessedXXXWoman
over a year ago

“I never meet”

Read people’s profiles and if you’re not what they’re looking for don’t message them!

I’d also recommend blocking profiles you’re not interested in (or you’re not what they’re looking for) so they don’t keep coming up in your searches - no point seeing lots of irrelevant profiles when you can focus on the ones that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree that a well-written profile is essential on Fab. I've looked at hundreds of both male and female profiles which have nothing but a dick pic/fanny pic (and sometimes no pics!) or might have something as insightful as "looking for fun" in the bio and they have loads of veris!

I'm sure some people do like a long, well-written bio or "artistic" pictures but it's not a deal breaker from what I can see.

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Very insightful, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't meet at the drop of a hat?

I don't think anyone's dropping hats at the moment.

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By *lessedXXXWoman
over a year ago

“I never meet”


"Can't meet at the drop of a hat?

I don't think anyone's dropping hats at the moment."

Yeah they are, I get countless messages from men asking for meets - now - not after lockdown and the social distancing restrictions have been lifted.

I won’t meet but I’m sure others will (and do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't meet at the drop of a hat?

I don't think anyone's dropping hats at the moment.

Yeah they are, I get countless messages from men asking for meets - now - not after lockdown and the social distancing restrictions have been lifted.

I won’t meet but I’m sure others will (and do)"

That's not what I meant. I know people are asking for meets.

OP hasn't been verified by a meet yet so doesn't seem like he's too busy to meet (now or later).

But I might be wrong.

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I feel like I’m stuck in a loop, can’t get meets because I can’t get verifs and can’t get verifs because I can’t meets

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Looking at your profile.. you say you are inexperienced.. this could be a put off for women on here.. As in you are a little immature when. It comes to sex.. just be yourself and have sex the way you do normally.. it’s about experiencing something different, something you can add as you go along for next time.. your age could play a factor too... a little young maybe.. what age category are you searching for..

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

Lol well...do it like the others and wait until this is over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont put any topless pictures on. People will think you love yourself........

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"I feel like I’m stuck in a loop, can’t get meets because I can’t get verifs and can’t get verifs because I can’t meets"
One solution is to get verified in a chat room if you are prepared to go on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Just be yourself. "
Yep. Just be yourself. Just don't expect much action like the rest of us.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Having a short and very bland profile will do nobody any favours!

If you can't be interesting then I don't see the point in trying to attract attention. "

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Your pictures are really old and your profile tells me nothing.

You put in effort to reap reward. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a particularly good way to get chatting to more people? Have tried both generic messages and personalised messages but got no response, was wondering if there is anything that would make a profile more appealing? Maybe it’s the lack of verifications "

Generally it reads alright but could do with a little more content maybe...

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Pretty generic profile

At 22, of course you're inexperienced, and I wouldn't want to be a 'teacher' or on your bucket list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age

Naf photos

Soon as I saw you'd meet a 99 Yr old.. I seriously cba reading anymore.

Absolutely no effort.

But it's a needle in a haystack..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta water it a lot.. especially in this heat."

This is what I'm doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta water it a lot.. especially in this heat.

This is what I'm doing."

Nice one

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

You really need better photos, and don’t make your opening picture a cock. Why not use lock down time to refresh your portfolio and write up?

Have a look at some of the men who have been successful and see if you can get some inspiration; but don’t copy as you are representing yourself.

Best of luck.

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