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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...I'm much too sensible for that

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes, this happens a lot. I've got some very good friends from the back of feeling like that. Also had some very hot sex with a few who I've wanted too, albeit they were briefly in my life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this."

I think its great when you feel like that... obviously always better if they feel the same though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Turned out they had other thoughts...

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Yes and it's never worked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've experienced that, ended up keeping him as a friend who will be in my life forever, much better than dating him!

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By *ngel_vs_devil33Woman
over a year ago

i’ll let you know

Yes, it’s happened a few times, it is a gut feeling when you meet someone like that, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rare but yes.. not necessary have to have them kind of thought.. more like .. oh would love to get to know them. Or they seem like my kindred soul.

opposite is truth as well.. seeing people and having that bad feeling that it's best to stay away from them. Usually right on both accounts.

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

always been one way and they don't want me back.... 3 disastrous relationships later and here I am doing what I like doing with no hassle

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow?"

No, can’t say I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this."

Yes but I never have them. I somtimes see women in the street and I drool over them, but that's about as far as it goes.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I had this feeling earlier this year and it was very strong. She felt it too. But it doesn’t mean that person will remain in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP but you can't have me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the chicas I speak with seem to feel like that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people come to you for a reason, they aren't all going to stay physically in your life, even if they do stay in your hearts

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yes I have, I think it's finding someone who's on the same wavelength as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have, I think it's finding someone who's on the same wavelength as you. "

Yes, that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that feeling and and went from just being friends to having a 2 and a half year relationship. Shame though as we grew apart and now the friendship is over too.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. 2 years and a lot of heartache later I'm never doing it again

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Not on sight. From an initial conversation I have, yes. When I met my closest friend I thought right from our first conversation in work that he was cool as fuck and I wanted him in my life.

I was right, he was an amazing person and we got on brilliantly. I am blessed to have known him and have missed him every single day since he died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people are meant to cross your path, and they come into your life for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. All the time

Haha thats just called the raging horn miss

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes I’ve had that feeling. It’s like there’s something there and you can’t sometimes even pinpoint what it is but it there.

Doesn’t happen often unfortunately.

I go with my gut feelings a lot

I’ve also never won the lottery which I’ve played a few times going with gut feeling

Sometimes you don’t get it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X"

Yup. Nobody can. I'm very precious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I’ve had that feeling. It’s like there’s something there and you can’t sometimes even pinpoint what it is but it there.

Doesn’t happen often unfortunately.

I go with my gut feelings a lot

I’ve also never won the lottery which I’ve played a few times going with gut feeling

Sometimes you don’t get it right "

Im learning this quickly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X

Yup. Nobody can. I'm very precious

Platinum pussy you should be called haha

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Yes I’ve had that feeling. It’s like there’s something there and you can’t sometimes even pinpoint what it is but it there.

Doesn’t happen often unfortunately.

I go with my gut feelings a lot

I’ve also never won the lottery which I’ve played a few times going with gut feeling

Sometimes you don’t get it right

Im learning this quickly! "

We live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people come to you for a reason, they aren't all going to stay physically in your life, even if they do stay in your hearts

They only ever stay if both do what it takes to maintain whatever the relationship is.

It only ever takes one to walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup..definately..though they may only be in my life for a shorter length of time but they had to be there at that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X

Yup. Nobody can. I'm very precious

Platinum pussy you should be called haha "

Who's talking about pussy?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X

Yup. Nobody can. I'm very precious

Platinum pussy you should be called haha

Who's talking about pussy?

You always talk about pussy....you can't help liking cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X

Yup. Nobody can. I'm very precious

Platinum pussy you should be called haha

Who's talking about pussy?

You always talk about pussy....you can't help liking cats

You've seen my pussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X

Yup. Nobody can. I'm very precious

Platinum pussy you should be called haha

Who's talking about pussy?

Ok platinum petal lol

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I think people come to you for a reason, they aren't all going to stay physically in your life, even if they do stay in your hearts

They only ever stay if both do what it takes to maintain whatever the relationship is.

It only ever takes one to walk away."

That’s sadly so true.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Sorry OP but you can't have me

Haha is that right?? X

Yup. Nobody can. I'm very precious

Platinum pussy you should be called haha

Who's talking about pussy?

You always talk about pussy....you can't help liking cats

You've seen my pussy

It even has legs!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this."

I met people and instantly got on with them like we known eachother like forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people come to you for a reason, they aren't all going to stay physically in your life, even if they do stay in your hearts

They only ever stay if both do what it takes to maintain whatever the relationship is.

It only ever takes one to walk away.

That’s sadly so true.

But if they left, they left for a reason too. Not everyone is meant to stay I think.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this."

I know this feeling very well, I live with that feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this.

I met people and instantly got on with them like we known eachother like forever

Well why does it so often go so wrong?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this."

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this.

Never "

What about ME????

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I think people come to you for a reason, they aren't all going to stay physically in your life, even if they do stay in your hearts

They only ever stay if both do what it takes to maintain whatever the relationship is.

It only ever takes one to walk away.

That’s sadly so true.

But if they left, they left for a reason too. Not everyone is meant to stay I think. "

No I totally agree with you there.

What’s meant to be will be.

There are a few who can enter your life leaving a permanent footprint, even when they’ve only been part of your life for a short period.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Yes. Then I have a wank and get on with my day.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes. I saw him by chance and immediately wanted to know everything about him, 2 hours later and he was mine, I found a best friend and a partner all rolled into one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I’d never wanna be without Mr Kipling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That feeling when you see someone for the first time and know you have to have them in your life somehow??

Im a very reactionary and gut instinct person so i know not everyone will be like this."

Yup. My bank manager. Or any bank managers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this feeling earlier this year and it was very strong. She felt it too. But it doesn’t mean that person will remain in your life. "

Is this about me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once, the day I met Mr Shadow. The moment I clapped eyes on him I felt a surge pulse through my whole body, it almost felt like I'd been hit by lightening (except in a good way).

We've been together 6 years & 2 days now!

Never experienced it either before or since!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not sure I'd go as far as "have to have them in my life" but there have certainly been people where I've felt an instant connection and chemistry with them and know that it will be a lasting one.

I do think, particularly on here, that it is all too easy to get caught up in the moment and mistake infatuation for connection and chemistry though and read a lot more into things than is necessarily there in reality.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Yes..."

Was in real life, not on here.

Walked into a pub where he was sat on a barstool with his guitar performing and I just thought flipping heck I need to talk to him.

So at the end of his set I went over and shook his hand (wtf!) and said hello.

Five years later he's still in my life and one of the loveliest, most honest people I've ever met.

Bless him

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Yes. I don't always act on it but when I have, those moments have stayed with me for very good reasons

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