FabSwingers.com forum: Grab her by the hair

By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching to much porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd throat punch him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GB here. Jessica actually likes that, but they should ask and understand your limits first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now."

Shit. Is this a thing? Because I fall for it every single time

I never knew it was a move haha

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

lots of ladies do love it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it would come from trust... not straight off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lots of ladies do love it though "

It's a risky move without knowing for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not... only grabbing by the hair is when im been bottomed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I wouldnt be impressed if I didnt know him already.

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By *aulaxd500TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan

Gross lack of respect on their part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be happy unless those boundaries have been established and agreed first

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I was so shocked lol.

The first time was at the cinema when we walked out (last year)

And most recently a date in the park.

I never discussed such things and most of my kinks are always bedroom based.

I dont want to be pulled back like some child :/

Obviously these boys got the axe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say that if you pull my hair, you’ll be searching and pulling on your balls as I will have kicked them rather hard

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

Oh dear. They'd get hit if they tried that with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. Cupping my chin or a gentle hand through my hair or the back of my neck... yeh that

Hair grabbing or pulling is for later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

Shit. Is this a thing? Because I fall for it every single time

I never knew it was a move haha "

Ssshh, top secret.

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

If it was something we discussed prior and it was agreed, then I actually enjoy this. If they did it Without consent, then yes the crazy will be released lol

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

Would di it once and that would be the last time !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I dunno OP. Sometimes I find it hot but that tends to be with those I've an established connection with. I'm blaming the media for making it a) look sexy and b) like that's what women want. You know, nothing says true raw male sexiness than yanking your hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it. "

I dunno, I wasn’t there

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now."

Sweep the fringe off the brow, tuck behind the ear then run fingers down the nape of the neck. Guaranteed to be face fucking them within the hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

Sweep the fringe off the brow, tuck behind the ear then run fingers down the nape of the neck. Guaranteed to be face fucking them within the hour

This guy fucks.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Grab my hair you will be slapped. Grab my neck then i will knee you in the balls. Always good to warn folk in advance

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

Sweep the fringe off the brow, tuck behind the ear then run fingers down the nape of the neck. Guaranteed to be face fucking them within the hour

This guy fucks."

Hell yeah

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it.

I dunno, I wasn’t there "

But if you were...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it. "

Wtf i would of kicked them in the balls for that... I didn't get on with bumble. Too much hard work. However i made a good fuck buddy from it who i later found out used to be on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like it. It’s something I enjoy with T because I implicitly trust him, and trust is key as other posts have mentioned. T knows what I can take and exactly when I need that kind of kissing

L x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I really like it. It’s something I enjoy with T because I implicitly trust him, and trust is key as other posts have mentioned. T knows what I can take and exactly when I need that kind of kissing

L x"

Sure i don't mind it once i get to know and trust them. Most ex lovers hold my hair when they fuck. But straight away and just kissing isn't right. As usually they pull too hard and it really hurts your scalp. Stings for ages

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it.

Wtf i would of kicked them in the balls for that... I didn't get on with bumble. Too much hard work. However i made a good fuck buddy from it who i later found out used to be on fab.

I got banned from tinder so it's my only hope.. apart from being social and that crap lol.

I met my current FB on bumble and soon learnt he was on fab and fet haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my hair being pulled, but wouldnt appreciate it from some random

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I love hair pulling or grabbing my neck, its during sex tho.

Hair/neck grab on a vanilla date out of the blue is just odd.

I dont ever describe myself as a sub or a fan of 50 shades lol so where the fuck they think this is romantic or cute, it beyond me lol.

It's not even that he grabbed all my hair but half of it, when I turned away. It's such a shock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some girls have asked me for this in the past. One girl wanted to act out consensual r a p e!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last woman to give me a blowjob had shaved her hair so I went to pull her hair but it ended in an awkward head pat

True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it. "

Bit disrespectful if you ask me, should at least establish what your likes and dislikes are, for example what if a young lady was subjected to domestic abuse previously could really trigger, very insensitive x

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Some girls have asked me for this in the past. One girl wanted to act out consensual r a p e!

Good ol consent/non-consent (cnc).

I wouldnt mind a bit of that but yeah, not going to start acting it out on a first social without discussing it haha

"Chase me through the woods john, just like a rapist"

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"The last woman to give me a blowjob had shaved her hair so I went to pull her hair but it ended in an awkward head pat

True story"

It's a bit like when I want to push my glasses up and I realise I dont even have them on.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Total lack of respect. I'd give them a slap personally. Porn has a lot to answer for.

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Really did turn me off him and I had to let him down gently.

I just feel like I'm prone to this.

It's like people have tried to get into the work toilet while im in there already!

Thankfully the latch is on so they can't open the door.

I'm a nervous shitter now lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some girls have asked me for this in the past. One girl wanted to act out consensual r a p e!

Good ol consent/non-consent (cnc).

I wouldnt mind a bit of that but yeah, not going to start acting it out on a first social without discussing it haha

"Chase me through the woods john, just like a rapist"

Yeah it was well discussed beforehand. Was actually quite good fun.

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Some girls have asked me for this in the past. One girl wanted to act out consensual r a p e!

Good ol consent/non-consent (cnc).

I wouldnt mind a bit of that but yeah, not going to start acting it out on a first social without discussing it haha

"Chase me through the woods john, just like a rapist"

Yeah it was well discussed beforehand. Was actually quite good fun. "

I've always wondered, beyond roleplay/scenes how else would you incorporate cnc during a normal sex sess.

Sometimes I dont want to be the innocent maid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some girls have asked me for this in the past. One girl wanted to act out consensual r a p e!

Good ol consent/non-consent (cnc).

I wouldnt mind a bit of that but yeah, not going to start acting it out on a first social without discussing it haha

"Chase me through the woods john, just like a rapist"

Yeah it was well discussed beforehand. Was actually quite good fun.

I've always wondered, beyond roleplay/scenes how else would you incorporate cnc during a normal sex sess.

Sometimes I dont want to be the innocent maid."

I really dont think you can....not without taking away the consent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love hair pulling or grabbing my neck, its during sex tho.

Hair/neck grab on a vanilla date out of the blue is just odd.

I dont ever describe myself as a sub or a fan of 50 shades lol so where the fuck they think this is romantic or cute, it beyond me lol.

It's not even that he grabbed all my hair but half of it, when I turned away. It's such a shock lol"

He had a nerve thinking he would even get a kiss on a first date! Humph.

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I love hair pulling or grabbing my neck, its during sex tho.

Hair/neck grab on a vanilla date out of the blue is just odd.

I dont ever describe myself as a sub or a fan of 50 shades lol so where the fuck they think this is romantic or cute, it beyond me lol.

It's not even that he grabbed all my hair but half of it, when I turned away. It's such a shock lol

He had a nerve thinking he would even get a kiss on a first date! Humph. "

Oh I'm a total slut! I'd definitely kiss on a first date haha!

His was a bit teethy. Plus I never start with tongue.. so awkward haha

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Throttle me now but don't throttle me then, all very confusing for a guy tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love hair pulling or grabbing my neck, its during sex tho.

Hair/neck grab on a vanilla date out of the blue is just odd.

I dont ever describe myself as a sub or a fan of 50 shades lol so where the fuck they think this is romantic or cute, it beyond me lol.

It's not even that he grabbed all my hair but half of it, when I turned away. It's such a shock lol

He had a nerve thinking he would even get a kiss on a first date! Humph.

Oh I'm a total slut! I'd definitely kiss on a first date haha!

His was a bit teethy. Plus I never start with tongue.. so awkward haha"

I shall become a born again virgin if ever I date again. Unless I fancy the absolute trousers of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it. "

I might have overreacted if someone had done that to me!

What did you do?

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

Sweep the fringe off the brow, tuck behind the ear then run fingers down the nape of the neck. Guaranteed to be face fucking them within the hour

This guy fucks.

Hell yeah"

Yet weirdly you've never used this move on me

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Not something I would normally do but the last lady I was seeing loved it. She was awesome in every way.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

Sweep the fringe off the brow, tuck behind the ear then run fingers down the nape of the neck. Guaranteed to be face fucking them within the hour

This guy fucks.

Hell yeah

Yet weirdly you've never used this move on me

I've never need to you minx

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it.

I might have overreacted if someone had done that to me!

What did you do?"

Lol I calmly said (maybe under my breath) "what are you pulling my hair for?" And we kissed- just a peck on the lips this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how submissive one is....certainly only to one you trust though x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Unacceptable for me, I'd punch him, HARD.

An ex used to grab me by the hair as he punched me.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Watching to much porn "

I agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy as hell once trust is built. But 100% not a first date move. Silly boys!!

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

What's wrong with grabbing them by the ears???

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"What's wrong with grabbing them by the ears???

Now I feel like a child haha

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Lol I hope you didn’t go on a second date.. sounds a little abusive

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

Sweep the fringe off the brow, tuck behind the ear then run fingers down the nape of the neck. Guaranteed to be face fucking them within the hour

Ohh (insert drool face)

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I've met two guys on bumble dates who both did the grab me by the hair/neck to bring me in for a kiss.

WTF is this about?? 100% not into it. "

Hahaha the last couple we played with, the guy tried to force my head...... I don’t think so.... why people think it’s ok, so not ok..... not going back for seconds that’s for sure!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I'm a tuck the hair above the ear guy.

Worked when I was 14, still works now.

Sweep the fringe off the brow, tuck behind the ear then run fingers down the nape of the neck. Guaranteed to be face fucking them within the hour

Ohh (insert drool face)

Love a Drooly McDrool Face

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By *rattylilfucktoy OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Lol I hope you didn’t go on a second date.. sounds a little abusive "

Aw, hes a sweety in other ways. Hes very vanilla in comparison, so I think he was trying hard and his knowledge was lacking.

But I dont intend to play it meet again with him.

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Lol I hope you didn’t go on a second date.. sounds a little abusive

Aw, hes a sweety in other ways. Hes very vanilla in comparison, so I think he was trying hard and his knowledge was lacking.

But I dont intend to play it meet again with him."

Take that as a no then lol

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