FabSwingers.com forum: Re assessment of play?

By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Now that we are coming out of lock down ....

Are people re-assessing how to start playing and adjusting how " freaky" they are prepared to be.

Especially beyond the bounds of there partners..

Also when swing clubs finally open there doors .... is really going to be business as usual?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Thought this was going to be a reimagining of one of Shakespeare's greatest works...disappointed now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite hard to social distance unless the guy is extremely well hung

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"Quite hard to social distance unless the guy is extremely well hung

Had this discussion yesterday, some brothels have opened but it means only certain sexual positions.

No contact as in kissing, or going near the face.

So it is possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really difficult. I've got close to someone during lock down. We have had long phone calls and virtual sex. We managed to do a socially distanced meet in the park which was like hell on earth to be completely honest. Being so close (2 metres) but not able to touch him or kiss him was hard going so I'm not sure I would recommend it to others although it was nice to see his eyes twinkle for real and see that he wanted me as much as I wanted him.

I'm having antibody tests through work and I'm on the vaccine trial so it may work out that we can meet and get physical sooner rather than later although I would be most concerned about putting him at risk.

Meeting others it would be difficult to decide when to actually risk it. We both want to go to clubs together but I'm not sure how I feel about club visits while the virus is around.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm changing nothing.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

And this is why there are second waves.

We're not out of lockdown.

Restrictions are being lifted.

If you want them back carry on and misuse it.

We will only be out of lockdown when theres a vaccine and tests for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have the will power for a social distance meet, rules would be broken. So best not to put temptation within my grasp.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Nope.

Have a cool day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not intending to change anything that I'm currently doing until I'm sure it's safe - which I'm not yet.

Instead I'm spending the money I'd usually spend on petrol for my commute to buy fun new toys to keep me occupied

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

No, I'd rather wait. I can't imagine a situation where the sex would be anything other than hugely impersonal and incredibly demoralising - kissing, touching etc. is key.

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over a year ago

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

People carried on fucking through the AIDS crisis.

People carry on fucking though wars and in camps.

People were probably fucking as the Titanic went down.

People will carry on fucking through this.

Some people might change their behaviour, I'm guessing most won't or will be back to "business as normal" a few months down the road.

Sex has always been a risky business,Covid is one more risk to weigh up. Some people are more risk adverse than others I guess.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People carried on fucking through the AIDS crisis.

People carry on fucking though wars and in camps.

People were probably fucking as the Titanic went down.

People will carry on fucking through this.

Some people might change their behaviour, I'm guessing most won't or will be back to "business as normal" a few months down the road.

Sex has always been a risky business,Covid is one more risk to weigh up. Some people are more risk adverse than others I guess.

Agreed.

I'm pretty risk averse and am personally ignoring any loosening of restrictions. I don't believe it's safe to do what the government are allowing. Much less sexual activity.

Eventually even I will have to find a new normal. But not yet.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I probably won't bother. I like kissing too much!

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By *rattylilfucktoyWoman
over a year ago

London

I feel like I may stick to my regular/known playmates, UK wise.

I've been going out to work during lockdown and I feel if you're someone who lives with others, I face the same risks already before we are allowed to have others in our homes.

I've done the socially distanced date in the park. That was fine.

I really want to tour EU swing clubs! Cant wait for that to be possible again

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