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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Do you view straight men who want to meet you as straight? And will you or won't you meet them?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Not that I would meet men as they're not what I'm looking for but to answer your question.

Any man that would want to meet me is NOT straight.

I'm a guy 99% of the time and no dress or make up makes me any less male.

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By *rystal666CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Bow, East London


"Do you view straight men who want to meet you as straight? And will you or won't you meet them?"

Absolutely they can be straight. Your sexual organs do not dictate your sexuality. It's the type of person the you find attractive. If you look at a guy a think, "he's got, I'd like to have some fun with him", you're gay. If it's the same when you see a woman, then you're straight. With TV/TS it's the femininity that men find attractive and, at times, appear more feminine or closer to the guy's fantasy of a woman - long legs, high heels lingerie, heavy makeup etc. That's not to say genetic women can't be that or TV/TS can't just look like a bloke in a dress too.

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By *ileyMan
over a year ago

basildon


"Do you view straight men who want to meet you as straight? And will you or won't you meet them?

Absolutely they can be straight. Your sexual organs do not dictate your sexuality. It's the type of person the you find attractive. If you look at a guy a think, "he's got, I'd like to have some fun with him", you're gay. If it's the same when you see a woman, then you're straight. With TV/TS it's the femininity that men find attractive and, at times, appear more feminine or closer to the guy's fantasy of a woman - long legs, high heels lingerie, heavy makeup etc. That's not to say genetic women can't be that or TV/TS can't just look like a bloke in a dress too. "

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Im just sitting here pondering as this thread isnt about what i think i am genuinely interested in others opinions, but i can understand why a man would find a tv/ts attractive and in alot of cases yes they can fulfil a mans perception of a fantasy woman more than say i could.

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

If a guy wants to meet me for fun that’s np. How he considers his sexuality is up to him.

It’s a label, makes no odds to me.

Btw, I’ve met plenty of straight people I don’t go to bed with, and all I can say is I know I’m bi, got over any hang up years ago.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't see them as straight, but they would probably see it differently

And yes, I would meet them (and have)

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Now forgive me for being literal, my mindset and everything else about me is literal so I see it in black and white most of the time.

A fantasy woman is a woman yes?

A fantasy TV is a TV therefore a person dressing as the opposite gender.

A fantasy TS is a TS in whatever state of transition she (or he in some cases) may be.

A fantasy man is a man

There is a pattern emerging here and I'm sure it should be obvious

I'll stand to be corrected by a TS as they have more knowledge of this than I do as they are living it where I am not so I'd be happy to learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you view straight men who want to meet you as straight? And will you or won't you meet them?

Absolutely they can be straight. Your sexual organs do not dictate your sexuality. It's the type of person the you find attractive. If you look at a guy a think, "he's got, I'd like to have some fun with him", you're gay. If it's the same when you see a woman, then you're straight. With TV/TS it's the femininity that men find attractive and, at times, appear more feminine or closer to the guy's fantasy of a woman - long legs, high heels lingerie, heavy makeup etc. That's not to say genetic women can't be that or TV/TS can't just look like a bloke in a dress too. "

Like you say "the guys fantasy of a woman" You're still a boy presenting yourself as "feminine" (if TV/CD that is. Im getting into trans issues here) so any guy that goes with you isn't going to be "straight" even if that's what he likes to tell himself because he only goes with "feminine" boys...

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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You see the way i think is if i went to meets dressed as a guy and a woman wanted to meet me but was fully aware that i was still a woman then i would count as us both being bi, but i do appreciate that other people do think differently

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"You see the way i think is if i went to meets dressed as a guy and a woman wanted to meet me but was fully aware that i was still a woman then i would count as us both being bi, but i do appreciate that other people do think differently"

I think dressed as or presenting as (behaviour) is maybe different?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"You see the way i think is if i went to meets dressed as a guy and a woman wanted to meet me but was fully aware that i was still a woman then i would count as us both being bi, but i do appreciate that other people do think differently

I think dressed as or presenting as (behaviour) is maybe different? "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gender is a social construct anyway...

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By *ayde164TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"Do you view straight men who want to meet you as straight? And will you or won't you meet them?"

Depends me personally I meet straight guys actually go for them. Lots of tv/ts only meet other tv/ts “I think they feel safer”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve met guys dressed, I know Im not ts so it is different but I ve never even thought about how they define themselves. If a guy wants to meet me then its upto him what he makes of his thoughts..it really never enters my head. For me its complicated but its who I am. I am bi and wouldn t want that to change and I have borderline personality issue..I dont call it a disorder as its not to me. One side of me and the most natural to me is my female side, but its very much about the characteristics of a female as opposed to wanting to have a females name etc. But thats straying from this thread.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I get contacted a lot on here by "straight" guys that, according to their profile, are only looking for women or couples. How they label themselves (straight/bi etc) is irrelevant but if they haven't got the balls to say they are also interested in TVs then their balls aren't going near me

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