FabSwingers.com forum: Unsolicited friend requests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Out of the blue without prior contact.

Do you:

1/ Block

2/ Wait until they’re offline, accept, check out the goods and then unfriend if you no likey

3/ Ignore so they can’t send again

4/ Message them advising them it won’t be accepted until you’ve been chatting

5/ Accept

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I ignore them rarely look at friend invites unless someone has messaged me about it and i want to be friends I think most of my friends I have asked them myself

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why would you block someone who sent a friend request?. I ignore.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Usually ignore. However, if they have an intriguing profile picture, we might have a sneaky peak.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

2 or 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get at least 10 a day. Accompanied by a wink.

Delete both straight away.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Ignore them, figure they’re only looking for porno or face pics anyway

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Occasionally accept. Don't really do the other options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on profile if the have private photos id accept just so I can look

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I ignore friends requests from random guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept generally. I like making friends and there's nothing in my friends section that I don't want people to see.

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By *18065Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

If they've never messaged, ignore and delete. Same with winks, don't add people as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dint mind them, if people want to perve my pics and I like yours too, crack on

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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Ignore usually, unless their profile photo really drags me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore, then mass delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i mass delete a friend in needs a godamn nuisance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No3 for me. They obviously haven't read my profile. This way they cant send again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No3 for me. They obviously haven't read my profile. This way they cant send again xx"
damn

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"i mass delete a friend in needs a godamn nuisance

That’s why you never accepted me

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

2 or 3 depends on my pervy mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i mass delete a friend in needs a godamn nuisance

That’s why you never accepted me

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lol hey you look like the sort of nuisance i need

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

2 if I like the look of the profile pic, rest gets deleted I like to clear it as I may change my mind and trawling is boring

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

Check out profile just to see if I know them in anyway (party or something) if not block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

If someone sends me a friend request and we have never spoke, exchanged face pics etc I leave them in my friend request list.. so they can’t send the request again.. funny about they never message you.. clearly want to see your friends only pictures.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Our friends list only consists of people we have met in socials or people we have chatted to on and off so we tend to just ignore the requests from random people..

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I ignore them for a while and then delete them all in one go.

I'm not sure why anyone would send me an unsolicited one if we haven't even spoken before.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Ignore and leave so can’t get another one

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Why do that to someone you havent spoken to ,and in our case they dont even match what we are looking for ,i just delete and ignore but it is endless ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely look at my friends requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile or public pics or profile is an essay or life story

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I ignore them so they can't send again. I get at least 5-10 a day - I find it a really strange thing to do, you wouldn't send a random stranger on Facebook a friend request

Well, I wouldn't anyway

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Why do that to someone you havent spoken to ,and in our case they dont even match what we are looking for ,i just delete and ignore but it is endless ...

Because they clearly want to see your private pics and videos.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Why would you block someone who sent a friend request?. I ignore."
We routinely block straight men who send friend requests, men who send badly spelled messages that think the plural of you is yews, or complete and utter chancers who send messages to the Mrs Icebreaker as if Mr Icebreaker doesn't exist. We also routinely block dim doms, anyone who describes themself as a bull anyone who ask us to meet during lockdown.

It's just easier - like crossing the road to avoid the Jehovah's Witnesses,

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We ignore them.

Personally I think it's a bit strange to send a friend request before you've chatted for a little while. We get about 10 - 20 friend requests a day and I bulk delete a couple of times a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always 5. I have no friends.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Delete them. 99% of the "friends" on our list have no contact with us so we only accept very rarely nowadays.

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