FabSwingers.com forum: Attitude

By *un and kinky mind OP Man
over a year ago

Hexham

Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Read the FAQ's.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Read the FAQ's.

No interest. No reply. Simple

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "

Read the FAQ - it answers your question perfectly. They are not ignorant.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "

They are not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ignorant, they just dont want to talk to you

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By *un and kinky mind OP Man
over a year ago

Hexham

Exactly the attitude I expected....

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Exactly the attitude I expected...."

You get what you give, chum.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Exactly the attitude I expected...."

So why ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read the FAQ's.

No interest. No reply. Simple"

Simple init dont take it to heart women must get 1000s of messages cant reply to all n say oh am sorry mate but your not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no public photos or a profile pic so I wouldnt even contemplate opening your message sorry. If you did send a face pic but it wasn't for me id say no thankyou and bloke you as 98% of the time I get shitty abuse back. Women also get bombarded on here with 100s of messages daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly the attitude I expected...."

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By *un and kinky mind OP Man
over a year ago

Hexham

But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty simple to understand. They aren’t interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get spam mail through the post, do you reply to it?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind "

I love you x

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Exactly the attitude I expected...."

Which is what exactly. You have asked a question and been given a variety of answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP why aren’t you replying to everyone? Rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP why aren’t you replying to everyone? Rude"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind "

If they don't respond your attention wasn't desired. Unfortunately that's the way it works. For some it's physically impossible to answer all their messages. Many find it not worthwhile for various reasons.

It's the norm of this site, for better or worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sweat it OP. It happens to everyone. If I send a message, (which is very rare ) and it's ignored and deleted, i just block them and move on. Then me or them will never darken each other's days again

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Because I need a snickers.

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By *un and kinky mind OP Man
over a year ago

Hexham

[Removed by poster at 29/05/20 23:44:39]

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"But what have I given I have only been gracious and kind "

You may have been gracious and kind in your opening message but how does someone know that you're not going to be rude and abusive when they send you a message rejecting you? Which sadly is how *some* men react to rejection and someone has no way of knowing whether you'll be that type so take the safe way out, which is recognised in the FAQs as being an acceptable way of saying thanks but no thanks.

There's also the thing that once someone replies it opens up a route through any future filters they may set - so another valid reason not to reply if they're not interested.

It's not worth worrying about it's just the way the site works - what real difference does it make if they don't reply to reject you anyway? You're not better or worse off if they do than if they don't.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Maybe they mislaid it, if not blocked you could try resending the same message but in CAPS ? It might work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "

You've no public pics & no veris..i would ignore you

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds

(Quietly getting the popcorn Out and tiptoeing into the forum to listen in)

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we can.

We are now allowed to choose what women do without anyones permission

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Report them as fake OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have no public photos or a profile pic so I wouldnt even contemplate opening your message sorry. If you did send a face pic but it wasn't for me id say no thankyou and bloke you as 98% of the time I get shitty abuse back. Women also get bombarded on here with 100s of messages daily

100% agree.

No profile picture means I wouldn’t even open the message to read it.

Instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is when you are polite and respectful to some women on here that they choose to ignore you the block you...I find it very ignorant....can anyone explain "

Love a good trolling. Gets the regulars nicely riled.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Report them as fake OP "

Shut it you

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, some people reply , some don't, if you accept that you might enjoy the site better

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It would be helpful on these type of threads not to bait the OP. It isn't pleasant

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