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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

69? 3¼ 42?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Shit loads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shit loads "

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

A day, try a month

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Fuck all

(Pressed wrong emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want one?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

That would be nil from people I am not already acquainted with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Fuck all removed by poster at 29/05/20 18:34:47]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A day, try a month "

How many messages do you get a month?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you want one?"

I do like to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we change this to a week?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loads "

Mr Mystique gets shit loads.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely do I get a message from a new person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can we change this to a week?"

How many messages do you get a week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One normally,

And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Loads

Mr Mystique gets shit loads."

Messaging yourself, I don't think that really counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you want one?

I do like to read."

I could try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loads

Mr Mystique gets shit loads.

Messaging yourself, I don't think that really counts "

A message is a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never had one "

I'd give you one.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Loads

Mr Mystique gets shit loads.

Messaging yourself, I don't think that really counts "

Stop sending me photos of your hairy bum hole

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Loads

Mr Mystique gets shit loads.

Messaging yourself, I don't think that really counts

A message is a message."

Bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care

I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loads

Mr Mystique gets shit loads.

Messaging yourself, I don't think that really counts

A message is a message.

Bless"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. If I'm lucky enough. One

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I only get messages because I'm a woman. If I was a guy and my age I'd be screwed and not in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One normally,

And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks"

Well you can't blame him... Those red socks are like phoaaaar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care

I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls

"

Thanks for popping in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I maybe recieve messages from a 3 or 4 very select friends...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots and lots from me mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One normally,

And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks

Well you can't blame him... Those red socks are like phoaaaar "

Haha, many thanks

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Of course none

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care

I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls

"

Why is being a silver site supporter stupid?

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

How about you all message each other?

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None. If I'm lucky enough. One "

Today is your lucky day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about you all message each other?

Jo x "

I'd already started. x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Stop sending me messages guys, stick to the thread please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I've had 5 today.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. If I'm lucky enough. One

Today is your lucky day."

Why thank you

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By *rouchomarxMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I can’t count how many I get because I don’t get any lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Message removed by poster at 29/05/20 18:54:16]"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One normally,

And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks

Well you can't blame him... Those red socks are like phoaaaar "

They are sexy socks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anabelle, I'll have the messages Mr Mystique doesn't want.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im new and unverified but not many, maybe 2-4 new massages a day, if I'm lucky, some women like to send you two word responses every few days or so, the slowest process ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please treat Mr Mystique with respect.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Only if I've missed someone off on the forums

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

0 usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention "

We’re just coming to terms with being ugly is all

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Please treat Mr Mystique with respect."

I'm not sure that is what he wants really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how active I've been. Nobody messages me first but if i'm firing off messages, I get a fair few replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention "

A lady will know exactly what another lady wants to hear, maybe you could write my profile for me and I'll pay you

for services rendered, who knows, you could start a business as a profile ghostwriter, ill be the first to recommend you

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

But the guy needs to keep up the chat when you get to phone or meet eachother in person. Tbh I even found a wife for my socially inept male friend who been single for years. So yes I make a good wing man.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

More than 1 less than 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care

I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls

Thanks for popping in "

Jessica if it wasn’t for you this site was a disaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care

I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls

Why is being a silver site supporter stupid?"

Because you pay for what exactly?

For the petrol of the car of the site administrator maybe ...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I carried out a social test, I randomly said "hi" to 10 men online on fab. 9 out of 10 replied back. But non i stayed in touch with.... So moral of the story.choose someone you are genuinely interested in and say more than "hi" as it usually results in being ignored or dead end conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But the guy needs to keep up the chat when you get to phone or meet eachother in person. Tbh I even found a wife for my socially inept male friend who been single for years. So yes I make a good wing man. "

WW, Wing Woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit loads "

Do you need a PA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will send you one for you bathday if I know when is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get around 5 a day........all from guys offering ‘discreet bj’s’ even more so since lockdown started! Obviously aren’t reading the profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69? 3¼ 42?"

How many do you get Jim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will send you one for you bathday if I know when is it. "

Sundays in most households Rose

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By *iger1980Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Well if I had to round it up, a rough ball park figure, obviously pending the huge flurry after this message...zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will send you one for you bathday if I know when is it.

Sundays in most households Rose "

Haha. I was born on Sunday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care

I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls

Why is being a silver site supporter stupid?

Because you pay for what exactly?

For the petrol of the car of the site administrator maybe ..."

You pay for additional features.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads and loads from men I've never spoken to asking if I would do things to them or let them do things to me from women I get the odd one unless I message them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 2 messages a day.

95% are from guys seeking one on one fun which isn't what I'm looking for.

I use this site to look for threesomes or more and have met some really nice people who I would call friends.

I would rather not block other single guys so I just usually politely refuse their requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None, Zero, no replies no messages, no winks no nothing ... and you know what? I don’t care

I tried this site, I stupidly paid for the silver idiot account, I’m just waiting for this lockdown to be lifted so I can flirt at the pub with real and happy and gorgeous and smiley and scented lovely girls

Thanks for popping in

Jessica if it wasn’t for you this site was a disaster "

I agree mate, its actually easier to pull in the real world than this merry-go-around site, and alot more fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Untold!!!!

Mostly from men or women who are beneath me...

Still nice tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"69? 3¼ 42?

How many do you get Jim? "

42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69? 3¼ 42?

How many do you get Jim?

42."

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"69? 3¼ 42?

How many do you get Jim?

42.

Me too! "

*high five*

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

It comes down to the m/f ratio and how much of an effort you put into the message... Keeping your profile up to date with new pictures seems to help with interest

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

None but the odd interesting individual or couple do pop up every now & then, even if they clearly aren't what I'm looking for.

Fab never fails to surprise me!

Post lockdown, I'm looking forward to getting involved with a local club on a night that's actually busy or whenever it's safe out there rather than wishful thinking/hoping for the best.

P.s take care in the sun guys; suncream is your best friend remember!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2. Unless i leave who nearby on then i get bare arse pics and winks. Most women have got inboxes full so i ain't expecting much back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost"

Don’t trigger them mate!!!

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

None but very rarely send them either

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

May get 1 or 2 a month if lucky that's a good month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost

Don’t trigger them mate!!!"

Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.

Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost

Don’t trigger them mate!!!

Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.

Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times."

You should try havin a face like mine pal... my inbox is like Christmas at Harrods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost

Don’t trigger them mate!!!

Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.

Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times.

You should try havin a face like mine pal... my inbox is like Christmas at Harrods "

I'd say you're a good looking guy so I'd hope that is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like some women are only here for an ego boost

Don’t trigger them mate!!!

Just saying the women have to take some serious shit on here. They are bombarded with messages with most just asking to let guys fuck that pussy.

Chances are low on here due to the ratio so I'm not surprised they don't respond at times.

You should try havin a face like mine pal... my inbox is like Christmas at Harrods "

and then you woke up

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Here's a strange one I had recently

Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...

But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a strange one I had recently

Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...

But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread "

My mum does that on Facebook

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

Not as many as I'd like.

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Here's a strange one I had recently

Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...

But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread

My mum does that on Facebook"

Mate don't, fucking embarrassing having her on social media!! Cock blocking me left right and centre

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Here's a strange one I had recently

Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...

But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread "

Of you ever saw just how full a womans inbox is and how it works youd realise they probably missed it in amongst the hundreds of others and when your inbox gets to 100 I think it is anyway they fall off the end of it so they can't find it hence it remains unread.

The only way it goes is if they bulk delete the whole inbox.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was having this discussion before, i think its very much on guys to make the moves on here! Ive not had many first contacts from girls at all! Maybe im doing something wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excluding those I talk to on and off about 3-4 a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was having this discussion before, i think its very much on guys to make the moves on here! Ive not had many first contacts from girls at all! Maybe im doing something wrong??"

Try more on forums?

All my fwbs we have had first contact on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsolicited?.......maybe 6 a year..

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"69? 3¼ 42?"

One message every month or so.

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By *amba2Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

-12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was having this discussion before, i think its very much on guys to make the moves on here! Ive not had many first contacts from girls at all! Maybe im doing something wrong??

Try more on forums?

All my fwbs we have had first contact on forums "

I am trying that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2 a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky 2 !!!! Sad bastard !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One normally,

And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks"

Ohh i I know him.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

None that I would want to reply to.

Probably 2 - 3 per month that get deleted without opening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One normally,

And it’s usually the same guy, one with a fetish about socks

Ohh i I know him. "

Sorry I just love fucking socks haha

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

not many as I tend to meet in a club as I know I am meeting genuine peeps. so many dreamers on here plus if I meet in a club we can chat and get to know each other

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Less than 10. But the follow up question is how many do I send? Perhaps the same number give or take.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Here's a strange one I had recently

Has anyone else had back and forth with someone until the messages die out, for whatever reason...

But then they keep winking you and fabbing your shit? Whilst leaving you on unread

Of you ever saw just how full a womans inbox is and how it works youd realise they probably missed it in amongst the hundreds of others and when your inbox gets to 100 I think it is anyway they fall off the end of it so they can't find it hence it remains unread.

The only way it goes is if they bulk delete the whole inbox."

I quickly scan my messages. If the profile pic, their message header, name and first line entices me. I will open. Otherwise mass delete as it is too time consuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ad 2 today! Mind u 1 was to remind me a changed ma password as I forgot it

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Hmm depends if im active in the forums... when im active probably double digits... when not probably bugger all

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

None!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not including friends....maybe 2 or 3 a month from random strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can blokes receive messages?

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By *risky businessMan
over a year ago

APharaohWay

Not including friends none

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By *risky businessMan
over a year ago

APharaohWay

Lol

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Unsolicited non spammy messages from females? Probably about 5 in 2-3 years since joining as a single guy. Probably around a dozen messages from my club reviews of Rios and Eurekas, probably my biggest site contribution.

Even when I have struck up conversation/connection with someone, I always have to initiate the conversation when I am online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 cubic litres (aubergine)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot from straight men

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By *urse4visitsWoman
over a year ago

hull

Lots xx

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Lots xx"
you're a funny looking man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab? - either zero or a few....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero, but who is counting.

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69? 3¼ 42?"

Several a week from guys that can't read. Rarely ever a reply to messages I send, and never from couples or ladies initiating contact.

I'm not counting banter/chats from people I've known for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies. Somewhere between not many and a few

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By *urse4visitsWoman
over a year ago

hull


"Lots xxyou're a funny looking man "

Lol I am xx

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By *urse4visitsWoman
over a year ago

hull


"Lots xxyou're a funny looking man

Lol I am xx"

I didn't read the brief properly. Sorry my bad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention "

This "friend" profile was for a guy? Unless the bio said "straight man looking to suck any cock" I very much doubt that's a true story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not enough from the lady I'd like to receive messages from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average? Or actually per day?...... oh wait, it's the same ..... None usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Less than 10. But the follow up question is how many do I send? Perhaps the same number give or take."

So 0 or 1 then like pretty much every other guy on here?

You must be mega fussy with all those messages if you've only managed one veri in over a year.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

0.072.

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

I usually get one a day it's usually a thanks but no thanks

Hopefully one day that person will message me

Stay safe folks

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Hopefully this thread will give comfort to most men on here! I would say though that my friend on Tinder managed to get a different date each week. He went on so many dates that once he went on a date and then back to her place and realised that he had been on a date with her flatmate previously. And no, it didn't turn into a threesome as far as I know. Maybe we are all better off on regular dating sites. But then he is a tall, muscular black guy so maybe that is a factor itself. Update... Still zero messages btw.

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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I never realised you guys never recieved messages. Although I must say its very rare I "search" I'm Normally just replying!

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I'll ask my PA....

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

A day

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

'^,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text messages or on here?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Text messages or on here? "

On here

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention

This "friend" profile was for a guy? Unless the bio said "straight man looking to suck any cock" I very much doubt that's a true story. "

Nooo this is on a vanilla dating site. Why do I need to lie? I obviously had the charm to get the ladies as the photo I chosen was pretty average looking guy in my opinion. I wanted to prove a point to my friend its really easy to meet women online.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

200 from Mr Mystique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once created an account for my friend. Not on fab.. And the amount of messages I got in 4 hours was crazy. I was unindated. So not sure why men say they don't get any attention

This "friend" profile was for a guy? Unless the bio said "straight man looking to suck any cock" I very much doubt that's a true story.

Nooo this is on a vanilla dating site. Why do I need to lie? I obviously had the charm to get the ladies as the photo I chosen was pretty average looking guy in my opinion. I wanted to prove a point to my friend its really easy to meet women online. "

Fab can't be compared to any other dating/sex/hook-up site in my experience. Much harder to get a response or a conversation instigated by a lady on here if you're a guy. Saying that, i think it's fair to say that guys who have certain physical characteristics *generally do better on here.

* I'm sure there are a few exceptions to the rule before someone points it out!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Quality, not quantity for most of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5

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By *arko BMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I'll be luck to get a message on here

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