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Ladies, how many messages do you get a day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

100? 200? 300?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard one to answer when you take into account conversations.

Excluding ongoing convos, maybe 10 or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, I couldn’t even begin to tell you!!

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By *ittleOneXxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest

It depends, it can vary from 100 to above 1000. Even with filters set in place. Without the filters I’m assuming a hell of a lot more. Which is why a lot of women don’t have the time to reply to all haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends, it can vary from 100 to above 1000. Even with filters set in place. Without the filters I’m assuming a hell of a lot more. Which is why a lot of women don’t have the time to reply to all haha "

Totally! I’ve got quite high filters, it gets a bit silly sometimes! I would hate to see what it was like without them! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds reasonable, do probably have a few filters tho?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do tell ?

Ball park figure ?

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By *ittleOneXxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest


"It depends, it can vary from 100 to above 1000. Even with filters set in place. Without the filters I’m assuming a hell of a lot more. Which is why a lot of women don’t have the time to reply to all haha

Totally! I’ve got quite high filters, it gets a bit silly sometimes! I would hate to see what it was like without them! X"

Haha yeah me too ! My filters are literally like a 10/11 year age gap. Not much to go off but blinking Nora they don’t half pester

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

1000+ (wow) I didn't get it at first but a friend told me she receives around 300 messages a day, I get it now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a good look for us guys, has up looking like some thirsty hyenas

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

Over 400 yesterday- hence hiding my profile for a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a good look for us guys, has up looking like some thirsty hyenas"

You're right mate, it ain't a good look for us men, it's embarrassing. Blokes will be messaging women telling them how beautiful they are when the woman hasn't got a face pic in sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need more!

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

A handful... sometimes none. All depends on if I've posted a pic or put a status up

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

A lot less since I've reset my filters re age and no profile pic. Take those off and the wank on cam/phone and fantasist messages flood in. Varies from day to day. I've always left filters off to try and help people if they need it, but sadly this is the first time in 5 years I've needed to have them permantly on. Kind of feel a bit sad I've had to resort to doing this actually.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"A handful... sometimes none. All depends on if I've posted a pic or put a status up"

And this too.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I’d estimate somewhere between 5-10. I do rem_mber when I first set my account up being absolutely overwhelmed (about 100 messages in less than an hour) but that tailed off after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d estimate somewhere between 5-10. I do rem_mber when I first set my account up being absolutely overwhelmed (about 100 messages in less than an hour) but that tailed off after a while."

Your tattoo on your back looks awesome can't quite make out what it is though.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Maybe 3 or 4 new ones a day, strict filters and non revealing profile pics means I have more time to perv and chat with my mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6958

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

10 - 15 i think all these "i get 100- 1000 " people are doing a little attention seeking or glory hunting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow, I don't blame you, you can only take 1 or 2 dicks at once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know mate, fucking it up for the rest of us, to many simps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The virus has had us acting a bit unusual lately, some more than others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"6958"

I believe you, your hot, guys like to play with fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very many anymore but that's totally fine by me. Quality over quantity is always better. I haven't got time for admin!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how active I am, I do delete them alot as I can't keep up.. but well over 100

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"6958"

Is that all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2. Guess we can't all be dick magnets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I have my filters set quite strictly so I very rarely get any messages to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I have my filters set quite strictly so I very rarely get any messages to be honest!"

But how many was you getting before your filters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I have my filters set quite strictly so I very rarely get any messages to be honest!

But how many was you getting before your filters? "

Still rarely more than 10, I guess I'm not everyone's cup of tea!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Probably 10-50 on an average day, depending on how active I am on here.

Messages from people that even vaguely fit what I'm looking for and/or aren't utter drivel or copy and paste? Zero most days

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"1 or 2. Guess we can't all be dick magnets. "

You've ruled out most of the males on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes nothing for weeks, sometimes 2000+ a day, even with filters.

as others have said, it depends if photos or statuses have been posted.

Px

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

A lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very quiet at the moment because I'm not uploading photos regularly. I'd say about 40ish a day over the last seven days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15-100. Varies hugely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting, thanks for the feedback guys, I now know what you ladies have to go through on here, it's not easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the context. If I'm on hot pics then up to 600 a day or so. If I haven't posted a new pic lately then maybe only 100 a day. Either way, too many to ever read. Shame, I wonder how many great guys I've just had to delete

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Last time I took my filters off for 24 hours a got about 180.

I keep them on almost all the time now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting, thanks for the feedback guys, I now know what you ladies have to go through on here, it's not easy "

Seriously. Anyone that complains ain't doing it right. They love the attention otherwise they'd do something about it and change their ways. Yes. It really is that simple.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Protected by filters so one or two on a good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple, more if I put new pics up. I'm not a chatty type. They soon learn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you guys think it due to the lockdown for the rise of messages?

Or is this a general thing, all seasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a good look for us guys, has up looking like some thirsty hyenas

You're right mate, it ain't a good look for us men, it's embarrassing. Blokes will be messaging women telling them how beautiful they are when the woman hasn't got a face pic in sight "

Some guys. Some blokes.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Well I've had plenty abuse and demands... all of which have swiftly met with the block button.

Men dont put any effort in anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many. High filters and off putting profile do a good job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I've had plenty abuse and demands... all of which have swiftly met with the block button.

Men dont put any effort in anymore "

I beg to differ, to begin with I took the time to read profiles & put effort in my messages, only to get no replies, ignored, turned down, blocked for no reason or hit with the two word reply

I think I've been denied more times in the last few weeks then ever in my life

If I was blanked this many times in the real world, I would be very, very worried

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've had my filters set to max for over a month now, so if I haven't messaged you before, you can't get through.

So unsolicited messages... zero.

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