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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was chatting to a friend on here earlier and she stated she was getting up to 20 messages a day. How many messages do some of you guys get on a daily basis and are there any hilarious fails from some people trying to get your attention?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Sits backs and see who has bragging rights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they are chattin with me - lots ........... as I frequently run out of being able to send messages lol and have to wait til midnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sits backs and see who has bragging rights "

bugger, had to me that bragged first huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get hardly any at all, there are still some who don't read the 'Not Meeting' header...mind you even before that, I didn't get many

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah, she's getting it from different people, most of which dont get the hint and keep emailing each day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought most women get 100s of messages. I thought there was something wrong with me because I only get about 10 or so new messages daily....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you dont count messages from friends i guess the average would be about 15 some days more and some less. Fridays and mondays i get most

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

too many from single guys trying their luck, not enough messages from couples

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

there is one guy on here who despite being on my block list under 5 different profiles keeps creating new ones to try to get me to meet him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nik set up a single profile for when she cammed.she had over 200 one day.

on this profile even though it says single men dont message we still get them.

suppose we could block them,but then we would have no one to block.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

maybe 3 a week, if that some weeks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe 3 a week, if that some weeks."

ah hun. ill send you some if that will make you feel better x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nik set up a single profile for when she cammed.she had over 200 one day.

on this profile even though it says single men dont message we still get them.

suppose we could block them,but then we would have no one to block.

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seeing the profile picture im not surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

somedays I get none then other times there's lot's from my friends if a party is happening. Oh yes and then the odd few at weekends from tv/ts wanting to suck my cock. Today I've had 5 messages, which is ok for a single bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50, 0000 million messages here

do i win a prize ?? lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"50, 0000 million messages here

do i win a prize ?? lol "

You win the Pinnochio Prize

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

i cant remember ever having a girl message me without me sending a message in the first place

quite funny as each time i log on i still hope there is a you have messages note lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy it seems to be difficult to get messages.I think there should be a boy girl hook up link,then you could meet up and go as a couple,as you would be swapping anyway.Does anyone think this is a good idea ???

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"maybe 3 a week, if that some weeks.

ah hun. ill send you some if that will make you feel better x"

no thanks sweetheart.

dont think my masculinity would live with it lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I get around two a day, more if I'm on late at.night but I have so many filters on, looking for specific playmates and my profile is written to dissuade. I have limited time to play so don't have time to read rubbish from men I have no intention of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe 3 a week, if that some weeks.

ah hun. ill send you some if that will make you feel better x

no thanks sweetheart.

dont think my masculinity would live with it lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is one guy on here who despite being on my block list under 5 different profiles keeps creating new ones to try to get me to meet him lol"

i wonder if the guy i have the problem with is the same one as yours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50, 0000 million messages here

do i win a prize ?? lol "

i have told you billions of times not to exagerate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 1 a week lol, i do get excited for a minuite,!!!, but normally its a polite no thank you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple a day from straight guys wanting to suck my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot and if i go on cam loads and loads , lol see its not just single fems get 100s i do too , lol and cant mail back to all so i put that in my profile as hate being rude .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its quite amusing sometimes how women go on about how many messages they have. Almost as if to say they have loads, that they are somehow more attractive or appealing than others who don't have those amounts.

The fabbed pictures is also a similar thing. I'd say that once they take away the friends that are messaging and fabbing then its probably the same average amount as most ladies.

Though typing this post has made me sound somewhat bitter lol. I don't mean to.

I have had 8 messages today, ill add the extra 0 to it later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nik set up a single profile for when she cammed.she had over 200 one day.

on this profile even though it says single men dont message we still get them.

suppose we could block them,but then we would have no one to block.

seeing the profile picture im not surprised "

thanks

normally between 5 and 10 a day

when we put our profile pic up of nik earlier this month the in box went mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get loads

i have got over 100 mail a day if ive been sat on cam in the chat room

If im just looking thro the forums and my status is shown as being online i usually get about 40/50 a day sometimes more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always love seeing some women state they get hundreds a day

Between 20 or 30 .. depends really

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"If you dont count messages from friends i guess the average would be about 15 some days more and some less. Fridays and mondays i get most"

About the same here and also more on Fridays and Mondays.....

Usually more when I put up a status, change profile pics, go into chat or stay logged on for long periods.

And more if Im logged on during the day (whilst guys are logged on at work) or late at night (pub kicking-out time).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I rule out messages from friends, I'm lucky to get 1.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well its getting better for us single guys then I was expecting everyone to be saying they were getting hundreds a day which wuld only be bulk deleted then blocked without reading. I guess 30 a day is managable LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's hope for us yet!!,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't comment on a daily number as not enough. Maybe 3 a week !! I must be doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the late night messages. Often I can't sleep and read the forums and ill have a message saying 'do you want me to come over'.

I think if people go into chat and cam then they do get lots of messages. If you sit in front of a cam with your tits out its obvious isn't it and instant appreciation is nice if you do that I guess.

I never go in chat and have never ever been on cam, I'm strictly a forum type. I don't know how woman can stand loads of messages

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"well its getting better for us single guys then I was expecting everyone to be saying they were getting hundreds a day which wuld only be bulk deleted then blocked without reading. I guess 30 a day is managable LOL"

depends if they are spread out or all hitting the inbox at same time (as some have said above when they are on cam)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy it seems to be difficult to get messages.I think there should be a boy girl hook up link,then you could meet up and go as a couple,as you would be swapping anyway.Does anyone think this is a good idea ??? "

The couples who won't meet fuck buddies would be up in arms. Some want proof of marriage/mortgage statements etc before they'll play. At least fuck buddies won't fall out mud way through sex cos I've encountered many a married couple do that!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

I guess 30 a day is managable LOL"

Ok well in that case youve got yourself the job of replying to everyones mail.

Only personal, hand-crafted and well thought out replies mind you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well its getting better for us single guys then I was expecting everyone to be saying they were getting hundreds a day which wuld only be bulk deleted then blocked without reading. I guess 30 a day is managable LOL

depends if they are spread out or all hitting the inbox at same time (as some have said above when they are on cam)"
So the tip is not to meassage when your on cam and wait till the flood of emails to die down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok serious answer would be around 10

i notice more people looking at me if i've uploaded pictures or updated a status.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Probably around a dozen or so a day....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I guess 30 a day is managable LOL

Ok well in that case youve got yourself the job of replying to everyones mail.

Only personal, hand-crafted and well thought out replies mind you... "
haha, i'd relish that task. could cause so much trouble and in fighting on this site LOl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've mailed every woman who's written on this post at one point or another

I didn't even know I had an inbox

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I think I've mailed every woman who's written on this post at one point or another

I didn't even know I had an inbox "

If you have it just goes to show that you obviously dont bother reading profiles....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel better now, but agree, would rather have less messages than tons that just need to be deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I've mailed every woman who's written on this post at one point or another

I didn't even know I had an inbox

If you have it just goes to show that you obviously dont bother reading profiles...."

I thought it was just Birmingham that had a bypass , didn't realise some people's sense of humour had one too :0

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I think I've mailed every woman who's written on this post at one point or another

I didn't even know I had an inbox

If you have it just goes to show that you obviously dont bother reading profiles....

I thought it was just Birmingham that had a bypass , didn't realise some people's sense of humour had one too :0 "

Pssst did you see the winking smiley?

Another one here just in case you missed the last one -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my messages must be being sent to the wrong address.

Yes that must be it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I've mailed every woman who's written on this post at one point or another

I didn't even know I had an inbox

If you have it just goes to show that you obviously dont bother reading profiles....

I thought it was just Birmingham that had a bypass , didn't realise some people's sense of humour had one too :0

Pssst did you see the winking smiley?

Another one here just in case you missed the last one - "
now now guys, no arguing. or i'm gonna have to put you both in a locked room to sort it out properly.....i'll referee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I've mailed every woman who's written on this post at one point or another

I didn't even know I had an inbox

If you have it just goes to show that you obviously dont bother reading profiles....

I thought it was just Birmingham that had a bypass , didn't realise some people's sense of humour had one too :0

Pssst did you see the winking smiley?

Another one here just in case you missed the last one - "

I did see it and I think my attempt at humour bypassed the funny part

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

I did see it and I think my attempt at humour bypassed the funny part

"

Hmm ok, but back to the OP....

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

It varies for a lot of reasons

The day of the week,mondays is always a busy day for messages

The time of day,really late at night pub chucking out time

If there are new pics then it will send a flood of messages

Normally about 10-15 a day from people I don't know and then ones from friends,people that im arranging stuff with and existing playmates

That is more than enough to deal with

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I think I've mailed every woman who's written on this post at one point or another

I didn't even know I had an inbox "

No

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